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"We get messages from couples and sometimes the messages flow but usually it slows down after the initial introductions. To be honest, most of the ones that chat frequently tend to be single men pretending to be a couple or just the male half of the couple. We prefer to chat on Kik so all 4 of us can chat together and clearly see who is saying what. You might get more responses if you have pics of your male half, some couples won’t engage if they can’t see both parties. Lou x " Yeah, we will be putting some photos of Andy soon. We have also been caught out with the single guy pretending to be a couple thing so have learnt from that. We have also done the kik chat and we are now insisting on each of the couple having their own kik cos we have been chatting to one account which can get confusing and suspicious with it being just a guy. It’s basically meeting that couple that puts in the same effort as we do put a lot of effort into all our replies together. I’m sure you know what we mean . Thanks xxx | |||
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"We have been on Fabs a few months now and have been looking for a couple(s) for initial friendship with a view to a connection to take things further. To be honest we didn’t think it be too hard to find a couple with a similar humour, interests or the ability to write a message with more than 5 words to it, but we have found it really really difficult. We were just interested in what other couples experiences were with Fabs and to see if this the norm or is it just us??? A&J xx I feel you can tell quite a bit by the couples profile, as in life sometimes you gel sometimes you don’t. " | |||
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"We have been on Fabs a few months now and have been looking for a couple(s) for initial friendship with a view to a connection to take things further. To be honest we didn’t think it be too hard to find a couple with a similar humour, interests or the ability to write a message with more than 5 words to it, but we have found it really really difficult. We were just interested in what other couples experiences were with Fabs and to see if this the norm or is it just us??? A&J xx " It is very hard to find couples where there is some all round mutual attraction, which is why we have predominantly played with single gents so far. It helps that I (M) really enjoy the opportunity to see S really excited with additional help and also to see other selected gents get turned on by my wife. We continue to look for the elusive couple where there is a spark all round and that we could enjoy the company of, both sexually and socially. | |||
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"We’ve had lots of lovely chats and then lockdown got in the way. Must admit trying to find a connection and a convenient time for all of us was proving difficult but we hope things will improve once we are all allowed out to play x" Lockdown/Covid has ruined everything | |||
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"We get messages from couples and sometimes the messages flow but usually it slows down after the initial introductions. To be honest, most of the ones that chat frequently tend to be single men pretending to be a couple or just the male half of the couple. We prefer to chat on Kik so all 4 of us can chat together and clearly see who is saying what. You might get more responses if you have pics of your male half, some couples won’t engage if they can’t see both parties. Lou x " We also encourage a group chat on kik and get everyone engaged in the conversation. | |||
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"Can be difficult making a connection with couples probably your timing in joining hasn't been ideal with clubs being closed and socials are difficult to organise with the various rules across the country difficult to keep a conversation going on here as well " Although we joined Fabs a few months ago we have done the occasional club and socials before covid and really enjoyed them. Hopefully they will be back soon once this vaccine has been rolled out | |||
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"We have been on Fabs a few months now and have been looking for a couple(s) for initial friendship with a view to a connection to take things further. To be honest we didn’t think it be too hard to find a couple with a similar humour, interests or the ability to write a message with more than 5 words to it, but we have found it really really difficult. We were just interested in what other couples experiences were with Fabs and to see if this the norm or is it just us??? A&J xx " We feel your pain. It's difficult x | |||
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"We have been on Fabs a few months now and have been looking for a couple(s) for initial friendship with a view to a connection to take things further." Such a shame you're so far away | |||
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"We’ve had lots of lovely chats and then lockdown got in the way. Must admit trying to find a connection and a convenient time for all of us was proving difficult but we hope things will improve once we are all allowed out to play x Lockdown/Covid has ruined everything " Yes that is for sure makes the pre meet social very difficult x | |||
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"Given how difficult it can often be for 1 person to click with 1 other person, I'm often quite surprised that couples wonder why it's difficult for them to click with another couple " Yeah, me too. It's a delicate balance. Do I want to have sex with my opposite number? Does my opposite number want to have sex with me? Do the woman on the couple and I get along or will we clash? Do they both want the same things we want? That times 4. It's amazing swinging ever got off the ground | |||
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"I understand the desire to have a four way Kik convo going, but I, Chris, struggle a little with the concept - I don’t really like getting too deep into a four way conversation on Kik, or certainly not initiating it, because I might be seen as a pushy bloke, even if it’s a very vanilla chat. It’s so much easier in a club where it’s a given that people are up for a flirt. I think you’ll find a proper equal four way Kik conversation almost impossible personally. " weve a whattsapp and a kik 4 way group set up, and thankfully, we all get on with the couples in each group. It's a blessing when you find a couple on your level.. | |||
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"I understand the desire to have a four way Kik convo going, but I, Chris, struggle a little with the concept - I don’t really like getting too deep into a four way conversation on Kik, or certainly not initiating it, because I might be seen as a pushy bloke, even if it’s a very vanilla chat. It’s so much easier in a club where it’s a given that people are up for a flirt. I think you’ll find a proper equal four way Kik conversation almost impossible personally. weve a whattsapp and a kik 4 way group set up, and thankfully, we all get on with the couples in each group. It's a blessing when you find a couple on your level.. " Well we have group chats setup with people we already know from the clubs. Starting it from scratch with people you’ve not met seems like it would be very difficult. | |||
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"we've always found it much easier to connect with single men than couples. Its difficult to connect four ways." Agree. Near impossible to meet a couple | |||
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"We are always up for a chat x " You'll never know until you've got past the first hurdle of chatting. Pictures and profile texts don't always give a full picture. I'll always chat. You never know what will come of it. Could be the best thing since sliced bread, you'll not know until doing so. Xxx | |||
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"We have been on Fabs a few months now and have been looking for a couple(s) for initial friendship with a view to a connection to take things further. To be honest we didn’t think it be too hard to find a couple with a similar humour, interests or the ability to write a message with more than 5 words to it, but we have found it really really difficult. We were just interested in what other couples experiences were with Fabs and to see if this the norm or is it just us??? A&J xx " Like all connections the more individuals you add the more complicated it becomes. This is especially true if your individual needs become more complicated. But patience helps. | |||
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"We’ve met some lovely people & chatted on here & kik. Have also met people at clubs. Finding out if you “click” is really important. This thread is also full of EXACTLY the kind of people we like to look for! (Hot list MUCH large now, for the next time we’re on a naughty high & looking for playmates!). " Very true re:people on this thread and hotlist | |||
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"I just wish that they had some good, clear photos of the male in a couple! So far we have had to ask for photos, nearly every single time. They seem to be pitched towards attracting just single males,yet state they want couples? I also find the chat is rationed ,in comparison to single male and females?" We do like to see couples profiles with photographs of both. Far too many couples seeking couples have 100’s of photos of the lady. Okay, so I think ours is short of both but that’s only because we’re currently not looking to meet up and we do normally make our first connection at clubs which are obviously currently closed. | |||
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"It’s very difficult to find a four way attraction. Clubs seem to be a better environment but are obviously out of bounds at the moment." We found it difficult because of the distance. Basically, when checking the profiles, most time we see the couples from north or west coast. Or east London, which is basically the same distance than from our place to Manchester (in the meaning of the time and not mileage) | |||
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"Finding a four way attraction & connection is really difficult. As someone already mentioned, the absence of photos of your male half can be really off-putting. For a lot of couples, us included, it feels like the element of attraction required for their own female half is at worst irrelevant, and at best an afterthought " Can also be they have jobs where being a swinger could be detrimental. We have sent face pics to cpls we are chatting to on here, but putting them on general show is a no no for us. | |||
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"We get messages from couples and sometimes the messages flow but usually it slows down after the initial introductions. To be honest, most of the ones that chat frequently tend to be single men pretending to be a couple or just the male half of the couple. We prefer to chat on Kik so all 4 of us can chat together and clearly see who is saying what. You might get more responses if you have pics of your male half, some couples won’t engage if they can’t see both parties. Lou x " this | |||
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"We get messages from couples and sometimes the messages flow but usually it slows down after the initial introductions. To be honest, most of the ones that chat frequently tend to be single men pretending to be a couple or just the male half of the couple. We prefer to chat on Kik so all 4 of us can chat together and clearly see who is saying what. You might get more responses if you have pics of your male half, some couples won’t engage if they can’t see both parties. Lou x this " Couldn’t agree more with this! The guys pretending to be couples is a huge annoyance! X | |||
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"Finding a four way attraction & connection is really difficult. As someone already mentioned, the absence of photos of your male half can be really off-putting. For a lot of couples, us included, it feels like the element of attraction required for their own female half is at worst irrelevant, and at best an afterthought Can also be they have jobs where being a swinger could be detrimental. We have sent face pics to cpls we are chatting to on here, but putting them on general show is a no no for us. " I'm not talking about face photos, just photos in general. It's perfectly possible to add photos without compromising one's identity | |||
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"Bump" You keep bumping this...is there something you're expecting to hear in the replies? And the one piece of advice given that you can actually do something about you haven't taken *shrug* | |||
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"Bump You keep bumping this...is there something you're expecting to hear in the replies? And the one piece of advice given that you can actually do something about you haven't taken *shrug*" Not at all, we are just intrigued in different experiences. We are definitely taking on board the difference experiences and the advice. | |||
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