FabSwingers.com forum: Considering putting on my profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Considering put bi curious on my profile to see if it changes the responses I get from messages and forum interaction. What would be everyones thoughts on this???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Considering put bi curious on my profile to see if it changes the responses I get from messages and forum interaction. What would be everyones thoughts on this???"

Are you bi-curious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might get more guys and TVs messaging, is that what you want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you wanna try cock then go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're actually bi-curious, then do it. If not, don't.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

If you're bi curious, put it on your profile.

If you're not, then don't

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have in the past tried a few things and have enjoyed them but I often worry it might give out the wrong impression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have in the past tried a few things and have enjoyed them but I often worry it might give out the wrong impression "

Do what pleases you. Not others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked the question because if you are, then the question becomes why is not on your profile already?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have in the past tried a few things and have enjoyed them but I often worry it might give out the wrong impression "

Such as what? That you actually like dick sometimes? Well matey I dunno what to tell you..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I have in the past tried a few things and have enjoyed them but I often worry it might give out the wrong impression "

Do you want to give the impression that you are bi curious? If so it will give the right impression.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have in the past tried a few things and have enjoyed them but I often worry it might give out the wrong impression

Such as what? That you actually like dick sometimes? Well matey I dunno what to tell you.."
it's more with couples I dont mind close contact with the male parts but I wouldn't want solo mm action foes that make sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve received abuse for being straight. Some couples will only meet bi guys so if you think it will increase your chances of getting some action then go for it.

But don’t turn up and say I don’t suck cock or take or give it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with enjoying both the male and female form - I think I’m lucky that I’m bisexual x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have in the past tried a few things and have enjoyed them but I often worry it might give out the wrong impression

Such as what? That you actually like dick sometimes? Well matey I dunno what to tell you.. it's more with couples I dont mind close contact with the male parts but I wouldn't want solo mm action foes that make sense?"

Just ignore messages from single guys then, you can set that up in settings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have in the past tried a few things and have enjoyed them but I often worry it might give out the wrong impression

Do what pleases you. Not others. "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve received abuse for being straight. Some couples will only meet bi guys so if you think it will increase your chances of getting some action then go for it.

But don’t turn up and say I don’t suck cock or take or give it

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well I dont suck or take cock.. well I never have that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first came on fab and I had to blocked msgs and stuff like that, my inbox was flooded with msgs from guys wanting to suck my dick and fuck them etc.

So you're probably likely to get some interest, not too sure ultimately how much though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have in the past tried a few things and have enjoyed them but I often worry it might give out the wrong impression

I’ve met couples in the past. I have no desire to play with the male but happy to give the lady all of my attention. Even had swords knock each other. Hope that don’t mean I’m ghey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve received abuse for being straight. Some couples will only meet bi guys so if you think it will increase your chances of getting some action then go for it.

But don’t turn up and say I don’t suck cock or take or give it

well I dont suck or take cock.. well I never have that's for sure"

Do you kiss a guy? If not don’t say you are bi

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Depends how successful you are now you will get more responses from men tvs and bi couples but possibly less from straight couples and single women

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I have in the past tried a few things and have enjoyed them but I often worry it might give out the wrong impression

Got ya. Don't put it, just write a bit in your profile saying what you said here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have in the past tried a few things and have enjoyed them but I often worry it might give out the wrong impression

If it's just that you don't mind close contact with another man in an MFM then that doesn't mean your bi-curious.

If you want to kiss/fuck or be fucked /give or receive oral etc etc. with a man in any scenario that would definitely make you bi-curious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve received abuse for being straight. Some couples will only meet bi guys so if you think it will increase your chances of getting some action then go for it.

But don’t turn up and say I don’t suck cock or take or give it

well I dont suck or take cock.. well I never have that's for sure

Do you kiss a guy? If not don’t say you are bi "
I'd never kiss a guy and I fint find men attractive at all but I have had a guy hold my cock and put it back in his wife and that I loved

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have in the past tried a few things and have enjoyed them but I often worry it might give out the wrong impression

If it's just that you don't mind close contact with another man in an MFM then that doesn't mean your bi-curious.

If you want to kiss/fuck or be fucked /give or receive oral etc etc. with a man in any scenario that would definitely make you bi-curious. "
yet I do not think I'd go that far

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

"I have in the past tried a few things and have enjoyed them but I often worry it might give out the wrong impression "

I used to feel like that, but then I accepted that it was who I am. (the wife had known long before that she was Bi, but it didn't come as easily for me to accept it about myself).

Mine went from being straight to curious to bi. It doesn't matter what impression that gives, it's who I am, and if someone can't accept me as I am, then tough luck.

If it helps, explain a little. In your profile what that side of you means. We have a short paragraph that explains what being bi is for both of us.

Hubby x

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Your profile represents who you are.

What you put in there is up to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve received abuse for being straight. Some couples will only meet bi guys so if you think it will increase your chances of getting some action then go for it.

But don’t turn up and say I don’t suck cock or take or give it

well I dont suck or take cock.. well I never have that's for sure

Do you kiss a guy? If not don’t say you are bi I'd never kiss a guy and I fint find men attractive at all but I have had a guy hold my cock and put it back in his wife and that I loved

Did he wear a glove? If not then your definitely ghey. Seriously it’s what your comfortable with. I was fucking a lady when I felt it all go warm around my balls. I thought Christ she’s cum quick. It was hubby licking them. I lost my bonner and said no thanks mate. Then continued giving Mrs a seeing too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All you can do is be true to yourself

Think about you and not the opinions of others

I can't help but think that Fab would be a happier place for many if people were true to themselves, rather than putting down what they think will get them fucked

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All great advice everyone taking it all on board and giving it some thought

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve received abuse for being straight. Some couples will only meet bi guys so if you think it will increase your chances of getting some action then go for it.

But don’t turn up and say I don’t suck cock or take or give it

well I dont suck or take cock.. well I never have that's for sure

Do you kiss a guy? If not don’t say you are bi I'd never kiss a guy and I fint find men attractive at all but I have had a guy hold my cock and put it back in his wife and that I loved

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nope no glove and I actually enjoyed seeing it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I've put a little something in the bottom of my profile would appreciate feed back if what I have but makes sense please

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

WD, be true to yourself.

Explain in your profile what you mean.

Some people get the wrong idea about guys being bi. It doesn’t mean you want to jump on every guy you see. Some of us are very selective, much the same as with Women.

For some it can just be the sexual element of playing with genitalia but for others they want the full experience. Or any number of variations in between.

Only ever do what feels comfortable and good for you.

You are a Bear though and a few guys will like that.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"So I've put a little something in the bottom of my profile would appreciate feed back if what I have but makes sense please "

Looks good to me but then, I'm not very fussy when it comes to profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I've put a little something in the bottom of my profile would appreciate feed back if what I have but makes sense please "

Would you accept oral from a guy in a MMF scenario?

You say you won't do it, but no mention that you wouldn't let the guy have a quick nibble on you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"WD, be true to yourself.

Explain in your profile what you mean.

Some people get the wrong idea about guys being bi. It doesn’t mean you want to jump on every guy you see. Some of us are very selective, much the same as with Women.

For some it can just be the sexual element of playing with genitalia but for others they want the full experience. Or any number of variations in between.

Only ever do what feels comfortable and good for you.

You are a Bear though and a few guys will like that.

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thanks guys your advice is always very sensible

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So I've put a little something in the bottom of my profile would appreciate feed back if what I have but makes sense please

Would you accept oral from a guy in a MMF scenario?

You say you won't do it, but no mention that you wouldn't let the guy have a quick nibble on you "
I have never done it and have no idea how I'd react if I'm honest while the though of it doesnt repulse me at all I think if I was having sex with a woman looking at her I came out and he had a little suck b4 putting it back in I think I could handle that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So I've put a little something in the bottom of my profile would appreciate feed back if what I have but makes sense please

Looks good to me but then, I'm not very fussy when it comes to profile. "
I want it to make sense what I've put so I dong give the wrong impression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I've put a little something in the bottom of my profile would appreciate feed back if what I have but makes sense please

Would you accept oral from a guy in a MMF scenario?

You say you won't do it, but no mention that you wouldn't let the guy have a quick nibble on you I have never done it and have no idea how I'd react if I'm honest while the though of it doesnt repulse me at all I think if I was having sex with a woman looking at her I came out and he had a little suck b4 putting it back in I think I could handle that

Honestly

I think you're overthinking things

I think you're a straight guy who recognises that, from time to time, you're gonna be in close tackle contact with another guy

I don't see any reason to change your status here

As long as you are open with the couples you meet and all are aware of the boundaries then all's good

Once you've all agreed that getting together could be fun, the key to a good meet is great, honest, communication

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So I've put a little something in the bottom of my profile would appreciate feed back if what I have but makes sense please

Would you accept oral from a guy in a MMF scenario?

Honestly

I think you're overthinking things

I think you're a straight guy who recognises that, from time to time, you're gonna be in close tackle contact with another guy

I don't see any reason to change your status here

As long as you are open with the couples you meet and all are aware of the boundaries then all's good

Once you've all agreed that getting together could be fun, the key to a good meet is great, honest, communication"
I think your right I do tend to over think things and to be honest I hate the bi straight bi curious labels i dont think they are very clear

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