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By *erlins5 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Fife

I always send a couple of face pics on my first message. I think it saves time as the person knows if they fancy me or not straight away and also states my serious intent. I am completely single so have nothing to hide but am I being a bit silly ? I usually only send face pics to people who have at least been photo verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send face pic with first message....either scare or seduce lol

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By *erlins5 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Fife


"I always send face pic with first message....either scare or seduce lol"

That's my philosophy too but at least they will know what they are getting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're doing the right thing in my opinion, I always ask for face pics up front. Some might call it shallow but physical attraction plays a big part, if not the biggest part when it comes to more casual relationships and sex. Let's face it, hardly anyone on here is looking for marriage. Personality is important too, and compatibility a requirement for a meet. But if there's no attraction to begin with then it's probably best to get the "no thanks" out the way to begin with to avoid wasting everyone's time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with Jessica. The face is the first attraction for me .

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We normally ask them to check out our profile first and if they are interested then we will send a face pic on request

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

We tend to send face pics if the profile asks for them, or if we are trying to determine if they would be up for a play.

If its just having a natter or commenting on something then we don’t. Doesn’t mean one can’t lead to the other.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

I’ve started to want to have a bit of a chat first.

I’m

A bit wary of sharing face pics, and there are a lot of fakes out there.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I’ve started to want to have a bit of a chat first.

I’m

A bit wary of sharing face pics, and there are a lot of fakes out there. "

Exactly this, it’s a measured risk. Do we send a face pic at someone’s request for one in a first message when they themselves don’t display one or they have no decent meet verifications?

Hell no!

Do we send them to someone multi meet verified or a regular name we see on the forums? We probably would yes.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will reciprocate when a face photo is sent, but value my privacy too much to instigate it.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"I always send a couple of face pics on my first message. I think it saves time as the person knows if they fancy me or not straight away and also states my serious intent. I am completely single so have nothing to hide but am I being a bit silly ? I usually only send face pics to people who have at least been photo verified."

.

Not that we care what others do with their face pics,

but no, don't care for getting unsolicited face pics as

it's usually just an attempt at getting yours in return, probably

best to say in your message that's not why you do it

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By *erlins5 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Fife


"I always send a couple of face pics on my first message. I think it saves time as the person knows if they fancy me or not straight away and also states my serious intent. I am completely single so have nothing to hide but am I being a bit silly ? I usually only send face pics to people who have at least been photo verified.

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Not that we care what others do with their face pics,

but no, don't care for getting unsolicited face pics as

it's usually just an attempt at getting yours in return, probably

best to say in your message that's not why you do it

"

Thanks for that. I can assure you I do not do it to solicit a face pic back. I do it purely for the reasons above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry yes...I only send face pic if profile asks for face and not dick pic in 1st message

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