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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi. My beautiful other half wants me to surprise her by tie her on the bed, blindfold her and bring a stranger in.. or more...

would the single guys be interested on this?

thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guessing this is a males only account, so going to say no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we are a genuine couple and she wants me to surprise her. If you have any doubts for some reason contact me in private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t reply as you’ve blocked single guys...love the idea...

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP have you both had meets before ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just once..

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Funny enough a couple recently message me the same request, what i find concerning they had no veri's and it was the fella messenging me of the request.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes I would be concerned if I was asked to join a bound and blindfolded woman with no verifications of previous meets.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We have done this. sadly the guy did not get what the whole thing was about and ruined it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is such a hot scenario but as you say it has to be understood and carried out to the couples request!

For me it has so many different twists and turns!

I really wanted to do this with my last gf- it there so many different ways it could pan out! Jesus....know you have got me started lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have done this. sadly the guy did not get what the whole thing was about and ruined it "

Zoe- you look a dream in tartan

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

OP what reassurances would you be able to provide beforehand to any guys that might be interested that your wife was consenting to this and that the only "surprise" she would be getting was the one you describe (and not that her other half had invited a stranger into the situation without her knowledge)?

Know that may sound over the top, but it's what most guys likely to respond *should* be asking, and frankly if they don't I'd use that as a reason to not invite them to be honest.

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

I understand the excitement from the couples perspective and i have enjoyed the experience of sharing their fantasy. However, i did communicatited with both parties and they had veris to prove they were genuine. In addition the lady knew who was going to have sex with her, while she was blind folded.

There is no way, i could be blindfolded and tied up, not knowing if i was attracted to he lady or not to fuck me.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

To us fantasy and reality involves trust, one cannot become the other with out trust.

Where does trust fit in you scene?

However, what a great play, does she like flogging?

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton


"OP what reassurances would you be able to provide beforehand to any guys that might be interested that your wife was consenting to this and that the only "surprise" she would be getting was the one you describe (and not that her other half had invited a stranger into the situation without her knowledge)?

Know that may sound over the top, but it's what most guys likely to respond *should* be asking, and frankly if they don't I'd use that as a reason to not invite them to be honest."

I have been approached a number of times by the male in the relationship asking if I would be interested in taking part in such scene. The discussions have always collapsed when I ask for confirmation from the women that the scene is consensual. The man says it is a surprise and I will not have such confirmation.

As my vanilla barrister friend who was concerned about my extra curricular activies would say. "If it came court and you were prosecuted for assault, what is your independent proof that the woman consented?"

Now I know in the real world 8/10 it is not a problem but those are not odds I am willing to accept. That being said a lot of kink tiptoes on the thin border of legality and it comes down to everyone's risk matrix. Hard-core kink player's understand this and everyone has the consent discussion. My experience is that swingers generally don't understand the issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP what reassurances would you be able to provide beforehand to any guys that might be interested that your wife was consenting to this and that the only "surprise" she would be getting was the one you describe (and not that her other half had invited a stranger into the situation without her knowledge)?

Know that may sound over the top, but it's what most guys likely to respond *should* be asking, and frankly if they don't I'd use that as a reason to not invite them to be honest.

I have been approached a number of times by the male in the relationship asking if I would be interested in taking part in such scene. The discussions have always collapsed when I ask for confirmation from the women that the scene is consensual. The man says it is a surprise and I will not have such confirmation.

As my vanilla barrister friend who was concerned about my extra curricular activies would say. "If it came court and you were prosecuted for assault, what is your independent proof that the woman consented?"

Now I know in the real world 8/10 it is not a problem but those are not odds I am willing to accept. That being said a lot of kink tiptoes on the thin border of legality and it comes down to everyone's risk matrix. Hard-core kink player's understand this and everyone has the consent discussion. My experience is that swingers generally don't understand the issues."

Some men think they are really sneaky lol.

My response is the unusual same blunt "Thanks. Does she know about this, is she okay with it and is she attracted to me?"

The responses are not believable and usually end with them saying they would like to strip me down and watch as I stroke my dick.

No bro. Blocked.

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Such a great scenario. Although all involved must be aware, I know its a bit of role play fantasy but still leaving yourselves open to be in some hot water if its not done correctly.

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By *icdarCouple
over a year ago

surrey

We’ve done this many times. Mrs Vicdar would always chat to the guy first. She would be blindfolded and have her hands tied, Guy would come in and tease her for a while before taking it further. Sometimes the blindfold would stay on, sometimes not. Mrs Vicdar always chose the guy. They were always a lot of fun!

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

Sounds the way to do it.

In any case, because I am into kinbaku I would rather do the tying myself.

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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

We did that exact scenario many years ago, after a week of chatting to guys who were interested i choose one suitable, I explained the rules of the meet to him , everything went well, we all enjoyed the evening , so yes it is possible to arrange. Hope you manage to find someone suitable for the both of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guessing this is a males only account, so going to say no "

I agree probably the same one that wants to be blindfolded in the spa and have lots of strangers fuk her lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do this, lisa loves it, we started off with me removing lisas blindfold after so she could meet the guys, now she prefers the blindfold left on tell they have left and we are alone, she doesnt know who has been, veris to confirm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do this, lisa loves it, we started off with me removing lisas blindfold after so she could meet the guys, now she prefers the blindfold left on tell they have left and we are alone, she doesnt know who has been, veris to confirm "

That’s very hot too!!!

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By *ig and MangoCouple
over a year ago

Burnley

That was our old account that hubby used.

Here I am, if enyone doubts my existence don't hesitate to talk to me.

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