FabSwingers.com forum: Difficulty

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I always find it very difficult to start a conversation on here especially with the lack of photos due to what I do for work. Does anyone else ever get this problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have pictureless profiles blocked from messaging me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nonsense that you can't have a pic due to work. You could put up a pic without your face, hell you could just show your arse and no one from work would recognise you.

The reality is that you're probably married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's nonsense that you can't have a pic due to work. You could put up a pic without your face, hell you could just show your arse and no one from work would recognise you.

The reality is that you're probably married."

Unless he is showing his arses to people at work

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

"I always find it very difficult to start a conversation on here especially with the lack of photos due to what I do for work. Does anyone else ever get this problem?"

Seems to be a common problem. So many people worried work will recognise them naked. Where do people work? Christmas party must be a riot.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't have that problem obviously but people will be reluctant to engage with someone they can't see.

Having no photos is absolutely your prerogative but it will severely limit your opportunities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't have that problem obviously but people will be reluctant to engage with someone they can't see.

Having no photos is absolutely your prerogative but it will severely limit your opportunities. "

Not according to the "faceless profiles" thread on here where a number of womem claim to meet plenty of guys who have blank profiles!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We don't have that problem obviously but people will be reluctant to engage with someone they can't see.

Having no photos is absolutely your prerogative but it will severely limit your opportunities.

Not according to the "faceless profiles" thread on here where a number of womem claim to meet plenty of guys who have blank profiles!"

I haven't read that thread.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Op there are certain careers where I wouldn't have photos on here.

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

I can’t think of any job where a photo on here isn’t possible. My guess is you’re married?

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

When there's a will, there's a way OP.

You don't put up pictures not because you can't, but because you won't.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"I always find it very difficult to start a conversation on here especially with the lack of photos due to what I do for work. Does anyone else ever get this problem?"

Every job in the world is allowed to have sex and most people on here will have a job of some sort.

I reply to blank profiles if they are verified and attach photos in private messages (but aren’t displayed).

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

All single men have a tough time here at first due to the competition. This year has been a write off, due to the virus, so people haven't been meeting, clubs largely closed and latterly just open for distanced social engagement.

That said, if anyone is going to make it work as phenomenally as they can when possible, they will need to use all of the leverage that they can.

Obviously massive effort used wisely is needed.

Learn what people do to maximise their chances of success. A single man has to fully use his profile to sell himself. Question how well you are doing this? If it doesn't sell him, he's wasting his 1 major opportunity.

If you have disadvantages, counter them as strongly as you can. You say you can't add photos due to employment. Few careers have every square centimetre of a guy traceable and known to many, except for something like porn.

If a user, for example, truly has nothing of their body that can be shown, it's worth reviewing if there is some way that they could guide others on their physique - even if it's just an equivalent of a black and white physique silhouette, crafted from a photo. It is worth being creative as users without pics will find it harder.

You didn't ask for profile feedback, so I'm giving outline indications based on single men who struggle. If you'd like feedback and more advice, you can ask for it, as well as find and learn from the posts where guys have asked for it, usually when they have been given great tips etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't have that problem obviously but people will be reluctant to engage with someone they can't see.

Having no photos is absolutely your prerogative but it will severely limit your opportunities.

Not according to the "faceless profiles" thread on here where a number of womem claim to meet plenty of guys who have blank profiles!"

I think unless they sent pics in message it is dangerous for any female to meet anyone without pics. My mrs never did that asba single on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't have that problem obviously but people will be reluctant to engage with someone they can't see.

Having no photos is absolutely your prerogative but it will severely limit your opportunities.

Not according to the "faceless profiles" thread on here where a number of womem claim to meet plenty of guys who have blank profiles!

I think unless they sent pics in message it is dangerous for any female to meet anyone without pics. My mrs never did that asba single on here. "

Yeah I agree with that. I think my point was that so many people on the forums say you have to have an amazing profile on here to get noticed but that just isn't true based on the thousands I've probably browsed.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I can’t think of any job where a photo on here isn’t possible. My guess is you’re married? "

There are some jobs where it would be unwise to have a certain type of photo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can’t think of any job where a photo on here isn’t possible. My guess is you’re married?

There are some jobs where it would be unwise to have a certain type of photo. "

Some you can get sacked from hence no face pics open in profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can’t think of any job where a photo on here isn’t possible. My guess is you’re married?

There are some jobs where it would be unwise to have a certain type of photo.

Some you can get sacked from hence no face pics open in profile. "

That’s true. I’m not too sure many teachers, care workers or medical professionals would feel happy to show their face. Police officers too.

That being said JJ_couple, if you are right, why is it your faces are covered in some way or another in all your public photos? Just as a matter of curiosity of course.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

A profile pic doesn't have to be a face pic

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

There are lots of creative ways you can photograph yourself without putting your face in the shot

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I don't mind if there are no face pics on a profile. But no pics at all just mean the person hasn't even bothered. So I'm not usually interested x

Mrs N

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"There are lots of creative ways you can photograph yourself without putting your face in the shot

Hello Tina

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