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Ex would you go back for old times sake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've often pondered on the idea as one ex meant alot. Would you look back on an ex and say one last sexual experience for old times?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

He preferred tv, vodka and cigarettes which is why i left.

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

No, because it'd unearth lots of feelings and hard to be a one off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather staple my genitals together. Though maybe one as we had some great deviant sex

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By *elsbells2011Couple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Definitely not. Need to have contact with ex due to the child but can’t help myself looking at his life and thinking thank god I’m not still with you. Doesn’t drive, still lives with his mum and he can’t seem to hold down a job. I do sometimes find myself wishing I had waited on having kids because things would be so much simpler if hubby was the kids dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely not. Need to have contact with ex due to the child but can’t help myself looking at his life and thinking thank god I’m not still with you. Doesn’t drive, still lives with his mum and he can’t seem to hold down a job. I do sometimes find myself wishing I had waited on having kids because things would be so much simpler if hubby was the kids dad"

You sure we weren’t with the same man

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"I would rather staple my genitals together. Though maybe one as we had some great deviant sex "

I agree with your sentiment for one particular girlfriend who I bought a house and moves in with. In fact she was the catalyst that pushed me towards the lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex-wife? There isn't a barge pole long enough!

But there is one ex-girlfriend with whom, in the early stages of our relationship, I had some amazing and inedible sexual experiences, and a part of me wishes we had explored more together, if I'd known about fab at the time. She'd be a definite maybe, lol.

But since then the sexual experiences I've had have surpassed those, and so a part of me just remembers that they are an ex for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.. Ex's for a reason (from both perspectives) and opens an enormous can of worms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sharon C; one of my teenage girlfriends. We had loads of naughty fun and pushed our boundaries. Would love a hook up and see what she is into now

If you’re reading this, send me a message on Facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope!

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"He preferred tv, vodka and cigarettes which is why i left."
He was out of his bloody mind

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By *ratos1Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"I would rather staple my genitals together. Though maybe one as we had some great deviant sex

I agree with your sentiment for one particular girlfriend who I bought a house and moves in with. In fact she was the catalyst that pushed me towards the lifestyle. "

Towards which lifestyle ? This lifestyle?

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By *ratos1Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

So im going through a "no contact" after breaking up.

I cant seem to stop myself wwnking over over all the time, thinking about swinging scenarios etc involving her.. I hope to god that doesn't carry on.

But no as muxh as I have been playful im now at the stage where I woukdnt go back

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By *otFun1976Man
over a year ago

Hove

There’s only one. Purely because she is filthy in bed and we know what each other really get off on.

Only occasionally. Great fun when we do though!

Both single so no harm done.

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By *xhibitionistbenMan
over a year ago

Ware / Kings Cross

Possibly... but only because she squirted like a fountain, and I didn’t appreciate how much I enjoyed that at the time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I often look and go wow great body and hey what went wrong then I get thinking and that's when I go oh yeah she did that!! No going back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have one ex and I wouldn't go back to him even if you gave me a million pounds x

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

Yes in my case as my now partner was my boyfriend at 16 years old and we re met 20 years later ... and 7 years on its ace!!!! as for going back to my ex husband gosh no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I would. We had amazing sex

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By *ary Mary not so hairyWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

No never they are ex's for good reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Not my ex wife, but an ex girlfriend certainly. She was the woman I should’ve married but as she didn’t want children, we both knew it wouldn’t last. I’m happy for her now as she is married and the guy has a daughter from a previous relationship but true to her word never had children herself.

Will love her till the day I die.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely off topic but Kinky Lips you are soooo dammmm gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He offered, I thought about, then decided it wasn't worth the heartache that would inevitable come afterwards

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I've often pondered on the idea as one ex meant alot. Would you look back on an ex and say one last sexual experience for old times? "

Not for old times but yes for future times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance

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By *ake The Rooster CrowMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

No never it wasn't a pleasant experience towards the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Completely off topic but Kinky Lips you are soooo dammmm gorgeous "

Who moi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My second gf and in a heartbeat my last gf i so so should have married her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope....They are ex for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh no, I divorced him for what to me are good reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never...... I’d rather eat a box of nails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Never...

In 4.5 years, he never even bothered to discover I could squirt and lasted all of ten minutes. Had far better sex since I left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never.

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By *urygent1Man
over a year ago

North West


"I've often pondered on the idea as one ex meant alot. Would you look back on an ex and say one last sexual experience for old times? "

One of my ex's is my brother in laws sister so see her now and then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of my exes...

One I am friends with on FB and I'm still good friends with her brother

One I have cut ties with completely. The relationship as friends turned out way more toxic than the marriage was. So, we're better off apart

One I count amongst my best friends to this day

One I exchange occasional texts with on birthdays and Christmas

I wouldn't want a sexual relationship with any of them though. Ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One was an alcoholic and gambler , other was mentally abusive , so I’ll definitely take a hard pass on that one!

I obviously have useless judgment, older and a bit wiser now x

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By *inkynudeMan
over a year ago

London

I’d fuck my ex again. Tbh, fucking was the only thing we did well at the time, we should have just stuck to that

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"I've often pondered on the idea as one ex meant alot. Would you look back on an ex and say one last sexual experience for old times? "

If it's my ex-wife the fuck no. If I was single then there are some women from my past I would be up for seeing again, but I'm very happy as I am. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a playmate, in an FFM situation or with L's blessing?

There are some I would, some I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've often pondered on the idea as one ex meant alot. Would you look back on an ex and say one last sexual experience for old times? "

If you truly are in to the swinging lifestyle then I’m sure that you would.

Me hell yes and have done and still would if I physically could.

T

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Some exes..... yes

Most..... absolutely no fucking way even if they possessed the last cock on earth and they’d brought booze and chocolate.

V x

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By *incscarcoupleCouple
over a year ago

GRIMSBY

Nah,

would rather guide my dad into my mum than go back ! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it depends on the situation. How you split. What type of relationship you had and what you expect to come of it again. But yes with one I would.

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By *hotographer 30Man
over a year ago

rochdale

Nope had 3 gals tried to get back with me never ,

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No, never. I very occasionally have dreams that I've somehow accidentally ended up back there. They aren't good dreams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually saw my ex very recently. She looked incredible, I actually couldn’t keep my eyes off her. So..........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, never. I very occasionally have dreams that I've somehow accidentally ended up back there. They aren't good dreams "

They are nightmares!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck no

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By *essica FlabbitWoman
over a year ago

west midlands/shropshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a weak moment... yes.

Any other time, no. It would confuse things too much and it’s far to recent for it to end in anything other than further heartache.

Thankfully my weak moments I intentionally distract myself with ANYTHING else. X

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By *essica FlabbitWoman
over a year ago

west midlands/shropshire

Not a chance I didn't have sex for a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t beat an inedible experience although we always love to eat pussy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance. She was narrow minded bigot and had her views on things. We slept in separate rooms.for 2 years before I gave up and moved out. Divorce followed another year of trying to make things work. So it's a big no from me about her. Now the one previous to her that's a different matter. Yes I would have one last night of passion with her and not regret it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex was a great fuck but bad temperd n impossible too live with, as mum said you can have great sex 3hrs a day but youve got another 21hrs too get on and live with each other xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only for Rough Anal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, never in a million years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm.. il pass thanks

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

Yes to get back at the fucker stole her lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and definitely not in the houses or car she took from me lol

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Not a single one of them...I'd rather have a bad wank in a bath full of fish guts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a single one of them...I'd rather have a bad wank in a bath full of fish guts "

That would definitely be a bad wank

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Not a single one of them...I'd rather have a bad wank in a bath full of fish guts

That would definitely be a bad wank "

I've probably had worse sex though so it would be an upgrade too

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

never, not desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a single one of them...I'd rather have a bad wank in a bath full of fish guts "

What a beautiful imagine

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Not a single one of them...I'd rather have a bad wank in a bath full of fish guts

What a beautiful imagine "

Isn't it....still more appealing than some of my ex's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crying

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By *ickinNottsMan
over a year ago

Hucknall

I had a sexual fling with my ex wife, shortly after getting together with my current wife. We did lots of things that we didn't do while we were married, such as anal and her wearing some very sexy clothes and boots (my fetish). We eventually realised that it really was just sex, she didn't want me back and I was in love with someone else. But we agreed that it had been fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance at all, after 10 years and both very much in love she committed a cardinal sin and betrayed my trust. She hadn't strayed it was something else, but it hit a switch that change it from love, passion and lust to hatred. I couldn't get hard for her if I tried. 10am we were in each others arms post shag, 10.30am we were done.

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds


"Yes in my case as my now partner was my boyfriend at 16 years old and we re met 20 years later ... and 7 years on its ace!!!! as for going back to my ex husband gosh no! "

I had a similar opportunity when the girlfriend I had at the age of 16 and dated for 6 years contacted me when she found out I had divorced asking to meet (not necessarily for sex btw). However, I thought about it and eventually said no to which her response was "Hey, no problem. Look after you"

I suppose that's exactly what I did. In hindsight, I have no regrets and my current lifestyle (and relationship) may never have fully evolved if I had agreed to see her again. Life is too much of an amazing adventure to retrace old tracks.

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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Only for Rough Anal"
made me laugh maybe for a bj straight after too?

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By *owithflow321Man
over a year ago

Molesey


"Only for Rough Anal made me laugh maybe for a bj straight after too? "

I agree x

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

There are a few exes who I would love to get up close and personal with again purely for the mind blowing sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a few exes who I would love to get up close and personal with again purely for the mind blowing sex "

Exactly what I was going to say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be painful if we did

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