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By *inabush OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

We all know why we are here x and it’s wonderful that we think the same.

But do u prefer a “let’s fuck” message or a “hello I’m ... “ message???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to send a hello with a nice intro, slight bit of kink but not too pushy...

Hasn't gotten me far though so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for receiving I like all types of messages if I'm honest. If written well, a short and direct message can be as intriguing as a long well thought out one. Depends on the person sending it for me I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hello I’m If you send me let’s fuck I just bin it as I don’t sit around with makeup on all dolled up just wait on someone message me and anyone who this I do isn’t worth my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block any crude messages.and if theyve not put in the effort to read our profile and make it interesting. Delete and block.

J

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By *inabush OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"We block any crude messages.and if theyve not put in the effort to read our profile and make it interesting. Delete and block.

J "

We do too x we can all be crude in the right situation x but not while introducing yourself to others x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a mine field isn’t it.

Some people like one thing and some another.

It must be so hard for a single guy as there are so many on here wanting the same thing.

Personally; it’s a link between the hello and the profile pic. If they don’t catch my attention then I’m not interested and sadly, will have to delete at times.

A short hey, or what’s up is NOT going to get a reply at all.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"We all know why we are here x and it’s wonderful that we think the same.

But do u prefer a “let’s fuck” message or a “hello I’m ... “ message???"
I wish I got a let's fuck message hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same question lingers in the second and third message! I’ve blown it in the second and third by being a bit to dirty with some and bit too prim and proper with others

It’s almost impossible to get it right with everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate rude and crude 1st messages. Lets fuck is quite tame compared to some we have had.

They tend to get delete and block without a reply.

I also despise the ones that send 'free tomorrow between 10 and 2 to fuck your wife.' Like this is instafuck and that is ever going to happen.

I actually love my wife and I am not here to farm her out to everyone on Fab. M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hello" and a face pic, please speak to me like a person not a sex toy. Yes we're here to fuck but manners and personality count more than anything else. First messages to the effect of "let me pound ur cunt" with a dick pic on the toilet will be an instant delete. I get far too many of the latter!

End rant xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""hello" and a face pic, please speak to me like a person not a sex toy. Yes we're here to fuck but manners and personality count more than anything else. First messages to the effect of "let me pound ur cunt" with a dick pic on the toilet will be an instant delete. I get far too many of the latter!

End rant xx"

Can I put you to the test and you give me a ?/10 for effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One liners are a delete.

Someone who writes a nice message, or something funny I reply to

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

We'd prefer. we are addressed as a couple first. not just can I fuck val

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By *limBobStretchedPantsMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


""hello" and a face pic, please speak to me like a person not a sex toy. Yes we're here to fuck but manners and personality count more than anything else. First messages to the effect of "let me pound ur cunt" with a dick pic on the toilet will be an instant delete. I get far too many of the latter!

End rant xx"

I agree. You wouldn’t walk up to someone in the street and say “let me pound you”. Make a connection. Have a chat. Swap a few pictures and build up a rapport.

I always like to open with hello. I have found from experience that the picture you attach can make or break the message too. If the profile says send a face pic. Then send a face pick. Not a dick or a body but a face. It’s only polite. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found from experience that the picture you attach can make or break the message too"

I always laugh when someone has a dick pic as their profile pic, and attach it in the message also

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By *limBobStretchedPantsMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I have found from experience that the picture you attach can make or break the message too

I always laugh when someone has a dick pic as their profile pic, and attach it in the message also "

It’s probably because in their mind it’s the only decent picture they have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im happy to get anything!

However I would prefer something demonstrating an ability have a conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m polite when messaging but a tad shy and don’t quite know what to say to start a conversation apart from the boring “Hi hope you’re ok” no wonder nobody ever replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found from experience that the picture you attach can make or break the message too

I always laugh when someone has a dick pic as their profile pic, and attach it in the message also

It’s probably because in their mind it’s the only decent picture they have. "

Sometimes I send them a dick pic back.

I have a friends only picture of my cock and using an app with filters my cock has a girl's face on the helmet and is wearing a bikini.

It scares some people

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