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the infamous non pushy guy/gal/cpl until you say not intrested

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

have you had them the people who you start having a decent convo with.

Then when they say fancy a meet sometime and you say no thank you or sorry you dont fit what we are after.

They turn nasty you see there true colours.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

But you're a single guy.....you're not allowed to turn anyone/anything down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have you had them the people who you start having a decent convo with.

Then when they say fancy a meet sometime and you say no thank you or sorry you dont fit what we are after.

They turn nasty you see there true colours."

Haha yes I've had plenty

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

Too picky by half

Don't you know your place?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But you're a single guy.....you're not allowed to turn anyone/anything down "

well you got me there lol but i ant that shallow am i? not all single males are grab what you can lol xxxx im just happy chatting everything else is a bonus xx

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

There's your answer

Picky sod

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if you get contacted by someone joined within an hour of your rejection....

RUN for your life..........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's your answer

Picky sod "

picky no i just dont go with just anyone so your saying ud meet with people that have poor hygene or axe murders lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had one rude retort, caled me a minger lucky for him I'd said no then eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only had one rude retort, caled me a minger lucky for him I'd said no then eh? "

minger should have gone to spec savers!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"have you had them the people who you start having a decent convo with.

Then when they say fancy a meet sometime and you say no thank you or sorry you dont fit what we are after.

They turn nasty you see there true colours."

Yes we have, one guy became qute abusive and said he pitied anyone who did meet us. Just as well we saved him from that fate then really

I thought the whol epoint of chatting WAS to see if there was any point in taking it further

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

and the above post proves that it pays to proof read

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London


"There's your answer

Picky sod

picky no i just dont go with just anyone so your saying ud meet with people that have poor hygene or axe murders lol "

Make him wash his chopper first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I did "

i ment the guy your just peachy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had quite a few nasty responses to rejection messages.

I remember one time a guy referred to me as a "ugly fat cow" because we politely declined his offer after seeing a face pic. We just blocked him.

Several couples have hassled us after we have rejected them, to the point where we've had to block them too.

Fairly recently a couple have slagged us on the forums because we rejected them. Not our fault they messaged us when they clearly didn't read our profile about what we wanted.

I don't necessarily think it's about showing true colours. Some people just cannot take no for an answer and take rejection very very badly. This usually means they fling an insult out there to feel better about themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples are the worst for this. And women are aghast that another woman has the sheer audacity to turn them down. How very dare I!!

Some vitriolic replies have made me think that I've had a veeeeery luck escape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had a young man who was very abusive to me on the phone the other day.

just shows, you never know what people are going to be like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some vitriolic replies have made me think that I've had a veeeeery luck escape."

^^ this

Nastiness after you've said a polite "no, thank you" just shows that your gut instincts were right in the first place! Next, please!

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By *uyuksno1Man
over a year ago

poole


"But you're a single guy.....you're not allowed to turn anyone/anything down

well you got me there lol but i ant that shallow am i? not all single males are grab what you can lol xxxx im just happy chatting everything else is a bonus xx"
i think you need a lie down in a darkened room with 2 lightly boiled asprin mate your not well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thank god its not just me lol i dont think anyone should get abuse because they have decided not to be a free protitute and to actually only meet those who they have a wish to , its a swingers site not a escort agency

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"thank god its not just me lol i dont think anyone should get abuse because they have decided not to be a free protitute and to actually only meet those who they have a wish to , its a swingers site not a escort agency "

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