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Ideal distance

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By *orkspoon OP   Man
over a year ago

nearby

What is your preference for how close your potential playmates live? As close as you like, or a reasonable distance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on my doorstep but under 45 mins drive xx

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

My other half is a 220 mile round trip but we make it work

One off meets I’ve travelled to the other end of the country

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

No such thing as an ideal distance. More an ideal person/couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is your preference for how close your potential playmates live? As close as you like, or a reasonable distance?

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West Mids only for us. Not worth the time going any farther.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No such thing as an ideal distance. More an ideal person/couple."
totally agree

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

Godstone


"No such thing as an ideal distance. More an ideal person/couple.totally agree "

That said, Scotland from the South East is a ball breaker for a social... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Within 30 mins, I’ll make an exception if they are exceptional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Close enough for a booty call but not that close you run into them in your local asda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh where in lincs lol xx

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By *exy_HornyCouple
over a year ago

Leigh

Across the road

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Close enough for 'You free now?' and able to be there in 15-20 mins is always good!

"Cock and cum on call", as one playmate put it!

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"Across the road "

Been there, done that - I used to have a playmate in the road parallel to where I used to live...

....literally a two-minute walk away - would have been less if I hadn't had to walk around the end of the house inbetween!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you live in a deadzone like I do, the whole country is an option!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Close enough for a booty call but not that close you run into them in your local asda "

That'd be the one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same block of apartments. Wouldn’t need to get dressed when popping round

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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However far away the person I want to meet happens to be.

Yes, it takes more planning if they're far away...but it can also make for fun weekends away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"However far away the person I want to meet happens to be.

Yes, it takes more planning if they're far away...but it can also make for fun weekends away "

Agree with this too...great excuse for us to get out of Derbados xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Close enough for a booty call but not that close you run into them in your local asda "

^ this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"However far away the person I want to meet happens to be.

Yes, it takes more planning if they're far away...but it can also make for fun weekends away "

Exactly this.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"However far away the person I want to meet happens to be.

Yes, it takes more planning if they're far away...but it can also make for fun weekends away "

Third!

It may come from not living anywhere for longer than a few years when I was growing up, to all our friends living around the country, but for us no distance is too far if we want to meet.

Yes it can be nice to have someone on your doorstep, and yes I expect a higher proportion of people cancel if they view the distance as too much, but the mind wants what the mind wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met a woman a few times who lived 200 meters away, and that was fantastic. But someone about 20 minutes away is ideal... gives you just enough time to experience the pre-meet butterflies and nerves, that for me are all part of the fun on a first meet!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It’s not distance with me it’s time.

Just like anyone I only have so much time for myself. So if I have a free weekend I wouldn’t have any issues with travelling quite a few miles from where I live, for an ideal meet.

It also takes time to get ready, so a guy, couple or woman that lives a couple of miles away may want a quick meet, but someone who knows you’ve put in an effort and traveled quite a distance to get to meet them will know that this isn’t for a quick romp in the bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the swinging side then we call it the 'golden doughnut' close enough we are not driving for hours but not that near that we share the same shopping centre!

On the fetish side we have lots of friends from around the UK from when the Birmingham fetish clubs were open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends massively on where you live - preference is one thing, necessity is quite another. I'm from London where everyone is close together, and population density is high - as a result, meeting a different person every night would be possible (not that I did) but here in Norfolk everyone is miles apart, and low numbers of people means that it's impossible to meet well matched partners round here.

As a result, I travel. Almost all the time, and it's fine. I enjoy a road trip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No such thing as an ideal distance. More an ideal person/couple."

This is the 1st important step then distance

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It doesn’t really matter to be honest. Simply if we get along I don’t think distance will actually even a matter

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