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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've never been to a club and im abit apprehensive, what can I expect on a 1st visit? Should I find someone to go with who has been before?

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Going to the club as a single guy is not a bad idea. Most clubs allows this on Fridays.

And believe me, men are wanted there.

You just need to freely talk to the people... so if you are stressed, get a few drinks, but do not get d*unk.

If you have an experienced friend... go with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people assume its gonna be a free for all fuck fest. It's not. They're very social places with lots of wonderful people.

On your own or with a friend they are great places to meet people.

J

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By *appy2100Couple
over a year ago

kensington

Been once loved it cant get back thanks too mr virus. Not what we expected everyone was so nice.

Loved it. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dont think I could go on my own,I have a friend who would go if I asked her....after covid of course

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

If she is only a friend, you both go on Friday and not Saturday. Many couples will quickly spot that you are not a real couple. You might be kicked out.

But if you go on Friday, then you have freedom.

She can help you with a conversation to the other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people assume its gonna be a free for all fuck fest. It's not. They're very social places with lots of wonderful people.

On your own or with a friend they are great places to meet people.

J "
this

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It’s a pub, with an extra area for fun on site, if you should meet anyone.

Don’t go with the expectation that you’ll meet and have sex. Look at it as a way to make some new friends and a possibility that in the future, those friendships may lead to something more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s a pub, with an extra area for fun on site, if you should meet anyone.

Don’t go with the expectation that you’ll meet and have sex. Look at it as a way to make some new friends and a possibility that in the future, those friendships may lead to something more. "

Is it strange to admit its a bit scary? Lol

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By *lasterman2000Man
over a year ago

Skipton

I've been thinking the same thing when things get back to some normality...so around 2022 then!!

Don't know if I'll ever have the balls to actually do it though!

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By *rownhotnessMan
over a year ago

Cheshire/London/Midlands

I've never been either not had anyone to go with

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"It’s a pub, with an extra area for fun on site, if you should meet anyone.

Don’t go with the expectation that you’ll meet and have sex. Look at it as a way to make some new friends and a possibility that in the future, those friendships may lead to something more.

Is it strange to admit its a bit scary? Lol"

No, it’s quite normal to be a bit anxious, I go in a dress imagine how I feel

However I do go to clubs that have bi nights and admittedly a Tgirl can be quite popular on those events / parties.

I used to go to Fetish clubs and they were a lot more standoffish than swingers clubs. So go with the intention to make new connections and maybe a verification or two, then you’ll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im not fishing for compliments but what if no one wants to connect with you? Maybe thats what im anxious about lol

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Im not fishing for compliments but what if no one wants to connect with you? Maybe thats what im anxious about lol"

On the way home you can curse me or thank me. It’s the night and whoever turns up.

I will guarantee one thing if you don’t go, you’ll always think about what could’ve happened

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