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Not overly fussed about a 69

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By *ittleMissCali OP   Woman
over a year ago

not meeting, forums only

Am I alone here in thinking that while nice for a short while or for the visual of it.. that a 69 is a bit neither here nor there for oral.

Neither party can lay back and relax and enjoy... and its not always the most comfortable position either and if there is a difference in height it can become difficult to reach properly.

Views.. thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I alone here in thinking that while nice for a short while or for the visual of it.. that a 69 is a bit neither here nor there for oral.

Neither party can lay back and relax and enjoy... and its not always the most comfortable position either and if there is a difference in height it can become difficult to reach properly.

Views.. thoughts "

I dislike it, I prefer to either concentrate on what I'm doing or relax and enjoy being pleasured

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Current girlfriend made it clear at the start she’s not keen on 69. Loves me to go down on her - demands it in fact a couple of times a week, especially when I’m clean shaven.

Oh yeah, she also enjoys sucking me. So, no I don’t miss 69

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Can't actually remember having one, I must have at some point.

Usually prefer to concentrate on one thing at a time, but then I am a man!

Although I enjoy a BJ it's not the be all and end all.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It's ok for a brief time but I just can't concentrate properly when doing it.

Katie.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Its ok, you do it when younger as you want to try everything but these days I prefer to lay back and enjoy her ministrations.

She can then earn her reward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a fan of a 69 but do love having a partner sit on my face

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By *neoclockgunMan
over a year ago

London

I’ve always found it unsatisfactory for both parties and would prefer to take turns, but my current gf is the first person I’ve ever had it work well with. We seem to be exactly the right sizes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be good if lying side on

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere Only We Know

I enjoy it occasionally but I think we both get more from taking our time doing one thing at a time, i find it hard to function when I’m being pleasured so it’s a half hearted attempt and he deserves more.

Lou x

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere Only We Know


"I enjoy it occasionally but I think we both get more from taking our time doing one thing at a time, i find it hard to function when I’m being pleasured so it’s a half hearted attempt and he deserves more.

Lou x "

I look forward to you sucking my cock later

Love you,

Ed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A 69 sounds better than it is, I found I was too busy pleasuring the woman to get much pleasure myself but it was still a good place to start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a 69

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

I find it a good angle for a BJ but Im not able to give decent oral in return from my angle

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Its ok, you do it when younger as you want to try everything but these days I prefer to lay back and enjoy her ministrations.

She can then earn her reward."

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

69 is in my opinion one of the most kinky forms of kinky pleasure given are many positions available some more relaxing then others and it's just nibbling away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, not a fan. I'm a short girl, so find I can never get a good angle haha. I like taking turns and enjoying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it especially if the lady is petite you can do a standing 69

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan either, too uncomfortable and I can't concentrate lol xx

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By *ubyRonCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

I love it as a good starter before the main show

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Nah, not a fan. I'm a short girl, so find I can never get a good angle haha. I like taking turns and enjoying it "

Well I'm a short arse too so it's not a good excuse and I do ok

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By *ittleMissCali OP   Woman
over a year ago

not meeting, forums only


"Nah, not a fan. I'm a short girl, so find I can never get a good angle haha. I like taking turns and enjoying it "
I think me being short is part of the issue and also being a bigger girl I don't like being on top

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By *lectra69TV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkish

Great fun with a Fem or pretty TV.

Hehe

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I'm not a fan either, too uncomfortable and I can't concentrate lol xx"

I never assumed that concentration was involved thought minds just went blank and rolled with it

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By *ittleMissCali OP   Woman
over a year ago

not meeting, forums only


"I'm not a fan either, too uncomfortable and I can't concentrate lol xx

I never assumed that concentration was involved thought minds just went blank and rolled with it "
it does take thought

. And I love to concentrate on what I'm doing when I suck cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not keen either, I like to focus on what I'm doing/having done to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah, not a fan. I'm a short girl, so find I can never get a good angle haha. I like taking turns and enjoying it

Well I'm a short arse too so it's not a good excuse and I do ok "

Well maybe I just stop picking 6ft guys..

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I enjoy it but have to be on top!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it, especially with woman on top. Cumming together is so intense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get super turned on when giving oral so in a 69 my orgasm is very intense. Always happy to focus on the lady afterwards to ensure she is happy. Maybe the guys just get more out of a 69.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I always get super turned on when giving oral so in a 69 my orgasm is very intense. Always happy to focus on the lady afterwards to ensure she is happy. Maybe the guys just get more out of a 69. "

Yes they do, they get more out of receiving oral because few men can give oral correctly.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Surprised some don't like 69s! Giving and receiving at the same time To have simultaneous orgasms is amazing! Likewise if there's a mirrored ceiling and you can see your partner next to you also in a 69

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By *ittleMissCali OP   Woman
over a year ago

not meeting, forums only


"Surprised some don't like 69s! Giving and receiving at the same time To have simultaneous orgasms is amazing! Likewise if there's a mirrored ceiling and you can see your partner next to you also in a 69 "
never managed to have an orgasm at the same time during a 69. As can not relax enough to do so

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By *imandLynn98Couple
over a year ago

Palm Coast

We love it. Admittedly the angle isnt always perfect when we are with others but together Lynn and I fit perfectly and it is very erotic and fun. She gets turned on when I am on top and can thrust into her mouth, which is her preferred 69 position but on our sides runs a close second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Triangle would be good

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By *lemfandangoMan
over a year ago

Wapping

All I can think is that you’re doing wrong. A 69 is amazing wether you’re on top or the bottom. Can’t get enough of it.


"Am I alone here in thinking that while nice for a short while or for the visual of it.. that a 69 is a bit neither here nor there for oral.

Neither party can lay back and relax and enjoy... and its not always the most comfortable position either and if there is a difference in height it can become difficult to reach properly.

Views.. thoughts "

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By *andM25Couple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

I love it, especially on top, I love sitting on my hubby's face and as a bonus it gives the perfect angle for a good deepthroat

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By *lasterman2000Man
over a year ago

Skipton

I absolutely love it! In whatever position it happens... something very carnal about it

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I enjoy having a 69, it’s the ultimate in intimate contact between two people! It is easier if you are of a similar height though.....

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Surprised some don't like 69s! Giving and receiving at the same time To have simultaneous orgasms is amazing!"

I can’t remember ever having a simultaneous orgasm through a 69, or to be fair, actually cumming myself this way, as I rarely cum through oral, but I’ve definitely taken women to orgasm while in 69. It’s a great way to play, and build the excitement before ‘the main event’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always get super turned on when giving oral so in a 69 my orgasm is very intense. Always happy to focus on the lady afterwards to ensure she is happy. Maybe the guys just get more out of a 69.

Yes they do, they get more out of receiving oral because few men can give oral correctly. "

And all women are great at giving blow jobs? Seems like you've had some bad experiences but tarring every guy with the same brush is a bit harsh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not into 69's at all, don't find them comfortable or that pleasurable too ne honest

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By *rthur WrightusMan
over a year ago

Round the Bend

Ah 69 ! Used to be casually referred to a as 'a meal for two with a terrible view' !!

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By *nooshWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Am I alone here in thinking that while nice for a short while or for the visual of it.. that a 69 is a bit neither here nor there for oral.

Neither party can lay back and relax and enjoy... and its not always the most comfortable position either and if there is a difference in height it can become difficult to reach properly.

Views.. thoughts "

I like to concentrate on giving or receiving, I totally agree with you. No issue with it for a little bit but not the be all and end all. And sometimes it's a challenge to get the right angle!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I always get super turned on when giving oral so in a 69 my orgasm is very intense. Always happy to focus on the lady afterwards to ensure she is happy. Maybe the guys just get more out of a 69.

Yes they do, they get more out of receiving oral because few men can give oral correctly.

And all women are great at giving blow jobs? Seems like you've had some bad experiences but tarring every guy with the same brush is a bit harsh!"

I’m allowed to have an opinion whether you like it or not.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

1, my boobs get in the way

2, I worry that I might fart

3, I worry that they might fart

4, I worry that my hair looks a mess

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

Didn't realise many were still doing this.

It's been a few years but normally I'd prefer to see the pleasure I'm giving when I look up.

One thing at a time. There's plenty more time to play

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Surprised some don't like 69s! Giving and receiving at the same time To have simultaneous orgasms is amazing!

I can’t remember ever having a simultaneous orgasm through a 69, or to be fair, actually cumming myself this way, as I rarely cum through oral, but I’ve definitely taken women to orgasm while in 69. It’s a great way to play, and build the excitement before ‘the main event’ "

We've only managed simultaneous a couple of times. Last time we missed it by about 2 minutes. Very very satisfying though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a bit like a washer/drier. Can’t do both effectively, need to have separate applications.

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon


"It’s a bit like a washer/drier. Can’t do both effectively, need to have separate applications."

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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You're not alone. It's not just the concentration aspect for me (one of us won't be able to focus at least!), it's also because a big part of the enjoyment I get from giving someone oral sex is their reaction - seeing their look on the face, hearing all those sexy moans and gasps and pants and grunts. You don't really get the full effect of their response to you if you're 69ing, you can sort of based on them stopping what they're doing or the muffled groans of pleasure but not for me. Give me a man who I can watch enjoying every little thing I'm doing to him, rather than one who is muffled by quim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always get super turned on when giving oral so in a 69 my orgasm is very intense. Always happy to focus on the lady afterwards to ensure she is happy. Maybe the guys just get more out of a 69.

Yes they do, they get more out of receiving oral because few men can give oral correctly.

And all women are great at giving blow jobs? Seems like you've had some bad experiences but tarring every guy with the same brush is a bit harsh!

I’m allowed to have an opinion whether you like it or not. "

You are indeed entitled to your opinion.... not sure "few men can give oral correctly" is able to be backed up with scientific evidence though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My (P) all time favourite position! Not much better than being able to tease and taste T while I'm in her mouth. The feeling whiles she's cumming and I'm deep in her mouth is indescribable

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I always get super turned on when giving oral so in a 69 my orgasm is very intense. Always happy to focus on the lady afterwards to ensure she is happy. Maybe the guys just get more out of a 69.

Yes they do, they get more out of receiving oral because few men can give oral correctly.

And all women are great at giving blow jobs? Seems like you've had some bad experiences but tarring every guy with the same brush is a bit harsh!

I’m allowed to have an opinion whether you like it or not.

You are indeed entitled to your opinion.... not sure "few men can give oral correctly" is able to be backed up with scientific evidence though. "

As I said previously which I will remind you of, I am allowed to have an opinion and it’s from my experience and I have the evidence to back it up. Enjoy the rest of your evening.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Massive fans and something we do 90% of the time we have sex, to completion for both also . A good sex session to follow is in order.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Surprised some don't like 69s! Giving and receiving at the same time To have simultaneous orgasms is amazing!

I can’t remember ever having a simultaneous orgasm through a 69, or to be fair, actually cumming myself this way, as I rarely cum through oral, but I’ve definitely taken women to orgasm while in 69. It’s a great way to play, and build the excitement before ‘the main event’

We've only managed simultaneous a couple of times. Last time we missed it by about 2 minutes. Very very satisfying though "

Sounds fantastic, and glad you both enjoyed! I think my issue is I just love fucking a pussy right after she’s had an orgasm (ie, from my tongue), and either I haven’t met enough women determined to give me oral pleasure to completion, or I just don’t have the ‘hair trigger’ many men appear to have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are doing it on here good your dick should be like a limp themometer in her mouth anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

69 is fabulous with two women

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By *heshireguy69Man
over a year ago

saddleworth

I love a 69 but not for too long as I tend to loose concentration of what I’m doing

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