FabSwingers.com forum: Sex parties

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Missing those sexy evenings where young and old, slim and curvy all in one bed pleasuring each other...

Do you like sex partys?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Sorry, no I don't. It's too much pressure for me and I'm an odd one. If I feel like sex is expected of me I freeze.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry, no I don't. It's too much pressure for me and I'm an odd one. If I feel like sex is expected of me I freeze. "

I understand, thanks for your comment.

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By *etpussyjulieWoman
over a year ago

stoke on trent

yes it's good too

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I go to parties but do not refer to them as sex parties. Sex is always optional with no pressure to play. Yes i am missing them and missing seeing all my swinging friends.

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I've attended some great sex parties and some that weren't. It all depends on the people - having a decent male/female ratio, being non-pushy and respectful to everyone.

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

"I go to parties but do not refer to them as sex parties. Sex is always optional with no pressure to play. Yes i am missing them and missing seeing all my swinging friends."

Yes, that's how I'd see it too. I'm not sure I'd want to go to a 'sex party' but a party among friends who like to be naked, play, with the option of some fun, casual, social sex is a nice way to spend an evening.

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By *andD300Couple
over a year ago

london

We’d like to go to one.

Not to swing but definitely be up for watching and being watched. C.

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By *icky and MandyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Mmmmm........It’s on our to do list ............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry, no I don't. It's too much pressure for me and I'm an odd one. If I feel like sex is expected of me I freeze. "

Think I understand what you mean, I once turned down a FMF for similar reasons!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Sorry, no I don't. It's too much pressure for me and I'm an odd one. If I feel like sex is expected of me I freeze.

Think I understand what you mean, I once turned down a FMF for similar reasons!"

Yeah, I don't freeze up at agreed meets or anything but parties where sex is expected aren't for me. A party with a good social space and the opportunity for sex is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to one, joined this in the middle of the pandemic haha. Will certainly be going post covid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I love them.

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

We have held 3 bi parties ranging from 12 to 25 couples and a few singles at our house,

Have to say they were all mad nights but it's the people that make a great party we just pro ide a place for people to loose all their inhibitions. And underwear, the amount of undies left behind is always amusing .

Would love to hold another when we are allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry, no I don't. It's too much pressure for me and I'm an odd one. If I feel like sex is expected of me I freeze. "

I have to agree with you

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

weve been to lots of parties over the years both free and pay but the best ones are people you already know back at their house or our house

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

we were once invited to a party and were told everyone HAS to play.We didnt go

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Sorry, no I don't. It's too much pressure for me and I'm an odd one. If I feel like sex is expected of me I freeze.

I have to agree with you "

We're all individuals after all. Some people like it some don't

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"we were once invited to a party and were told everyone HAS to play.We didnt go"

We went to a party like that except before we went they told us it was play optional, when we got there it wasn't. We left.

On another occasion we went to an invite only "social". Beforehand we were assured that there were no expectations or pressure but when we got there it was made pretty clear that I (f) was expected to partake in "dares". I was horribly uncomfortable and again we left.

I'm obviously not a proper swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weve been to parties, but wouldnt call them sex parties, more a party where you can play if you want to

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"weve been to parties, but wouldnt call them sex parties, more a party where you can play if you want to

I'd actively enjoy that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good party, but if no socialising and flirting whats the point. Might as well go dogging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love a good party, but if no socialising and flirting whats the point. Might as well go dogging. "

and we wander why this virus isnt going away??????

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Love a good party, but if no socialising and flirting whats the point. Might as well go dogging.

and we wander why this virus isnt going away??????"

Nobody has said they're currently going to parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love a good party, but if no socialising and flirting whats the point. Might as well go dogging.

and we wander why this virus isnt going away??????

Nobody has said they're currently going to parties

read the post above my last one

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Love a good party, but if no socialising and flirting whats the point. Might as well go dogging.

and we wander why this virus isnt going away??????

Nobody has said they're currently going to parties

read the post above my last one

I did. I'm not reading it as saying he's going dogging or to a party but if a party is just sex you might as well go dogging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe i took it the wrong way, but not sure i did, we all see things differently

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"maybe i took it the wrong way, but not sure i did, we all see things differently"

Indeed we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love a good party, but if no socialising and flirting whats the point. Might as well go dogging.

and we wander why this virus isnt going away??????

Nobody has said they're currently going to parties

read the post above my last one

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not seen anyone saying they are going to a party now???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am missing my regular parties , nothing like being naked with like minded people!

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

Not something we've done but post Covid, i think we could be very tempted but deffo not something pressured!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve hosted a few parties...always good fun

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Going to be a madness after lockdown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When allowed everyone should just meet in a huge field and have a massive orgy.

Glastonbury V2

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By *LUFFER200Man
over a year ago

North Devon

Love parties. The social side is as important as the fun side. Pre- lockdown I attended many parties in the London/Herts/Essex area. Have now moved to the South West so need to build a new network ready for the end of Covid-19. Miss all my friends and will go back to see them when this is all over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would only go to one if we already knew and were attracted to all the guests. It all seems a bit pressured to us to play.

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

I use to like the occasional swinging party,the last one I went to was in February,it seems like a distant memory now

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By *incscarcoupleCouple
over a year ago

GRIMSBY

"Sorry, no I don't. It's too much pressure for me and I'm an odd one. If I feel like sex is expected of me I freeze. "

Have to agree with you on this one, I much prefer the club scene, less pressure and if you don't fancy it you can have a few drinks try again or call it a night with no pressure to get involved

and live to fab another day

A x

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By *arried bi2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We have never been to a club but want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry, no I don't. It's too much pressure for me and I'm an odd one. If I feel like sex is expected of me I freeze.

Have to agree with you on this one, I much prefer the club scene, less pressure and if you don't fancy it you can have a few drinks try again or call it a night with no pressure to get involved

and live to fab another day

A x"

Why do you feel pressure at a party?

We don't have swinger clubs here in N.Ireland,so getting over to chams or wherever is a rare treat for us

We do go to a lot of parties,but just like a club,no means no,noone is forced to play or made to feel they should play

Many a party we have attended and neither of us has played,just enjoyed the craic and had a good night with like minded adults

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Love a small party can be so hot if you get the right atmosphere

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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

Why do you feel pressure at a party?

We don't have swinger clubs here in N.Ireland,so getting over to chams or wherever is a rare treat for us

We do go to a lot of parties,but just like a club,no means no,noone is forced to play or made to feel they should play

Many a party we have attended and neither of us has played,just enjoyed the craic and had a good night with like minded adults"

Been to a few parties as a couple with my old fwb and was made to feel like we was obliged to join in, like its expected of you, obviously if your a close group of people then it's all OK and if your a party regular

but if your a new comer then it's very intimidating,

We gave it a couple of tries just to make sure it wasn't a one off but same issue

felt like a more comfortable atmosphere in club and you don't feel rude to host if you leave early in a club lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Sorry, no I don't. It's too much pressure for me and I'm an odd one. If I feel like sex is expected of me I freeze.

Have to agree with you on this one, I much prefer the club scene, less pressure and if you don't fancy it you can have a few drinks try again or call it a night with no pressure to get involved

and live to fab another day

A x

Why do you feel pressure at a party?

We don't have swinger clubs here in N.Ireland,so getting over to chams or wherever is a rare treat for us

We do go to a lot of parties,but just like a club,no means no,noone is forced to play or made to feel they should play

Many a party we have attended and neither of us has played,just enjoyed the craic and had a good night with like minded adults"

Because the parties we've been to there has been pressure to play.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I also feel pressure at parties and I prefer the clubs.

At parties there tends to be less people and it stands out more if you are not getting involved.

Also I find it it feels more awkward when I say "no thank you". It might partially be my projection of the situation but I definitely prefer the club scene to the party scene, for those reasons.

At a club I can quite happily sit and chat while everybody else is doing whatever they want to do, at a party I just don't feel as comfortable doing that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you describe Roman orgy type parties do they still exist ?

Some parties expect you to be like a performing seal for the Voyeurs.

Great if all into that of course but puts a lot of pressure on participants to perform.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

It's been a while since j went to one. I also along with a couple I knew well hosted a few

I never saw anh expectation of having to have sex with a uone and people used to talk about ever day things.

I remember a woman who wanted a ride on my bike so I we went for a short run what I diddnt know at the time is that she undid the jacket I gave her and was flashing her tits. Said after itbwas always on her bucket list.

I miss those days

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"Missing those sexy evenings where young and old, slim and curvy all in one bed pleasuring each other...

Do you like sex partys? "

Yes great fun, the wife and I frequented Quest a bit and enjoyed the cinema room/couples room,

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By *ess007Woman
over a year ago

Blackpool

I’m a huge fan of sex parties.

I absolutely love being naked in front of people, the excitement, the adrenaline too

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