FabSwingers.com forum: Your first time?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello everyone. Hope you are all safe. My first time posting on here.

After lockdown, all being well, I will be having my first meet. I am absolutely terrified.

I would love to hear about peoples first meets. How was it. Were you nervous or more excited?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was nervous, but it was with an experienced couple. It was a good night!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Bricking it. Fortunately he was wonderful, understanding, and we're still good friends.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If I could at least make friends from this site, id be happy.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I was excited but he stood me up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

His loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very nervous! I’m a lot quieter than my other half so was glad he was there. Night couldn’t of gone any better! Just a social but had to be asked to leave as it was last orders and we were still chatting away. Have met since then for fun a few times.

A little nerves can be good, adds to the excitement. I hope it goes well for you

Mrs S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Very nervous! I’m a lot quieter than my other half so was glad he was there. Night couldn’t of gone any better! Just a social but had to be asked to leave as it was last orders and we were still chatting away. Have met since then for fun a few times.

A little nerves can be good, adds to the excitement. I hope it goes well for you

I so wish pubs were still like they were. Thank you for your kind words.

Mrs S x"

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By *oner HornCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We'd played with friends a few times (mostly brilliantly).

Drive to Hull to meet a couple. It was a disaster.

Drive home horny as hell. Back home in Leeds, dropped into out first ever sex club had a great time. H ended up covered in cum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We'd played with friends a few times (mostly brilliantly).

Drive to Hull to meet a couple. It was a disaster.

Drive home horny as hell. Back home in Leeds, dropped into out first ever sex club had a great time. H ended up covered in cum."

Well, damn. that sounds hot. Why was the drive to Hull a disaster?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Our first meet was a disaster as the lady from the other couple got so d*unk we had to call the whole thing off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Our first meet was a disaster as the lady from the other couple got so d*unk we had to call the whole thing off."

Damn. Did she drink due to nerves?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Not going into details as I've spoken about it before on other threads. It was almost 4 years ago.

Can't say I was nervous but she turned out to be certifiable and I left her in the hotel room I had paid for after slightly more than an hour and left fab a few days later as a result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was so daunting but lucky enough he was a gooden and we’ve stayed in touch and still meet now and again all these years later xx good luck xxx

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Think maybe she was a lush as her fella never batted an eyelid - for sure i was not touching a woman that was too d*unk to consent to anything

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

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By *Jones19Man
over a year ago

Evesham, Worcester, Pershore

Its understandable. My first meeting was rather last minute and I was a bit uncertain. But once we met up, had a great time. The couple I saw made me feel comfortable and had a brilliant relaxed meet. Met up a couple of times after that.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Mine was OK, we still chat when he's on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was very nervous but he put me completely at ease. It was a very good 1st meet.

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By *oner HornCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"We'd played with friends a few times (mostly brilliantly).

Drive to Hull to meet a couple. It was a disaster.

Drive home horny as hell. Back home in Leeds, dropped into out first ever sex club had a great time. H ended up covered in cum.

Well, damn. that sounds hot. Why was the drive to Hull a disaster? "

The couple were just not our bag, and he was having a mid life crisis. Kids were asleep upstairs. We were in our 20s so that freaked us out. They were perfectly nice but the context just felt wrong.

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By *hropsGuy69Man
over a year ago

telford

Mine was with a couple who I’d been chatting with on here and we met and xtasia, where Mr watched me play with the lovely lady then we retreated back to my hotel room... that was my first and it was so awesome....

I still chat to them now - lovely couple x

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Mine was when I was part of a couple back in the late 80! Meet an other couple at a swinger night, not a lot happened in the club those days, no facilities chatted with several couples and one of them invited us back to there’s. So nervous following them home but what a good night

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Loads of nerves but we chose our meet well. We met, played, left the hotel and agreed to evaluate the next day as we wanted to mentally dissect what had happened and discuss. We came to the conclusion that this was for us and so we continued.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads of nerves but we chose our meet well. We met, played, left the hotel and agreed to evaluate the next day as we wanted to mentally dissect what had happened and discuss. We came to the conclusion that this was for us and so we continued.

Had many meets, including clubs, always some nerves. Part of the fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much was bricking it. I'd wanted to swing for years before but was in an ltr.

Did a lot of chatting beforehand, so we knew each other a bit. Was still nerve racking. But as soon as we met it was amazing. So easy. So relaxed. Best thing I ever did.

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

My first time was not very good,a mate from work came to me to ask if I would like to fuck his wife,

I said yes please I went round and we got started there I was with a lovely naked lady and I could not get it up ,

But thankfully I got a second invite and all was ok and after that we had lots of good sex,great while it lasted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was a surreal experience, was a number of firsts for me during that meet up too. We met a second time but just fooled around and cammed online a little.. Weve been good friends ever since and that was around 5 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really nervous, met for a social it escalated to fun and frolics and we are all still best of friends over 16 years later xx

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I was quite nervous before and it was very weird. He was nothing like how he came across on here chatting. When he told me he was looking a wife I knew a coffee was as far as it was going.

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