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By *eard-lincoln OP   Man
over a year ago

near lincoln

I’m openly bisexual and on here looking for both sexes although generally prefer to meet couples and single females and I’m not looking to meet single guys alone .

However after chatting for a long time with a female today she said she loves some of my photos but other ones make her think I’m trying to cater more for guys rather than women. This is something I wasn’t intentionally doing but maybe my bi side comes out more in my photos .

Do you think these kind of photos put women off messaging ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be true to yourself

For every person who doesn't like what they see, there is someone else who does like it.

Rule 101 of life:

You can't please everyone all of the time.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Your photos are good. I would not change them.

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By *eard-lincoln OP   Man
over a year ago

near lincoln


"Be true to yourself

For every person who doesn't like what they see, there is someone else who does like it.

Rule 101 of life:

You can't please everyone all of the time.

"

Oh you are definitely correct on that point lol

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By *eard-lincoln OP   Man
over a year ago

near lincoln


"Your photos are good. I would not change them. "

Thanks good to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your photos are good. I would not change them. "

Exhibit A

Lol

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"Be true to yourself

For every person who doesn't like what they see, there is someone else who does like it.

Rule 101 of life:

You can't please everyone all of the time.

"

I completely agree with this x do what you want - more likely to attract people you want then too

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By *REYTIMBERWOLFMan
over a year ago

reading

i would agree with her. I am Bi Curious in a MMF setting but if I hadnt read your profile....then the overall impression I get is your male male orientated from the poses.

not sure why and you are clearly trying to aviod the hundreds of dick pics seen on many male profiles but there is a bias in feeling that it is more gay than bi.

just a bit of tweaking I think and sometimes less is more.... 41 pics is a bit self obsessed (no offence meant by that btw)

more fem and you to address the only you shots may balance...

thats my take anyway.

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By *eard-lincoln OP   Man
over a year ago

near lincoln


"i would agree with her. I am Bi Curious in a MMF setting but if I hadnt read your profile....then the overall impression I get is your male male orientated from the poses.

not sure why and you are clearly trying to aviod the hundreds of dick pics seen on many male profiles but there is a bias in feeling that it is more gay than bi.

just a bit of tweaking I think and sometimes less is more.... 41 pics is a bit self obsessed (no offence meant by that btw)

more fem and you to address the only you shots may balance...

thats my take anyway."

Thanks for the input it makes sense what your saying. I don’t tend to put anyone else in my photos in my singles profile as it’s my profile and people will want to see me rather than the work I’ve met. But saying that there are 300 odd photos of my and my partner and out coupes profile lol.

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By *eard-lincoln OP   Man
over a year ago

near lincoln


"Be true to yourself

For every person who doesn't like what they see, there is someone else who does like it.

Rule 101 of life:

You can't please everyone all of the time.

I completely agree with this x do what you want - more likely to attract people you want then too "

Yeah that makes sense , thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be true to yourself

For every person who doesn't like what they see, there is someone else who does like it.

Rule 101 of life:

You can't please everyone all of the time.

"

Exactly this. If you took the forums as gospel you’d believe no one in the world likes pics with cocks in, yet they’ve lead to me actually getting asked for face pics and in turn meeting.

Just try and appeal for the folk you’re aiming to attract. If your pics put people off, they’re not the ones, so best to put them off before you interact rather than once you’ve struck up a conversation.

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By *arbarianzCouple
over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE


"I’m openly bisexual and on here looking for both sexes although generally prefer to meet couples and single females and I’m not looking to meet single guys alone .

However after chatting for a long time with a female today she said she loves some of my photos but other ones make her think I’m trying to cater more for guys rather than women. This is something I wasn’t intentionally doing but maybe my bi side comes out more in my photos .

Do you think these kind of photos put women off messaging ? "

I can only comment as the male half, I do most of the 'admin' work on here. for us too many is a red flag as I (T) is straight. so its not really the area we are into xD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No such thing as too many butt photos

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