FabSwingers.com forum: Do Women message first??

By *ylonlick OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Maybe it’s my profile, but I don’t think I’ve had a message off a women first, before I’ve actually messaged her.

Do a lot of men notice this, is it just little old me ....Do I need to try harder??

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

I have received first messages from women, although its very limited on my experience on fab.

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By *irty-DianaWoman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow

I message guys first if I like what I see

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By *ylonlick OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

That’s good to know, and your pictures in stockings are amazing xxx

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Never happened to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no issue messaging guys who I feel would be a good match.

I often don't get a reply.

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By *aridon1Couple
over a year ago

6 miles from salisbury

I usually message first if I like what I see

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Yes, several times often after I’ve made a post on the forums. I have also made a few female friends and hope to meet with them at clubs in the future.

Only one so far wants to play, but that’s fine as I’m not really looking for women, more couples at the moment.

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

Never happened to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do, some very much don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message guys and couples first if i like their profiles and pics and match what they ask for their profile bio.

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By *ylonlick OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Maybe it’s my profile then, is it time to change it or maybe mix it up ??

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By *tan thrill seekerMan
over a year ago

wigan

Doesn’t happen often.

A couple of times in years on here. Did lead to one meet.

Sometimes I can get winks from girls. I will message, a well composed response, link it to the profile and nothing.

You can be messaging on here for a while and get ghosted. It’s just how this site is

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By *lwenWoman
over a year ago

De12 area

Ive messaged first quite a few times and men are just as ignorant as women and don't reply usually..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I have filtered single men out I have to post the first message. It allows me to pick who I like and not to inundated with lots of unwanted messages.

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Not often but some do

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's quite rare I would message first. Maybe a couple of times but it would be if I have noticed them looking at our profile.

Mrs x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We have had a lot more single women contacting us in lockdown for some reason.

Don’t know why; it is always nice though.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Yes I've had first contact messages from women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens but it's extremely rare.

Pretty much only happens when there's a serious imbalance in the attractiveness of the parties really.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Occasionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had a few messages form women and not just abuse from the forums.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I have received messages from women but it's not often... Sometimes get winks or some cheeky fabs of pictures which I follow up if I like the look of them too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had a few

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

It’s very rare I will message first. I see it as a way to only get messages from people that are genuinely interested and then go from there if I am interested. Hasn’t done me too bad so far .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I do all the initial messaging.

I’m the huntress and love it

Miss V

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have messaged many men first. Life is too short to sit on the fence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've messaged first yes, maybe what you're looking for narrows it?

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