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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We get all kinds of questionable responses about why a profile doesn't have or won't send face pics....what reasons and excuses have you been given and which do you think are honest/sound? Be good to hear the funny answers too....

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Maybe as I have a face made for radio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Quasimodo's cousin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no issue sending face pics. But don’t enjoy the weirdos with blank profiles saying they recognise you when having one up on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"although my profile says woman, aged 32, I'm really a 60yr old trucker called Dave"

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By *ebel Red HotWoman
over a year ago

York

Usually its the "high powered job" so I can't possibly have face pics. I think the job usually in question is being a full time husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually its the "high powered job" so I can't possibly have face pics. I think the job usually in question is being a full time husband. "

Or a full time wife......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never used to when I first joined, but after being told I should as it would get me more views & fabs on my profile I now have plenty.

Unfortunately I still have 0 views most days...lol

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By *ocketman20Man
over a year ago

Douglas

I haven’t got a phone that can take one....

Yeah, sure...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've just had a new one..."I'm a teacher so it'd be weird at parents evenings"... but he teaches at a college lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Usually its the "high powered job" so I can't possibly have face pics. I think the job usually in question is being a full time husband.

Or a full time wife......"

These are usually my first instincts!

P

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

My pretend excuse: I have a face only a my mother could love.

My real one: Because I don't want one on my public profile. Have them in private.

Excuses given:

Because of my job - that's OK

we don't trust people - That's OK

I'll send one later, but it never comes and when you ask again, "I haven't had time"...Really!!

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"We've just had a new one..."I'm a teacher so it'd be weird at parents evenings"... but he teaches at a college lol"
Depends if it's educational (A level) or vocational. We've just had parent evening via video link with daughters tutors, as she's doing A levels.

No parents evening for vocational learning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""although my profile says woman, aged 32, I'm really a 60yr old trucker called Dave""

my names Dave and my profile says convincing TV but actually Actually im a trucker called Cindi lol

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm happy to send facepics to someone I've been chatting to for a while. I've never asked for one but I firmly believe the person asking should be prepared to send one first.

I got a message a few weeks ago from a couple I'd never seen before never mind chatted to

First message was "Hi"

Second asked if I would meet them the following night and send a facepic.

That was a good enough reason not to send one.

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By *astMidsCouple555Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

You have to love the people who ask for one but dont have one themselves

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"We've just had a new one..."I'm a teacher so it'd be weird at parents evenings"... but he teaches at a college lol"

Perfectly valid .... sackable offence tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to love the people who ask for one but dont have one themselves "

Careful, I got my head bitten off for saying that on a post yesterday.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Kudos to anyone who doesn’t give a damn and has face pics on their public profile. We aren’t that brave but happily send watermarked face pics to people we believe are genuine.

The whole “high powered jobs” is crap because that is exactly what we have! Basically if people aren’t prepared to send face pics and provide mobile number then we don’t carry on.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

I don’t do face pics on my profile for lots of reasons. I like to keep my private life private, I don’t know who the mods on this site are or how discreet they are.

Happy to share face once there is interest and a few messages have passed .. I’m not married nor do I have anything to hide just don’t want the weirdos seeing my face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs job prevents us putting up public face pics. But we have sent to cpls who sent us some.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"We've just had a new one..."I'm a teacher so it'd be weird at parents evenings"... but he teaches at a college lol

Perfectly valid .... sackable offence tbh. "

Wait a minute - being a swinger is s sackable offence? I can see it being embarrassing if work colleagues found out but not sure law would support employer?

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"We've just had a new one..."I'm a teacher so it'd be weird at parents evenings"... but he teaches at a college lol

Perfectly valid .... sackable offence tbh.

Wait a minute - being a swinger is s sackable offence? I can see it being embarrassing if work colleagues found out but not sure law would support employer?"

Yes teacher conditions have a specific clause ..... public photos would be a sackable offence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've just had a new one..."I'm a teacher so it'd be weird at parents evenings"... but he teaches at a college lol

Perfectly valid .... sackable offence tbh. "

Yes very true. Sackable offence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have to love the people who ask for one but dont have one themselves "

We agree! We will send one first if we initiate a contact or when we think we may actually meet someone. We understand not having face pics public on a profile, but no pics at all? Hmmm

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"Usually its the "high powered job" so I can't possibly have face pics. I think the job usually in question is being a full time husband.

Or a full time wife......"

Would a full time wife have time?

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

My face pics are available on my profile sorry if they put people off their lunches xx

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By *andy KTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Each to there own but if I been chatting for a while I would expect to see face pics . I understand people being private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am tbe boil on Quasimodo's arse cheek john

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have mine on display to deter people messaging me x

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

I personally don’t have face pics on my profile because I work with some very judgemental people who have already hounded one guy because him and his wife were on here...

I do however send a face pic to people I message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have mine on display to deter people messaging me x"

Madam,

it is not inspite of your face, but because of it I like your pictures

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I have mine on display to deter people messaging me x

Madam,

it is not inspite of your face, but because of it I like your pictures

"

Why thank you kind Sir. Very nice of you to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get all kinds of questionable responses about why a profile doesn't have or won't send face pics....what reasons and excuses have you been given and which do you think are honest/sound? Be good to hear the funny answers too...."

Shows lack of commitment to the cause

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kudos to anyone who doesn’t give a damn and has face pics on their public profile. We aren’t that brave but happily send watermarked face pics to people we believe are genuine.

The whole “high powered jobs” is crap because that is exactly what we have! Basically if people aren’t prepared to send face pics and provide mobile number then we don’t carry on."

Face pictures are all I have frankly, I don't know about high powered jobs but I'm head of IT for a group of companies

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

We are international criminals wanted by police in several countries. If we show our face pictures uncle Bill will be knocking on the door in no time

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Never been in a scenario when haven't received one when requesting it's all based upon trust I must come across as a sincere person as I am

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