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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't know what it is but it's kind of irritating.

No I'm not talking about just the prospective woman I'm trying to nail (there isn't one )

I think attention to detail goes a long way, people that know me would perhaps describe me as very observant and so I can't be with poor or non existing users

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Third world problems

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

We probably have too long a profile, but I think that’s not a problem.

What annoys me is when someone with a one line profile messages and we ask them to tell us about themselves. They normally reply with two sentences. It’s especially galling when they’ve complimented us on our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the ones that say "woman/couple looking for men/women/couples"

Mine may not be the best but it's truthful and up to date!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing how many "fill in later" female profiles there are on the site. Many have been on here months/years and still haven't had time to "sell themselves". Always described as "athletic" as well.

I think these are the ones I should be targeting for meets.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Easy enough just to pass them by and put you filters on so they can't message if they don't have a profile pic. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel free to read mine if you feel that uoure Missing out on the experience of a complete profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We probably have too long a profile, but I think that’s not a problem.

What annoys me is when someone with a one line profile messages and we ask them to tell us about themselves. They normally reply with two sentences. It’s especially galling when they’ve complimented us on our profile. "

Your profile is extensive, I don't think there's many like that, but no it's definitely not a problem, I think there's a conception that you need to be witty and direct but it just comes across rude mostly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Feel free to read mine if you feel that uoure Missing out on the experience of a complete profile?"

Wow, obviously had some knock backs to be that descriptive! Very good, covered just about all bases

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"I don't know what it is but it's kind of irritating.

No I'm not talking about just the prospective woman I'm trying to nail (there isn't one )

I think attention to detail goes a long way, people that know me would perhaps describe me as very observant and so I can't be with poor or non existing users

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You shouldn't get irritated by it, because that's exactly what makes it work. Just accept that the profile exactly represents the person - a profile that's unappealing to you, will mean the person behind the profile will be equally as unappealing to you.

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"I don't know what it is but it's kind of irritating.

No I'm not talking about just the prospective woman I'm trying to nail (there isn't one )

I think attention to detail goes a long way, people that know me would perhaps describe me as very observant and so I can't be with poor or non existing users

"

I thought the idea of a profile was to describe yourselves and what you are looking for. I'm not sure that can be done in just a few words.

Sometimes I think ours is too long.

Clearly sometimes it's not been read, but that helps our decision making process easier.

E

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in the days when I hadn’t blocked single men from messaging us, if they were being an idiot or not accepting no thanks. I’d asked them for the code work from our profile before we proceeded. And then see how many times they read it before they gave up because it isn’t there.

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"Back in the days when I hadn’t blocked single men from messaging us, if they were being an idiot or not accepting no thanks. I’d asked them for the code work from our profile before we proceeded. And then see how many times they read it before they gave up because it isn’t there. "

Brilliant. I'm sooooooo doing that from now on.

We had one that clearly hasn't read a word of our profile, but sent a friend request anyway.

We have met a lot of people in the past, so it's possible our paths had crossed, so I sent him a message saying "have we met"

The torrent of abuse I got back earnt a report and block, but contained a real nugget that went something like this;

"your profile is too full of rules, got to do this, got to do that, don't do this, don't do that. It's boring. I wouldn't want to meet people like you anyway.

If I'd read your profile I wouldn't have bothered messaging you!!!!!!!"

Key word there chap, "if"

E

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming


"Back in the days when I hadn’t blocked single men from messaging us, if they were being an idiot or not accepting no thanks. I’d asked them for the code work from our profile before we proceeded. And then see how many times they read it before they gave up because it isn’t there. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll be honest. I don’t expect people to read it. It was just nice

To have more than 150 characters to explain to someone that just because I have a penis and They have a hole, doesn’t mean I’ll feel the urge to put it in.

Pro tip to everyone; never ask a (high functioning) autistic guy why they won’t meet, hookup, sex or whatever (a technique to make people people fee awkward and more likely to say yes. Called gaslighting I think. Can be either unconsciously or consciously done) unless you’re prepared to have he actual answer.

“Your face lotus me off to the extent that my penis won’t get hard and that kinda important”.

And another pro type. Don’t ask a “are you saying I’m ugly?” Question.

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By *ebel Red HotWoman
over a year ago

York

There are lots of people with a one or two line and some even with a zero profile out there and its their choice, but it dose hint at a boring person with little to say about themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And humour. So many lack it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those will no info or say “will fill in later” simply aren’t worth the effort. Then you move to the profiles with too much detail... paragraph after paragraph off this and that. Nothing wrong with it but for us, its too much detail

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It’s a pet hate of mine, get a message pictures look interesting then no write up. Often the message has very little to entice either, so just gets ignored the majority of the time. It wouldn’t take more than ten minutes to write something about yourself and what you’re into.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know what it is but it's kind of irritating.

No I'm not talking about just the prospective woman I'm trying to nail (there isn't one )

I think attention to detail goes a long way, people that know me would perhaps describe me as very observant and so I can't be with poor or non existing users

You shouldn't get irritated by it, because that's exactly what makes it work. Just accept that the profile exactly represents the person - a profile that's unappealing to you, will mean the person behind the profile will be equally as unappealing to you. "

Don't get me wrong, I completely agree it's a great marker for shite personality and should have mentioned that also.

I guess I just find it incredibly lazy... and I just don't like lazy, not one bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a pet hate of mine, get a message pictures look interesting then no write up. Often the message has very little to entice either, so just gets ignored the majority of the time. It wouldn’t take more than ten minutes to write something about yourself and what you’re into. "

Didn’t know they could have descriptions.. are they letter limited? Ooo. More essays.

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