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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

You think these days, it's just all one sided on fab? Seeing how much you can get out of others to cater for your own needs? Discuss?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can concur, I want it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You think these days, it's just all one sided on fab? Seeing how much you can get out of others to cater for your own needs? Discuss? "

I think for some, absolutely. Pesonally it's a 50/50 thing (given the chance), if the other person ain't getting anything out of it then I won't be satisfied. I'm a giver.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"You think these days, it's just all one sided on fab? Seeing how much you can get out of others to cater for your own needs? Discuss? "

At the moment, what not really looking for anything from FAB, we're just hanging around on the forums. Mainly me on this profile as Anita uses her single profile too, I just like to be a part of the community, having a giggle and passing on my vast wisdom.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really, it may appear so as the me me few are possibly louder than those who prefer to be more discrete. I am not into fab for what I can get, I am here to hopefully help others fulfill their fantasy's. Its not a selfless act, so maybe that makes myself one of the me me crowd as its something I enjoy, but I hope it serves all parties desires, and not just my own.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It certainly isn't for us. We want to enjoy experiences with other people who enjoy them too. Their pleasure is as important to us as their own. We have no interest in using people so we can fulfil our fantasies. We want them fulfil theirs with us to or at the very least have a great time with us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You think these days, it's just all one sided on fab? Seeing how much you can get out of others to cater for your own needs? Discuss? "

Given that the amount I can get out of others to cater to my own need is nothing, I call bullshit.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I have fantasies I’d like to indulge in, as my profile states. But these have to be reciprocal with the other parties involved.

I’d hate to be in a situation where the other person or people involved, were finding it a chore to be in my company.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I want mutual enjoyment. I really get off on getting the other person off. However, I tend to have more of a focus in the beginning on having my needs met, simply because I've had far too many experiences of bending over backwards to please others who turn out to care very little for me enjoyment. Once I'm sure someone is in it to please me too I can relax and revel in trying my best to blow their mind .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You think these days, it's just all one sided on fab? Seeing how much you can get out of others to cater for your own needs? Discuss? "

It does seem to be one sided when you read the profiles - all about what they want rather than what they bring.

I hope mine is balanced that way - I'd certainly appreciate some feedback on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want mutual enjoyment. I really get off on getting the other person off. However, I tend to have more of a focus in the beginning on having my needs met, simply because I've had far too many experiences of bending over backwards to please others who turn out to care very little for me enjoyment. Once I'm sure someone is in it to please me too I can relax and revel in trying my best to blow their mind . "

Exactly

Actually, I may have to steal that for my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab isnt what it once was. Lots of people just out for themselves. Whereas it's all about shared experiences for us We are here now mainly for existing friends, the forums and occasionally chat rooms. A bit of a perve also. Pre covid clubs were our meeting places of choice. For more of our kind of people.

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab isnt what it once was. Lots of people just out for themselves. Whereas it's all about shared experiences for us We are here now mainly for existing friends, the forums and occasionally chat rooms. A bit of a perve also. Pre covid clubs were our meeting places of choice. For more of our kind of people.

J "

Fab hasn't changed at all from what I can see. It's always been like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab isnt what it once was. Lots of people just out for themselves. Whereas it's all about shared experiences for us We are here now mainly for existing friends, the forums and occasionally chat rooms. A bit of a perve also. Pre covid clubs were our meeting places of choice. For more of our kind of people.

J

Fab hasn't changed at all from what I can see. It's always been like this."

I've been here 13 years.

Fab is a completely different site than it was in the past. It's been pretty much as it is now for the past few years (minus the influx of newbie covid fabbers) but it was a very different place if you go back a bit further imo.

Lu

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I want mutual enjoyment. I really get off on getting the other person off. However, I tend to have more of a focus in the beginning on having my needs met, simply because I've had far too many experiences of bending over backwards to please others who turn out to care very little for me enjoyment. Once I'm sure someone is in it to please me too I can relax and revel in trying my best to blow their mind . "

God, this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer to know ive given a female a very good time than getting my own needs. I'd like to think my verifications can vouch that as much as I live having my needs met I would be considered selfless in that respeft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab isnt what it once was. Lots of people just out for themselves. Whereas it's all about shared experiences for us We are here now mainly for existing friends, the forums and occasionally chat rooms. A bit of a perve also. Pre covid clubs were our meeting places of choice. For more of our kind of people.

J

Fab hasn't changed at all from what I can see. It's always been like this.

I've been here 13 years.

Fab is a completely different site than it was in the past. It's been pretty much as it is now for the past few years (minus the influx of newbie covid fabbers) but it was a very different place if you go back a bit further imo.

Lu "

I've been here for 12 years and I haven't noticed a change. Perhaps it's only different for people who aren't kept on the fringes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You think these days, it's just all one sided on fab? Seeing how much you can get out of others to cater for your own needs? Discuss? "

What do you think OP?

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Fab isnt what it once was. Lots of people just out for themselves. Whereas it's all about shared experiences for us We are here now mainly for existing friends, the forums and occasionally chat rooms. A bit of a perve also. Pre covid clubs were our meeting places of choice. For more of our kind of people.

J

Fab hasn't changed at all from what I can see. It's always been like this.

I've been here 13 years.

Fab is a completely different site than it was in the past. It's been pretty much as it is now for the past few years (minus the influx of newbie covid fabbers) but it was a very different place if you go back a bit further imo.

Lu "

Is it way worse since covid situation started this year? I been here just under 2 years and noticed the change in attitude

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I constantly get these "me me me" intro messages in my inbox. I given up even trying to start a conversation with people and just stay on here for forum/chat rooms when I get the chance

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