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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys, I have only ever put fingers inside of me and this is the first time I have tried inserting something.

I have just purchased a 6" dildo and have lubed up both myself and the dildo and inserted. It is quite painful and feels as though it won't go no more than 2 inches into me. Is there anything I can do to make it easier and less painful?

Any help would be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preparation is key.

Start with just one lubed finger till it slides in and out easily.

Don't shove the dildo straight in.

Lube up the tip and tease yourself with the tip, pushing just a little bit of it in, and right out.

Do this for a few minutes till you get the tip in.

Then lube it again and get the tip in again, but add a bit more of the dildo.

Small slow strokes. Keep adding lube.

This will open you up to take the full thing and then you can fuck yourself silly with it

Lots of lube, finger first, then tip, then length. Slowly at first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks so much! I want to eventually be fucked by a real cock so need to be ready

I will start with fingers and go gently

Thanks again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck.

Just by taking the tip in and right out it helps you gape so you can take the full thing.

My suction dildo is 9" lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow I hope to get on your level one day it felt good when I out the tip of the dildo in but as soon as I tried to go deeper I started feeling uncomfortable so hopefully practise makes perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow I hope to get on your level one day it felt good when I out the tip of the dildo in but as soon as I tried to go deeper I started feeling uncomfortable so hopefully practise makes perfect "

Its also good idea to get into a comfortable position.

To start I lie on my side, knees up to chest this makes it easier to start slowly and tease

X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you ever need specific help on something and don't want to post here, just drop me a message anytime. But title it 'Help pls' so I know it's you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Helpful advice didn't think to ask myself did wonder same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Helpful advice didn't think to ask myself did wonder same "

One received her A-Levels years ago so has plenty experience and advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Helpful advice didn't think to ask myself did wonder same

One received her A-Levels years ago so has plenty experience and advice"
A levels but I failed miserably at school took wrong lessons obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Helpful advice didn't think to ask myself did wonder same

One received her A-Levels years ago so has plenty experience and advice A levels but I failed miserably at school took wrong lessons obviously "

I'm self taught from a lifetime of watching too much porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huge difference between toys and a cock! take it slow, or insert and not move for a bit, but once your used to it, its nothing to worry about. Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone , you have been really helpful

I'm going to try in a bit and see how I get on hopefully I will be taking cock like a pro in no time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone , you have been really helpful

I'm going to try in a bit and see how I get on hopefully I will be taking cock like a pro in no time "

That's the spirit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I echo everyone else.

Loads and loads of patience. Loads of lube. Build up to the dildo.

It will be worth it.

J

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I would maybe start with finger/s first and then move into a small silicone butt plug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love fucking arse, but there's definitely a technique to trying it with a first timer. Patients and being gentle is a must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pjur anal glide lube is amazing. It’s meant I can take my rather chunky fwbs cock with ease

The best tip I could give is lay on left side. Enter slightly and just hold it then when ready push back onto it

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Wow I hope to get on your level one day it felt good when I out the tip of the dildo in but as soon as I tried to go deeper I started feeling uncomfortable so hopefully practise makes perfect

Its also good idea to get into a comfortable position.

To start I lie on my side, knees up to chest this makes it easier to start slowly and tease

X"

Good tip! I always find it comfortable to start this way too then move on to different positions once I'm relaxed x

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

Loads of lube. A real cock feels so different to a dildo, you can control the dildo but not the cock. The more toy play helps. Love being fucked

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