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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I got a message from a lady we chatted a little

Then she said I know you and I’m going to tell your wife and kids and ruin your life

Wtf how out of order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 08/12/20 13:38:07]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you exchange pictures?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately some people are savage malicious arseholes.

Somewhat puzzling, if they’re on a swingers website.

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

If your wife doesnt know then yeah its totally out of order that youve been meeting strangers on a swinging site for over a year

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley


"I got a message from a lady we chatted a little

Then she said I know you and I’m going to tell your wife and kids and ruin your life

Wtf how out of order "

Quiety remind her, would her friends and family be ok, with her being on a swinger site. If she sent pics or risky txts, she could be in as much trouble as you.

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By *iscreet-is-paramountMan
over a year ago

travel around a lot.

Likely a fake profile .

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By *0shadesOfFilthMan
over a year ago

nearby

So you’ve banging 12 people behind her back

Good luck mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Likely a fake profile ."

Could be his wife....

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

i rejected a guy from here. he plastered my pics on fb hoping to humiliate me into meeting. i had him tracked down at a family bbq where i think he was warned but after 3 times was arrested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your wife doesnt know then yeah its totally out of order that youve been meeting strangers on a swinging site for over a year "

Exactly this it’s hard to take the moral high ground when you’ve been outed as a cheat!

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Totally out of order. Did she send you that message on here? Report it. Not sure how much good it'll do, but people like her shouldn't be on this site.

I'll leave the moral high ground to other fabbers, since it's not my business whether you should be cheating or not x

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"I got a message from a lady we chatted a little

Then she said I know you and I’m going to tell your wife and kids and ruin your life

Wtf how out of order "

... you reap what you sew.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Totally out of order. Did she send you that message on here? Report it. Not sure how much good it'll do, but people like her shouldn't be on this site.

I'll leave the moral high ground to other fabbers, since it's not my business whether you should be cheating or not x"

Why Shouldn’t people with morals and standards be in the site? Suppose the woman was a good friend of the wife and knew she wouldn’t want a cheating scum bag in her life any longer.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"I got a message from a lady we chatted a little

Then she said I know you and I’m going to tell your wife and kids and ruin your life

Wtf how out of order

Quiety remind her, would her friends and family be ok, with her being on a swinger site. If she sent pics or risky txts, she could be in as much trouble as you. "

He’s a cheat .. I doubt it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always warn men who are playing away not to send face photos to anyone on here. You have no idea who the person behind the profile is.

It's not a risk worth taking.

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

To be honest if I came across a friend's husband on here I would tell that friend too.

If you're going to be on here and not tell your partner you have to be prepared for the risk of someone recognising you and telling your partner....

...or maybe show some respect to your partner and tell them yourself.

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton


"So you’ve banging 12 people behind her back

Good luck mate"

Hahaha tad pissed off you’v been rumbled doing the dirty on your family??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You play with fire then eventually you will get burnt.

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By *otstuffbabeCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I got a message from a lady we chatted a little

Then she said I know you and I’m going to tell your wife and kids and ruin your life

Wtf how out of order "

Brilliant - oh the irony! What are you pissed off at? That you've been found out or that you patently won't be able to meet this woman? I feel sorry for your wife & kids tho.

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By *oetic licenceCouple
over a year ago

Matlock

We had the same thing a few years ago. Still have no idea who it was

Nothing happened, they said nothing, but why do that? Somme horrible people out there. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol both are out of order!

Although, it reminds me of the wife's best friend finding me on a site.

She agonised for days about telling her. When she did, she was expecting tears and fireworks lol.

Not for her to tell her she knew all about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve threatened to tell someone’s wife before. But he was a balls to the wall nutter and frankly frightened crap out of me so he deserved it

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

You buy the ticket, take the ride. Never gamble what you can’t afford to lose. Not nice but payback can be a bitch.

Ed

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Report the profile to Admin. Consider what you are doing and how you can support your partner and family

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"I got a message from a lady we chatted a little

Then she said I know you and I’m going to tell your wife and kids and ruin your life

Wtf how out of order

Quiety remind her, would her friends and family be ok, with her being on a swinger site. If she sent pics or risky txts, she could be in as much trouble as you. "

I think sharing images and texts is unlawful now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actions have consequences op , though I would also point this out to the person as well if you find out who they are / know who they are .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the other hand bl*** male is a nasty and very serious crime. He may be out of order

with his wife but he is not breaking the criminal code

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By *dventurous fellaMan
over a year ago

where


"Totally out of order. Did she send you that message on here? Report it. Not sure how much good it'll do, but people like her shouldn't be on this site.

I'll leave the moral high ground to other fabbers, since it's not my business whether you should be cheating or not x"

this !

Each to their own people! You’ll never know the ins abs outs and the reasons why.

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall


"i rejected a guy from here. he plastered my pics on fb hoping to humiliate me into meeting. i had him tracked down at a family bbq where i think he was warned but after 3 times was arrested"

Are you the female Liam Neeson from taken, I tracked him down

No one should be pressured or exposed. Some are more open about their antic than other and we should respect everyone's choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the other hand bl*** male is a nasty and very serious crime. He may be out of order

with his wife but he is not breaking the criminal code"

She isn't b**** mailing him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol both are out of order!

Although, it reminds me of the wife's best friend finding me on a site.

She agonised for days about telling her. When she did, she was expecting tears and fireworks lol.

Not for her to tell her she knew all about it!

"

If my best friend found out my partner was on a sex site I'd want her to tell me too. She didn't know it was agreed between you.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"If your wife doesnt know then yeah its totally out of order that youve been meeting strangers on a swinging site for over a year "

our thought exactly

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By *inna and SaintCouple
over a year ago

Sherbourne

There are 2 sides to this.

Personally, I hold no store by marriage. Its a ridiculous institution.

However, if you decide to play away without your partners knowledge then you... by implication... accept that you may be outed or discovered by many different ways including but not limited to someone spilling the beans.

If you are on a site like this, you will be aware (unless you are stoopid) that there will be people who are playing away. They may have sexual deviances that nobody else knows of.

If that bugs you... then say so on your profile and dont engage with someone.

If you do speak to someone, make it a primary question and depending on the reply, be a f****g grown up and move on if it isnt where you want to go.

You are hardly a saint by being on a faunication and to some degree or other, a kink sex site too.

Let he who is free from sin casteth the first stone so a high moral attitude isnt something to bring to this party. If you have morals that will be offended then say so. Its SIMPLE.

My partner is aware but she doesnt advertise our kink/swing relationship to anyone for several reasons.

We are happy to ask if the people we engage with are married or not. We dont have an issue if they are... but we like to be aware and can make an informed decision to go ahead or decline like adults.

All sorts of kinks are accomodated on this site. Do you blab if someone likes anal and you think its against your religious or moral standards. What about skatt or pegging or ..... its a huge list.

My partner is aware. She has my total support if she wishes to go it alone. She has my support if she wishes to tell me or not.

FFS grow up and stop pi55ing about. Seriously.... tell your friend you seen X on a swing/kink site. Probably not the thing you told all and sundry about so you aint no bl00dy saint to start with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a message from a lady we chatted a little

Then she said I know you and I’m going to tell your wife and kids and ruin your life

Wtf how out of order "

Are you cheating? ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Report the profile op, admin take a dim view of threats to out people whatever the circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Report the profile op, admin take a dim view of threats to out people whatever the circumstances."

Great advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your wife doesnt know then yeah its totally out of order that youve been meeting strangers on a swinging site for over a year "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a message from a lady we chatted a little

Then she said I know you and I’m going to tell your wife and kids and ruin your life

Wtf how out of order "

Don’t worry about a thing Op...

In situations like this the wife always shoots the messenger....

So just remember these three words and you should be okay....

DENY , DENY, DENY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think you will find much sympathy on here, lots of high moral society members. Thinking it’s ok just because their other parts are willing to watch the other one been fucked in front of them?

If you start judging be prepared to be judged one day, nobody is innocent.

For me it’s not my business if you cheat that’s between you and your wife. She will eventually find out one day. But for someone to be prepared ruining another family life is shocking and will she live with herself knowing the children be separate from their dad from leaving apart one week end to another one next , xmas separate etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the plus side you'll probably soon be operating as an actual single male. Swings and roundabouts.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

How did she recognise you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the plus side you'll probably soon be operating as an actual single male. Swings and roundabouts. "

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"I don’t think you will find much sympathy on here, lots of high moral society members. Thinking it’s ok just because their other parts are willing to watch the other one been fucked in front of them?

If you start judging be prepared to be judged one day, nobody is innocent.

For me it’s not my business if you cheat that’s between you and your wife. She will eventually find out one day. But for someone to be prepared ruining another family life is shocking and will she live with herself knowing the children be separate from their dad from leaving apart one week end to another one next , xmas separate etc? "

That’s the man’s fault for cheating surely. No doubt his wife will move on and find someone that won’t cheat and the kids will be happy anyway. I’d be able to live with myself for sure! Living with a husband that is screwing other women must be awful and she deserves to move on from such a scum bag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think you will find much sympathy on here, lots of high moral society members. Thinking it’s ok just because their other parts are willing to watch the other one been fucked in front of them?

If you start judging be prepared to be judged one day, nobody is innocent.

For me it’s not my business if you cheat that’s between you and your wife. She will eventually find out one day. But for someone to be prepared ruining another family life is shocking and will she live with herself knowing the children be separate from their dad from leaving apart one week end to another one next , xmas separate etc?

That’s the man’s fault for cheating surely. No doubt his wife will move on and find someone that won’t cheat and the kids will be happy anyway. I’d be able to live with myself for sure! Living with a husband that is screwing other women must be awful and she deserves to move on from such a scum bag. "

Not sure why you are so angry at him? Do you know them ? Are you the moral police? I guess you been cheat on too.. still not a reason to insult or calling name on the forum

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Op left the site guys. Just a heads up...

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"I got a message from a lady we chatted a little

Then she said I know you and I’m going to tell your wife and kids and ruin your life

Wtf how out of order

Quiety remind her, would her friends and family be ok, with her being on a swinger site. If she sent pics or risky txts, she could be in as much trouble as you. "

Some of us really are that open.

Personally I feel OP reaped what he sewed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol .what were yous chatting about. Where you trying to get a meet. If she tells your wife it's not the end of the world m8. You must except the consequences of getting caught with your pants down when you are playing the game m8

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I don’t think you will find much sympathy on here, lots of high moral society members. Thinking it’s ok just because their other parts are willing to watch the other one been fucked in front of them?

If you start judging be prepared to be judged one day, nobody is innocent.

For me it’s not my business if you cheat that’s between you and your wife. She will eventually find out one day. But for someone to be prepared ruining another family life is shocking and will she live with herself knowing the children be separate from their dad from leaving apart one week end to another one next , xmas separate etc?

That’s the man’s fault for cheating surely. No doubt his wife will move on and find someone that won’t cheat and the kids will be happy anyway. I’d be able to live with myself for sure! Living with a husband that is screwing other women must be awful and she deserves to move on from such a scum bag. "

Not sure anyone here knows enough about the ops circumstances to be quite so judgemental and wish harm on him and his family. Deliberately going out of their way to hurt someone is spiteful and unnecessary.

And always remember. Judge not lest ye be judged.

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