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"You sure they was women. " ^ this Women on here are made of sterner stuff than to delete their profile for those reasons. | |||
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"In the last few weeks I’ve chatted to at least 8 new women who have now left because of the dumb messages,pics,fakes and fools It’s such a shame" Stop chatting to them then.. .im joking with you | |||
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"You sure they was women. " Spot on plenty on guys on here make fake women’s profiles, it’s really quite sad | |||
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"You sure they was women. Spot on plenty on guys on here make fake women’s profiles, it’s really quite sad" Why make a fake female profile if your male? | |||
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"In the last few weeks I’ve chatted to at least 8 new women who have now left because of the dumb messages,pics,fakes and fools It’s such a shame" Genuine question - how do you know why they left? Did they all tell you they were leaving (and why) before they left? | |||
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"You sure they was women. Spot on plenty on guys on here make fake women’s profiles, it’s really quite sad Why make a fake female profile if your male? " You’d have to ask someone who does it. I’ve spotted loads in my time on this sort of this | |||
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"You sure they was women. Spot on plenty on guys on here make fake women’s profiles, it’s really quite sad Why make a fake female profile if your male? " Oh, Noochie... 
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"In the last few weeks I’ve chatted to at least 8 new women who have now left because of the dumb messages,pics,fakes and fools It’s such a shame" Show off, I get pretty much zero replies let alone 8.. ??Lmao | |||
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"In the last few weeks I’ve chatted to at least 8 new women who have now left because of the dumb messages,pics,fakes and fools It’s such a shame" You've had chats with 8 women here, in just a few weeks here? 'Tips hat' Well done my good man! I'd be feeling pretty pleased if that were the case - providing the chats were meaningful and worthwhile, of course. | |||
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"You sure they was women. Spot on plenty on guys on here make fake women’s profiles, it’s really quite sad Why make a fake female profile if your male? Oh, Noochie...
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"Yes you've got Bert with his cock in hand making female profiles but I have to say I've been here years and have never known the abuse and attitudes be so bad. A fair few of my female friends have left the site, lots and lots of hidden profiles from those that have been here years. I'm also hidden and on the verge of deleting. Sad sad times." I must add, I'm a right cunt with rhino skin and a "fuck you prick" attitude. Things like that are normally water off a ducks back to some degree, I tend to show them the error of their ways. Now, I'm feeling drained by it and like I'm fighting a losing battle saying the same things over and over. I'm sick of saying it, and others must be sick of hearing it | |||
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"Yes you've got Bert with his cock in hand making female profiles but I have to say I've been here years and have never known the abuse and attitudes be so bad. A fair few of my female friends have left the site, lots and lots of hidden profiles from those that have been here years. I'm also hidden and on the verge of deleting. Sad sad times. I must add, I'm a right cunt with rhino skin and a "fuck you prick" attitude. Things like that are normally water off a ducks back to some degree, I tend to show them the error of their ways. Now, I'm feeling drained by it and like I'm fighting a losing battle saying the same things over and over. I'm sick of saying it, and others must be sick of hearing it " Just a wee bit | |||
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"Yes you've got Bert with his cock in hand making female profiles but I have to say I've been here years and have never known the abuse and attitudes be so bad. A fair few of my female friends have left the site, lots and lots of hidden profiles from those that have been here years. I'm also hidden and on the verge of deleting. Sad sad times. I must add, I'm a right cunt with rhino skin and a "fuck you prick" attitude. Things like that are normally water off a ducks back to some degree, I tend to show them the error of their ways. Now, I'm feeling drained by it and like I'm fighting a losing battle saying the same things over and over. I'm sick of saying it, and others must be sick of hearing it Just a wee bit" Shame the same questions keep getting asked instead of the forum search function being used. Fear not, I'll shut the fuck up and leave you in peace | |||
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"Yes you've got Bert with his cock in hand making female profiles but I have to say I've been here years and have never known the abuse and attitudes be so bad. A fair few of my female friends have left the site, lots and lots of hidden profiles from those that have been here years. I'm also hidden and on the verge of deleting. Sad sad times. I must add, I'm a right cunt with rhino skin and a "fuck you prick" attitude. Things like that are normally water off a ducks back to some degree, I tend to show them the error of their ways. Now, I'm feeling drained by it and like I'm fighting a losing battle saying the same things over and over. I'm sick of saying it, and others must be sick of hearing it " Head/wall/banging, little one..not your problem..  | |||
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"Yes you've got Bert with his cock in hand making female profiles but I have to say I've been here years and have never known the abuse and attitudes be so bad. A fair few of my female friends have left the site, lots and lots of hidden profiles from those that have been here years. I'm also hidden and on the verge of deleting. Sad sad times. I must add, I'm a right cunt with rhino skin and a "fuck you prick" attitude. Things like that are normally water off a ducks back to some degree, I tend to show them the error of their ways. Now, I'm feeling drained by it and like I'm fighting a losing battle saying the same things over and over. I'm sick of saying it, and others must be sick of hearing it Just a wee bit Shame the same questions keep getting asked instead of the forum search function being used. Fear not, I'll shut the fuck up and leave you in peace " You're wasting a lot of quite aggressive sounding energy. Which is quite fruitless | |||
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"Yes you've got Bert with his cock in hand making female profiles but I have to say I've been here years and have never known the abuse and attitudes be so bad. A fair few of my female friends have left the site, lots and lots of hidden profiles from those that have been here years. I'm also hidden and on the verge of deleting. Sad sad times. I must add, I'm a right cunt with rhino skin and a "fuck you prick" attitude. Things like that are normally water off a ducks back to some degree, I tend to show them the error of their ways. Now, I'm feeling drained by it and like I'm fighting a losing battle saying the same things over and over. I'm sick of saying it, and others must be sick of hearing it Just a wee bit Shame the same questions keep getting asked instead of the forum search function being used. Fear not, I'll shut the fuck up and leave you in peace You're wasting a lot of quite aggressive sounding energy. Which is quite fruitless " If everyone had that attitude, there would be no change in the world. Im not sick of reading Princesses posts She has every right to express her opinion. And she's right. Some of the guy's behaviour and attitudes towards women on here is frankly, fucking appalling | |||
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"There have a been a few ladies in my local area that posted "fuck this, not staying on site for anymore abuse" - who are these abusive people - all I can say is report them and get them thrown off the site!" The problem is, what is abusive to someone, another person might find it amusing/a turn on/ a conversation starter. For the argument sake: this morning, I (Devil) got a message on my single profile from one of the "charmers" here calling me a sexy whore. I personally hate being called names just because I am on a swingers website, and I hate the whole mentality that if a woman likes having multiple partners, she is definitely a slut or a whore. But for some people, being called names seems to be a turn on. Therefore, I didn't feel like I could report that kind of message (which I personally did find abusive) to admin. Luckily, I am quite thick skinned. But I can understand if someone who is only just trying to find their feet on Fab starts getting tons of messages, of varied content, they may get disheartened and leave. | |||
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"You sure they was women. ^ this Women on here are made of sterner stuff than to delete their profile for those reasons." Really? I deleted my first profile for those reasons. I didn't even get to adding pictures before I was overwhelmed  . | |||
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"In the last few weeks I’ve chatted to at least 8 new women who have now left because of the dumb messages,pics,fakes and fools It’s such a shame" Are you sure those 8 women deleted for those reasons or have you thought maybe. They left because of a common denominator..... You contacting them?  | |||
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"Yes you've got Bert with his cock in hand making female profiles but I have to say I've been here years and have never known the abuse and attitudes be so bad. A fair few of my female friends have left the site, lots and lots of hidden profiles from those that have been here years. I'm also hidden and on the verge of deleting. Sad sad times. I must add, I'm a right cunt with rhino skin and a "fuck you prick" attitude. Things like that are normally water off a ducks back to some degree, I tend to show them the error of their ways. Now, I'm feeling drained by it and like I'm fighting a losing battle saying the same things over and over. I'm sick of saying it, and others must be sick of hearing it Just a wee bit Shame the same questions keep getting asked instead of the forum search function being used. Fear not, I'll shut the fuck up and leave you in peace You're wasting a lot of quite aggressive sounding energy. Which is quite fruitless If everyone had that attitude, there would be no change in the world. Im not sick of reading Princesses posts She has every right to express her opinion. And she's right. Some of the guy's behaviour and attitudes towards women on here is frankly, fucking appalling" Tbf, she's not changing anything as a result of her posts. There's no denying some of the attitudes towards women are appalling. But getting increasingly more angst ridden about it is probably not healthy for anyone's well being | |||
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"Yes you've got Bert with his cock in hand making female profiles but I have to say I've been here years and have never known the abuse and attitudes be so bad. A fair few of my female friends have left the site, lots and lots of hidden profiles from those that have been here years. I'm also hidden and on the verge of deleting. Sad sad times. I must add, I'm a right cunt with rhino skin and a "fuck you prick" attitude. Things like that are normally water off a ducks back to some degree, I tend to show them the error of their ways. Now, I'm feeling drained by it and like I'm fighting a losing battle saying the same things over and over. I'm sick of saying it, and others must be sick of hearing it " We both had single profiles on here so know how the site works. I had a cpls profile with ex bf. But this time around wirh john is tje worst i have seen. I had hassle off guys when a single fem on here for not sending a return pic for their unrequested dick pics as nd also for turning down meeting them after they hassled me for a meet. But both me and john have never seen this site so bad. We have had a blocked guy create a cpls profile to continue asking me to meet him alone for sex. He was reported and kicked off site but i bet he just made other profiles up straight away. Sad sad times indeed! | |||
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I’m quite thick skinned , if someone is abusive , I just ignore . At the moment , I am just enjoying the forums. There are some wonderful, fascinating, friendly , like minded people here . I won’t allow shallow minded people to ruin it for me | |||
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"Yes you've got Bert with his cock in hand making female profiles but I have to say I've been here years and have never known the abuse and attitudes be so bad. A fair few of my female friends have left the site, lots and lots of hidden profiles from those that have been here years. I'm also hidden and on the verge of deleting. Sad sad times. I must add, I'm a right cunt with rhino skin and a "fuck you prick" attitude. Things like that are normally water off a ducks back to some degree, I tend to show them the error of their ways. Now, I'm feeling drained by it and like I'm fighting a losing battle saying the same things over and over. I'm sick of saying it, and others must be sick of hearing it Just a wee bit Shame the same questions keep getting asked instead of the forum search function being used. Fear not, I'll shut the fuck up and leave you in peace You're wasting a lot of quite aggressive sounding energy. Which is quite fruitless If everyone had that attitude, there would be no change in the world. Im not sick of reading Princesses posts She has every right to express her opinion. And she's right. Some of the guy's behaviour and attitudes towards women on here is frankly, fucking appalling" I'm not sick of reading PP's posts either, and agree with most of them. She is one of the reasons I'm still here, but taking the problems of fab on her shoulders, she's on a hiding to nothing. You can't save a world that doesn't want to be saved. | |||
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"In the last few weeks I’ve chatted to at least 8 new women who have now left because of the dumb messages,pics,fakes and fools It’s such a shame" Just for interest OP, eight is a lot, any thoughts to what the catalyst might be? | |||
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"Yes you've got Bert with his cock in hand making female profiles but I have to say I've been here years and have never known the abuse and attitudes be so bad. A fair few of my female friends have left the site, lots and lots of hidden profiles from those that have been here years. I'm also hidden and on the verge of deleting. Sad sad times. I must add, I'm a right cunt with rhino skin and a "fuck you prick" attitude. Things like that are normally water off a ducks back to some degree, I tend to show them the error of their ways. Now, I'm feeling drained by it and like I'm fighting a losing battle saying the same things over and over. I'm sick of saying it, and others must be sick of hearing it Just a wee bit Shame the same questions keep getting asked instead of the forum search function being used. Fear not, I'll shut the fuck up and leave you in peace You're wasting a lot of quite aggressive sounding energy. Which is quite fruitless If everyone had that attitude, there would be no change in the world. Im not sick of reading Princesses posts She has every right to express her opinion. And she's right. Some of the guy's behaviour and attitudes towards women on here is frankly, fucking appalling" To balance that Women’s attitude to guys is equally poor | |||
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"Yes you've got Bert with his cock in hand making female profiles but I have to say I've been here years and have never known the abuse and attitudes be so bad. A fair few of my female friends have left the site, lots and lots of hidden profiles from those that have been here years. I'm also hidden and on the verge of deleting. Sad sad times. I must add, I'm a right cunt with rhino skin and a "fuck you prick" attitude. Things like that are normally water off a ducks back to some degree, I tend to show them the error of their ways. Now, I'm feeling drained by it and like I'm fighting a losing battle saying the same things over and over. I'm sick of saying it, and others must be sick of hearing it Just a wee bit Shame the same questions keep getting asked instead of the forum search function being used. Fear not, I'll shut the fuck up and leave you in peace You're wasting a lot of quite aggressive sounding energy. Which is quite fruitless If everyone had that attitude, there would be no change in the world. Im not sick of reading Princesses posts She has every right to express her opinion. And she's right. Some of the guy's behaviour and attitudes towards women on here is frankly, fucking appalling To balance that Women’s attitude to guys is equally poor " | |||
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"In the last few weeks I’ve chatted to at least 8 new women who have now left because of the dumb messages,pics,fakes and fools It’s such a shame" Well, don't send them then!  | |||
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"Yes you've got Bert with his cock in hand making female profiles but I have to say I've been here years and have never known the abuse and attitudes be so bad. A fair few of my female friends have left the site, lots and lots of hidden profiles from those that have been here years. I'm also hidden and on the verge of deleting. Sad sad times. I must add, I'm a right cunt with rhino skin and a "fuck you prick" attitude. Things like that are normally water off a ducks back to some degree, I tend to show them the error of their ways. Now, I'm feeling drained by it and like I'm fighting a losing battle saying the same things over and over. I'm sick of saying it, and others must be sick of hearing it Just a wee bit Shame the same questions keep getting asked instead of the forum search function being used. Fear not, I'll shut the fuck up and leave you in peace You're wasting a lot of quite aggressive sounding energy. Which is quite fruitless If everyone had that attitude, there would be no change in the world. Im not sick of reading Princesses posts She has every right to express her opinion. And she's right. Some of the guy's behaviour and attitudes towards women on here is frankly, fucking appalling I'm not sick of reading PP's posts either, and agree with most of them. She is one of the reasons I'm still here, but taking the problems of fab on her shoulders, she's on a hiding to nothing. You can't save a world that doesn't want to be saved." I agree, especially your last sentence. PP:   x | |||
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"Yes you've got Bert with his cock in hand making female profiles but I have to say I've been here years and have never known the abuse and attitudes be so bad. A fair few of my female friends have left the site, lots and lots of hidden profiles from those that have been here years. I'm also hidden and on the verge of deleting. Sad sad times. I must add, I'm a right cunt with rhino skin and a "fuck you prick" attitude. Things like that are normally water off a ducks back to some degree, I tend to show them the error of their ways. Now, I'm feeling drained by it and like I'm fighting a losing battle saying the same things over and over. I'm sick of saying it, and others must be sick of hearing it Just a wee bit Shame the same questions keep getting asked instead of the forum search function being used. Fear not, I'll shut the fuck up and leave you in peace You're wasting a lot of quite aggressive sounding energy. Which is quite fruitless If everyone had that attitude, there would be no change in the world. Im not sick of reading Princesses posts She has every right to express her opinion. And she's right. Some of the guy's behaviour and attitudes towards women on here is frankly, fucking appalling To balance that Women’s attitude to guys is equally poor " So this year, you've had hundreds of msgs from women asking you to meet during the pandemic, have you? And telling you all sorts of bollocks like " ive had a test" to cover up the fact that theyre actually self serving idiots? I very much doubt you have any idea what women on here have to put up with | |||
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"I think Covid has made a lot of guys and women join fab.. just for a cheap thrill.. not really swingers as such just singles looking for a hook up.. each to their own I guess." Well said | |||
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"I think Covid has made a lot of guys and women join fab.. just for a cheap thrill.. not really swingers as such just singles looking for a hook up.. each to their own I guess. Well said " Well thanks... it’s rather frustrating in a way though isn’t it.. maybe fab should change more money... we’d happily pay for it to get rid of the 80% that’s are just time wasters or dreamers.. | |||
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"I imagine the single female drop out rate is really high at the best of times, because yes, the barrage of "what the fuck" at the beginning is unbelievable. It does get better if you can hang on, but it's still not great unless you stop letting anyone message you (which can be less than ideal, because the search function has a cap). I can't even bloody imagine how awful it is at the moment - my message filters are as high as they go at the moment and are not coming down any time soon (you can't message me if you're male, female, TV/TS, or any couple)" Love it | |||
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"I imagine the single female drop out rate is really high at the best of times, because yes, the barrage of "what the fuck" at the beginning is unbelievable. It does get better if you can hang on, but it's still not great unless you stop letting anyone message you (which can be less than ideal, because the search function has a cap). I can't even bloody imagine how awful it is at the moment - my message filters are as high as they go at the moment and are not coming down any time soon (you can't message me if you're male, female, TV/TS, or any couple) Love it "I call my messages settings "pandemic, no" | |||
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"I think Covid has made a lot of guys and women join fab.. just for a cheap thrill.. not really swingers as such just singles looking for a hook up.. each to their own I guess." Aren't you essentially just looking to hook up with a couple as a single guy? | |||
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"I think Covid has made a lot of guys and women join fab.. just for a cheap thrill.. not really swingers as such just singles looking for a hook up.. each to their own I guess. Aren't you essentially just looking to hook up with a couple as a single guy?" I’m part of a couple on fab.. we predominantly meet single guys.. and are in the look out for couples that enjoy this to become friends and team up with us.. so yeah I am but I do have a motive for why I’m doing it... not that there is anything wrong with hook ups.. but I do like the social side to this and making new friends.. it’s just more fun than fuck and go.. | |||
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"I think Covid has made a lot of guys and women join fab.. just for a cheap thrill.. not really swingers as such just singles looking for a hook up.. each to their own I guess. Aren't you essentially just looking to hook up with a couple as a single guy? I’m part of a couple on fab.. we predominantly meet single guys.. and are in the look out for couples that enjoy this to become friends and team up with us.. so yeah I am but I do have a motive for why I’m doing it... not that there is anything wrong with hook ups.. but I do like the social side to this and making new friends.. it’s just more fun than fuck and go.. " That makes very little sense to me...are you saying that on a single guy profile you're on the lookout for a couple that will meet you and your partner? Why not do that from your couple profile? | |||
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"Is it due to the fact that a woman comes online, brand new profile and all of a sudden "you look so gorgeous", "you're beautiful, I'd love to fuck you" happens?? No pics and literally joined 5 mins previous?! It's bloody real and it happens! Deleted a previous profile due to this, came back with a think skin attitude but it still happens.... A "no thanks" mail, opens a pandoras box, a "sorry... . You're not my type" ends up with decent mail, decent mail decent mail and then whabang...... "fat hideous ignorant fucker, I deserve a reply you hideous cunt" happens. No wonder people are walking away. "I know its not the same but those guys ruin our experience on this site as well...I know its not the same as getting abuse x | |||
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"Is it due to the fact that a woman comes online, brand new profile and all of a sudden "you look so gorgeous", "you're beautiful, I'd love to fuck you" happens?? No pics and literally joined 5 mins previous?! It's bloody real and it happens! Deleted a previous profile due to this, came back with a think skin attitude but it still happens.... A "no thanks" mail, opens a pandoras box, a "sorry... . You're not my type" ends up with decent mail, decent mail decent mail and then whabang...... "fat hideous ignorant fucker, I deserve a reply you hideous cunt" happens. No wonder people are walking away.
I know its not the same but those guys ruin our experience on this site as well...I know its not the same as getting abuse x"They really don’t spoil it for the decent guys. Only themselves | |||
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