FabSwingers.com forum: How did you start

By *semenowplease OP Man
over a year ago

hotel near you

Just wondering how everyone arrived at the swinging scene? Was it unexpected?

For me i have a very high sex drive and enjoy meeting people so 2+2 = swinging or so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering how everyone arrived at the swinging scene? Was it unexpected?

For me i have a very high sex drive and enjoy meeting people so 2+2 = swinging or so to speak. "

I found a few websites that have all been bought and made more corporate, while I was a student, back in 2003. I still have an account with one as part of the deal when the owners sold it was original members would be free for life, so I’ve never deleted it.

It was curiosity that got me into it and the second couple I ever met almost put me off for life. The first and 95% of the couples since have been great. I’m largely here for sexually liberated single females ideally, so guess that’s not particularly swinging

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

An insatiable appetite for boobs and also a deep love of penis. Swinging is a great way to satisfy both while being married to my soulmate.

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By *urflrCouple
over a year ago

wirral

We’re fairly new to it, seemed to just be getting going when covid hit. Been together 3yrs and always been open to new things. We have a joint account on T**blr that we use to like posts so that the other can see, and Over time a lot of them seemed to be moving towards swinging/hotwife/cuckold likes, which brought on conversations late in to the night about it all. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

High sex drive , very vanilla relationship which then made me feel I was weird for wanting something more/different so had to suppress it for years.

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By *lasterman2000Man
over a year ago

Skipton

19 years old and having a fling with a 39 year old married woman, she gently introduced me to her husband who I found out liked to watch and occasionally join in...this was pre internet and I had no idea this sort of stuff went on, other than fantasy stuff in magazines.

She was an amazing lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friend (M) and I frequented saunas to play with couples when we was aged around 18. And then AIDS happened so we all but put our penis' away. Then in my late 20s my future wife and I discovered the classifieds in the back pages of Loot.

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Bed room small talk, curiosity, internet search, curiosity and we arrived.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex used to meet men locally when her husband was in bed , she used to tell me about it as a friend first then we got together so I already new as we had discussed before we fell for each other , so it was so natural to get another male involved which we both enjoyed as 2 men used to turn her on , she had no interest in FF

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By *ack with a bangCouple
over a year ago

Hastings

Text hubby whilst he was at work that i had had a dream about another woman. Basically after a few more exchanges of messages he said can do something about it if want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

friend was sick of my mopping after break up

So introduce me to this site , set up a casual meet convinced me to tag along so went with it.. a while later I had fulfilled one of my biggest fantasies two girls sucking my cock ,and then a full blown mfmf foursome.

Unlocking a whole new world of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something I had always wanted to do.

Was in a boring and controlling marriage and as soon as I was divorced I joined a casual hook up site. A guy from there introduced me to this lifestyle.

I loved the fact I could book sex as easily as booking a table to eat out, and forget about it as easily too.

Has been the best years of my life.

Left the scene now, but with great memories, good friends and no regrets.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Sit up with my partner and 10months later i walked into a swingers club and never looked back.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Discussing fantasies and watching porn, decided fetish clothing was hot. When in Amsterdam for weekend looking in sex shop with fetish clothing decided to buy some. Guy in shop gave us flyer for club that was on that night. Plucked up courage to go (very nervous - they had changing facilities at club so didn’t have yo walk around Amsterdam looking like goths).

Club turned out to be a fetish swinger place (ie lots of play not just posing and SM). Got approached by this hot girl (American living in Holland) and ended up playing with her.

Never looked back!

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By *stoppMan
over a year ago

Durham

Through photography, meet a guy who wanted his wife photographed, turns out they wanted the photoshoot to be everyone naked including me, got talking during the shoot and I ended up inside his wife while he watched,, they introduced me to their friends and I got to swing with a few of them next thing I know im being told of horny nude beach stories and fabswingers etc.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Watching Susan have naturist massages at home ...very slow ..very sensual...looked so hot ..massages carried on over months and masseurs got more "sensual" ....

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By *ubwayMan
over a year ago

Bath

Wrote it all in my story Bi sub in the stories section.

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By *tevechapMan
over a year ago

Bristol

living alone in London during the week (but going home to wife and kids at weekend) and wanted some sexual company without the risk of emotional involvement. Answered a couple of 'loot' ads ( pre internet!) and met a fantastic couple. have been enjoying swinging ever since

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

We started pushing the "boundaries" attending masked parties (burlesque with a hint of naughtiness), and kept on wanting a bit more.

Then we attended a naked spa in Brighton which felt so liberating, so we took it to the next step and went to a club (Eurekas) and the rest as they say, is history (and we are still here six years on)

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By *oner HornCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Two decades ago falling into bed with friends after nights out clubbing (and maybe a little chemical fuzziness)

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

About 25 years ago, on a chatline and arranging to visit a woman who casually asked if would be OK if her husband watched - hadn't even realised she was married...

....threw me to start with as that was new to me, but she was very re-assuring - visited the next evening as arranged, soon forgot he was even there, and the rest, as they say, is history!

Search 'How I got started' in the box at top left to read the full account...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a uni student in Stoke, my girlfriend at the time wanted to explore her bi side, after a d*unken night I Google a little and find a little club call Atlantis Evolution, decided to give it a shot and wow, what a time we had.

Hardest thing was walking though the doors, soon as we were in everyone was so nice and wonderful, no pressure.

We ended up going there more often then our SU.

We were known as the young ones.

We told a friend or two as well.

Still remember the look on some of the guys faces when I walked in with my ex and her friend. Gave me a good boost that day.

10 years later sadly we're not together but I stick around for the social.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"Just wondering how everyone arrived at the swinging scene? Was it unexpected?

For me i have a very high sex drive and enjoy meeting people so 2+2 = swinging or so to speak. "

I was ways interested in the scene from a young age and I am talking ba k in the 70s when i picked up a porn mag new directions. I was an outsider at school and so alternative lifestyles interested me. Had my first visit to a swingers Club I the 80s with the old Candy Club in Ilford and was hooked though I never played.

Had my first experience with a couple on the mid 9ps and never looked back

Sadly I never managed to have a girlfriend also into the scene so I could play as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering how everyone arrived at the swinging scene? Was it unexpected?

For me i have a very high sex drive and enjoy meeting people so 2+2 = swinging or so to speak. "

Amsterdam, live sex shows and alcohol. God bless the crazy Dutch folk.

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Bed room small talk, curiosity, internet search, curiosity and we arrived."

This is the same for us. Lots of curiosity

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

I was having sex with 'older' woman who mentioned it to me.

I also found out someone I knew was doing it, he's much older and much more experienced than myself.

So I asked him about it. (after a lot of drinks)

two weeks later I was t a bukkake and that was the start of something.

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Bed room small talk, curiosity, internet search, curiosity and we arrived.

This is the same for us. Lots of curiosity

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Usd to live a 10min walk from a club. A little less than sober one Friday night in my mid-50s I popped in on my way home from a boys night out.

Blimey......couples fucking in the 12 man hot tub....1 girl + 3 guys playing in a room with no door. 6-7 couples sat in a lounge chatting whilst porn played in the background.

That’s when I realised how social as well as sexual the scene was. Never looked back....

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

We decided to visit Atlantis to see what it was all about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple. I like sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex introduced me to the scene, being Dutch he was very liberal.

We tried Chameleons and I loved it, not together anymore but I still go to clubs

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We found ourselves at Hedo and thought ok this looks fun

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Mrs told me she fancied a pub friend ... Progressed to pillow talk ... Encouraged her to send him some naughty pics on FB messenger ... Invited him over ... Ended up sharing her with him a few times ... Then decided to branch out and meet couples as well. That's the abridged version, the long version is in two stories, 'How it all started' and 'How it all continued' if you're suffering from lockdown boredom and have nothing better to do

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By *ilkyladyWoman
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

I decided when I was 39 that I wasn't going to be celibate when I was 40. I did a load of bucket list fantasies and been swinging on and off since.

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By *andM TogetherWeCanCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Mrs sisters friend works as an escort and we were chatting about that and it got us talking and fantasizing about spicing things up ...after some stealth research here we are x

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

A d*unken night with friends in the early eighties

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

love men looking at my then g/f now wife and it went from there to wear we are now

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By *ormladMan
over a year ago

ayr / glasgow

Was talking to a couple on aff years ago. They mentioned the site. All this was new to me then. Spent 6 months talking in the chat room and met a lots of the people I chatted to on social events. Then got invited to a couples house got the nerves could not do anything that. Luckily they were understanding. Got a chance again with them and it went well and never looked back since

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We began many years ago chatting on Yahoo chat in the adult chat rooms

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By *lippy02Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"love men looking at my then g/f now wife and it went from there to wear we are now "

Very similar to us

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By *haved and SmoothCouple
over a year ago

North East

Mrs told me she would like a ffm when we hooked up so we joined a site, i was in the shower one night and she walked in and said she had arranged to meet a cpl an hr later! So we did

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By *arried bi2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Omg that quick

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By *ougntinaCouple
over a year ago

chigwell

Similar to us- after a visit to a nude beach triggered our imaginations visited a nude spa and saw what went on there, eventually joined in

"We started pushing the "boundaries" attending masked parties (burlesque with a hint of naughtiness), and kept on wanting a bit more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both played in the past with previous partners so we felt it was right thing for us to do.

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

I started after me and my girlfriend(now my wife) spoke about sexual bucket lists. We started looking in to a threesome and finally achieved that. Then we decided to meet couples, after a few tries we decided that we couldn't agree on couples so we decided that meeting people separately was the way forwards.

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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Started with sexy chat on nudist beach .....

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By *urtleJRCouple
over a year ago

Ystradgynlais

Students at University, met another pair of students who were exhibitionist and would come over ours most nights to fuck while we watched.

Then got invited to tag along with them to a swingers club...

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By *ilentnoiseMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Never ever imagined that I would get into swinging. An ex introduced me to it. She was much more sexually adventurous than me at the time. When we started to explore I was shocked at the intensity that it brought to sex between her and I afterwards. Haven’t looked back since

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

South East

"Just wondering how everyone arrived at the swinging scene? Was it unexpected?

For me i have a very high sex drive and enjoy meeting people so 2+2 = swinging or so to speak.

Had my first experience with a couple on the mid 9ps and never looked back

Sadly I never managed to have a girlfriend also into the scene so I could play as a couple

Goodness this thread takes me back. Loot, New Directions and The Candy Club - went there several times and never saw any playing.

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolves

seeing the then GF give a guy a blow job when she thought no one could see them. Found I enjoyed rather than being angry.

Told here I'd seen what see did and the affect. Within 2 weeks we'd made arrangements to see a couple. That was 30+ years ago.

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By *akedduo66Couple
over a year ago

Near Bordon

We, as others, had talked about swinging and one day decided to go for it.

Our first meet was in London and there was six of us.

I broke one of our rules, no separate room, (with C's permission)and I got led to a bedroom by a French gymnast and wow!.

When we later wandered back into the lounge C was riding this Brazilian guy, she turned and grinned at me.

We floated home on a wave of euphoria.

After many years of marriage its good for the old ego knowing there's some people who want to fuck you.

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