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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do men who can accommodate, have verifications from load's of couples, not looking for a man

Always contact me and say they are bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A variety of reasons.

Some need discretion, some do it as it puts others off.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Why do men who can accommodate, have verifications from load's of couples, not looking for a man

Always contact me and say they are bi."

Because they want to fuck you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they want some cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men who can accommodate, have verifications from load's of couples, not looking for a man

Always contact me and say they are bi."

Do you still meet them though?

Some of my best meets have been with 'straight' guys

I have a very carnal approach to sex with other blokes, so it kinda suits me that they come in, cum and fuck off again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because they want some cock. "

If they want cock have your profile saying bi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do men who can accommodate, have verifications from load's of couples, not looking for a man

Always contact me and say they are bi.

Do you still meet them though?

Some of my best meets have been with 'straight' guys

I have a very carnal approach to sex with other blokes, so it kinda suits me that they come in, cum and fuck off again"

No because they are lying.

It's the couples he has met who don't want to meet a bi man. !!

That's who I feel sorry for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do men who can accommodate, have verifications from load's of couples, not looking for a man

Always contact me and say they are bi.

Because they want to fuck you? "

Well that ain't gonna happen x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I only meet people who WANT to meet a bi man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A variety of reasons.

Some need discretion, some do it as it puts others off."

They should just be honest with themselves and everybody else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal ones I get are

I am bi I just don’t want friends to find out

Woman on hear don’t meet bi guys so I hid it to keep meeting woman

The real reason I messaged a ton off woman and couples and got no response and I think a tv is the next best thing and they be easy

Have to say sorry but I not that easy or desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they want some cock.

If they want cock have your profile saying bi "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they were honest in they profile they may find more fun as not easy but definitely make me a lot easier when ur truthful in ur profile

If I can’t trust what’s in they profile how they expect me to trust them in the sack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the health profession the phrase bisexual man is slowly changing to the 'men who have sex with men'. Many guys dont see themselves as bi(ie no romantic feelings towards men) but like sex with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only meet people who WANT to meet a bi man. "

Lol 90% off woman have meet bi guys

I was messing one a couple off year ago and that’s what she sed went though here list off meet could tick off 3 guys I had meet before

Also had one say she finds bi guys repulsive

Got a good kick out that one as she meet a guy in the afternoon who had just rolled out my bed on a morning meet alway wonder if he went home and wash first or if he just left mine still smelling of me and straight in to her bed

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"In the health profession the phrase bisexual man is slowly changing to the 'men who have sex with men'. Many guys dont see themselves as bi(ie no romantic feelings towards men) but like sex with them."
that’s me then. Doesn’t roll off the tongue quite as easy though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men who can accommodate, have verifications from load's of couples, not looking for a man

Always contact me and say they are bi.

Do you still meet them though?

Some of my best meets have been with 'straight' guys

I have a very carnal approach to sex with other blokes, so it kinda suits me that they come in, cum and fuck off again

No because they are lying.

It's the couples he has met who don't want to meet a bi man. !!

That's who I feel sorry for "

Who he is disingenuous with isn't my problem

It has nothing to do with you how a guy portrays his sexuality

Not everyone is happy with their sexuality.

It isn't your job to change that or dictate how they portray their sexuality because it suits your moral code

How do you know that someone isn't suffering inner angst about his sexuality, a guilt and a disgust when he does meet a guy - like many guys do

Bisexuality doesn't come easy to everyone and for many a bloke wanting cock comes at a high mental cost

Of course, he could just be a chancer who wants to get his dick sucked - but that really is his choice

I couldn't care less if he'd shagged 20 straight couples, as long as he is civil and safe with me, my interest in him and his activities end there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do men who can accommodate, have verifications from load's of couples, not looking for a man

Always contact me and say they are bi.

Do you still meet them though?

Some of my best meets have been with 'straight' guys

I have a very carnal approach to sex with other blokes, so it kinda suits me that they come in, cum and fuck off again

No because they are lying.

It's the couples he has met who don't want to meet a bi man. !!

That's who I feel sorry for

Who he is disingenuous with isn't my problem

It has nothing to do with you how a guy portrays his sexuality

Not everyone is happy with their sexuality.

It isn't your job to change that or dictate how they portray their sexuality because it suits your moral code

How do you know that someone isn't suffering inner angst about his sexuality, a guilt and a disgust when he does meet a guy - like many guys do

Bisexuality doesn't come easy to everyone and for many a bloke wanting cock comes at a high mental cost

Of course, he could just be a chancer who wants to get his dick sucked - but that really is his choice

I couldn't care less if he'd shagged 20 straight couples, as long as he is civil and safe with me, my interest in him and his activities end there"

No I don't meet with them, if they are not honest with themselves they are not being honest with me. Simple. Iam not judging anybody, I only have their profile and on that I make a judgement if to converse with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In the health profession the phrase bisexual man is slowly changing to the 'men who have sex with men'. Many guys dont see themselves as bi(ie no romantic feelings towards men) but like sex with them."

If they want my cock in their mouth, I would say they are bi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they were honest in they profile they may find more fun as not easy but definitely make me a lot easier when ur truthful in ur profile

If I can’t trust what’s in they profile how they expect me to trust them in the sack "

Exactly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men who can accommodate, have verifications from load's of couples, not looking for a man

Always contact me and say they are bi.

Do you still meet them though?

Some of my best meets have been with 'straight' guys

I have a very carnal approach to sex with other blokes, so it kinda suits me that they come in, cum and fuck off again

No because they are lying.

It's the couples he has met who don't want to meet a bi man. !!

That's who I feel sorry for

Who he is disingenuous with isn't my problem

It has nothing to do with you how a guy portrays his sexuality

Not everyone is happy with their sexuality.

It isn't your job to change that or dictate how they portray their sexuality because it suits your moral code

How do you know that someone isn't suffering inner angst about his sexuality, a guilt and a disgust when he does meet a guy - like many guys do

Bisexuality doesn't come easy to everyone and for many a bloke wanting cock comes at a high mental cost

Of course, he could just be a chancer who wants to get his dick sucked - but that really is his choice

I couldn't care less if he'd shagged 20 straight couples, as long as he is civil and safe with me, my interest in him and his activities end there

No I don't meet with them, if they are not honest with themselves they are not being honest with me. Simple. Iam not judging anybody, I only have their profile and on that I make a judgement if to converse with them "

So, you're not judging them, just having a rant on the forum about it

I'm glad that's cleared up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the health profession the phrase bisexual man is slowly changing to the 'men who have sex with men'. Many guys dont see themselves as bi(ie no romantic feelings towards men) but like sex with them. that’s me then. Doesn’t roll off the tongue quite as easy though. "

If you ware Welsh it is: Mwhswgs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do men who can accommodate, have verifications from load's of couples, not looking for a man

Always contact me and say they are bi.

Do you still meet them though?

Some of my best meets have been with 'straight' guys

I have a very carnal approach to sex with other blokes, so it kinda suits me that they come in, cum and fuck off again

No because they are lying.

It's the couples he has met who don't want to meet a bi man. !!

That's who I feel sorry for

Who he is disingenuous with isn't my problem

It has nothing to do with you how a guy portrays his sexuality

Not everyone is happy with their sexuality.

It isn't your job to change that or dictate how they portray their sexuality because it suits your moral code

How do you know that someone isn't suffering inner angst about his sexuality, a guilt and a disgust when he does meet a guy - like many guys do

Bisexuality doesn't come easy to everyone and for many a bloke wanting cock comes at a high mental cost

Of course, he could just be a chancer who wants to get his dick sucked - but that really is his choice

I couldn't care less if he'd shagged 20 straight couples, as long as he is civil and safe with me, my interest in him and his activities end there

No I don't meet with them, if they are not honest with themselves they are not being honest with me. Simple. Iam not judging anybody, I only have their profile and on that I make a judgement if to converse with them

So, you're not judging them, just having a rant on the forum about it

I'm glad that's cleared up "

Not judging anybody, I can only judge potential meets based on what somebody's profile says about them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I only meet people who WANT to meet a bi man.

Lol 90% off woman have meet bi guys

I was messing one a couple off year ago and that’s what she sed went though here list off meet could tick off 3 guys I had meet before

Also had one say she finds bi guys repulsive

Got a good kick out that one as she meet a guy in the afternoon who had just rolled out my bed on a morning meet alway wonder if he went home and wash first or if he just left mine still smelling of me and straight in to her bed "

Brilliant xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only meet people who WANT to meet a bi man.

Lol 90% off woman have meet bi guys

I was messing one a couple off year ago and that’s what she sed went though here list off meet could tick off 3 guys I had meet before

Also had one say she finds bi guys repulsive

Got a good kick out that one as she meet a guy in the afternoon who had just rolled out my bed on a morning meet alway wonder if he went home and wash first or if he just left mine still smelling of me and straight in to her bed

Brilliant xx"

Can you tell me how this declaration of 'brilliance' marries up with this statement...

"No because they are lying.

It's the couples he has met who don't want to meet a bi man. !!

That's who I feel sorry for"

Both your words

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Easy

I was saying"brilliant'

To the person who posted their comment, which I thought was Brilliant X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only meet people who WANT to meet a bi man.

Lol 90% off woman have meet bi guys

I was messing one a couple off year ago and that’s what she sed went though here list off meet could tick off 3 guys I had meet before

Also had one say she finds bi guys repulsive

Got a good kick out that one as she meet a guy in the afternoon who had just rolled out my bed on a morning meet alway wonder if he went home and wash first or if he just left mine still smelling of me and straight in to her bed

Brilliant xx

Can you tell me how this declaration of 'brilliance' marries up with this statement...

"No because they are lying.

It's the couples he has met who don't want to meet a bi man. !!

That's who I feel sorry for"

Both your words "

And I do as well but one look at my mail box would show most guys on this site are bi regdless off if they profile states bi or straight as 90% off my messages come from guys who are stupidly straight

I have been on and off here for 10 years in my younger days 24-28 I kind off put up with it and just meet them but then realised I am worth so much more and deserve some to be telling the truth

I have never once lie to anyone about being bi but I can’t speak for the guys others are meeting I just get a good kick to my self when I message someone and they say oooo I don’t meet bi people but go though they verified list and can

Find one off 2 things

Ither guy sitting in my inbox trying to get with me

Or a guy I been with in the past when I felt I wasn’t worth much

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Could be shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because so many women in the swinging community have double standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because so many women in the swinging community have double standards. "

End of thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think so X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easy

I was saying"brilliant'

To the person who posted their comment, which I thought was Brilliant X

"

But it completely contradicts the sentiment of your thread

I just don't get how you would start a thread like this and then applaud guys doing just what you were complaining about

OK, I'm out of this one

The marvellous world of Fab thinking strikes again

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By *iseekingbiCouple
over a year ago

N ireland and West Midlands

We get so much of this in messages from men.

"my profile says straight but I'm bi"

If you cant be honest on your profile it says enough about you to us. It's a delete and block every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such is life on Fab. We used to her really wound up about it until we realised it wouldn’t change anything.

Mostly all the fabs on Abby’s pics are from straight guys.

We have blocked single males but lots of couples where the male is apparently 100% straight hit on us.

Delete, block and move on. Much better for the blood pressure

Miss V

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"Such is life on Fab. We used to her really wound up about it until we realised it wouldn’t change anything.

Mostly all the fabs on Abby’s pics are from straight guys.

We have blocked single males but lots of couples where the male is apparently 100% straight hit on us.

Delete, block and move on. Much better for the blood pressure

Miss V"

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Quite right, fab should be fun rather than getting your sexy knickers in a twist about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Such is life on Fab. We used to her really wound up about it until we realised it wouldn’t change anything.

Mostly all the fabs on Abby’s pics are from straight guys.

We have blocked single males but lots of couples where the male is apparently 100% straight hit on us.

Delete, block and move on. Much better for the blood pressure

Miss V

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Quite right, fab should be fun rather than getting your sexy knickers in a twist about it "

Of course an occasional twist to the knickers can be quite pleasurable!

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