FabSwingers.com forum: Young Lad

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your profile header. "Fun" is too common a word on here

Do something like "adventures required, apply within" etc

Your profile header is the 2nd thing people notice (your profile pic being the first)

Your pics are ok

Need more profile information.

Think of it as a CV.

Sell yourself, make it appealing, sexy, funny etc

Good luck

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey guys hope your all doing well, was just wondering if i could get some feedback on my profile haha any help is much appreciated

It is one sentence long.

Is that the best that you can do???

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's not great but not a bad start. Your profile needs to sell you, most especially because there's incredible competition here from the thousands of single guys on the site.

Get each component of it to sell you. Don't emphasise what doesn't need it - it's wasted effort and, as people have limited time to spend on tons of profiles to view, anything that doesn't keep them glued, could be the reason they give up.

Your personal stats are listed, so including comments about being a young lad etc, is probably superfluous.

The main text has to sell you. Consider that viewers will ideally know what you have that's great for them, once they read it. You won't be for everybody but you need to let those that you could be a match for, that you are.

You'll need to reflect on what makes you great, that people want to know.

Your photos need to be great. Viewers ideally can imagine how you'd physically seem if they were with you - they then find it easy to decide if they'd fancy that. They're not very good at present. Have bright, clear pics where you're not really distant from the camera. Needing to squint etc, is also a reason to give up. A smile is very inviting and makes you feel warmer. Take tons of pics, settling just for the best. Consider having someone else take some, so you're relaxed - you'll get variety to pick from.

Take a look at a lot of guys profiles. Check the range of pics in use and how well - or not - they sell themselves.

Ultimately it's the results that you get that matter. Experiment and continue to work on it.

As the virus is here, people aren't meeting, so things are going to seem slow and like it's not going great. It takes tenacity and hard work to make a mark. Good luck!