FabSwingers.com forum: fab life vs real life

By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

Does your fab life taking over?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Not fabbing likely! Went fab and spoke to my fab colleague about fab and had a cup of fab, had fab, more fab then went fab.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Not at all. Family and work will always come before fab.

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Not fabbing likely! Went fab and spoke to my fab colleague about fab and had a cup of fab, had fab, more fab then went fab. "

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope real life comes first

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Not at all. Family and work will always come before fab."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what real life is anymore

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Nope real life comes first "

Sensible!

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"I don't know what real life is anymore

Who knows!

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

No, but I like to spend some time on the forum to see what is going on and to post here

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Does your fab life taking over?

No. It completes me : this is where Sultry Succubus (my female side) exist.

Fully male in my real life.

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"No, but I like to spend some time on the forum to see what is going on and to post here

Good one!

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Does your fab life taking over?

No. It completes me : this is where Sultry Succubus (my female side) exist.

Fully male in my real life.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Does your fab life taking over?

Wish it was! Sadly it's window shopping and frustration on here only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. On my days off I seem to spend alot of time on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not taking over - simply opening up new avenues for social interactions, maybe the odd fun time (when Covid allows obviously)

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Does your fab life taking over?

Wish it was! Sadly it's window shopping and frustration on here only. "

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Yeah. On my days off I seem to spend alot of time on here "

same

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Not taking over - simply opening up new avenues for social interactions, maybe the odd fun time (when Covid allows obviously)

sounds like a good medium ground!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab for me is something to pick up and put down depending on what is going on in my life - sometimes I am on here a lot and sometimes not for weeks.

I think it is good to have a healthy balance between Fab and real life.

There is an argument that Fab is real life - the connections you make and the people you talk to are real.

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Fab for me is something to pick up and put down depending on what is going on in my life - sometimes I am on here a lot and sometimes not for weeks.

I think it is good to have a healthy balance between Fab and real life.

There is an argument that Fab is real life - the connections you make and the people you talk to are real. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our family and vanilla friends will always come first.

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Our family and vanilla friends will always come first.

Sounds a solid base!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a great addition to an awesome life for me ... part and parcel

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Always keep fab life separate to work / home life.

Working from home with the house to myself does make it hard, I keep looking in-between video meeting.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

We love Fab life and we love our social life live music and restaurants

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"It's a great addition to an awesome life for me ... part and parcel "

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Always keep fab life separate to work / home life.

Working from home with the house to myself does make it hard, I keep looking in-between video meeting."

Know the feeling! Lol

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"We love Fab life and we love our social life live music and restaurants "

Best of both worlds!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

POF has taken over Fab life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing is more important than fabily

Er.. I have a cold, honest!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Does your fab life taking over?

Like most people I don’t have much of a fab life or a real life at the moment. Where I live has been in tier 3 for what seems like forever. All I’m allowed to do at the moment is work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not really tbh, maybe I things were a bit normal perhaps xx

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By *orkshire finestMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Fab is also a way of life that’s why real swingers are open minded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is fab not real?!?

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"POF has taken over Fab life

Pof is good!

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Nothing is more important than fabily

Er.. I have a cold, honest!"

Lol!

family is very important!

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Does your fab life taking over?

Like most people I don’t have much of a fab life or a real life at the moment. Where I live has been in tier 3 for what seems like forever. All I’m allowed to do at the moment is work!

Well this lockdown can’t stay forever so fingers crossed!

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Nope not really tbh, maybe I things were a bit normal perhaps xx"

I know what you mean. Lockdown sucks!

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Fab is also a way of life that’s why real swingers are open minded "

Yep, agree!

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Is fab not real?!?

It took a while to get this answer! I was expecting it from people sooner!

it is real but for some people is something extra on top of their common life? Don’t you agree?

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By *restonM50Man
over a year ago

preston

Fab is always on the background lurking. That is until a suitable moment occurs.

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Fab is always on the background lurking. That is until a suitable moment occurs."

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Does your fab life taking over?

Like most people I don’t have much of a fab life or a real life at the moment. Where I live has been in tier 3 for what seems like forever. All I’m allowed to do at the moment is work!

Well this lockdown can’t stay forever so fingers crossed!

Roughly another 5 months - so it’ll be over a year in total. However - at the moment I’m counting my blessings as those are love are still alive and well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are making friends on here for when we can meet up. Meeting for sex when we have a pandemic is plain stupid frankly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kids, family and friends come first. This is just an extra to add to our amazing lovelife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. But a lot of my close friends are on here

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By *SATCMan
over a year ago

Essex

Family and work first not had much from the site. I am a newbie and this year hasn't been the best lol

Hoping for meets next year

Can't wait for hotels and clubs to reopen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab staves isolation.. as live rural.

Great friends at a distance we keep in touch..

Plus if lifes throwing a bad day..some of the posts make me chuckle

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Not living my best life either on fab or anywhere else.

I tend to keep them very separate, but I’m spending lots of time on here in the evenings when there’s not much else to do.

Really would like to try one of the virtual club nights (mainly just as an excuse to get dressed up) but with my daughter here I’m too afraid to cross the boundary and bring fab life into my house when she’s here.

V x

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By *omerset tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

Fab is like a drug it can become very addictive if your not careful

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's all part of the selection box of life. Keep everything well, for peace and contentment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do folk differentiate between fab life and real life. To us fab is part of our life as is other hobbies and interests so it's all real enough to us.

You never hear anyone say for example if they go down to their local they refer to it as pub life versus real life.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"Why do folk differentiate between fab life and real life. To us fab is part of our life as is other hobbies and interests so it's all real enough to us.

You never hear anyone say for example if they go down to their local they refer to it as pub life versus real life. "

I do because it’s kinda squirrelled away to a small piece of my life that I don’t bring into my home life as mum, to my friends outside this, or my professional life. For me it is very escapist.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do folk differentiate between fab life and real life. To us fab is part of our life as is other hobbies and interests so it's all real enough to us.

You never hear anyone say for example if they go down to their local they refer to it as pub life versus real life.

I do because it’s kinda squirrelled away to a small piece of my life that I don’t bring into my home life as mum, to my friends outside this, or my professional life. For me it is very escapist.

We can relate to that. As fab is something private family and friends are not aware but having said that many parts of our lives are private anyway. Male half in particularly is private and doesn't live life as an open book which is why as a couple we don't differentiate between the two. Always remember being told as a kid to do all see all and say nowt.

V x "

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

There are people I've met through fab who are very much part of my real every day life so they both mingle into just life for me and I wouldnt want to have it any other way.

Fab is a medium for being able to meet people with a similar outlook that you might not get to meet in more traditional settings.

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Does your fab life taking over?

Like most people I don’t have much of a fab life or a real life at the moment. Where I live has been in tier 3 for what seems like forever. All I’m allowed to do at the moment is work!

Well this lockdown can’t stay forever so fingers crossed!

Roughly another 5 months - so it’ll be over a year in total. However - at the moment I’m counting my blessings as those are love are still alive and well!

That’s the important bit..keeping safe and alive!

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Kids, family and friends come first. This is just an extra to add to our amazing lovelife. "

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"No. But a lot of my close friends are on here "

Even better!

friends and fab!

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Family and work first not had much from the site. I am a newbie and this year hasn't been the best lol

Hoping for meets next year

Can't wait for hotels and clubs to reopen "

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Fab staves isolation.. as live rural.

Great friends at a distance we keep in touch..

Plus if lifes throwing a bad day..some of the posts make me chuckle"

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Not living my best life either on fab or anywhere else.

I tend to keep them very separate, but I’m spending lots of time on here in the evenings when there’s not much else to do.

V x

That’s sensible!

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Fab is like a drug it can become very addictive if your not careful "

I agree, like porn!

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"It's all part of the selection box of life. Keep everything well, for peace and contentment "

Middle ground is good!

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Why do folk differentiate between fab life and real life. To us fab is part of our life as is other hobbies and interests so it's all real enough to us.

You never hear anyone say for example if they go down to their local they refer to it as pub life versus real life. "

Yep but people judge unfortunately !

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Why do folk differentiate between fab life and real life. To us fab is part of our life as is other hobbies and interests so it's all real enough to us.

You never hear anyone say for example if they go down to their local they refer to it as pub life versus real life.

I do because it’s kinda squirrelled away to a small piece of my life that I don’t bring into my home life as mum, to my friends outside this, or my professional life. For me it is very escapist.

V x "

A little naughty side all for you to manage!

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Why do folk differentiate between fab life and real life. To us fab is part of our life as is other hobbies and interests so it's all real enough to us.

You never hear anyone say for example if they go down to their local they refer to it as pub life versus real life.

I do because it’s kinda squirrelled away to a small piece of my life that I don’t bring into my home life as mum, to my friends outside this, or my professional life. For me it is very escapist.

V x "

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"There are people I've met through fab who are very much part of my real every day life so they both mingle into just life for me and I wouldnt want to have it any other way.

Fab is a medium for being able to meet people with a similar outlook that you might not get to meet in more traditional settings."

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By *nob and KnockersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

It definitely beats Facebook

We are both on here quite a bit enjoying seeing others having fun and of course looking for our next victims I mean fab friends lol.

Only bit we don’t like is some of the negativity especially all the COVID idiots, we come on here for fun not to read arguments about clubs etc but guess you get that on any internet site sadly.

Keep it happy and sexy and we are loving it

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"It definitely beats Facebook

We are both on here quite a bit enjoying seeing others having fun and of course looking for our next victims I mean fab friends lol.

Only bit we don’t like is some of the negativity especially all the COVID idiots, we come on here for fun not to read arguments about clubs etc but guess you get that on any internet site sadly.

Keep it happy and sexy and we are loving it

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

In these strange times a spot of escapism is very nice,also can be very horny tooXxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean there's another life outside of fab!

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"In these strange times a spot of escapism is very nice,also can be very horny tooXxx "

Lockdown can’t stop fab!

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"You mean there's another life outside of fab!

Lol

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I’m a trucker so fab helps me connect to others when out and about

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"I’m a trucker so fab helps me connect to others when out and about "

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

It's a fantastic distraction Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know what real life is anymore

Don’t know what fab life is any more

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

Pre-Covid I used to spend a lot more time on here than I do now. I think I was borderline addicted lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all ....real life first and treat swinging as an extra ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, I always come first... oh

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

No both are shit

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Real life always has to come first. That's why I get annoyed with pushy single guys on fab who expect to meet at the drop of a hat. X

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No real life like work and my relationship come first, swinging is just a nice extra.

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

Its a part of me but not all of me, a nice diversion to life sometimes.

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Real life comes first, Fab is a fun distraction from normality

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

As .y meets are few and far between even before Covid19 hit Real life.

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"It's a fantastic distraction Xxx"

Can’t agree more!

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"I don't know what real life is anymore

Don’t know what fab life is any more

Know the feeling!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Does your fab life taking over?

Depends what you mean. 99% of my friends are swing or kink friends.

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Pre-Covid I used to spend a lot more time on here than I do now. I think I was borderline addicted lol.

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Not at all ....real life first and treat swinging as an extra ,

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Real life always has to come first. That's why I get annoyed with pushy single guys on fab who expect to meet at the drop of a hat. X"

Nice one!

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"No real life like work and my relationship come first, swinging is just a nice extra. "

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Does your fab life taking over?

Depends what you mean. 99% of my friends are swing or kink friends. "

That’s a way of doing things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab life beats going crazy because 2020 wanted to stop all fun. Bring on fab2021

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By *venturerMan
over a year ago

Bodmin

I thought this was real!

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By *nicorn_with_curvesWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

Love this post hope you find what your all looking for

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Nope real life all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ... and never would

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By *lim and louiseCouple
over a year ago

dromore

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Fab life beats going crazy because 2020 wanted to stop all fun. Bring on fab2021"

Good point!

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"I thought this was real!"

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Love this post hope you find what your all looking for "

Cheers!

you too

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Nope real life all the way

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"No ... and never would

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a Fab life

I do have a bit of a Forum life

Still though, I only come here when real life affords me the opportunity

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"I don't have a Fab life

I do have a bit of a Forum life

Still though, I only come here when real life affords me the opportunity "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reality wins through. Fab is only a diversion to me when I have nothing better to do, or even when I'm WFH (yes, some men can multi-task).

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Reality wins through. Fab is only a diversion to me when I have nothing better to do, or even when I'm WFH (yes, some men can multi-task). "

Good one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go through little phases with it. Sometimes I'm really keen to chat and get involved, other times I just read through the forums and browse the pretty pictures without chatting.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

both are very important to me i just don't mix daily life with my private life , fabs is my secret and i protect this secret with passion

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"I go through little phases with it. Sometimes I'm really keen to chat and get involved, other times I just read through the forums and browse the pretty pictures without chatting. "

A bit of both then!

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"both are very important to me i just don't mix daily life with my private life , fabs is my secret and i protect this secret with passion "

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By *aturewomanloverMan
over a year ago

staffs/cheshire

Have to do 'fab' in moderation. You can sit on here for hours on end with not so much as a reply, then you realise you've wasted a day/half a day not doing stuff or going places that actually mattered

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Have to do 'fab' in moderation. You can sit on here for hours on end with not so much as a reply, then you realise you've wasted a day/half a day not doing stuff or going places that actually mattered "

Yep!

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Entirely compartmentalised...

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

"Entirely compartmentalised..."

That’s a way of doing it!

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