Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Back to forum list |
Back to Swingers Chat |
Jump to newest |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx" I've had anal once with a guy I've met via here ... It takes to much care and consideration for me to just do it randomly. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Anal only meets, or just anal included in a meet? Anal only meets never. Anal within a meet, depends how long the meet is for and what else we have planned, but at least once (assuming its all agreed and people have prepared) with either the Mrs and her strap on or the fucking machine. Its good viewing, watching a woman fuck another one anally." I was asking more about anal on "general" meets. But anal only meets would clearly count too! Xx | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? " You shouldn’t expect anything other than good hygiene | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? You shouldn’t expect anything other than good hygiene " That should be obvious and a sine qua non !! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? " Blimey | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? Blimey" Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? Blimey Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course " So what happens if the lady says no to anal? Do you stamp your feet and remind them it was in your preferences? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? " You’d expect it? Really? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"This is embarrassing, I've never done anal. And at my age too! " Me neither. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? Blimey Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course " No. It isn't. It's in your interests. I have DP as an interest, do you think I expect that at every meet? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think you can get anal meats at the deli." And plenty at your local butchers too | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? Blimey Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course So what happens if the lady says no to anal? Do you stamp your feet and remind them it was in your preferences?" He probably wouldn't meet them in the 1st place is my guess. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? Blimey Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course So what happens if the lady says no to anal? Do you stamp your feet and remind them it was in your preferences? He probably wouldn't meet them in the 1st place is my guess." But women change their minds They might not be up for it on a particular day | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? Blimey Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course So what happens if the lady says no to anal? Do you stamp your feet and remind them it was in your preferences? He probably wouldn't meet them in the 1st place is my guess. But women change their minds They might not be up for it on a particular day" Well thats a different scenario i guess. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? Blimey Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course " On the vino? You come across as a self entitled bloke, no one needs to be on the beers to think that. You expect anal from anyone that meets you as it's in your interests, you said that. If that's how it is for you it maybe a good idea to put that in your profile bio, preferably in capitals, may prevent a surprise sore unexpected arsehole invasion not spoken about that you feel entitled to. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It happens quite often as i never refuse if they ask." My kind of woman | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It happens quite often as i never refuse if they ask." That's a fuckin' hot reply! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It happens quite often as i never refuse if they ask." Best reply. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? Blimey Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course " Totally agree! Like I said before its a deal breaker if they are against anal. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think you can get anal meats at the deli." Isn't it on the chilled counter, around the back of the knob cheese? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? Blimey Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course " Just because it is listed on your interests doesn't mean someone would assume you would expect it. I would hope, especially given you profess to be dominant etc that you would understand the process of negotiation, but also that even within a fully negotiated scene nothing should be expected as nothing is guaranteed. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? Blimey Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course Just because it is listed on your interests doesn't mean someone would assume you would expect it. I would hope, especially given you profess to be dominant etc that you would understand the process of negotiation, but also that even within a fully negotiated scene nothing should be expected as nothing is guaranteed. " If its done without consent its a jail sentence in the making! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? Blimey Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course Just because it is listed on your interests doesn't mean someone would assume you would expect it. I would hope, especially given you profess to be dominant etc that you would understand the process of negotiation, but also that even within a fully negotiated scene nothing should be expected as nothing is guaranteed. " I was not going to respond but since you question my integrity as a Dom I rather reply. It’s obvious that we will have a conversation and agreement with the other party! Unless you just text and shag straight away yourself ? Second, anyone got a dictionary and look at the definition of expected... I am not English but most of you are and still don’t know the significance and could t wait for the Ides of December | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I'd take anal every time " Is that a promise Faye? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Every meet, though as part of a range of delights. " A range of delights sounds fun | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? Blimey Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course Just because it is listed on your interests doesn't mean someone would assume you would expect it. I would hope, especially given you profess to be dominant etc that you would understand the process of negotiation, but also that even within a fully negotiated scene nothing should be expected as nothing is guaranteed. I was not going to respond but since you question my integrity as a Dom I rather reply. It’s obvious that we will have a conversation and agreement with the other party! Unless you just text and shag straight away yourself ? Second, anyone got a dictionary and look at the definition of expected... I am not English but most of you are and still don’t know the significance and could t wait for the Ides of December " While I am not one to base an ad hominem on someone speaking a second language... naw. First of all, "Interest" and "Preference" are very different. I and others have pointed this out to you. "Already on the vino" is idioamtic, so I think your English is probably pretty solid. It *almost* sounds like you're trying to mask your obvious fuck-up under some kind of 60s era sitcom punchline of how non-English speakers talk. You have "watersports" as an "Interest." Or as you would put it, a "Preference." Do you expect that on every meet? Are most of "them" into it? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx" On several meets have had anal on the first meet, not necessarily planned. Usually dependent on time and the ladies preference - Mark Usually depends on how I feel on the meet, and how i feel with the guy - Nat | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ps my interests state anal but I don't expect it (obviously), and before reading this thread I'd hoped men didn't either! " As awful as we men are, no. It's just that guy. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Porn kind of expects that girls do anal. If you watch any porn vid, the girl is switch holes constantly.....but hey, that's porn, that's not reality. Bloke going on about it being "expected" has mixed up his PornHub and Fab accounts. No-one should expect that "ever holes a goal" and in reality, the owner of the arsehole is in charge. If they say it's shut shop, it's shut. If they are inviting in, then play on." At last a sensible responce | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I would always prep just incase, when I used to meet as a couple with fwb he was in charge so if he thought a guy was good enough he'd let them have my arse, few first meets where I'd take anal " Hot. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? XxI've had anal once with a guy I've met via here ... It takes to much care and consideration for me to just do it randomly. " Exactly this , douche and douche some More | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx" So far I had only one "anal only" meet, while most of my meets involved anal play of some sort (either fingering or full penetrative anal sex). I have also met ladies who were not into anal sex at all...so it's a mixed experience, to summarize. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I would always prep just incase, when I used to meet as a couple with fwb he was in charge so if he thought a guy was good enough he'd let them have my arse, few first meets where I'd take anal " Super hot | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? Blimey Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course Totally agree! Like I said before its a deal breaker if they are against anal." Its a deal breaker for me too, just preference I guess. It would be discussed beforehand though | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx" It is about something rare with a new person. It will be niceif it was half of the time. Ed | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx" I think it depends on the lady you are playing with. Even if she loved anal i think it would lose its kinkyness if you did it everytime you met her. Unless it is a main kink that she insists on when you have sex. John. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx I think it depends on the lady you are playing with. Even if she loved anal i think it would lose its kinkyness if you did it everytime you met her. Unless it is a main kink that she insists on when you have sex. John. " It really doesn't lose it's kinkyness no matter how often the pair of you enjoy anal | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx" I am yet to find a woman that likes anal . | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx I am yet to find a woman that likes anal . " Obviously not looking in the right places | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx I am yet to find a woman that likes anal . Obviously not looking in the right places " This is definitely the right place lol | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Every time. Just ram it in and hope for the best " And could then have a r charge put against you. Then jail, once there big raymond will sort out your anal requirements. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Every time. Just ram it in and hope for the best And could then have a r charge put against you. Then jail, once there big raymond will sort out your anal requirements. " Do you know what a joke is? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Porn kind of expects that girls do anal. If you watch any porn vid, the girl is switch holes constantly.....but hey, that's porn, that's not reality. " Not your reality maybe. I used to do that regularly with a primary partner with no problems. It's not generally advisable however, as for a lot of women it's a guarantee of getting a UTI. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"We have met a few arseholes over the years,though thankfully not many. As for anal sex,sweet only trusts myself for that,though we have enjoyed a few dp sessions with first time meets" Thanks, makes perfect sense. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I have been on and off fab for almost 10 years now, and I would say about 90% of my meets there is anal sex. For me if the guy doesnt anal then I am unlikely to meet him. As I orgasm far more with anal. x" My mrs orgasams hard off anal. Gushes lots aldo. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"This is embarrassing, I've never done anal. And at my age too! Me neither." 44 and never had the chance to try anal | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"This is embarrassing, I've never done anal. And at my age too! Me neither. 44 and never had the chance to try anal " In all honesty you have probably built it up in your head to be such an amazing thing that when you actually do it you will probably be like, is that it. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx" Can we meet up to make it more often? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"This is embarrassing, I've never done anal. And at my age too! " It'll be worth the wait - AMAZING! Mrs x | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I have had three meets from fab and every one of them included anal on the first meet. I’ve also met two woman off tinder who did anal the first time we had sex as well" Oh wow, this thread is back. Yeah, it seems that while anal is not a given expectation on all meets, it's pretty common to do it, including first meets xx | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx" If she wants it then i oblige but not really a fan of giving it tbh. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? " And that quote will earn you zero meets on here. Nothing should be expected or guaranteed on here ever! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Regularly- We love it In Anal August only anal .... well most of the time " Wow that’s hot | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"This is embarrassing, I've never done anal. And at my age too! Me neither." First time for everything | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It all depends on if the lady who I meet likes anal or not but definitely yes if she likes it " The answer is no more complicated than this reply | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Regularly- We love it In Anal August only anal .... well most of the time " Anal August is a thing? Who knew? Oral October anyone? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Post new Message to Thread |
back to top |