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"We don't kiss. We put it on our profile so nobody needs ask for a meet if they like kissing. We would never meet people who insist on kissing " What are the reasons for this ? | |||
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"See so many profiles that say NO KISSING. to us this is just pointless as kissing is a big part of sex and its almost mandatory. So how many couples or singles kiss on meets ? Must be weird with no kissing. and how many don't kiss and why ?" | |||
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"We don't kiss. We put it on our profile so nobody needs ask for a meet if they like kissing. We would never meet people who insist on kissing What are the reasons for this ? " What are your reasons for insisting on kissing? | |||
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"We don't kiss. We put it on our profile so nobody needs ask for a meet if they like kissing. We would never meet people who insist on kissing What are the reasons for this ? What are your reasons for insisting on kissing? " Kissing and sex go hand in hand. Having sex with someone that don't kiss is like have sex with a doll surely? If its tondo with we keep kissing for us then again are you comfy enough in your relationship to swing ? We are genuinely curious as to peoples reasons to not kiss this is no which hunt thread its a genuine post to find out peoplea reasons | |||
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"We don't kiss. We put it on our profile so nobody needs ask for a meet if they like kissing. We would never meet people who insist on kissing What are the reasons for this ? What are your reasons for insisting on kissing? " Helpful.  | |||
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"We don't kiss. We put it on our profile so nobody needs ask for a meet if they like kissing. We would never meet people who insist on kissing What are the reasons for this ? What are your reasons for insisting on kissing? Kissing and sex go hand in hand. Having sex with someone that don't kiss is like have sex with a doll surely? If its tondo with we keep kissing for us then again are you comfy enough in your relationship to swing ? We are genuinely curious as to peoples reasons to not kiss this is no which hunt thread its a genuine post to find out peoplea reasons " We don't particularly enjoy kissing other people. It isn't something we want to do with anybody but each other. We've been together 40 years and are both quite comfortable in our relationship, quite how anyone can infer that we aren't because we won't kiss other people is beyond me. Having sex with me isn't like having sex with a doll. That's a really unkind thing to say. | |||
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"I think some couples see it as crossing a boundary, intimacy wise, but we have no problem with it. Its an important part for me!" To us to. If kissing crosses boundaries then are younrealy confy enough to swing would be our next question | |||
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"I blame pretty woman. Kissing is such a turn on, but you have to respect people's boundaries, what ever that is." Exactly what I said last time it came up!
The root difference is surely blowing up one thing in a huge list of things that go on. Giving it a status that is not realistic in most peoples views. | |||
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"We don’t kiss each other when we have sex on a Saturday or Sunday morning, to avoid a bit of morning after the night before breath It’s most definitely not like having sex with a doll " .
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"I find it strange that so many guys on here claim they couldn't possibly have sex without kissing, yet not one guy I have ever had sex with in a club has even commented on, let alone objected to, my not wanting to kiss them. I associate kissing men with a romantic engagement and I certainly don't want romance in my swinging. Perhaps others do. Must add that I love kissing other women, though. " How would you feel if that other woman refused to kiss you but everything else you wanted to do was ok ? | |||
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"I’d struggle to meet without kissing. It’s a massive part for me x" You don't have to meet people who don't kiss. That's the beauty of fab, if something is really important to you fan make sure before you meet that it's important to them too.  | |||
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"I find it strange that so many guys on here claim they couldn't possibly have sex without kissing, yet not one guy I have ever had sex with in a club has even commented on, let alone objected to, my not wanting to kiss them. I associate kissing men with a romantic engagement and I certainly don't want romance in my swinging. Perhaps others do. Must add that I love kissing other women, though. " Even in a club, sex is a visceral experience for me. I like a connection even for the most casual or encounters. It’s one of the reasons I’m not into gang bangs etc. I’d rather just have a wank | |||
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"I find it strange that so many guys on here claim they couldn't possibly have sex without kissing, yet not one guy I have ever had sex with in a club has even commented on, let alone objected to, my not wanting to kiss them. I associate kissing men with a romantic engagement and I certainly don't want romance in my swinging. Perhaps others do. Must add that I love kissing other women, though. " That just seems all kinds of illogical to me. not that everything has to be logical, but you'll kiss women but not men, even though you associate kissing with romance (your choice) and romance is just as valid between MF and FF... If you also agree that's really inconsistent then fine..! | |||
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"I find it strange that so many guys on here claim they couldn't possibly have sex without kissing, yet not one guy I have ever had sex with in a club has even commented on, let alone objected to, my not wanting to kiss them. I associate kissing men with a romantic engagement and I certainly don't want romance in my swinging. Perhaps others do. Must add that I love kissing other women, though. Even in a club, sex is a visceral experience for me. I like a connection even for the most casual or encounters. It’s one of the reasons I’m not into gang bangs etc. I’d rather just have a wank" In your opinion a connection is formed by kissing that can't be formed by any other physical contact? | |||
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"I find it strange that so many guys on here claim they couldn't possibly have sex without kissing, yet not one guy I have ever had sex with in a club has even commented on, let alone objected to, my not wanting to kiss them. I associate kissing men with a romantic engagement and I certainly don't want romance in my swinging. Perhaps others do. Must add that I love kissing other women, though. How would you feel if that other woman refused to kiss you but everything else you wanted to do was ok ? " I'd be absolutely fine with it. | |||
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"I find it strange that so many guys on here claim they couldn't possibly have sex without kissing, yet not one guy I have ever had sex with in a club has even commented on, let alone objected to, my not wanting to kiss them. I associate kissing men with a romantic engagement and I certainly don't want romance in my swinging. Perhaps others do. Must add that I love kissing other women, though. Even in a club, sex is a visceral experience for me. I like a connection even for the most casual or encounters. It’s one of the reasons I’m not into gang bangs etc. I’d rather just have a wank In your opinion a connection is formed by kissing that can't be formed by any other physical contact?" Absolutely. It’s intimate and it’s the intimacy I like and get turned on by. Far more intimate than oral or sex. Simply sticking my cock in strangers has very little appeal. Even in clubs, I love a good chat, flirt, snog, and so on before we’d even get undressed. Each to their own though. I fully respect anyone who’s not into it. | |||
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"I find it strange that so many guys on here claim they couldn't possibly have sex without kissing, yet not one guy I have ever had sex with in a club has even commented on, let alone objected to, my not wanting to kiss them. I associate kissing men with a romantic engagement and I certainly don't want romance in my swinging. Perhaps others do. Must add that I love kissing other women, though. Even in a club, sex is a visceral experience for me. I like a connection even for the most casual or encounters. It’s one of the reasons I’m not into gang bangs etc. I’d rather just have a wank In your opinion a connection is formed by kissing that can't be formed by any other physical contact? Absolutely. It’s intimate and it’s the intimacy I like and get turned on by. Far more intimate than oral or sex. Simply sticking my cock in strangers has very little appeal. Even in clubs, I love a good chat, flirt, snog, and so on before we’d even get undressed. Each to their own though. I fully respect anyone who’s not into it." Yep, we fully respect anyone who is. | |||
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"I find it strange that so many guys on here claim they couldn't possibly have sex without kissing, yet not one guy I have ever had sex with in a club has even commented on, let alone objected to, my not wanting to kiss them. I associate kissing men with a romantic engagement and I certainly don't want romance in my swinging. Perhaps others do. Must add that I love kissing other women, though. That just seems all kinds of illogical to me. not that everything has to be logical, but you'll kiss women but not men, even though you associate kissing with romance (your choice) and romance is just as valid between MF and FF... If you also agree that's really inconsistent then fine..!" Nothing illogical at all. I never have any romantic thoughts about women - I just enjoy the sensuality of sex with them. The concept of romance therefore doesn't exist. If I was fully gay and with a gay female partner I might feel differently - and correspondingly feel different about kissing men in a swinging scenario. I could (but wouldn't) claim that those who say they can't have sex without kissing are illogical: how nany snog their vibrator or their right hand before wanking? It isn't logic for anybody else to judge. It's a feeling, so leave people to their feelings and if it's not for you move on. | |||
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"I find it strange that so many guys on here claim they couldn't possibly have sex without kissing, yet not one guy I have ever had sex with in a club has even commented on, let alone objected to, my not wanting to kiss them. I associate kissing men with a romantic engagement and I certainly don't want romance in my swinging. Perhaps others do. Must add that I love kissing other women, though. "  | |||
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"We don't kiss. We put it on our profile so nobody needs ask for a meet if they like kissing. We would never meet people who insist on kissing What are the reasons for this ? What are your reasons for insisting on kissing? Kissing and sex go hand in hand. Having sex with someone that don't kiss is like have sex with a doll surely? If its tondo with we keep kissing for us then again are you comfy enough in your relationship to swing ? We are genuinely curious as to peoples reasons to not kiss this is no which hunt thread its a genuine post to find out peoplea reasons " Seems pretty insulting reading but whatever your opinion is | |||
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"I find it strange that so many guys on here claim they couldn't possibly have sex without kissing, yet not one guy I have ever had sex with in a club has even commented on, let alone objected to, my not wanting to kiss them. I associate kissing men with a romantic engagement and I certainly don't want romance in my swinging. Perhaps others do. Must add that I love kissing other women, though. That just seems all kinds of illogical to me. not that everything has to be logical, but you'll kiss women but not men, even though you associate kissing with romance (your choice) and romance is just as valid between MF and FF... If you also agree that's really inconsistent then fine..! Nothing illogical at all. I never have any romantic thoughts about women - I just enjoy the sensuality of sex with them. The concept of romance therefore doesn't exist. If I was fully gay and with a gay female partner I might feel differently - and correspondingly feel different about kissing men in a swinging scenario. I could (but wouldn't) claim that those who say they can't have sex without kissing are illogical: how nany snog their vibrator or their right hand before wanking? It isn't logic for anybody else to judge. It's a feeling, so leave people to their feelings and if it's not for you move on." Well the big difference in the two situations is that you're explicitly *removing* kissing, when it's perfectly possible. Seems like an obvious difference to when there is no one else there in the first place. | |||
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"We always prefer kissing, without kissing it makes it impersonal and far less fun, Don't know through experience but don't prostitutes insist on no kissing for the very reason that it's business and not pleasure, who would want that when having fun?!" Only in Pretty Woman. | |||
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"We always prefer kissing, without kissing it makes it impersonal and far less fun, Don't know through experience but don't prostitutes insist on no kissing for the very reason that it's business and not pleasure, who would want that when having fun?!" I don't think fucking someone is impersonal, so why should fucking someone without kissing them be? For goodness sake folk, it isn't up to you to "understand" or criticize the choices and boundaries of others. Just leave people to get on with their type of swinging and respect those boundaries | |||
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"We always prefer kissing, without kissing it makes it impersonal and far less fun, Don't know through experience but don't prostitutes insist on no kissing for the very reason that it's business and not pleasure, who would want that when having fun?! I don't think fucking someone is impersonal, so why should fucking someone without kissing them be? For goodness sake folk, it isn't up to you to "understand" or criticize the choices and boundaries of others. Just leave people to get on with their type of swinging and respect those boundaries" It wasn't a criticism, it was our personal preference and answer to the OP's original question. We don't understand it personally but each to there own, just please don't use our words to suit your own narrative, were very up front and honest there is no hidden messages to be found in what we say. | |||
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"See so many profiles that say NO KISSING. to us this is just pointless as kissing is a big part of sex and its almost mandatory. So how many couples or singles kiss on meets ? and how many don't kiss and why ?" I like kissing, but it is understandable as why someone doesn't. One does like to keep something back for a partner as something just for them. | |||
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