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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone willing to admit they have the function to hide who they’ve viewed turned off, but secretly has a sneaky view of them while reading their posts in the forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have mine permanently off I wanna lurk without being caught lurking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like people to know that we are looking at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have mine permanently off I wanna lurk without being caught lurking"

Likewise

Oops sorry read wanna as wank

Specsavers tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like people to know that we are looking at them "

I’m not surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been in stealth mode for ages, can't see myself going back. No one's pleased to see I've looked at their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo "

I might have to have a lurker look a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel free to look at mine as much as you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave mine on too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo "

I’d love to see you looking at my profile! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone willing to admit they have the function to hide who they’ve viewed turned off, but secretly has a sneaky view of them while reading their posts in the forums? "

I always have mine hidden...if I hadn't I'd defo cum across as a stalker with all the pervin I do of some profiles...

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Guilty. If i want them to know i will tell them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We view in stealth unless we want to be seen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

I’d love to see you looking at my profile! X"

I already may have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

I’d love to see you looking at my profile! X

I already may have "

You made my night! No fabs though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

I’d love to see you looking at my profile! X

I already may have

You made my night! No fabs though! "

Hey That’s not very stealthy is it

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By *YX72Couple
over a year ago

newcatle upon tyne

We like to see who has looked - always a shame when there is no interaction from a hot couple x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

I’d love to see you looking at my profile! X

I already may have

You made my night! No fabs though!

Hey That’s not very stealthy is it "

Shame I cannot message you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

I’d love to see you looking at my profile! X

I already may have

You made my night! No fabs though!

Hey That’s not very stealthy is it

Shame I cannot message you x"

Why can you not message?

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By *ornyhun69Woman
over a year ago

Wales

Why didnt I know this was a thing?? I've being looking like a serial perv for months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

I’d love to see you looking at my profile! X

I already may have

You made my night! No fabs though!

Hey That’s not very stealthy is it

Shame I cannot message you x

Why can you not message? "

I’m not a site support any more x

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Ive been in stealth mode for years x

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

I've been stealth almost from the get-go; a lot of people message just because you looked, and I don't want a PM from every profile I pass by.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Of course. That's what a succubus do. Perving from far and then ... strike !!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Stealth mode always. We got blocked so many times I'm sure for over ogling, doesn't happen now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Selective in the function lol

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Stealth mode always on.

We are not everyones cup of tea, and so while we like to perv on other profiles we do not want to scare them off!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stealth mode always. We got blocked so many times I'm sure for over ogling, doesn't happen now "

Really? I love it when I see someone having a look pretty regularly. I often ask them if they want a friend invite so they can have a bit of an extra perv if they look genuine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo "

I’m not. I have an ogle at your profile pretty much every time I see a post from you on the forums

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Generally leave ours so they know we have checked them out but occasionally turn it off when looking at people close by as we have recognised people and been recognised

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Generally leave ours so they know we have checked them out but occasionally turn it off when looking at people close by as we have recognised people and been recognised "

If they’ve not got a very popular profile and you turn the function back on maybe a day or two after viewing them, you’ll still show up in their historic views though

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By *inky dynamic duoCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Didn't even know you could turn it off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never in stealth here. Happy to let people know I have looked at their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo "

I just lurked all over your pics x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

I’m not. I have an ogle at your profile pretty much every time I see a post from you on the forums "

Well you ogle all you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

I just lurked all over your pics x"

Just once?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Well you ogle all you like "

Mmmmm just ogled and fabbed so people know I have perved thier profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

I’m not. I have an ogle at your profile pretty much every time I see a post from you on the forums

Well you ogle all you like "

This hottie is on my hotlist.

I don't ogle. I gaze

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By *oldenskyWoman
over a year ago

london


"I've been stealth almost from the get-go; a lot of people message just because you looked, and I don't want a PM from every profile I pass by."

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

I’m not. I have an ogle at your profile pretty much every time I see a post from you on the forums

Well you ogle all you like

This hottie is on my hotlist.

I don't ogle. I gaze "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

I’m not. I have an ogle at your profile pretty much every time I see a post from you on the forums

Well you ogle all you like

This hottie is on my hotlist.

I don't ogle. I gaze

"

I perve you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

I just lurked all over your pics x

Just once? "

Mmmm i cant stop lurking now x im meant to be working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're in stealth mode all the time. The reason is that we look at profiles and not be necessarily interested in them. We're just being nosey. However, once you look at a profile, especially a man's profile, we were inundated with winks, friend requests and messages because they obviously thought we were interested in them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

I’m not. I have an ogle at your profile pretty much every time I see a post from you on the forums

Well you ogle all you like

This hottie is on my hotlist.

I don't ogle. I gaze

I perve you too "

I would of been perving you too if I had seen those thighs

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford


"We're in stealth mode all the time. The reason is that we look at profiles and not be necessarily interested in them. We're just being nosey. However, once you look at a profile, especially a man's profile, we were inundated with winks, friend requests and messages because they obviously thought we were interested in them.

"

This exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We're in stealth mode all the time. The reason is that we look at profiles and not be necessarily interested in them. We're just being nosey. However, once you look at a profile, especially a man's profile, we were inundated with winks, friend requests and messages because they obviously thought we were interested in them.

"

Mine is noseyness as much as perving, sorry, admiring profiles. It’s a shame blokes spoil it as I like being looked at, but only took a wink or more as a positive step toward messaging and then, only if they were local.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

I’d love to see you looking at my profile! X

I already may have

You made my night! No fabs though!

Hey That’s not very stealthy is it

Shame I cannot message you x

Why can you not message?

I’m not a site support any more x"

I changed it but you are to far away anyway

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We're always in lurk mode and we perve on forum posters all the time Especially if the profile pics stand out like some on this thread! I think we've added a few new people to out hotlist

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By *nmgCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I didn't know there was a function to hide who you've viewed.

Why would you want to do that??

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We leave ours on so people know we have looked. if we like what we see we fab away and see what happens

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

I've had mine in stealth sneaky mode for a months or so now. I found I was being blocked for looking at profiles. Each to their own and all but a bit un fair, I love a good perv after all

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

And today I learned that you could perv in private!...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did not even know this was a thing, I dont think I I would turn it on any way, I think some people like to know when they have been looked at and have a look at them, might like what they see and take it from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been in stealth mode for years. I often check out the profiles of people that post in the forum and sometimes a few times a day as my memory isn't what it used to be lol. Plus if I find some raher good pics I'll often pop back for repeat perving and I don't need everyone I perv on knowing just how much I stalk them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

I’d love to see you looking at my profile! X

I already may have

You made my night! No fabs though!

Hey That’s not very stealthy is it

Shame I cannot message you x

Why can you not message?

I’m not a site support any more x

I changed it but you are to far away anyway "

That’s the only reason I’ve not dropped you a message before today!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

I’d love to see you looking at my profile! X

I already may have

You made my night! No fabs though!

Hey That’s not very stealthy is it

Shame I cannot message you x

Why can you not message?

I’m not a site support any more x

I changed it but you are to far away anyway

That’s the only reason I’ve not dropped you a message before today! "

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

Turned of, purely because when you look at someone they instantly thing your keen lol and msg..eh nope just being nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel totally stupid, I didn’t realise this was a thing! It feels nice to the other person to know people are looking at their profile. But I suppose us guys do get a bit too over excited when someone actually looks at our profile!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

I’d love to see you looking at my profile! X

I already may have

You made my night! No fabs though!

Hey That’s not very stealthy is it

Shame I cannot message you x

Why can you not message?

I’m not a site support any more x

I changed it but you are to far away anyway

That’s the only reason I’ve not dropped you a message before today!

"

My thoughts entirely

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

I'm always visible to anyone who chooses to look at who viewed them.

Notwithstanding the current situation, why wouldn't I want someone who I might like to meet from knowing I've looked?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Well having read this forum and posted on it i went looking and found ours has been turned off for god knows how long. So my previous post is wrong, However i have turned it on now so lets see what happens

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Being able to see who has looked at you is a mixed blessing.

We defo perv some profiles too much so stealth mode is good for us. Normally people we have chatted to a bit and, when this Covid thing is under control, hope to meet! Don’t want then thinking we are stalkers!

Flip side - there are a few profiles we really like (couples and single girls) who often look at us but so far have never written. Makes you think “damn they just laughing at us”

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being able to see who has looked at you is a mixed blessing.

We defo perv some profiles too much so stealth mode is good for us. Normally people we have chatted to a bit and, when this Covid thing is under control, hope to meet! Don’t want then thinking we are stalkers!

Flip side - there are a few profiles we really like (couples and single girls) who often look at us but so far have never written. Makes you think “damn they just laughing at us” "

Surely not? Maybe they’re just a bit backward at coming forward?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

I’d love to see you looking at my profile! X

I already may have

You made my night! No fabs though!

Hey That’s not very stealthy is it

Shame I cannot message you x

Why can you not message?

I’m not a site support any more x

I changed it but you are to far away anyway "

I’d still like to message you

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I used to have mine turned off, but much prefer to keep in stealth mode. You do get messages straight after viewing someone for innocent reasons and I always feel a bit guilty for not answering them.

Must admit there are a few people that I wouldn’t mind them knowing, I’m interested in them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

I’d love to see you looking at my profile! X

I already may have

You made my night! No fabs though!

Hey That’s not very stealthy is it

Shame I cannot message you x

Why can you not message?

I’m not a site support any more x

I changed it but you are to far away anyway

I’d still like to message you "

Message away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

I’d love to see you looking at my profile! X

I already may have

You made my night! No fabs though!

Hey That’s not very stealthy is it

Shame I cannot message you x

Why can you not message?

I’m not a site support any more x

I changed it but you are to far away anyway

I’d still like to message you

Message away "

I can’t ha! You’d have to message me

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By *heerFlirtMan
over a year ago

Quite near Bath usually


"Like people to know that we are looking at them "

I agree... sometimes it can spark some conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have mine on mode

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By *riendlyStarMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Didnt know you could turn it off lol. I just view anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like people to know that we are looking at them "

This is me also.

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By *.luke7Man
over a year ago

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All you undercover lurkers are the worst.

Let us know we’re being looked at. At least give us that glow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You do get messages straight after viewing someone for innocent reasons "

This happens with me lol

Sometimes I'll do a local search just to see who's there and have a nosy at their profile, 10 seconds later they message and I don't know what to say haha

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've still not mastered it after 10 years here

If I click on a forum user it's usually a mistake, when I should have pressed something else on the screen.

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By *.luke7Man
over a year ago

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"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

I’m not. I have an ogle at your profile pretty much every time I see a post from you on the forums

Well you ogle all you like

This hottie is on my hotlist.

I don't ogle. I gaze

I perve you too "

Guilty of this also. Everyone that’s miles away from me that I perv on are probably just like “aw it’s just that creep again”

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

So think the site should list (not name) the lurkers in the “who’s viewed you”.

That would be a brilliant tease.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is always switched off. Otherwise it just encourages even more pointless messages, purely because we were being nosey.

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind people knowing i am looking if they look back and like what they see it could be the start of something

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I look in stealth, I forget who I've looked at so would appear to be looking a few times,if I didn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at mine anyday x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m an undercover lurker..... I may want to look more than once with out looking like a weirdo

I’m not. I have an ogle at your profile pretty much every time I see a post from you on the forums

Well you ogle all you like

This hottie is on my hotlist.

I don't ogle. I gaze

I perve you too

Guilty of this also. Everyone that’s miles away from me that I perv on are probably just like “aw it’s just that creep again”

"

I would definitely not be thinking that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lurking on here is similar to having the little blue ticks turned off on Whatsapp. I hate that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I leave mine on, dont really care about being a double looker lol

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

Ours are turned off because when they were on we would get so many messages from guys just because we viewed their profile.

If we had been interested we would have messaged them.

So guys actually got assy because we had viewed them but then did not reply to their messages or told them no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't even know you could

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

No we don't use that function lol,

if we've looked at someone's profile

then they should be allowed to know they have been looked at

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