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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Anal only meets, or just anal included in a meet?

Anal only meets never.

Anal within a meet, depends how long the meet is for and what else we have planned, but at least once (assuming its all agreed and people have prepared) with either the Mrs and her strap on or the fucking machine.

Its good viewing, watching a woman fuck another one anally.

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By *ickinNottsMan
over a year ago

Hucknall

I guess that I would be biased. As most of my meets are with TV'S or men (when I dressed) anal is pretty much expected to happen.

With women and couples it is far less common. Maybe 1 in 10 like bum play and actual anal is rare.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx"
I've had anal once with a guy I've met via here ... It takes to much care and consideration for me to just do it randomly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time on my last meeting before lockdown 1.0.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on if the lady who I meet likes anal or not but definitely yes if she likes it

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

about half the time its not always possible or desired by the other person

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

This is embarrassing, I've never done anal. And at my age too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anal only meets, or just anal included in a meet?

Anal only meets never.

Anal within a meet, depends how long the meet is for and what else we have planned, but at least once (assuming its all agreed and people have prepared) with either the Mrs and her strap on or the fucking machine.

Its good viewing, watching a woman fuck another one anally."

I was asking more about anal on "general" meets. But anal only meets would clearly count too! Xx

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By *iss_innocent1000Woman
over a year ago

london

Most of the time x

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Never as we have never met anybody who wises to try.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Iv had a few anal only meets with someone iv met before and guys not into anal has been a deal breaker.

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By *verready5000Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I’ve only ever done anal once so I’d say it’s rare but I haven’t had any swinging meets so don’t know about that one!

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

If it’s an over night hotel meet then yes, but if it’s a quickie then no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? "

You shouldn’t expect anything other than good hygiene

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By *ambslass48Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough

I don't like or do anal so a no from me

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By *otPrinceHarryMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not a meet in here, but I did once meet a girl for sex who principally wanted anal. She was very into rough sex though, and very clear that's what she wanted from the get go.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

More times than vaginal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?

You shouldn’t expect anything other than good hygiene "

That should be obvious and a sine qua non !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? "

Blimey

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

If she wants to, then I'm all for it but it's not something I expect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?

Blimey"

Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo

It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course

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By *ownwithafeatherMan
over a year ago

Watford

Not on any coffee shop socials yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?

Blimey

Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo

It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course "

So what happens if the lady says no to anal?

Do you stamp your feet and remind them it was in your preferences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? "

You’d expect it? Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is embarrassing, I've never done anal. And at my age too! "

Me neither.

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

In all of my years, either as a swinger or before that, I only had anal on first meet 3 times. Once at a club and twice in a bedroom. In each case, she guided me....rather than me taking the lead.

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By *he Jizz PlayerMan
over a year ago

Hatfield

I've had anal on the first meeting half a dozen times. Twice as agreed as that was what the lady specifically wanted, the rest as a pleasant surprise as we all just went with the flow.

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By *otPrinceHarryMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?

Blimey

Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo

It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course "

No. It isn't.

It's in your interests.

I have DP as an interest, do you think I expect that at every meet?

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By *laric-DomMan
over a year ago

Chapelhall

When I am lucky enough to have a meet I don't turn up expecting any fun ... I like to go with the flow .. make sure that all parties are comfy with what happens..

Maybe I'm too nice lol

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

One it once, but not had many meets! Was part of a gangbang.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had anal once with a guy I met on here bit it wasn't our first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can get anal meats at the deli.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you can get anal meats at the deli."

And plenty at your local butchers too

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England


"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?

Blimey

Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo

It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course

So what happens if the lady says no to anal?

Do you stamp your feet and remind them it was in your preferences?"

He probably wouldn't meet them in the 1st place is my guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?

Blimey

Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo

It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course

So what happens if the lady says no to anal?

Do you stamp your feet and remind them it was in your preferences?

He probably wouldn't meet them in the 1st place is my guess."

But women change their minds

They might not be up for it on a particular day

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England

Not done anal on a 1st meet, but i have meet a lady and rimmed her on 1st meet.

But question we all want to know op. Have you???

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England


"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?

Blimey

Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo

It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course

So what happens if the lady says no to anal?

Do you stamp your feet and remind them it was in your preferences?

He probably wouldn't meet them in the 1st place is my guess.

But women change their minds

They might not be up for it on a particular day"

Well thats a different scenario i guess.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Never really given it much thought. More often than not I suppose.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

It happens quite often as i never refuse if they ask.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?

Blimey

Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo

It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course "

On the vino? You come across as a self entitled bloke, no one needs to be on the beers to think that. You expect anal from anyone that meets you as it's in your interests, you said that. If that's how it is for you it maybe a good idea to put that in your profile bio, preferably in capitals, may prevent a surprise sore unexpected arsehole invasion not spoken about that you feel entitled to.

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull


"It happens quite often as i never refuse if they ask."

My kind of woman

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"It happens quite often as i never refuse if they ask."

That's a fuckin' hot reply!

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

Hahahahahaha I can't believe someone would expect anal on a first meet cause they put it as a preference, hope no one's had a curry before meeting him

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"It happens quite often as i never refuse if they ask."

Best reply.

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By *oom_4_1_MhoreCouple
over a year ago

Newport

Honestly depends who we are meeting, but I would be dp'd on a first meet with the right guy xx

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?

Blimey

Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo

It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course "

Totally agree! Like I said before its a deal breaker if they are against anal.

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By *wosmilersCouple
over a year ago

Heathrowish


"I think you can get anal meats at the deli."

Isn't it on the chilled counter, around the back of the knob cheese?

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I only do it with a person I can completely trust (bad past experience) so it's not something I'd do on a one off or first meet generally

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?

Blimey

Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo

It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course "

Just because it is listed on your interests doesn't mean someone would assume you would expect it.

I would hope, especially given you profess to be dominant etc that you would understand the process of negotiation, but also that even within a fully negotiated scene nothing should be expected as nothing is guaranteed.

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By *odieCI5Man
over a year ago

Solihull

Can’t say I’ve met many who like it, as a biggish gent, tend to get turned away at the door ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?

Blimey

Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo

It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course

Just because it is listed on your interests doesn't mean someone would assume you would expect it.

I would hope, especially given you profess to be dominant etc that you would understand the process of negotiation, but also that even within a fully negotiated scene nothing should be expected as nothing is guaranteed.

"

If its done without consent its a jail sentence in the making!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?

Blimey

Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo

It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course

Just because it is listed on your interests doesn't mean someone would assume you would expect it.

I would hope, especially given you profess to be dominant etc that you would understand the process of negotiation, but also that even within a fully negotiated scene nothing should be expected as nothing is guaranteed.

"

I was not going to respond but since you question my integrity as a Dom I rather reply. It’s obvious that we will have a conversation and agreement with the other party! Unless you just text and shag straight away yourself ?

Second, anyone got a dictionary and look at the definition of expected... I am not English but most of you are and still don’t know the significance and could t wait for the Ides of December

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

I'd take anal every time

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By *laric-DomMan
over a year ago

Chapelhall


"I'd take anal every time "

Is that a promise Faye?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a vagina so I tend to lean towards anal if I meet a guy or bi couple

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Every meet, though as part of a range of delights.

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By *ungguy4dirtyMan
over a year ago

Camden Town London

Luv sliding into pussy and arse -DP with another guy is great with sleazy couples and like to see my cock sucked clean

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By *laric-DomMan
over a year ago

Chapelhall


"Every meet, though as part of a range of delights. "

A range of delights sounds fun

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By *lasterman2000Man
over a year ago

Skipton

Fairly rare on a first meet but it has happened a few times...it's happened more often with regular partners though.

My first ever experience with a swinging couple when I was 19 was also the first time I had anal sex with a woman...and that was on the first meet!

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By *otPrinceHarryMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?

Blimey

Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo

It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course

Just because it is listed on your interests doesn't mean someone would assume you would expect it.

I would hope, especially given you profess to be dominant etc that you would understand the process of negotiation, but also that even within a fully negotiated scene nothing should be expected as nothing is guaranteed.

I was not going to respond but since you question my integrity as a Dom I rather reply. It’s obvious that we will have a conversation and agreement with the other party! Unless you just text and shag straight away yourself ?

Second, anyone got a dictionary and look at the definition of expected... I am not English but most of you are and still don’t know the significance and could t wait for the Ides of December "

While I am not one to base an ad hominem on someone speaking a second language... naw. First of all, "Interest" and "Preference" are very different. I and others have pointed this out to you.

"Already on the vino" is idioamtic, so I think your English is probably pretty solid. It *almost* sounds like you're trying to mask your obvious fuck-up under some kind of 60s era sitcom punchline of how non-English speakers talk.

You have "watersports" as an "Interest." Or as you would put it, a "Preference." Do you expect that on every meet? Are most of "them" into it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx"

On several meets have had anal on the first meet, not necessarily planned. Usually dependent on time and the ladies preference - Mark

Usually depends on how I feel on the meet, and how i feel with the guy - Nat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never do anal on a first meet - there needs to be a certain degree of trust before I am comfortable with that.

I also have stomach problems so it's one of those things that isn't always possible even if I am up for it.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Anal almost every time for me. There are occasionally times when I just want to give a blow job x

Mrs N

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I have on the rare occasion had anal sex on a first meet, it all depends on how I feel with the guy. If he's experienced and I'm turned on enough, then, you know, sometimes I can't help it. Go with the flow

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Ps my interests state anal but I don't expect it (obviously), and before reading this thread I'd hoped men didn't either!

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By *otPrinceHarryMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Ps my interests state anal but I don't expect it (obviously), and before reading this thread I'd hoped men didn't either! "

As awful as we men are, no. It's just that guy.

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By *ownhamguyMan
over a year ago

Battle

I would never expect anal on a first meet or any other meet. Its the woman choice if she wants it. If yes then great if not it ain't a deal breaker

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By *ombull15Man
over a year ago

essex

I share my sub for anal only fun have her in hotel on bed tied and blindfolded and get a few guys over the day to fuck her arse only fuck and go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to do anything both are comfortable with

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By *bbott24Couple
over a year ago

Devizes

If the guy wants it Jane's happy to do it

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Every time.

Although sadly many men are all talk.

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

My meets have nearly always said no anal on the 1st meet.

But at least half of them change their mind in the throes of horn. lol

With one lady I was just teasing outside her anus with a wet finger while sucking her clit. It was only foreplay stimulation but she decided to suddenly push down on it after a few minutes. By the time she'd cum, she decided the next move was to replace the finger....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love anal, but don't do it on a first meet. If I give everything, what have they got left to return for?

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By *henightstagMan
over a year ago

London

Depends on the meet. If its been with a couple, then usually yes as dp is usually on the cards! If its single, then probably 50/50... Though i love rimming, so that usually leads to it haha

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

would depend Who i meet, if its a single guy then pretty much all meets, with couples or women would depend on what they want to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never on a first date, unless she makes it clear she wants it. That's a bonus, of course, for those of us who come here to find something different from home life. (I know you'll be shocked by that thought...)

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By *oukevCouple
over a year ago

Lancaster

Following

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By *endydick.CumbersnatchMan
over a year ago

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Porn kind of expects that girls do anal. If you watch any porn vid, the girl is switch holes constantly.....but hey, that's porn, that's not reality.

Bloke going on about it being "expected" has mixed up his PornHub and Fab accounts. No-one should expect that "ever holes a goal" and in reality, the owner of the arsehole is in charge. If they say it's shut shop, it's shut. If they are inviting in, then play on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Porn kind of expects that girls do anal. If you watch any porn vid, the girl is switch holes constantly.....but hey, that's porn, that's not reality.

Bloke going on about it being "expected" has mixed up his PornHub and Fab accounts. No-one should expect that "ever holes a goal" and in reality, the owner of the arsehole is in charge. If they say it's shut shop, it's shut. If they are inviting in, then play on."

At last a sensible responce

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Never: it doesn't do anything for me. If I was in a long-standing arrangement with someone who adored it I would probably do it for his pleasure. Outside that situation it's not going to happen.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

So far we have never had anal sex in any of our meets. It has happened outside of Fab, but so far it hasn’t been something that I felt comfortable about in a Club. I can imagine it happening in the right circumstances, but it certainly isn’t a given!

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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

I would always prep just incase, when I used to meet as a couple with fwb he was in charge so if he thought a guy was good enough he'd let them have my arse,

few first meets where I'd take anal

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"I would always prep just incase, when I used to meet as a couple with fwb he was in charge so if he thought a guy was good enough he'd let them have my arse,

few first meets where I'd take anal "

Hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? XxI've had anal once with a guy I've met via here ... It takes to much care and consideration for me to just do it randomly. "

Exactly this , douche and douche some

More

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx"

So far I had only one "anal only" meet, while most of my meets involved anal play of some sort (either fingering or full penetrative anal sex). I have also met ladies who were not into anal sex at all...so it's a mixed experience, to summarize.

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By *allBristolManMan
over a year ago

nowhere


"I would always prep just incase, when I used to meet as a couple with fwb he was in charge so if he thought a guy was good enough he'd let them have my arse,

few first meets where I'd take anal "

Super hot

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Depends how comfortable you are with each other x

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Loughborough

Is it called oxtail?

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

Never had an anal only meet but I would be perfectly happy if that is what they wanted from me

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Always ready because I just think you should be if your going to meet someone haha!

Never done anal only meet and I wouldn’t.

But I do love anal... i tend to look for the “rougher the better” in the bedroom kinda guys so if they can play nice I like anal and not if they are big ha x

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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago

Cap d’Agde, France

200 plus but never had an ‘anal meet’

Perhaps 10-15% of meets had anal fun.

The vast majority of these ladies were into it.

So, not common but horny when it happened.

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By *nfinitylandMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?

Blimey

Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo

It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course

Totally agree! Like I said before its a deal breaker if they are against anal."

Its a deal breaker for me too, just preference I guess. It would be discussed beforehand though

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Never had the pleasure of anal with any meet from fab beyond a little finger teasing...

And just to add that despite Anal, DP and other things being on my interests I obviously don’t expect any of them on a meet!

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx"

It is about something rare with a new person. It will be niceif it was half of the time. Ed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx"

I think it depends on the lady you are playing with. Even if she loved anal i think it would lose its kinkyness if you did it everytime you met her. Unless it is a main kink that she insists on when you have sex. John.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Is that the same as meeting arseoles

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx

I think it depends on the lady you are playing with. Even if she loved anal i think it would lose its kinkyness if you did it everytime you met her. Unless it is a main kink that she insists on when you have sex. John. "

It really doesn't lose it's kinkyness no matter how often the pair of you enjoy anal

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx"
I am yet to find a woman that likes anal .

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Vaginal can be tricky enough to get in

I find anal is one of those things where the idea can be better than the reality. Its very horny. It’s VERY tight, but in quite a localised way. I wouldn’t want it every time.

That said, I aim to please.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx I am yet to find a woman that likes anal . "

Obviously not looking in the right places

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By *nfinitylandMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx I am yet to find a woman that likes anal .

Obviously not looking in the right places "

This is definitely the right place lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met a few arseholes over the years,though thankfully not many.

As for anal sex,sweet only trusts myself for that,though we have enjoyed a few dp sessions with first time meets

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By *ing-louisMan
over a year ago

Merthyr

Every time. Just ram it in and hope for the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time. Just ram it in and hope for the best "

And could then have a r charge put against you. Then jail, once there big raymond will sort out your anal requirements.

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By *ing-louisMan
over a year ago

Merthyr


"Every time. Just ram it in and hope for the best

And could then have a r charge put against you. Then jail, once there big raymond will sort out your anal requirements. "

Do you know what a joke is?

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By *ewey613Man
over a year ago

ottawa

Great thread! Thinking about my experiences has gotten me very worked up.

Personally, I would never suggest anal on a first meet, but would never turn a woman down

There have been two occasions in my time when anal was included spontaneously, but with lots of booze.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't ever expect it but if the lady likes and wants to give it a go then I'd love it.

Either we speak of it before hand or we play in that area and see how she feels

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London


"Porn kind of expects that girls do anal. If you watch any porn vid, the girl is switch holes constantly.....but hey, that's porn, that's not reality. "

Not your reality maybe. I used to do that regularly with a primary partner with no problems. It's not generally advisable however, as for a lot of women it's a guarantee of getting a UTI.

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England


"We have met a few arseholes over the years,though thankfully not many.

As for anal sex,sweet only trusts myself for that,though we have enjoyed a few dp sessions with first time meets"

Thanks, makes perfect sense.

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By *ombull15Man
over a year ago

essex

I had a meet 2 years back the lady put a status with postcode saying door on latch message for door number I did and sure enough she was there waiting on all fours plug in arse I took it out and fucked her arse till I exploded init pulled out put plug in and left best meet ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first ever NSA meet I had (many years ago) got me to fuck her ass. Since then have had none via fab

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By *nfinitylandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Me first ever meet up was off another site many years ago, I was a virgin at the time and met a girl who was just my type (I can be very picky) after weeks of talking I invited her round and we fucked for hours, she then begged for anal which blew my mind and ive been hooked ever since. Maybe having anal on the night of loosing my virginity made it a solid kink for me haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always slip a cheeky finger in the bum when having sex with a new partner, see if my lucks in and she doesn’t mind a bit of anal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on and off fab for almost 10 years now, and I would say about 90% of my meets there is anal sex. For me if the guy doesnt anal then I am unlikely to meet him. As I orgasm far more with anal. x

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Personally it depends on the guy I’m with. A rough guess would be it happens 50% of the time

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By *anhh4285Man
over a year ago

Bewdley

They don't ....... it's never a given at all

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By *hortyfun93Man
over a year ago

london

This is a very interesting topic and in my experience it all depends how turnt on you can get the women for her to even consider the thought but if she into it yh I would say pretty normal

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By *hortyfun93Man
over a year ago

london

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on and off fab for almost 10 years now, and I would say about 90% of my meets there is anal sex. For me if the guy doesnt anal then I am unlikely to meet him. As I orgasm far more with anal. x"

My mrs orgasams hard off anal. Gushes lots aldo.

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By *ylermorganMan
over a year ago

cannock

Lol I know yeah, bit cheeky lol, an hi you

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By *abswimmersMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

I've done anal with people from fab about 3 or 4 different females over the years, I have never had an anal only meet and never done it on first meet.

I always feel that I am there to please the person/people I'm planning with. Provide the lady or couple are comfortable I don't push anything and go with the flow, if they are having a good time then I am enjoying myself.

But I would love to meet a lady or a couple where the lady enjoyed receiving anal as much as I enjoy giving, as it's my preference if given the choice, and a pure anal meet is at the top of my wish list

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By *ipster8Man
over a year ago

South Lincs


"This is embarrassing, I've never done anal. And at my age too!

Me neither."

44 and never had the chance to try anal

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England


"This is embarrassing, I've never done anal. And at my age too!

Me neither.

44 and never had the chance to try anal "

In all honesty you have probably built it up in your head to be such an amazing thing that when you actually do it you will probably be like, is that it.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I once had a meet where the only thing I was allowed to do was rim her sexy arse ?

Does that count as an anal meet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends purely on the Lady.

Some love some hate some Curious

Only if she asks or agrees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never got beyond curiosity, sounds like a shit deal..

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx"

Can we meet up to make it more often?

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By *um2me123Man
over a year ago

burin

I certainly dont expect anal...but im sure its discussed through chat...if she enjoys it im game...not sure its a first time thing cause it certainly takes trust...im not a huge guy so i think i have the perfect cock for it...lol just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is embarrassing, I've never done anal. And at my age too! "

It'll be worth the wait - AMAZING! Mrs x

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

It depends on the type of meet, but if it's the right type then yes definitely

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Never. And wont start now

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By *uayside Glory HoleMan
over a year ago

Gateshead Quayside

Most of my gloryhole meets are oral only but occasionally if a lad asks for anal in advance I’ll get myself douche and ready for some anon fun. My gloryhole has hand slots in it so feeling a strangers hands on my hips as he fucks and takes pleasure from my hole is pretty hot

I appreciate that won’t be everyone’s cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had three meets from fab and every one of them included anal on the first meet. I’ve also met two woman off tinder who did anal the first time we had sex as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have had three meets from fab and every one of them included anal on the first meet. I’ve also met two woman off tinder who did anal the first time we had sex as well"

Oh wow, this thread is back.

Yeah, it seems that while anal is not a given expectation on all meets, it's pretty common to do it, including first meets xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx"

If she wants it then i oblige but not really a fan of giving it tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None yet, but here's hoping in 2021 lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always prep anyway but depends on the mood and trust really x

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By *olly_AmberTV/TS
over a year ago

Live Sussex, Work London

My penetrative sex option are more limited than my cis female counterparts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? "

And that quote will earn you zero meets on here. Nothing should be expected or guaranteed on here ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No surprise it's yes from me for anal each and every time, no anal no meet.

That includes first time meets.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Not for me.

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By *lutchieMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

If she would like anal I'm happy to provide a hard cock for her bum

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Rare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regularly- We love it

In Anal August only anal .... well most of the time

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By *reakbedsnotheartsMan
over a year ago

bedford


"Regularly- We love it

In Anal August only anal .... well most of the time "

Wow that’s hot

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By *ackDorianMan
over a year ago

ashford


"This is embarrassing, I've never done anal. And at my age too!

Me neither."

First time for everything

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"It all depends on if the lady who I meet likes anal or not but definitely yes if she likes it "

The answer is no more complicated than this reply

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By *uayside Glory HoleMan
over a year ago

Gateshead Quayside


"Regularly- We love it

In Anal August only anal .... well most of the time "

Anal August is a thing? Who knew?

Oral October anyone?

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