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By *illow-Talk OP   Man
over a year ago

Shipston-on-Stour

As a straight guy I find it a bit strange than my profile gets looked at by other guys 90% of the time. Do other guys experience the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are perves on this site?

Why was I not informed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they like your motorbike.

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By *illow-Talk OP   Man
over a year ago

Shipston-on-Stour


"Maybe they like your motorbike. "

Apparently it’s not just my motorbike they are after, some want to suck my cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea....90% blokes for me as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More blokes than Women view my profile. If i was into blokes i'd probably have a lot more fun on here but i only like the Ladies so don't get no fun on here!

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Women generally view profiles in stealth mode to head off the inevitable harassment from guys who consider a view to be an invitation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women generally view profiles in stealth mode to head off the inevitable harassment from guys who consider a view to be an invitation. "

We always look in stealth mode, you could tighten your filters on who can contact you. *Honey

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

I always do it on purpose when someone posts a thread about this. Sorry its my lock down joy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More blokes than Women view my profile. If i was into blokes i'd probably have a lot more fun on here but i only like the Ladies so don't get no fun on here! "

There is a solution to this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always do it on purpose when someone posts a thread about this. Sorry its my lock down joy."

Is that look at them or send a message asking if they like their cock sucking *Honey

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By *esi_maverickMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *esi_maverickMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Not many

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"As a straight guy I find it a bit strange than my profile gets looked at by other guys 90% of the time. Do other guys experience the same?"

It’s annoying when I see my photo got a fab then look and see it’s a 100% straight guy ( yeah right ) that wants to suck cock.

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By *illow-Talk OP   Man
over a year ago

Shipston-on-Stour


"Yea....90% blokes for me as well "

I’m not special then it’s quite normal it seems

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By *illow-Talk OP   Man
over a year ago

Shipston-on-Stour


"Women generally view profiles in stealth mode to head off the inevitable harassment from guys who consider a view to be an invitation. "

A good and very valid point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trouble is, there are plenty of guys here listing themselves as straight, but hitting on other guys so often you have to wonder. I think you're just suffering from the result.

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By *illow-Talk OP   Man
over a year ago

Shipston-on-Stour


"Trouble is, there are plenty of guys here listing themselves as straight, but hitting on other guys so often you have to wonder. I think you're just suffering from the result."

I wouldn’t say suffering, it’s not my ‘thing’ but I’m by no means a homophobic. I was just wanting confirmation that it’s not ‘just me’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could just be guys checking out the competition and looking for ideas to improve their own profiles?

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By *illow-Talk OP   Man
over a year ago

Shipston-on-Stour

Wow .... I’ve had a woman... yes an actual woman look at my profile today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow .... I’ve had a woman... yes an actual woman look at my profile today "

Get active in the forum and more may look and contact you from there *Honey

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By *illow-Talk OP   Man
over a year ago

Shipston-on-Stour


"Wow .... I’ve had a woman... yes an actual woman look at my profile today

Get active in the forum and more may look and contact you from there *Honey"

So that’s why most threads on the forum are started by guys

Yes I will frequent this social peculiarity more often in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a straight guy I find it a bit strange than my profile gets looked at by other guys 90% of the time. Do other guys experience the same?"

If it was only 90% I'd be chuffed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow .... I’ve had a woman... yes an actual woman look at my profile today

Get active in the forum and more may look and contact you from there *Honey

So that’s why most threads on the forum are started by guys

Yes I will frequent this social peculiarity more often in future

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Think of fab more as a social media site *Honey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gay guys seem to put themselves about more than women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gay guys seem to put themselves about more than women "

That is a sweeping generalisation.

Anything to back that up?

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By *lwayshorny79Woman
over a year ago

Leicester


"Wow .... I’ve had a woman... yes an actual woman look at my profile today "

I looked at your profile today too, admittedly it was your bike I wanted a closer look at though.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"As a straight guy I find it a bit strange than my profile gets looked at by other guys 90% of the time. Do other guys experience the same?"

Yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gay guys seem to put themselves about more than women

That is a sweeping generalisation.

Anything to back that up?"

My inbox haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *attM73Man
over a year ago

Oldham


"As a straight guy I find it a bit strange than my profile gets looked at by other guys 90% of the time. Do other guys experience the same?"
yeah I do and it is strange not keen to be honest!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gay guys seem to put themselves about more than women

That is a sweeping generalisation.

Anything to back that up?

My inbox haha"

The women here don't like dick pics, so that's something to keep in mind.

Also the women don't tend to do searches because they get so inundated with messages they don't need to send a first message, they just deal with the ones they get.

Also this site is so make dominated the women are seriously outnumbered.

It has nothing to do with gays putting it out more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male dominated*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of straight guys!

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By *arriLadMan
over a year ago

North West

Iv never understood the problem of someone viewing or messaging your profile just because they're the same sex, If it's not your thing either ignore or politely decline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a straight guy I find it a bit strange than my profile gets looked at by other guys 90% of the time. Do other guys experience the same?"

Sometimes it's to check out the profile & copy format or ideas for their own. Could be if a guy seems to get a lot of women flirting with them on the forums others will check him out to see what his profile says & what he might have that they haven't!

No harm in it really unless they start hassling you but then you can always think to yourself

'now I know what the women have to put up with'!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Gay guys seem to put themselves about more than women

That is a sweeping generalisation.

Anything to back that up?

My inbox haha

The women here don't like dick pics, so that's something to keep in mind.

Also the women don't tend to do searches because they get so inundated with messages they don't need to send a first message, they just deal with the ones they get.

Also this site is so make dominated the women are seriously outnumbered.

It has nothing to do with gays putting it out more.

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Personally I can't be arsed with the inbox admin so I block all categories from messaging me, do my own searches and send first messages. Plus forum flirting can lead to messaging. I think a lot of women could save themselves a lot of frustration this way. It certainly works 100 times better for me.

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By *innMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

I would say is about 70% guys, 20% couples (but that could be the guy) and 10% women.

I mostly get messages from guys wanting to be included in things I’m doing or planning.

Other messages are mostly from single women (couples rarely make first contact with my profile but a few respond to my contact).

It all makes for interesting chats during these days.

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By *illow-Talk OP   Man
over a year ago

Shipston-on-Stour


"Wow .... I’ve had a woman... yes an actual woman look at my profile today

I looked at your profile today too, admittedly it was your bike I wanted a closer look at though. "

If has a pillion seat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time ...

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"As a straight guy I find it a bit strange than my profile gets looked at by other guys 90% of the time. Do other guys experience the same?"

Perhaps they like motorbikes.

Plus how do they know you are straight till they look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been getting a lot of guys wanting to play with my man. Absolutely nowhere on my profile does it say he’s interested or even curious about other men so I don’t understand it myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a straight guy I find it a bit strange than my profile gets looked at by other guys 90% of the time. Do other guys experience the same?"

Quite possibly but having blocked all guys they don’t show up in my “Who’s looked at you” bit so I’m not entirely sure or bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time - quite happy with it

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

getting attention is good! reciprocating back is courtesy! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a straight guy I find it a bit strange than my profile gets looked at by other guys 90% of the time. Do other guys experience the same?"

90% of the views of my profile that I can actually see who’s looked at me are also by blokes.

I don’t hold it against them though, as all blokes are perves. It’s the way it is.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

You will always get views they won't know until they click on your straight and they are lots of men on here on straight profiles that regularly meet other men just block messages using filters

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By *lwayshorny79Woman
over a year ago

Leicester


"Wow .... I’ve had a woman... yes an actual woman look at my profile today

I looked at your profile today too, admittedly it was your bike I wanted a closer look at though.

If has a pillion seat "

So when are you going to take me for a ride

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By *illow-Talk OP   Man
over a year ago

Shipston-on-Stour


"Wow .... I’ve had a woman... yes an actual woman look at my profile today

I looked at your profile today too, admittedly it was your bike I wanted a closer look at though.

If has a pillion seat

So when are you going to take me for a ride "

Are we still talking bikes?

Need some warmer weather and this virus to disappear unfortunately

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Yea....90% blokes for me as well

I’m not special then it’s quite normal it seems "

The majority of guys will be looking at your veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a straight guy I find it a bit strange than my profile gets looked at by other guys 90% of the time. Do other guys experience the same?"

All the time.

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By *illow-Talk OP   Man
over a year ago

Shipston-on-Stour


"Yea....90% blokes for me as well

I’m not special then it’s quite normal it seems

The majority of guys will be looking at your veris "

Is that a thing ‘veri envy’ lol

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Yea....90% blokes for me as well

I’m not special then it’s quite normal it seems

The majority of guys will be looking at your veris

Is that a thing ‘veri envy’ lol"

To those who have no veris, probably But the world of Fab revolves around genuine people, who actually meet, and veris show who they are. Who would you choose to message; someone with one, or more veris, or a profile with none?

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By *illow-Talk OP   Man
over a year ago

Shipston-on-Stour

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By *illow-Talk OP   Man
over a year ago

Shipston-on-Stour


"Yea....90% blokes for me as well

I’m not special then it’s quite normal it seems

The majority of guys will be looking at your veris

Is that a thing ‘veri envy’ lol

To those who have no veris, probably But the world of Fab revolves around genuine people, who actually meet, and veris show who they are. Who would you choose to message; someone with one, or more veris, or a profile with none? "

Yes verifications are a good way of helping to spot the decent profiles, going to a club regularly helps, all of mine are from meeting people at Liberty Elite.

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By *stoppMan
over a year ago

Durham

Yep mostly men view my profile, a small amount of couples and very few women..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a straight guy I find it a bit strange than my profile gets looked at by other guys 90% of the time. Do other guys experience the same?"

Yes, don’t have a problem with it

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By *illow-Talk OP   Man
over a year ago

Shipston-on-Stour

After reading all the replies .... guys looking at male profiles is more common than women and couples looking at guys profiles .... The majority of guys don’t have a problem with it, I don’t either to be fair but would sooner my profile was more popular with women but I’m guessing so would most straight guys ... Strange little world is this Fab world

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Just weirdos

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Wow .... I’ve had a woman... yes an actual woman look at my profile today

I looked at your profile today too, admittedly it was your bike I wanted a closer look at though.

If has a pillion seat

So when are you going to take me for a ride "

When he welds some strengthening bars to the rear frame........I’m joking, I’m joking

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By *illow-Talk OP   Man
over a year ago

Shipston-on-Stour


"Wow .... I’ve had a woman... yes an actual woman look at my profile today

I looked at your profile today too, admittedly it was your bike I wanted a closer look at though.

If has a pillion seat

So when are you going to take me for a ride

When he welds some strengthening bars to the rear frame........I’m joking, I’m joking "

Rude

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Yea....90% blokes for me as well

I’m not special then it’s quite normal it seems

The majority of guys will be looking at your veris

Is that a thing ‘veri envy’ lol

To those who have no veris, probably But the world of Fab revolves around genuine people, who actually meet, and veris show who they are. Who would you choose to message; someone with one, or more veris, or a profile with none?

Yes verifications are a good way of helping to spot the decent profiles, going to a club regularly helps, all of mine are from meeting people at Liberty Elite. "

We don’t all have clubs on our doorsteps though , and as a solo guy, you have to choose carefully which nights to visit a club

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By *illow-Talk OP   Man
over a year ago

Shipston-on-Stour


"Yea....90% blokes for me as well

I’m not special then it’s quite normal it seems

The majority of guys will be looking at your veris

Is that a thing ‘veri envy’ lol

To those who have no veris, probably But the world of Fab revolves around genuine people, who actually meet, and veris show who they are. Who would you choose to message; someone with one, or more veris, or a profile with none?

Yes verifications are a good way of helping to spot the decent profiles, going to a club regularly helps, all of mine are from meeting people at Liberty Elite.

We don’t all have clubs on our doorsteps though , and as a solo guy, you have to choose carefully which nights to visit a club "

Don’t have to be on your doorstep, take a trip and make a day of it.

Clubs are far better for actually meeting people!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Yea....90% blokes for me as well

I’m not special then it’s quite normal it seems

The majority of guys will be looking at your veris

Is that a thing ‘veri envy’ lol

To those who have no veris, probably But the world of Fab revolves around genuine people, who actually meet, and veris show who they are. Who would you choose to message; someone with one, or more veris, or a profile with none?

Yes verifications are a good way of helping to spot the decent profiles, going to a club regularly helps, all of mine are from meeting people at Liberty Elite.

We don’t all have clubs on our doorsteps though , and as a solo guy, you have to choose carefully which nights to visit a club

Don’t have to be on your doorstep, take a trip and make a day of it.

Clubs are far better for actually meeting people!

"

The nearest club to me is 70 miles away, and others between 80-100 miles. By the time you filter out when solo guys are ‘allowed’ in (usually only Friday nights and monthly greedy girl events for straight guys like myself), you don’t have many options available.

I have to disagree with clubs being “far better for actually meeting people” too. I would never recommend the club scene to a mate, as a way of meeting people

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By *illow-Talk OP   Man
over a year ago

Shipston-on-Stour


"Yea....90% blokes for me as well

I’m not special then it’s quite normal it seems

The majority of guys will be looking at your veris

Is that a thing ‘veri envy’ lol

To those who have no veris, probably But the world of Fab revolves around genuine people, who actually meet, and veris show who they are. Who would you choose to message; someone with one, or more veris, or a profile with none?

Yes verifications are a good way of helping to spot the decent profiles, going to a club regularly helps, all of mine are from meeting people at Liberty Elite.

We don’t all have clubs on our doorsteps though , and as a solo guy, you have to choose carefully which nights to visit a club

Don’t have to be on your doorstep, take a trip and make a day of it.

Clubs are far better for actually meeting people!

The nearest club to me is 70 miles away, and others between 80-100 miles. By the time you filter out when solo guys are ‘allowed’ in (usually only Friday nights and monthly greedy girl events for straight guys like myself), you don’t have many options available.

I have to disagree with clubs being “far better for actually meeting people” too. I would never recommend the club scene to a mate, as a way of meeting people "

We will have to agree to disagree then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women generally view profiles in stealth mode to head off the inevitable harassment from guys who consider a view to be an invitation. "

I had this happen to me. I got a message from a lady who had not appeared on my 'who looked at me' list. She told me that she liked to perv and stalk in private to stop unwelcome messages from mainly men and the occasional woman.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Yea....90% blokes for me as well

I’m not special then it’s quite normal it seems

The majority of guys will be looking at your veris

Is that a thing ‘veri envy’ lol

To those who have no veris, probably But the world of Fab revolves around genuine people, who actually meet, and veris show who they are. Who would you choose to message; someone with one, or more veris, or a profile with none?

Yes verifications are a good way of helping to spot the decent profiles, going to a club regularly helps, all of mine are from meeting people at Liberty Elite.

We don’t all have clubs on our doorsteps though , and as a solo guy, you have to choose carefully which nights to visit a club

Don’t have to be on your doorstep, take a trip and make a day of it.

Clubs are far better for actually meeting people!

The nearest club to me is 70 miles away, and others between 80-100 miles. By the time you filter out when solo guys are ‘allowed’ in (usually only Friday nights and monthly greedy girl events for straight guys like myself), you don’t have many options available.

I have to disagree with clubs being “far better for actually meeting people” too. I would never recommend the club scene to a mate, as a way of meeting people

We will have to agree to disagree then "

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