FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging with friends

By *aughty-pair619 OP Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

Hey,

Has anyone ever invited their real friends to play? Or played with their real friends?

Only asking as our first time was with a friend of his

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By *umstibleMan
over a year ago

Colindale

I've spoken about this with my playmate recently and she was down to the idea where we each call 2 friends and whatever happens, happens

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Yes our first time was with a friend... MMF

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By *aughty-pair619 OP Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

"Yes our first time was with a friend... MMF

Same as us!

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Yes our first time was with a friend... MMF

Same as us! "

If you're interested it has been written up as a story on here 'How it all started', followed by 'How it all continued' I know... imaginative titles huh!!

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By *aughty-pair619 OP Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

"Yes our first time was with a friend... MMF

Same as us!

If you're interested it has been written up as a story on here 'How it all started', followed by 'How it all continued' I know... imaginative titles huh!!"

We will have a read and let you know what we think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Our 1st swinging experience (MMF) was with my ex employer and good friend.

Didn't even know he had a profile on here until after.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

We have played with people we met on the scene who developed into friends, but not with friends who were not a bit kinky to begin with.

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By *eachyPairCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Us too

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By *agicfingerslovelyMan
over a year ago

Rugby

Yes a good few times

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Yes, we have with quite of few of his friends and also a few couples we know.

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

A spur of the moment three some with a lesbian friend of mine, developed into a two year relationship. It was lovely whilst it lasted, thankfully we are all still close friends.

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By *enuinecpl101Couple
over a year ago

Co armagh

We sure have and no regrets always stay friends xx

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By *igjohn78Man
over a year ago

lincoln

I have got a few male friends to come to swinging clubs it has been great

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By *pinOXMan
over a year ago

Las Vegas

Yes

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We did and it did not work. It was with our friends MF. Half way through, a male stopped it as disliked that I was playing with his girlfriend and she enjoyed.

Where Kama also enjoyed playing with him and I had no issues with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s how we got into it - was more a friend of a friend but we’re very good friends now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've spoken about this with my playmate recently and she was down to the idea where we each call 2 friends and whatever happens, happens

Sounds like fun.

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

We are going to do our first mmf with one of my best mates.

We feel really comfortable with him and he gets this stuff.

We have been able to discuss it openly and all.admit our nerves ect.

Its been in the planning for ages now and we are gagging to make it happen.

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

we had mfm with a mate a surprize it was never in pipeline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had fun with an ex partner and her work collegue/friend. They were started it one night rhey were out on a works do by sending a couple of kissing photos...And then a vidoe of them in the bar. Thought it was horny for sure but just a bit of fun....I was wrong lol

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By *aldyreynoldsMan
over a year ago

Oldbury

My first MMF was with friends many moons ago, other 3somes have been at a club with members rather than friends.

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

I got phoned up by an old fb and her female friend for my first fmf before i got on the scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't. I like to keep some separation xx

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

ours was with friends the first time, few beers you know the rest x

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By *plotgoblinsMan
over a year ago

heritage coast

Ours was with friends! A few drinks and a game of cards turned into strip poker!

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By *onosplayCouple
over a year ago

banbury

Random evening 2019 summer. Husbands friend was over and been through a messy divorce. Always polite to me but flirty. Quite a lot of drink ended up him joining husband and I. Enjoyed it.

Felt a little awkward next day but all cool now. Grown ups and all that.

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By *omeFreeMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

20 years ago the Mrs and me had got d*unk at ours with a male friend and called him into the bedroom. Luckily he came and we had some horny fun but it was our first mmf and not knowing better I gave his cock a suck which he didn't appreciate. I still get grief over it to this day. It was the first of many mmfs Im happy to say, though not with him.

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By *unny2447Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

We’ve taken a few of our friends to the club, only ever had sex with misses work mate, other then that just been odd stuff with house mates lived with misses and 2 other females

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By *umblebiMan
over a year ago

ayles

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Me and my ex wife used to have loads of dirty fun with my wife friends just one couple every weekend we used to go around there house and have a lovely nice drink and started playing spin the bottle and it just went on from there and my god it was fun

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

My very first encounter was with a friend and his wife!

Had a few further encounters with friends since but nothing long term

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Many times, with lots of friends - who aren't/weren't swingers.

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By *aughty-pair619 OP Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

"Many times, with lots of friends - who aren't/weren't swingers."

Bet they were glad to be your friend

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By *est-coupleMan
over a year ago

Southwick (near Trowbridge)

Yes, that’s how we began too x

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

"Many times, with lots of friends - who aren't/weren't swingers.

Bet they were glad to be your friend

It would ago appear so - some keep saying they'll be here soon as they're allowed!

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Yes we have, part of her role is to entertain

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By *N69Man
over a year ago

Sometset

I’ll be your friend lol

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By *moothLeanBodMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Yes, and it was a great 24 hours. Male and female were both close friends who I'd known for some time and were a couple at the time. A lot younger mind, which was fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife wanted a male friend to join us for mfm, all was good for a while,but she wanted him on his own more, until I was totally excluded. It was obvious that she had feelings for him. To cut a long story short,it turned out he was seeing other woman as well. Eventually he dumped my wife by texting me to say he didn't want to meet her anymore. My wife took it badly & said if she couldn't have sex with him anymore she didn't want anyone else, including me.

We're still together,but in a sexless marriage. So from my point of view, involving friends is not a good idea.

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By *ertngladCouple
over a year ago

thornton -cleveleys

That should have been a big red flag to you when you were excluded and should have kicked her to the kerb straight away. Never stay in a sexless marriage, its not good for your health, leave her as you have the rest of your life to live, you need to be happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't. I like to keep some separation xx"

Same here. Real friends we see to do other things with. We want to keep fab and real life separate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife wanted a male friend to join us for mfm, all was good for a while,but she wanted him on his own more, until I was totally excluded. It was obvious that she had feelings for him. To cut a long story short,it turned out he was seeing other woman as well. Eventually he dumped my wife by texting me to say he didn't want to meet her anymore. My wife took it badly & said if she couldn't have sex with him anymore she didn't want anyone else, including me.

We're still together,but in a sexless marriage. So from my point of view, involving friends is not a good idea. "

Have to agree as feeling might creep in and destroy everything between you all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey,

Has anyone ever invited their real friends to play? Or played with their real friends?

Only asking as our first time was with a friend of his

Yes our 1st MMF was a pal of his, hoping after covid to find others to share with

Highly recommended MMF ??

Needs the right dynamics if you involve a friend.

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By *ot Wife BeckyCouple
over a year ago

Near Bergerac

Got into the swinging scene in my early 20's with my ex wife.

We were very vanilla friendly with another couple for several years when it suddenly turned sexual.

We'd meet at each other's houses every Saturday for drinks.

Started with the ladies being dared to flash a boob. The next week, the ladies were topless for the whole evening and over a period of a few months it developed into being dared to openly fondle the opposite partner and finally giving a blow job.

We'd sit around for hours watching telly while the ladies kept the guys happy,

One evening we took the next step and swapped partners for full sex. It continued for many years and later developed further with one husband making up a threesome at the other's house.

The next week, a threesome with the other husband....!

Happy days...

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By *angerineMan
over a year ago

somewhere inbetween the right and wrong

I've played with an ExGF and her sissy husband- found the profile on here but didn't realise it was her until we swapped face pics.

Was a fantastic night, wish we could do again but it'll be a while yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have best freind of Amber’s we play with they are also both bi so it’s been a bloody lot of fun in lockdown

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast

We're still together,but in a sexless marriage. So from my point of view, involving friends is not a good idea. "

That would be my fear, too close to home for me. Unfortunate that it’s now left you in a sexless meaningless marriage, maybe for your own mental health you should move on, I’m sure it would be difficult for a few months but you’d soon get your life back

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Yes we have swapped partners with friends many times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know if I would swing with friends; there’s a fear that it may affect the friendship. That said I have people I have met through swinging and played with who have become friends (and playmates)

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By *werty987Couple
over a year ago

hull

Her only rule - no one she knows

Even tho one of her mates has been in the scene before and has said she’d join us! X

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