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By *aytay987 OP Man
over a year ago

So let’s settle the debate...

Who’s better at giving bj’s...men or women??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never gotten a blowjob from a man so I can't say. What I will say though is that in my opinion women should be better at pleasing women and vice versa for men. Because we know what we like in terms of a general consensus (of course everyone is specific and unique) so by that logic, men should be better at giving other men blowjobs, in my opinion.

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By *aytay987 OP Man
over a year ago

"I've never gotten a blowjob from a man so I can't say. What I will say though is that in my opinion women should be better at pleasing women and vice versa for men. Because we know what we like in terms of a general consensus (of course everyone is specific and unique) so by that logic, men should be better at giving other men blowjobs, in my opinion."

Good analysis lol

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"So let’s settle the debate...

Who’s better at giving bj’s...men or women??"

The only genuine answer is this.

It depends entirely on the woman or man giving the BJ. Both can be fantastic. Equally both can suck - literally and figuratively.

It's not a simple question of gender superiority.

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By *aytay987 OP Man
over a year ago

"So let’s settle the debate...

Who’s better at giving bj’s...men or women??

The only genuine answer is this.

It depends entirely on the woman or man giving the BJ. Both can be fantastic. Equally both can suck - literally and figuratively.

It's not a simple question of gender superiority.

I get that, wasn’t about gender superiority, just a fun question that I thought people would answer with their own experiences!

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"So let’s settle the debate...

Who’s better at giving bj’s...men or women??"

Only ever had them from women, so no idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the individual. Not their sex. Both can be equally mind blowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had blowjobs off both and it depends.

Some men were good, some were bad.

Some girls were good, some were bad.

I can only make sure that I suck like a pro, and that's all that matters in my book

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By *aytay987 OP Man
over a year ago

"I've had blowjobs off both and it depends.

Some men were good, some were bad.

Some girls were good, some were bad.

I can only make sure that I suck like a pro, and that's all that matters in my book

Well I’m jealous I’m missing out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had blowjobs off both and it depends.

Some men were good, some were bad.

Some girls were good, some were bad.

I can only make sure that I suck like a pro, and that's all that matters in my book

Well I’m jealous I’m missing out

In the blowjobs I've had, or the blowjob I give?

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By *aytay987 OP Man
over a year ago

"I've had blowjobs off both and it depends.

Some men were good, some were bad.

Some girls were good, some were bad.

I can only make sure that I suck like a pro, and that's all that matters in my book

Well I’m jealous I’m missing out

In the blowjobs I've had, or the blowjob I give?

That you give!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had one from a guy, had plenty of offers lol but never taken them up.

From the women that i have had them from some have been better than others.

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By *aytay987 OP Man
over a year ago

"Never had one from a guy, had plenty of offers lol but never taken them up.

From the women that i have had them from some have been better than others.

Haha! Yeah, there’s always gonna be others that are better or worse

I just get told by a lot of guys that ‘guys give the best blowjobs’

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By *lli_sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

Very much depends on how much the person giving the blow job puts in terms of enjoyment, working out what the recipient enjoys technique wise and delivering that in a toe curling experience.

Not every male enjoys the same things in my experience and i have to say there are some ladies who really really know how to suck cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd disagree with this I'm afraid. I know how to touch me and how I liked to be touched, it is very different to touching someone.

Just because you like a good blowie doesn't mean you know how to do one!

Like everything it's practise that makes you good. Just because you own a car doesn't mean you know how to drive it!

Jenny. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best pussy licking i've ever had was from a woman, the only one to ever do it and it was her first time too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had blowjobs off both and it depends.

Some men were good, some were bad.

Some girls were good, some were bad.

I can only make sure that I suck like a pro, and that's all that matters in my book

Well I’m jealous I’m missing out

In the blowjobs I've had, or the blowjob I give?

That you give!

Ahh I see, good

Well, one has done extensive research and performed many experiments to master such a task

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

women xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never had one from a guy, had plenty of offers lol but never taken them up.

From the women that i have had them from some have been better than others.

Haha! Yeah, there’s always gonna be others that are better or worse

I just get told by a lot of guys that ‘guys give the best blowjobs’ "

I have also heard this lol, i will have to take their word for it.

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By *aytay987 OP Man
over a year ago

"I've had blowjobs off both and it depends.

Some men were good, some were bad.

Some girls were good, some were bad.

I can only make sure that I suck like a pro, and that's all that matters in my book

Well I’m jealous I’m missing out

In the blowjobs I've had, or the blowjob I give?

That you give!

Ahh I see, good

Well, one has done extensive research and performed many experiments to master such a task

Always happy to be an experiment in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had blowjobs off both and it depends.

Some men were good, some were bad.

Some girls were good, some were bad.

I can only make sure that I suck like a pro, and that's all that matters in my book

Well I’m jealous I’m missing out

In the blowjobs I've had, or the blowjob I give?

That you give!

Ahh I see, good

Well, one has done extensive research and performed many experiments to master such a task

Always happy to be an experiment in future

No experiments needed, I'm fully graduated

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By *aytay987 OP Man
over a year ago

"women xx"

Very confident answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a woman, I think to give a mind blowing blow job, you have to enjoy it. It’s not just about bobbing your head back and forth, it’s about using your tongue to explore every inch, whilst encased in your mouth and watch and enjoy the reaction of the lucky guy

Bonnie

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By *aytay987 OP Man
over a year ago

"I've had blowjobs off both and it depends.

Some men were good, some were bad.

Some girls were good, some were bad.

I can only make sure that I suck like a pro, and that's all that matters in my book

Well I’m jealous I’m missing out

In the blowjobs I've had, or the blowjob I give?

That you give!

Ahh I see, good

Well, one has done extensive research and performed many experiments to master such a task

Always happy to be an experiment in future

No experiments needed, I'm fully graduated

Well... I have nothing else to say, other than I would love to see this

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By *aytay987 OP Man
over a year ago

"As a woman, I think to give a mind blowing blow job, you have to enjoy it. It’s not just about bobbing your head back and forth, it’s about using your tongue to explore every inch, whilst encased in your mouth and watch and enjoy the reaction of the lucky guy

Bonnie "

Nailed it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bonnie "

Totally agree, a great bj is given by someone who enjoys giving them and is actually interested in pleasing the recipient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had the pleasure of BJ's from both sexes, so.....

Women tend to be more focused on how a BJ pleasures the guy and not on her own satisfaction. Whilst men and I'd count myself in this, give BJ's to also get some sexual satisfaction out of it for themselves as well as pleasuring the guy.

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By *aytay987 OP Man
over a year ago

"Had the pleasure of BJ's from both sexes, so.....

So greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" watch and enjoy the reaction of the lucky guy

Bonnie "

This

It's not just the blowjob itself, it's everything else that goes with it.

Eye contact is essential

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By *aytay987 OP Man
over a year ago

Eye contact is key!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are not my thing but some women are much better than others and it’s usually the ones you don’t expect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

50/50. But if I had to choose I’d say a guy gives better.

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By *avey57Man
over a year ago

cheshunt

It depends on the individuals technique. I had some lousy bjs off both women and men but also some good ones. I think generally men swallow more than women

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

"It depends on the individuals technique. I had some lousy bjs off both women and men but also some good ones. I think generally men swallow more than women"

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Second this

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By *eedsbig9inMan
over a year ago

leeds

Men 100 percent better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had blowjobs off both and it depends.

Some men were good, some were bad.

Some girls were good, some were bad.

I can only make sure that I suck like a pro, and that's all that matters in my book

This is so true

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

"... I just get told by a lot of guys that ‘guys give the best blowjobs’ "

I've been told this too. Strangely enough it's usually only by guys who want to give me a blowjob. Hmmmm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea. but happy to be a judge in any ensuing competition

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

My hubby says Men

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By *he posh pocketrocketWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon Village-Brighton Marina-Alicante x

I think my gloryhole blowjob videos show I’m pretty in the zone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex/gender/whatever is irrelevant.

The best people at giving BJ's are those who really, really, passionately, totally and utterly enjoy doing it

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By *aytay987 OP Man
over a year ago

"I think my gloryhole blowjob videos show I’m pretty in the zone

Damn I wish I could see them

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Av had no complaints, but it’s probably men as they know the feeling of what’s good whats not.. just like women are better at licking pussy

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

I've had great blow jobs off both and poor ones off both key is they need to enjoy doing ot rather than going through the motions

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By *ickinNottsMan
over a year ago

Hucknall

Funnily enough I have never cum from a BJ given by a woman. And only once from one given by a man.

I enjoy giving a blow job too and I love to swallow. I think that it gives me a feeling of power to have made a man cum in this way.

But I love making any sexual partner cum, however I do it.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

It depends more on whether the person is really in to it because they enjoy it themselves, or if they are doing it because you enjoy it. There’s a big difference and as the receiver it can often be felt.

That being said I’m quite partial to sucking a nice hard cock, but Lily is the one that seems to get more moans of pleasure when it’s her lips around it!

- John

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Never had one from a guy, had plenty of offers lol but never taken them up.

From the women that i have had them from some have been better than others.

Haha! Yeah, there’s always gonna be others that are better or worse

I just get told by a lot of guys that ‘guys give the best blowjobs’ "

And I get told by loads of married men that they're single. What does that tell ya?

I've recieved oral from both sexes and given oral to both sexes.

I can tell you this, it's more about the connection, the nuances, the enthusiasm, the listening to each other (not with your ears, but with your bodies), the atmosphere. So many variables go into it, including things like being tired, hungry or feeling under the weather.

When it all comes together tho.... it's beautiful.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

It depends what you mean by better.

Best technique or best for enjoyment?

If you mean best technique, then yes a guy probably could be better as they should know better.

If you mean best for enjoyment, then for a straight guy, a women would be better.

However the biggest difference will be down to the individual not the gender. Some are great, some are bad and many are in between.

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