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Drinking before a meet

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By *lim and louise OP   Couple
over a year ago

dromore

How many women on here,take a drink or 3,of the hard stuff before a meet,Louise my other half on our last meet said she wanted a drink before hand,me not knowing they were a couple of large vodkas,and this is before we were meeting a friend we knew not a complete stranger,

She loves meeting different men,as she puts it fab is like a sweet shop for a kid,so many to choose ,but which one

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By *inna and SaintCouple
over a year ago

Sherbourne

Never found it necessary myself. But a drop of dutcg courage wont hurt if one is tense and on edge.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"How many women on here,take a drink or 3,of the hard stuff before a meet,Louise my other half on our last meet said she wanted a drink before hand,me not knowing they were a couple of large vodkas,and this is before we were meeting a friend we knew not a complete stranger,

She loves meeting different men,as she puts it fab is like a sweet shop for a kid,so many to choose ,but which one "

Never felt the need - alcohol impairs your judgement reduces your ability to consent and makes you more vulnerable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely like a bit of dutch courage before new meets

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I enjoy a drink before a meet but not too much.

We met a woman once who drank at least 12 vodkas during our social.

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By *iberty RedWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Being a single woman never on a first social meet, like to be clear headed.

Like the butterflies & anticipation too.

On subsequent meets maybe but not to the point of being d*unk.

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By *ebel Red HotWoman
over a year ago

York

I tend not to I prefer to be sober and clear headed and like people I meet to be the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it helps maybe but it’s wise not to. As long you are not paraplegic at the meeting lol!

I had play with two who liked to do it while d*unk but it was more for a kinky kind of play which I can’t say it on here

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I very very very rarely drink on meets. Never with a new person.

Never at clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never have alcohol until i get to know someone better...not a wise thing to do i like to keep a clear head and safe at all times.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never done that I don’t mind a drink during a meet not before though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate playing catch up as I always fly way over, I like to be on equal terms. However extroverts as myself already have a headstart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like a drink and laugh , not into just meeting and getting straight to business ..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There's a huge difference between a glass of wine sipped over the course of an hour or two and winding a bottle down your neck in thirty minutes.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Not for me. Dulls sensations

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By *imandHer9396Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

I very rarely get a chance to have a drink so I treat a meet like a social night, and enjoy a glass of wine while we chat.

Husband drinks maybe 4 times a year so tends to stay sober, so I don't mind having a drink or maybe two, because I know I'll be safe. Meeting on my own though I tend to stick to a small over an hour or so

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

Drink

"it provokes the desire but it takes away the performance

More alcohol means less aware

Less aware means less consent.

D*unk means NO consent.

A fine line to assess. Best way is to consider

Can't legally drive through drink? shouldn't be doing anything else with a stranger...

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By *tickyPollCouple
over a year ago

Dartford


"We like a drink and laugh , not into just meeting and getting straight to business .."

??

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Nope. As a single woman it’s not safe.

Made the mistake of drinking at a club once, never again.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Never drink before or during a meet.

I need to maintain control, otherwise the risks associated with some of what we do are increased for no benefit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won’t play with anyone who is under the influence, I can understand one or two. But if they are a little tipsy then it’s a no from me.

Understand that everyone is different but it’s one of my lines in the sand

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By *appy but hornyMan
over a year ago

wakefield

at quest in Leeds my mrs would do 2 bottles of wine before play

each to their own but it suited us

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No never x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Drink actually lowers my sex drive, really can’t finish if I’m having sex with someone. Admittedly that’s great for my partner but often leaves me fairly flustered afterwards. Although next morning I’m really randy

On a serious note, I won’t entertain anyone who turned up full of the drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes its nice to have few drinks and just see how it goes

Especially if its a social, just have a good time you know, can always meet for a play again sometime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"at quest in Leeds my mrs would do 2 bottles of wine before play

each to their own but it suited us"

Jeezus! I wouldn't be able to stand let alone fuck after 2 bottles of plonk

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def a large glass of wine or 3 xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social drink in a club but I'm normally driving.

I always offer alcohol to guests at home but very few take it. Not sure if I attract tee total couples, or if they are terrified of being slipped something!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many women on here,take a drink or 3,of the hard stuff before a meet,Louise my other half on our last meet said she wanted a drink before hand,me not knowing they were a couple of large vodkas,and this is before we were meeting a friend we knew not a complete stranger,

She loves meeting different men,as she puts it fab is like a sweet shop for a kid,so many to choose ,but which one "

Dunno, but the need for a stiff drink doesn't sound entirely consistent with the professed enthusiasm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a drink or two...never enough to be d*unk when meeting someone tho

Lu

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. I don't drink where sex is possible when I'm not 110% sure I'll be safe (usually that means I'm in a club, where I'll have backup)

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Legally if you are too d*unk you cannot consent as you are impaired!

I will only drink if I am with my dom or a trusted friend but even then only a couple as I want to keep a clear head and stay safe

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By *adlad65Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

I would rather turn a lady away if I thought she had been drinking.... If drink is required for Dutch courage then sorry, not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve seen women ( and guys ) in clubs completely hammered and unable to talk let alone play

Crappy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A glass of wine while we chat and socialise, but never more than that. But neither of us would if we were to meet alone

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By *olmeguyMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

dont drink no more

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By *lim and louise OP   Couple
over a year ago

dromore

Hi she's shy more than anything else,and self concuss of her body is

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By *lim and louise OP   Couple
over a year ago

dromore

Just as well I'm there as driver and a extra no means no then

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By *lim and louise OP   Couple
over a year ago

dromore

That's how we usually meet ,but the last meet she had a couple of large vodkas,I was just thinking now ,what do other men think would they be put off by someone who's about more than merry,not legless

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By *lim and louise OP   Couple
over a year ago

dromore

That's true,Louise is shy,normally she lets me do the talking,I'd rather let her chat away,I'm just the driver on meets

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By *lim and louise OP   Couple
over a year ago

dromore

She's always with me on meets ,I just wondered how many women on here take a drink before or during a meet

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By *asycouple777Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Like a few drinks as part of social but not to many

One time my wife and another girl were in female glory at xstasia both Being fucked

Other girl was sick as to much alchohol

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I don't like to play with or around people that have been drinking...the only exception being having a couple over the course of a social evening/dinner with a trusted friend. It's one of the main reasons why I'm not keen on clubs (or at least the ones that I've been to), too many people that have been drinking.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"She's always with me on meets ,I just wondered how many women on here take a drink before or during a meet"

I male don’t drink but wife do and she allways has a drink before a meet to help with nerves

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By *ittykat94Woman
over a year ago

Gatwick

I'd definitely have a drink or few for a social, especially if I know the area and I'm not driving back!

Possibly a drink if I'm playing but more often than not I won't bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many women on here,take a drink or 3,of the hard stuff before a meet,Louise my other half on our last meet said she wanted a drink before hand,me not knowing they were a couple of large vodkas,and this is before we were meeting a friend we knew not a complete stranger,

She loves meeting different men,as she puts it fab is like a sweet shop for a kid,so many to choose ,but which one "

I don’t drink and don’t meet apart from in a social capacity but my wife likes a couple of glasses of red beforehand and any more than that is dangerous territory for the chap we are meeting.

Once in Hong Kong after a meal and a few drinks she wanted to take on half of the American Navy that were ashore at the time bless her.

Shy church mouse sober and devil slut d*unk.

T

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