FabSwingers.com forum: Too young ??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What are your opinions ? Too young looking or short profile etc

Just having a hard time

Any feed back cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing maybe you is most on here have children older than you.

Lots find it a bit weird to play with people young enough to be their kids

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

I've been in the same boat for years, most here seem to want 30+ at least. Only advice I have is to just get older sadly.

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Too young looking??

What d'you look like cos your open pic is your cock.

Too short profile?

Yes, very.

Here to chat?

Thats an afterthought to your very short profile.

You know what you want?

No one else does cos you haven't told anyone.

More work needed, much more work.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

You have only been here for 8 weeks at a time when meeting is not on the cards. many if not most people here are not meeting at present.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger than most are looking for, also no profile pic and just one pic on profile which is just average... Spice up your profile a bit OP and it will certainly help... Your profile at the minute really isn't showing off what you've got to offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open your profile to be faced with a pic of a cock. That’s enough to get you a delete from me.

No other pics.

Silhouette avatar.

You say you know what you want...... is it a secret?

You mention you might be interested in bdsm.... that’s it. Sum total of your profile.

You’re very young too and it’s a pandemic.

Good luck!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Your profile is pretty threadbare. You don't even have an avatar. That's you ignored by many people before you even get started.

What do you write in a message when you first approach somebody. Many people demolish their chances there even if they have a good profile. Can you give us an example of an opening message from you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well firstly i introduce myself explain im a young lad i am truthful and explain i dont have an awful lot of experience but i am open to trying new things and want to try anything at least oncr

I advise i do have pictures and alwsys send at least 2 face pics also i realose a cock pic is not always appreciated in the first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need a picture instead of that black silhouette

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Whst about my pics now ?

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Whst about my pics now ? "

Are you being serious ?

One pic of your cock and that's it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whst about my pics now ? "

There are set to friends only, so we can't see them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Whst about my pics now ?

Are you being serious ?

One pic of your cock and that's it.

Oops sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Should be set open now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To young for us but hope you enjoy your journey on here.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

You are JUST over my min Age for people i would consider meeting. As has already been said given what is going on all around us looking for meets at the moment is not the way to persuade older players that you are mature for your age.

Work on your profile short is fine if it says enough. Photos need to be more creative. I like a good body shot not just your cock. A butt photo is always appreciated to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should be set open now

They are the same pics as yesterday

Your new pics are still friends only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had someone around your age message me this morning saying I should go for younger because they are more dominant, produce better offspring and are better at sex.

I told him I was sticking with the oldies for now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had someone around your age message me this morning saying I should go for younger because they are more dominant, produce better offspring and are better at sex.

I told him I was sticking with the oldies for now

Hopefully that one person doesnt ruin for everyone else ljke in so many cases they do :/

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think a lot of people ignore messages from profiles with the black silhouette avatar rather than a profile pic. Would you consider adding one?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think a lot of people ignore messages from profiles with the black silhouette avatar rather than a profile pic. Would you consider adding one? "

Yes thibking of taking a pic today and uploading face pic

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It doesn't have to be face pic. Any pic is better than a silhouette

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

I’d echo what others have said about the black avatar picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More work needed, much more work.

Sounds like the last line of one of my old school reports...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d add a variety of photos be creative get peoples attention leave things to the imagination... Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your newest photo is good

Stylish, teasing, it's good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your newest photo is good

Stylish, teasing, it's good

Thanks

a few tips from here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your newest photo is good

Stylish, teasing, it's good

Thanks

a few tips from here lol

Another tip, don't have a cock pic as your avatar

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Sorry but just too young. You could be young enough to be my son, and that would feel weird and wrong. Sorry

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

You may be too young for some people, but fab isn't just lots of older people. You're firmly within my age range (out with my distance) I'd recommend clubs once they are back open, and also maybe just search for people in their 20's. Thousands of us here, people normally have a bit on their profile for age range so stick to that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the tips and advice everyone

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why have you chosen a cock for your avatar rather than your new "stylish and teasing" one ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have now chnaged lol

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"I have now chnaged lol

Another tip fella, don’t send a plethora of dick pics with your messages either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very young looking and naff pics.

Sorry but you did ask

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Very young looking and naff pics.

Sorry but you did ask

Please explain by naff pics feedback oopen cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very young looking and naff pics.

Sorry but you did ask

Please explain by naff pics feedback oopen cheers

Naff sounded bitchy...sorry

Experiment a wee bit with different clothes, angles, b&w. ...just to try and make them look a wee bit more interesting.

IMHO too many guys pics on here look like they were taken when the Mrs/their GF/ their Mum (!) nipped out for 5 mins.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Very young looking and naff pics.

Sorry but you did ask

Please explain by naff pics feedback oopen cheers

Naff sounded bitchy...sorry

Wasnt bitchy thanks for honesr feedback will experiment and upload interesring pics

Experiment a wee bit with different clothes, angles, b&w. ...just to try and make them look a wee bit more interesting.

IMHO too many guys pics on here look like they were taken when the Mrs/their GF/ their Mum (!) nipped out for 5 mins."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One thing maybe you is most on here have children older than you.

Lots find it a bit weird to play with people young enough to be their kids "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I understand thst completely i get that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One thing maybe you is most on here have children older than you.

Lots find it a bit weird to play with people young enough to be their kids

Exactly this

Tiana you are gorgeous.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Well firstly i introduce myself explain im a young lad i am truthful and explain i dont have an awful lot of experience but i am open to trying new things and want to try anything at least oncr

I advise i do have pictures and alwsys send at least 2 face pics also i realose a cock pic is not always appreciated in the first message"

OK, so that's stuff about you. What do you say regarding them? Do you say what's attracted you to their profile? Do you say how you meet what they are looking for?

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"I had someone around your age message me this morning saying I should go for younger because they are more dominant, produce better offspring and are better at sex.

I told him I was sticking with the oldies for now

Hopefully that one person doesnt ruin for everyone else ljke in so many cases they do :/ "

That's not really true though as folks on here ruin it for themselves, not you. The better your profile and pics are, the more you stand out from the other guys with profiles like yours. Effort in equals rewards out. For us, your age is irrelevant but your profile and pics are.

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