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Do you plan your sexy fun?

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By *aomilatte OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

You're going have a sexy time. Do you plan ahead and think "I'm going to do this or that to him/her"? Or is it all spontaneous? However you play, variety is the spice of life

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over a year ago

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"You're going have a sexy time. Do you plan ahead and think "I'm going to do this or that to him/her"? Or is it all spontaneous? However you play, variety is the spice of life "

Spontaneous always , I don't like scripted unless in an occasional role play

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation. A lot of the time we just go with the flow, if its bdsm play, we plan a scene.

A rough game plan sometimes can be useful in any play time.

J

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By *onglegs888Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

A bit of both. Having kids and busy work schedules we have to plan time when it’s just the 2 of us. On those times our ‘bag of tricks’ comes out which can be quite planed. But other times it’s go with the flow and get what we can lol.

Agree variety is thd spice of life... it’s why we are missing our club visits so much... imagine just having sex with the one person lol

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't technically plan in so far as I don't think I'm going to do x, y and then z. But if someone says they particularly like something I'll make a mental note of that and, if appropriate, try and incorporate into whatever we're doing. So I'm not sure if that's planning or not really.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

No agenda ...go with the flow...

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

It depends. If I've been chatting to someone for a long time before we meet it's probable I'll have been wanking over a variety of fantasies involving them and there will be certain things that I just can't wait to do to and with them.

If it's someone I've met a few times or if we've moved quickly from chatting to social to sex then I won't have put the same amount of thought into a particular session and I'll go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no more plan when the meets happing as don’t do drop off the hat meets but what happens on the meet is normally spontaneous

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By *ittykat94Woman
over a year ago

Gatwick

Definitely have some things in mind of what the other party like or want to try.

But very rarely is it a 'this is how its going to go' type of thing.

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Spontaneous for me

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Spontaneous as hell, we literally just go with the feeling in the room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chance would be a fine thing !!!

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

If it is a hotel meet, then I plan the begin a bit... Then go with the flow.

If in club... going with the flow, maybe just choosing the room, like either openspace room where there are others observing or closed room or often a dungeon. But I’m not planning something like “we do this there, then we go there and do this and that”. I tried, never worked.

Marc.

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By *abybearandthebossCouple
over a year ago

COLCHESTER

We like to plan.

We can be spontaneous too, with enough notice. ??

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

Most of our play is spontaneous.

However I will often make a rough plan for our BDSM play

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By *ont you just loveCouple
over a year ago

Banbury

We just go with the flow. Don't like planned play time, they don't usually work.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Spontaneous is far more exciting.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost always, as I’ve got to prepare a bit also , sometimes the best part is the anticipation knowing what u might get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plan a little, wishful thinking and excitement if you get lucky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're going have a sexy time. Do you plan ahead and think "I'm going to do this or that to him/her"? Or is it all spontaneous? However you play, variety is the spice of life "

Spontaneous, but sometimes start the day with dirty promises to get us horny x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I know what I like and that's going to shape who I choose. But on the day, my needs may drive me more towards some things than others but it evolves with the others at the time.

I've met a couple of people who wanted a rigid sequence, which was like hell. I'd not be comfortable doing that, unless a role play plan

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By *aomilatte OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

Interesting replies! We often may think of something we really fancy doing. e.g “we’ve not done a 69 for a while”. So one of us takes the lead. Or it may be a tie n tease, something we’ve not done for a while to keep the fire burning

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