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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One for the guys or maybe even the girls.

More frequently I'm receiving replies to my emails. With a " I'm just on my way out and will reply later " or " I'm just putting the kid to bed and will reply later". This seems to be a polite way of replying to your message with no further contact coming.

The message is never deleted so you're left in a kind of limbo. And at what point in time do you delete your sent message.

I don't know lol

Answers on a postcard please.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Always assume it's a polite no thanks until proven otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the guys or maybe even the girls.

More frequently I'm receiving replies to my emails. With a " I'm just on my way out and will reply later " or " I'm just putting the kid to bed and will reply later". This seems to be a polite way of replying to your message with no further contact coming.

The message is never deleted so you're left in a kind of limbo. And at what point in time do you delete your sent message.

I don't know lol

Answers on a postcard please."

When I don't have time to reply I just mark the message unread. Don't want to assume anything with regards to the intentions of these women but I would just delete buddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face it, you are just another random internet guy, out of thousands of random internet guys, they've probably forgotten about you or simply don't care

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Face it, you are just another random internet guy, out of thousands of random internet guys, they've probably forgotten about you or simply don't care"

Cheer him up, why not

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

There's no need to look at your sent messages, if you are expecting replies you will just be playing your own mind game.

Either delete them once a day without even looking at them, or just forget about them totally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of a reply as bonus, as your lucky if your message is even read. If something comes back, and comes of it, happy days.

Deleting a message from your sent items doesn't delete from the recipients inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete your message as soon as you have sent it, instead of torturing yourself

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Seems like a polite no but given how things are and the period coming to Christmas lockdown no many shops open its tricky but also depends how often your hearing this because people still have time if they still have time to be on here and reply this should answer your questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple of simple rules...

If it’s clear they have read our profile but we are not interested, I will always reply with a “thanks but no thanks”

If it’s clear they have not read our profile, I just delete and block.

If we message anyone and they read the message but fail to give a clear answer, we normally leave it a few days. Then delete and block.

We find it just saves a lot of hanging about waiting !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Face it, you are just another random internet guy, out of thousands of random internet guys, they've probably forgotten about you or simply don't care

Cheer him up, why not "

Hey don't fret. I'm a seasoned travelier in these parts and I know how it works lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Delete your message as soon as you have sent it, instead of torturing yourself !

-)"

Does that not seem a little rude though? If in going to read a message you see its already deleted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Delete your message as soon as you have sent it, instead of torturing yourself !

-)

Does that not seem a little rude though? If in going to read a message you see its already deleted? "

I wouldn't know if it was... It doesn't show in your inbox, does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Delete your message as soon as you have sent it, instead of torturing yourself !

-)

Does that not seem a little rude though? If in going to read a message you see its already deleted? "

I posted a thread about this few weeks ago asking could/should you send a 2nd message to someone who had opened message but not deleted or replied.....wow the response i got was . . .not abusive but told me.....dont lol

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

The best way to deal with messages is fire and forget. Don’t assume or expect a reply, even on e conversation happens.

It saves a lot of disappointment if you just expect nothing and get something instead.

Don't be a pest and send follow up messages if they don’t reply ir delete your messages.

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