FabSwingers.com forum: Abuse

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any other women get serious abuse if they delete a message ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any other women get serious abuse if they delete a message ?"

Happens all the time. Might as well just block if you’re not interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah think I will have to just block them all just didn’t think it would be that bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to get the serious abuse in the first message I'm deleting

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes, it happens

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By *awandBareWoman
over a year ago

Oxford

Yeah even though my profile says take a deleted message as a no thank you..... Not that they read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the most commun post in forum!

Rejection or ignoring message send men to a road rage syndrome lol!

It’s not only here but other sites too, because some boys think women subscribe to site like here they would open their legs at every one knocking at their inbox door!

Just keep smiling while you pass the barking dog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my fair share if it as a single fem. They think because we girls are on here they are guaranteed a shag i just block the dickheads.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Always report abusive messages please.

I find it easier and friendlier to leave my message filters on and hunt for myself

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

I’ve had my fair share of abuse or snidy comments from all (it’s not just men that do it). Unfortunately that’s the state of fab there are far to many on here that think this is an instashag site.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Not so much these days. My filters are pretty tight. And I’m old so the men I chat to are older, seems to be less abuse among the over 50’s

I did get two barrels though a week ago. Proper vitriol. I said “well as you’re so upset and insistent I’ll change my mind”. He actually did a 360 snd was nice again

You have to wonder about people.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block rather than delete as it’s so much easier and once you get used to forgetting and moving on then your fab journey flows better imho.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

You get a thick skin on here. Don't feel pressured into any thing you're not comfortable with

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’ve got to the point of blocking anyone I disagree with on the forums, especially if it gets a bit personal. I generally get a message during the exchange, so makes sense and keep it to the thread.

It has appeared to be getting worse recently though

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By *argoyleMan
over a year ago

dudley

seems to me that the guys who throw a hissy fit when you delete their message are guys you wouldn't want to meet anyway. So it seems you made the right choice in the first place. That's what the "block" button is for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got abuse for refusing to meet and do bareback! Then they block you. People do this to feel powerful because they are weak.

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By *ower Couple - NorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Watton

"Any other women get serious abuse if they delete a message ?"

We sincerely hope not, it is not acceptable in any space. Report them

We guess it is harder to manage the volumes of messages, but we do find it rude to be ignored

Manners make the man, as they say

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By *ower Couple - NorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Watton

"I tend to get the serious abuse in the first message I'm deleting

A real shame Cindi, is it just those with narrow minds? Just don’t let them put you off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got abused the other night for my weight! Easy target. And how brave was he as he then blocked us so we couldn't reply. All we had said was no thank you to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending on my mood i like to wind the sad twats up if they send abuse but most send abuse then block because they cant dish it but cant take it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got abuse for deleting a females

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By *ippy_and_millieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Had it once but always let the Mr take care of those messages (laugh)

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By *ippy_and_millieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

What! No laugh face. Haha

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Had it once but always let the Mr take care of those messages (laugh)"

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"What! No laugh face. Haha"

Your welcome

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By *awandBareWoman
over a year ago

Oxford

"Depending on my mood i like to wind the sad twats up if they send abuse but most send abuse then block because they cant dish it but cant take it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s not good! Takes all sorts I suppose?!

Mind you, I was blocked by you as well! And I adore curvy women!

Happy new year all

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Depending on my mood i like to wind the sad twats up if they send abuse but most send abuse then block because they cant dish it but cant take it

Exactly this!

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By *el and jayneMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

People are strange i got blocked by someone yesterday because I didn't reply fast enough lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had abuse and been blocked for not replying quick enough for a particular frequented of the most fabbed pics in which she stated she receives hundreds of messages a day and I should be flattered and honoured to have received a message off her. Works both ways

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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

"Any other women get serious abuse if they delete a message ?"

Yep, even from a polite no sometimes

Hope there isn't a limit to how many people you can block

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

"I got abuse for refusing to meet and do bareback! Then they block you. People do this to feel powerful because they are weak. "

We’re pretty local, so probably contacted by the same couples..

And they always have safe sex only on the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give up with messaging on fab it's not worth the effort. I read the profiles and sent a nice message if I am intrested.

Seems like the Genuine, nice and thoughtful messages get lost with al the dick pics and fancy a fuck messages.

I have plenty of nice pics and veris from people I have met at the clubs. Have a few FWB now too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got abused the other night for my weight! Easy target. And how brave was he as he then blocked us so we couldn't reply. All we had said was no thank you to him "

Only just realised, I didn’t quote you guys!! Anyway, sorry you got abuse, there are some pretty grim people on here. Hope you find some wheat in the chaff!

Stay nice people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've just posted our latest abusive message from a single male. T turned him down as he contradicted his profile and went from a well written profile to txt speak in about 2 sentences. T replied, blocked him and he sent a message from a hidden couples profile. It's our latest pic if anyone fancies a read......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've just posted our latest abusive message from a single male. T turned him down as he contradicted his profile and went from a well written profile to txt speak in about 2 sentences. T replied, blocked him and he sent a message from a hidden couples profile. It's our latest pic if anyone fancies a read......"

What a douche bag, I just read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What bothers me is that if he's that viscious by email, what would he be like if he got turned down at a meet? I don't have to worry as I'm huge and not to be messed with, but he could be meeting a normal sized person, a single fem, anyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What bothers me is that if he's that viscious by email, what would he be like if he got turned down at a meet? I don't have to worry as I'm huge and not to be messed with, but he could be meeting a normal sized person, a single fem, anyone! "

I couldn't see it but this exactly. Outing themselves as a card carrying nutter is surely not going to go well for them

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Hey, not only women.

I had a torrid abuse and still have echoes even now three years later.

Odd the both side of a stick are not often exposed.

Still, I know who is in the happy place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, don't let them get to you, just block them x

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

I wouldn't even give the sad pricks a second of ur time sweetheart x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey, not only women.

I had a torrid abuse and still have echoes even now three years later.

Odd the both side of a stick are not often exposed.

Still, I know who is in the happy place."

I've had a bit but usually seems to be send abuse and block before I get a chance to block them. It's been men every time usually after saying politely that I'm not into guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any other women get serious abuse if they delete a message ?"

I don’t send any abuse whatsoever as I’ve learnt that if my message is not read and or deleted what that means but in my opinion it would be nicer to get a “no thanks” or something

However I also know women are inundated with messages so not always possible to reply

But to finish I don’t think it’s appropriate for anyone to receive abuse regardless of the reason, it’s uncalled for and definitely worthy of the block button

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

It’s their childish response to anyone just not being interested in them.

I prefer to move along with my head held high??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to all on here that has to put up and go through all the rude fucking dickheads that that have no manners or respect towards you lady’s on here..

I’ve never done anything like this before and find it totally disgusting behaviour..

I’m oll school... polite, manners and nice to fellow fabbers . Not interested not the end of the world is it...

Next time this happeneds ask them would you like a man to go say that to your mum.. see what they say...

But does being polite get you anywhere on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depending on my mood i like to wind the sad twats up if they send abuse but most send abuse then block because they cant dish it but cant take it

My sentiments and actions exactly

give them a taste of their own medicine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had lots of abusive messages I find them funny some are really creative they are like water off a ducks back to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv had lots of abusive messages I find them funny some are really creative they are like water off a ducks back to me "

Good glad to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was about to post similar.

Didn't reply to 3 messages, so then sent

"not interested

Good luck"

Told I'm stuck up.

Just cos I didn't swoon over it, it is an it as most have manners.

Then becomes a rant.

#keepingmyrantyprofile.

It's called standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply to messages, even if it’s a quick thanks but no thanks.

Easy for me as I don’t get a huge volume! I guess it’s hard for those that get hundreds!! Shame there’s not a quick reply button?

Anyway, stay sexy people, don’t let the idiots and freaks ruin it for the rest of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any other women get serious abuse if they delete a message ?"

Yep. Common thing unfortunately. Report and block. Admin do their best

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