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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Polis Paphos Cyprus till 17.10.24 Bedfordshire area HOTEL MEETS or a SOCIAL 1st Say hello

Nothing like proper inside skin to skin feeling.

And real Tougue instead of rubber feel.

Plus exploding and sharing.

I know we should all really use them if sharing with others but just not same effect for me.

And you?????.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sti or no sti?

Deal or no deal?

Take your pick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we all hate them, but are you dying for a shag????

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

I use skyns latex free. I love skin on skin but thats reserved for my partner when I find him.

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens

Just line wearing a seat belt...

Takes a bit of getting use to, but then becomes the norm...

Also being called a responsable adult...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They keep things safe so they don't bother me at all and I'll always use them.

Skyns latex free are great. And no sex is worth risking your life for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate them here too op

I would rather go without sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also hate them. Bare sex is always preferred xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real tongue? You're not supposed to put it on there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C’mon everyone... they’re not that bad. I mean, for the sake of a tiny bit leas feeling to prevent you getting one of 8 STI’s, 4 of which have no cure.

As mentioned before, uses Skyns latex free. They don’t smell like latex and don’t have the drying issue I’ve noticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A necessity but it has to be better than a 'dose'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"C’mon everyone... they’re not that bad. I mean, for the sake of a tiny bit leas feeling to prevent you getting one of 8 STI’s, 4 of which have no cure.

As mentioned before, uses Skyns latex free. They don’t smell like latex and don’t have the drying issue I’ve noticed. "

Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say theres a time and place for bb sex, with a trusted, tested exclusive regular partner: yes, with any random out a bar or off fab: no thanks. As mentioned above some STI’s are for life. Even the treatable ones are getting harder to treat now, drug resistant strains of gonorrhoea for example. Each to their own though.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"

Nothing like proper inside skin to skin feeling.

And real Tougue instead of rubber feel.

Plus exploding and sharing.

I know we should all really use them if sharing with others but just not same effect for me.

And you?????."

When you find the condom with the correct shape and comfortable fit for your cock, and ‘reprogram’ your mind to get excited about putting a condom on your cock for play, getting ‘rubbered up’ will feel natural

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate them but will always wear one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate them yes

That's why I only wear them for intercourse

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia


"Just line wearing a seat belt...

Takes a bit of getting use to, but then becomes the norm...

Also being called a responsable adult..."

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I see pics on Fab of many guys wearing the wrong size - some make me wince! Surely getting a better fit would help?

C

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys


"Sti or no sti?

Deal or no deal?

Take your pick."

Exactly, its no brainer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get your partner to put it on for you. As part of foreplay!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate them yes

That's why I only wear them for intercourse "

They do feel weird when I wear them for a trip to the shops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind them personally. If it was someone I am seeing exclusively then bb can be on the cards but for everyone else, I'll always wrap up. Its not just my health but their health you need to be concerned with

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By *issyEMWoman
over a year ago

Nearly


"I would say theres a time and place for bb sex, with a trusted, tested exclusive regular partner: yes, with any random out a bar or off fab: no thanks. As mentioned above some STI’s are for life. Even the treatable ones are getting harder to treat now, drug resistant strains of gonorrhoea

for example. Each to their own

though. "

People should be more educated about the real risk. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate them yes

That's why I only wear them for intercourse

They do feel weird when I wear them for a trip to the shops "

Or afternoon tea with aunty Maud and uncle Harold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a fan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do they still make the female condom? I never tried one of those

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Hate them yes

That's why I only wear them for intercourse

They do feel weird when I wear them for a trip to the shops "

Boy scout were you? Always be prepared..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The difference is minimal... And definitely not enough for me to go without... In fact I prefer them to bare as it makes clean up easier and ya don't stink in the morning

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I wear them with meets because we have to ..

I think op is saying skin on skin feels better, which it does ..

The condom question is probably why I don’t meet as often as I should..

Maybe I try the latex free ones suggested on here ..

Or maybe I’m often too lazy to actually go meet people..

I did years ago when I was first in here, but the reality rarely matches the fantasy ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do they still make the female condom? I never tried one of those "

Yes lovehoney and amazon sell them. They make a nice difference especially for the bloke in terms of him not having to wear the condom. I enjoy using them.

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By *hatawasteMan
over a year ago

stafford

Personally think bare is and should be for monogamous no swinging long time partners.

It was same for me when I was married. As a single man not gone bare since the days of Aids..Its up to the individual I suppose to be responsible for their/ anyone else's sexual health.. my way of looking at it is no one should be going to the party without a jacket these days anyway really now should they ?:/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate them yes

That's why I only wear them for intercourse

They do feel weird when I wear them for a trip to the shops

Or afternoon tea with aunty Maud and uncle Harold"

They’re your aunt and uncle too? I’m going to have words with me parents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate them yes

That's why I only wear them for intercourse

They do feel weird when I wear them for a trip to the shops

Or afternoon tea with aunty Maud and uncle Harold

They’re your aunt and uncle too? I’m going to have words with me parents "

Wear your condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The difference is minimal... And definitely not enough for me to go without... In fact I prefer them to bare as it makes clean up easier and ya don't stink in the morning "

Well there is that, yes

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

5min of pleasure is not worth that risk.

We reserve this for ourselves only.

So wear and play or no play.

Interesting that a few people recommend Skyns as we are normally use Durex... not sure why. Probably something which was left in my mind from the teenager times. Are these not the best anymore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously not the greatest fan from a sensual point of view. Hate is a bit strong though. They are a necessary item. And I dont think they make enough difference to worry about it. I'm more than happy to use them in a swinging scenario. The only people that matters to us both feeling completely is Lu and I. Safety is always paramount.

J

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

They just a must x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The difference is minimal... And definitely not enough for me to go without... In fact I prefer them to bare as it makes clean up easier and ya don't stink in the morning "

I've never encountered this. Are you referring to Bacterial vaginosis?

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

trouble most likely, or creating it :)


"

Nothing like proper inside skin to skin feeling.

And real Tougue instead of rubber feel.

Plus exploding and sharing.

I know we should all really use them if sharing with others but just not same effect for me.

And you?????."

don't hate them... to be honest the ones I use are that good the thing I hate about them is having to keep checking that they havent come off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Nothing like proper inside skin to skin feeling.

And real Tougue instead of rubber feel.

Plus exploding and sharing.

I know we should all really use them if sharing with others but just not same effect for me.

And you?????. don't hate them... to be honest the ones I use are that good the thing I hate about them is having to keep checking that they havent come off. "

To be honest, I have to check. But that's mainly because my cock is so small.

J

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By *rben112Man
over a year ago

worcester

I find skyns a little tight. Are they sized as I’m not very big?

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By *hezGeekCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im allergic to latex, and I love the feeling of skin on skin. But for safety sake they have to be worn

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By *orkshirefucktruck3Man
over a year ago

rotherham

i respect whoever im having sex with,i do prefer without but always carry them in case,im reguler tested too just for my own peace of mind

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

They're not that bad, especially now Skyns are as strong as regular condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"C’mon everyone... they’re not that bad. I mean, for the sake of a tiny bit leas feeling to prevent you getting one of 8 STI’s, 4 of which have no cure.

As mentioned before, uses Skyns latex free. They don’t smell like latex and don’t have the drying issue I’ve noticed. "

8? Name them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To gamble with our health baffles me why some do it. Condoms not only protect our health but also accidents that can happen.

A potentially unwelcome new arrival nine months later,a visit to the clinic or worse a traumatic experience to have the A. Why would anyone want to potentially put themselves through those. Pregnancy is unlikely but entirely possible for some.

We as responsible adults in the adult scene should play the game properly, sadly some simply don't seem to care.

OP my days of sleeping around are long gone but when I did condoms I didn't mind at all.

Like everything in life we inevitably get used to it.

Basic sexual education is available to anyone and it's never too late to change.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Shudder.... Feels like I might catch something by typing in this thread.

To each their own I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think we all do but it’s better to be safe than sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ounghungandfullMan
over a year ago

north lincolnshire

Does your head in, having to keep checking it’s still on. Checking to see if it’s broke. Not having that warm wet pussy on your bare cock. Doesn’t feel as good. But safety first

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By *lim Jim 69Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Best to be safe fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"C’mon everyone... they’re not that bad. I mean, for the sake of a tiny bit leas feeling to prevent you getting one of 8 STI’s, 4 of which have no cure.

As mentioned before, uses Skyns latex free. They don’t smell like latex and don’t have the drying issue I’ve noticed.

8? Name them... "

HIV

Gonorrhoea

Syphillis

Chlamydia

Hepatitis

Trichomoniasis

Genital warts

Public lice

Chancroid

Molluscum Contagiosum

Lymphogranuloma Venereum (LGV)

Mucopurulent Cervicitis (MPC)

Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID)

Scabies

Bacterial Vaginosis (BV)

So yeah suddenly a condom doesn't seem such a bad idea...

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales


"C’mon everyone... they’re not that bad. I mean, for the sake of a tiny bit leas feeling to prevent you getting one of 8 STI’s, 4 of which have no cure.

As mentioned before, uses Skyns latex free. They don’t smell like latex and don’t have the drying issue I’ve noticed.

8? Name them...

HIV

Gonorrhoea

Syphillis

Chlamydia

Hepatitis

Trichomoniasis

Genital warts

Public lice

Chancroid

Molluscum Contagiosum

Lymphogranuloma Venereum (LGV)

Mucopurulent Cervicitis (MPC)

Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID)

Scabies

Bacterial Vaginosis (BV)

So yeah suddenly a condom doesn't seem such a bad idea... "

BV isn’t an sti

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Yes, bareback sex feels great but unless you and your partner are monogamous the risk of STIs is there. I don't mind condoms for another reason- I get sensitive after a vigorous session and the condom helps reduce sensation.

Make of this what you will: if I compare fab vs non-fab meets, I'm offered bareback a lot more by fabbers.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Question... In many years of using condoms... I can count the time its gone missing in action or split in action on the fingers of one hand...have I just been lucky or is it really as challenging as some would make out?

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border

I have trouble with how tight they are i have to order in extra large to fit my girth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"C’mon everyone... they’re not that bad. I mean, for the sake of a tiny bit leas feeling to prevent you getting one of 8 STI’s, 4 of which have no cure.

As mentioned before, uses Skyns latex free. They don’t smell like latex and don’t have the drying issue I’ve noticed.

8? Name them...

HIV

Gonorrhoea

Syphillis

Chlamydia

Hepatitis

Trichomoniasis

Genital warts

Public lice

Chancroid

Molluscum Contagiosum

Lymphogranuloma Venereum (LGV)

Mucopurulent Cervicitis (MPC)

Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID)

Scabies

Bacterial Vaginosis (BV)

So yeah suddenly a condom doesn't seem such a bad idea...

BV isn’t an sti "

BV can be triggered by sex

https://beforeplay.org/stds/bacterial-vaginosis-bv/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find skyns a little tight. Are they sized as I’m not very big?"

Not bragging as it’s true, but I get the largest size they do, so yes. They’re sized.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate them

Luv to get inside a bad bred slut I know wants my bare cock "

Charming

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"C’mon everyone... they’re not that bad. I mean, for the sake of a tiny bit leas feeling to prevent you getting one of 8 STI’s, 4 of which have no cure.

As mentioned before, uses Skyns latex free. They don’t smell like latex and don’t have the drying issue I’ve noticed.

8? Name them...

HIV

Gonorrhoea

Syphillis

Chlamydia

Hepatitis

Trichomoniasis

Genital warts

Public lice

Chancroid

Molluscum Contagiosum

Lymphogranuloma Venereum (LGV)

Mucopurulent Cervicitis (MPC)

Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID)

Scabies

Bacterial Vaginosis (BV)

So yeah suddenly a condom doesn't seem such a bad idea... "

You missed out HPV - most sexually active adults have it at some point, there is no cure, it takes a year to clear up, can only be detected through a smear test so men rarely know they have it and can in some circumstances lead to cervical cancer in women!

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales


"C’mon everyone... they’re not that bad. I mean, for the sake of a tiny bit leas feeling to prevent you getting one of 8 STI’s, 4 of which have no cure.

As mentioned before, uses Skyns latex free. They don’t smell like latex and don’t have the drying issue I’ve noticed.

8? Name them...

HIV

Gonorrhoea

Syphillis

Chlamydia

Hepatitis

Trichomoniasis

Genital warts

Public lice

Chancroid

Molluscum Contagiosum

Lymphogranuloma Venereum (LGV)

Mucopurulent Cervicitis (MPC)

Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID)

Scabies

Bacterial Vaginosis (BV)

So yeah suddenly a condom doesn't seem such a bad idea...

BV isn’t an sti

BV can be triggered by sex

https://beforeplay.org/stds/bacterial-vaginosis-bv/ "

Triggered, yes, but it isn’t something that is sexually transmitted. I wouldn’t be able to ‘catch’ bv from you, would I? Your semen could interfere with my ph but it isn’t something that you would have given to me.

Using heavily perfumed bath products can also trigger bv...doesn’t mean I’ve gotten an sti from a bottle of radox, does it.

It can happen to any women at any time, even women with a long term partner.

Even the NHS doesn’t categorise it as an sti.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am i the only one who enjoys them.

Don't get me wrong, i love skin on skin.

But the fun of them putting it on in imaginative ways.

The tight feel around me. The easy clean.

I really have no problem with them!

Always wear a raincoat when you expect to get wet!

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Rather be safe onlybconsider bareba k if yooth have been tested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"C’mon everyone... they’re not that bad. I mean, for the sake of a tiny bit leas feeling to prevent you getting one of 8 STI’s, 4 of which have no cure.

As mentioned before, uses Skyns latex free. They don’t smell like latex and don’t have the drying issue I’ve noticed.

8? Name them...

HIV

Gonorrhoea

Syphillis

Chlamydia

Hepatitis

Trichomoniasis

Genital warts

Public lice

Chancroid

Molluscum Contagiosum

Lymphogranuloma Venereum (LGV)

Mucopurulent Cervicitis (MPC)

Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID)

Scabies

Bacterial Vaginosis (BV)

So yeah suddenly a condom doesn't seem such a bad idea...

BV isn’t an sti

BV can be triggered by sex

https://beforeplay.org/stds/bacterial-vaginosis-bv/

Triggered, yes, but it isn’t something that is sexually transmitted. I wouldn’t be able to ‘catch’ bv from you, would I? Your semen could interfere with my ph but it isn’t something that you would have given to me.

Using heavily perfumed bath products can also trigger bv...doesn’t mean I’ve gotten an sti from a bottle of radox, does it.

It can happen to any women at any time, even women with a long term partner.

Even the NHS doesn’t categorise it as an sti."

OK.. The rest though? I think missing the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same hate them but wear them off course but a struggle when youve a thick girth

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales


"C’mon everyone... they’re not that bad. I mean, for the sake of a tiny bit leas feeling to prevent you getting one of 8 STI’s, 4 of which have no cure.

As mentioned before, uses Skyns latex free. They don’t smell like latex and don’t have the drying issue I’ve noticed.

8? Name them...

HIV

Gonorrhoea

Syphillis

Chlamydia

Hepatitis

Trichomoniasis

Genital warts

Public lice

Chancroid

Molluscum Contagiosum

Lymphogranuloma Venereum (LGV)

Mucopurulent Cervicitis (MPC)

Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID)

Scabies

Bacterial Vaginosis (BV)

So yeah suddenly a condom doesn't seem such a bad idea...

BV isn’t an sti

BV can be triggered by sex

https://beforeplay.org/stds/bacterial-vaginosis-bv/

Triggered, yes, but it isn’t something that is sexually transmitted. I wouldn’t be able to ‘catch’ bv from you, would I? Your semen could interfere with my ph but it isn’t something that you would have given to me.

Using heavily perfumed bath products can also trigger bv...doesn’t mean I’ve gotten an sti from a bottle of radox, does it.

It can happen to any women at any time, even women with a long term partner.

Even the NHS doesn’t categorise it as an sti.

OK.. The rest though? I think missing the point"

Not missing the point, I just don’t think it’s great to add bv onto a list of sti’s when it’s very common among many women. Labelling it a sexually transmitted infection, when it’s definitely not one, could make some sufferers feel a bit shit.

That’s all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually don't mind wearing them now. Obviously feels better without, but for peace of mind I can put up with wearing one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love them when playing with others and hate them with hubby

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's actually so attractive seeing men talk positively about condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's actually so attractive seeing men talk positively about condoms. "

Jingle bells condom smells!

But put it on your willy to live happily really!

I'm shit at rhymes

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"It's actually so attractive seeing men talk positively about condoms.

Jingle bells condom smells!

But put it on your willy to live happily really!

I'm shit at rhymes "

You tried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind them at all Skyns are great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't remember

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Polis Paphos Cyprus till 17.10.24 Bedfordshire area HOTEL MEETS or a SOCIAL 1st Say hello


"Hate them here too op

I would rather go without sex."

I Know what you mean.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Polis Paphos Cyprus till 17.10.24 Bedfordshire area HOTEL MEETS or a SOCIAL 1st Say hello


"I also hate them. Bare sex is always preferred xx"

Me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be safe but it's like taking a bath with your socks on

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Polis Paphos Cyprus till 17.10.24 Bedfordshire area HOTEL MEETS or a SOCIAL 1st Say hello


"Get your partner to put it on for you. As part of foreplay! "

Even so still uncomfortable tried loads

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Polis Paphos Cyprus till 17.10.24 Bedfordshire area HOTEL MEETS or a SOCIAL 1st Say hello


"Does your head in, having to keep checking it’s still on. Checking to see if it’s broke. Not having that warm wet pussy on your bare cock. Doesn’t feel as good. But safety first "

Agree

Agree

Agree

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Polis Paphos Cyprus till 17.10.24 Bedfordshire area HOTEL MEETS or a SOCIAL 1st Say hello


"Best to be safe fella"

Sad but true.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Polis Paphos Cyprus till 17.10.24 Bedfordshire area HOTEL MEETS or a SOCIAL 1st Say hello


"It's actually so attractive seeing men talk positively about condoms. "

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Polis Paphos Cyprus till 17.10.24 Bedfordshire area HOTEL MEETS or a SOCIAL 1st Say hello


"Got to be safe but it's like taking a bath with your socks on "

Hehehe I get that point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After years of believing the one size fits all bollox and losing erection strength putting them on along with the stuggles. I was finally looked into wider condoms and my view of them changed.

A condom will never feel.as good as bb but being safe is worth it.

Really need to stamp out the one size fits all sort of speak or the you can fit it over your head and no cock is that wide. Promote people getting properly sized condoms.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Not the greatest fan but when someone recommended a larger than standard size for me. I got on with them a little better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same hate them but wear them off course but a struggle when youve a thick girth "

Need to buy a wider condom.

Skyn elite 53mm

Durex (most 56mm)

Skyns large 56mm

Durex xl 57mm

Pasante kingsize 60mm

Pasante superking 69mm

Or theres myfit or mysize which do a range of sizes up to 69mm

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"After years of believing the one size fits all bollox and losing erection strength putting them on along with the stuggles. I was finally looked into wider condoms and my view of them changed.

A condom will never feel.as good as bb but being safe is worth it.

Really need to stamp out the one size fits all sort of speak or the you can fit it over your head and no cock is that wide. Promote people getting properly sized condoms."

100% this. They're more likely to break if they're too tight too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get your partner to put it on for you. As part of foreplay!

Even so still uncomfortable tried loads"

How are they uncomfortable? I’m considerably above average sized and have no issues with discomfort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate condom too xx

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Polis Paphos Cyprus till 17.10.24 Bedfordshire area HOTEL MEETS or a SOCIAL 1st Say hello


"Get your partner to put it on for you. As part of foreplay!

Even so still uncomfortable tried loads

How are they uncomfortable? I’m considerably above average sized and have no issues with discomfort "

Lucky old u.

But appears most agree with me i think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no deal

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Polis Paphos Cyprus till 17.10.24 Bedfordshire area HOTEL MEETS or a SOCIAL 1st Say hello


"After years of believing the one size fits all bollox and losing erection strength putting them on along with the stuggles. I was finally looked into wider condoms and my view of them changed.

A condom will never feel.as good as bb but being safe is worth it.

Really need to stamp out the one size fits all sort of speak or the you can fit it over your head and no cock is that wide. Promote people getting properly sized condoms.

100% this. They're more likely to break if they're too tight too. "

@Lady Red.

Yes losing strength trying to put on a BIG PROBLEM for many over the years including me.

I'm 6" full erect but its fat and Rock hard.

So i struggle with width comfy.

T. Xx

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Polis Paphos Cyprus till 17.10.24 Bedfordshire area HOTEL MEETS or a SOCIAL 1st Say hello


"I hate condom too xx"

@rs-bigtits.

Me to nothing beats.

Flesh-flesh.

Skin-skin. Contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmm defo more nicer feeling xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do help keep the wolf from the doors and also help the wolf not encounter an evil full moon, get infected and die in misery.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Polis Paphos Cyprus till 17.10.24 Bedfordshire area HOTEL MEETS or a SOCIAL 1st Say hello


"Mmmmm defo more nicer feeling xx "

Really can't beat it.

Its awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then followed by nice feeling of guy cuming inside xx

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Polis Paphos Cyprus till 17.10.24 Bedfordshire area HOTEL MEETS or a SOCIAL 1st Say hello


"They do help keep the wolf from the doors and also help the wolf not encounter an evil full moon, get infected and die in misery. "

We are all expressing a opinion and facts and what we practice.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Polis Paphos Cyprus till 17.10.24 Bedfordshire area HOTEL MEETS or a SOCIAL 1st Say hello


"Then followed by nice feeling of guy cuming inside xx "

Not the same feeling for either person with a slippery rubber bag on.

You dont get that warm feeling do you?.

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By *ailingSwagmanMan
over a year ago

North Essex / Midlands / Southcoast

I'd rather wear one than risk the worry of a lifetime disease, the embarrassing trip to the team dr, and then having to explain to crewmates why I am on medical shore leave!

With a long term monogamous partner/playmate it would be different, but that's not the current situation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same hate them but wear them off course but a struggle when youve a thick girth

Need to buy a wider condom.

Skyn elite 53mm

Durex (most 56mm)

Skyns large 56mm

Durex xl 57mm

Pasante kingsize 60mm

Pasante superking 69mm

Or theres myfit or mysize which do a range of sizes up to 69mm

"

The GUM clinic gave me a Pasante Super King once in my variety bag. I've kept it for its novelty value. It's like a hoola hoop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind them, adds a few extra minutes onto me lasting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan of them tbh, but if I'm in a relationship with someone and we both tested etc and they're clean, then I'm willing to not use them. Other than that I walk with at least 2 of them anytime I leave the house and I'm proud to be 35 and never had an std or even an std scare. If I do have sex without one I wait a month or 2 and then get tested b4 having sex with someone else.

There are some decent durex brands though that feel really good to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms are not that bad just need to actually research and experiment with what condom fits and works durex thin feel are my preferd choice I can't even tell I'm wearing a condom and for my life style bareback is not an option I get tested every couple of months but that could be any number of women later only way to do bare back in a safe manor is to get tested sleep with some one and then get tested again which would leave you only been able to sleep with someone every 2 to 3 weeks depending on how quickly you get your results back.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Nobody would prefer a condom if there was no reason to use one. They are simply a necessary evil.

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

I don't think anyone likes them, but if its the difference between sex or no sex then, I love them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same hate them but wear them off course but a struggle when youve a thick girth

Need to buy a wider condom.

Skyn elite 53mm

Durex (most 56mm)

Skyns large 56mm

Durex xl 57mm

Pasante kingsize 60mm

Pasante superking 69mm

Or theres myfit or mysize which do a range of sizes up to 69mm

The GUM clinic gave me a Pasante Super King once in my variety bag. I've kept it for its novelty value. It's like a hoola hoop "

Bear in mind 69mm is 5.48in girth a normal durex is 4.41in girth.

For obvious reasons you want the condom to be smaller than your girth or it will come off and the stretch of the condom will depend on what its made of

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Polis Paphos Cyprus till 17.10.24 Bedfordshire area HOTEL MEETS or a SOCIAL 1st Say hello

Any more to say hello.

CONDOM OR NOT lol

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Polis Paphos Cyprus till 17.10.24 Bedfordshire area HOTEL MEETS or a SOCIAL 1st Say hello

I guess not then LOL.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get your partner to put it on for you. As part of foreplay!

Even so still uncomfortable tried loads

How are they uncomfortable? I’m considerably above average sized and have no issues with discomfort

Lucky old u.

But appears most agree with me i think."

It appears some, maybe only just ‘most’ who’ve been drawn to this thread agree, but have the sense to see why they’re a necessary evil.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

It’s a necessary.. not evil... inconvenience?

I do find its a bit of a wrestle to get them on. I must be out of practice.

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By *ows the time 300Man
over a year ago

Rickmansworth

I never wear condoms, it's bare for me all the way

I've had a couple of unexpected sloppy seconds as well, so nice when you're not expecting it and feel another guys cum when you slip inside

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By *REYTIMBERWOLFMan
over a year ago

reading

jesus you pussies.

its safer for you AND respectful of your partner/s especially if you fuck a lot of people.

You may be STD free but as stated, some diseases are for life or can be very hard to get rid of.

some of you must love pissing molten lava.

It isn't about YOU. its aboutbthe other person/s in the equation.

if younl don't want to skin up then have a wank.

its probably the most selfish perspective you can adopt.

or get married and both stay faithfull.

if they are happy to go bareback then fine but as a rule, No Skin. No go in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sound very nice better bare xx

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Polis Paphos Cyprus till 17.10.24 Bedfordshire area HOTEL MEETS or a SOCIAL 1st Say hello


"Get your partner to put it on for you. As part of foreplay!

Even so still uncomfortable tried loads

How are they uncomfortable? I’m considerably above average sized and have no issues with discomfort

Lucky old u.

But appears most agree with me i think.

It appears some, maybe only just ‘most’ who’ve been drawn to this thread agree, but have the sense to see why they’re a necessary evil."

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"Same hate them but wear them off course but a struggle when youve a thick girth

Need to buy a wider condom.

Skyn elite 53mm

Durex (most 56mm)

Skyns large 56mm

Durex xl 57mm

Pasante kingsize 60mm

Pasante superking 69mm

Or theres myfit or mysize which do a range of sizes up to 69mm

The GUM clinic gave me a Pasante Super King once in my variety bag. I've kept it for its novelty value. It's like a hoola hoop

Bear in mind 69mm is 5.48in girth a normal durex is 4.41in girth.

For obvious reasons you want the condom to be smaller than your girth or it will come off and the stretch of the condom will depend on what its made of"

TheyFit also do a good range of sizes up to 69mm too.

If a condom doesn't fit well it massively effects how it feels.

I found shop bought were a little too tight and thought condoms reduced the sensations too much, but after getting a proper fit one, I could actually feel more again and was great (obviously not as good as without, but so much better than shop bought)

People should definitely try getting a custom fit, to see if it improves things and helps them keep safe.

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By *iscreetly-yoursMan
over a year ago

Reading


"

Nothing like proper inside skin to skin feeling.

And real Tougue instead of rubber feel.

Plus exploding and sharing.

I know we should all really use them if sharing with others but just not same effect for me.

And you?????."

Are you absolutely kidding? My god were you born without any common sense whatsoever your statement implies you are just completely irresponsible and have absolutely no regard for the actions you take. I really do hope potential meets steer well clear of you - covid has taken enough lives this past year and im sure people dont want to find out down the road they have caught an sti.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Polis Paphos Cyprus till 17.10.24 Bedfordshire area HOTEL MEETS or a SOCIAL 1st Say hello


"

Nothing like proper inside skin to skin feeling.

And real Tougue instead of rubber feel.

Plus exploding and sharing.

I know we should all really use them if sharing with others but just not same effect for me.

And you?????.

Are you absolutely kidding? My god were you born without any common sense whatsoever your statement implies you are just completely irresponsible and have absolutely no regard for the actions you take. I really do hope potential meets steer well clear of you - covid has taken enough lives this past year and im sure people dont want to find out down the road they have caught an sti."

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Wow!!

You been on the brandy tonight ffs.

Steady gezza.

It was a question and ask post not a SUGGEST AND OR DEMAND.

Its purely a preference for me over 30years if i/we feel safe or with long term.

And I asked how about you?? to readers of Post.

And most have taken it that way.

But the is always one in ever crowd lol.

Not gonna be nasty as not my style.

So.

I Wish you well and happiness and stay safe.

From O.P

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Polis Paphos Cyprus till 17.10.24 Bedfordshire area HOTEL MEETS or a SOCIAL 1st Say hello

Condom likers / haters cum forward Lol

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By *othin 2 proveCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Bareback for me even in a gangbang with total strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who are the them?

And why do condoms hate them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They break when I fuck too fast, and come off when I fuck too deep. Whenever they ask me to wear one I have to keep thinking "is it still on." and I only get half the pleasure with it on, but if it gives them peace of mind, then I don't complain. I'm happy to give them pleasure, and that's the main thing. Although I sometimes have to hold the base of my cock to stop the condom coming off. Usually down to the different textures and sizes of condoms. Wish they could be custom made. I have to admit when I was younger I kept thinking I was a virgin because my mates used to say "It doesn't count if you're wearing a condom" and for years I thought I was still a virgin, and pulled so many women in those days just to get one that was happy to be fucked without a condom to satisfy my mates that I wasn't a virgin anymore. The things we did to 'become a man'. If many young lads thought the way I did, then that could be the reason why teenage pregnancy is so high? Of course it takes two to tango.

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