FabSwingers.com forum: A question for the tv/ts ladies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get alot of messages and interest from the tv/ts community on this site and I have no idea what it is about me that draws the attention. This is not a complaint as I actually am very flattered by it and have had some very nice conversations with some of you but I'd like to know what it is about me that draws the tv/its community to me. Happy to dm conversation with anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who doesn’t want to snuggle with a Wookiee

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By *umstibleMan
over a year ago

Colindale

Must be the DAD body thing. Following this thread closely as i too have the same interactions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a bear grrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Who doesn’t want to snuggle with a Wookiee

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so it's the hairy body??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Love a bear grrrrrr"
but I'm a wookie

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So its cuz I'm hairy is that case closed???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look so manly, mmmm x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You look so manly, mmmm x"
why thank you a very nice compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sound like a decent, level chap who is not freaked out about it, and doesn't go all homophobic and transphobic about the attention.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You sound like a decent, level chap who is not freaked out about it, and doesn't go all homophobic and transphobic about the attention. "
2 be honest I quite like the attention nothing tone freaked out about THAT I KNOW OF LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just to confirm this thread iant menbeing big headed that people look at me more asking the question what is it about that makes me stand out a genuine question realy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bit disappointed with the lack of interaction on this thread oh well cant get all the answers to life I guess

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

Well we have never interacted but I do enjoy your forum posts. Anyone who expresses positivity about being contacted by those who may be outside their comfort zone is all good by me and definitely worth a peek.

You shine like a diamond in this dull and dour moment in time which is probably why you get the attention you do.

Stay safe and keep on doing what you do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well we have never interacted but I do enjoy your forum posts. Anyone who expresses positivity about being contacted by those who may be outside their comfort zone is all good by me and definitely worth a peek.

You shine like a diamond in this dull and dour moment in time which is probably why you get the attention you do.

Stay safe and keep on doing what you do

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thays a lovely comment and one that made me

feel free to interact with me any time

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

You come across well on the forums, I haven’t blocked you so obviously no issues with your posts about subjects that we both have commented on.

Unfortunately I have an aversion to body hair so I wouldn’t message (although I don’t message straight guys anyway) but I’m not everyone’s type either.

You do have a manly body so when dressed Tgirls do like (well I do) the opposite to them. So a guy expressing a very butch look will be attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You come across well on the forums, I haven’t blocked you so obviously no issues with your posts about subjects that we both have commented on.

Unfortunately I have an aversion to body hair so I wouldn’t message (although I don’t message straight guys anyway) but I’m not everyone’s type either.

You do have a manly body so when dressed Tgirls do like (well I do) the opposite to them. So a guy expressing a very butch look will be attractive.

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thank you that makes sense I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the answers and dms I've had x

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By *lli_sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

I enjoy a bigger built guy, so can see why you get a lot of attention. Photos and post here suggest you are pretty relaxed and chilled out, which I think many enjoy too.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

They want to rim you

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

My experience tells me tv/ts are split down the middle are are either attracted to the hairy, tattooed manly type or the smooth, feminine type. I guess you're the former.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's because you are cuddly and you bake cakes and well Hell just because you are a great guy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They want to rim you

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that will do yas lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's because you are cuddly and you bake cakes and well Hell just because you are a great guy!

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your only saying that cuz you love me

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By *TastePurpleWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Probably the cute daddy body idk.

It's the wrong place to vent but it really bugs me that Transvestite/Crossdresser (TV) and Transexual /Transgender (TS,TG) are lumped together here. They're very very different. I have nothing against lovely TV/CD people but I'm a full time transgender woman, I'm transitioning, I live as a woman all the time and it's not a weekend fun thing for me. I have real real tiddies.

Hence I list myself here as a woman because I don't want people to lump me in with CDs.

Also what about transgender men? Or nb people.

Get with the times Fab.

End rant...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Probably the cute daddy body idk.

Hence I list myself here as a woman because I don't want people to lump me in with CDs.

Also what about transgender men? Or nb people.

Get with the times Fab.

End rant... "
that's a fair tam5 Theranos a difference and I'm sorry if I've offened you

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By *TastePurpleWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Oh sorry honey I'm not having a go at you x. No offense taken at all. Sorry to hijack your thread I'll post it elsewhere. You seem really nice xxx

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By *urygent1Man
over a year ago

North West

"They want to rim you

Thats always a good icebreaker ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh sorry honey I'm not having a go at you x. No offense taken at all. Sorry to hijack your thread I'll post it elsewhere. You seem really nice xxx"
why thank you I'd have messaged younl privately to apologise but filters x

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By *TastePurpleWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I'm talking about the gender options on the site. They're M F TV/TS and couple.

I wish there were Trans F, Trans M, Non-binary options. TV/CD as a separate category.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably the cute daddy body idk.

Hence I list myself here as a woman because I don't want people to lump me in with CDs.

Also what about transgender men? Or nb people.

Get with the times Fab.

End rant... "

Same here.

Btw, I’ve not idea why the OP has so much attention from the CD/TV community. Good luck to him though

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By *TastePurpleWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Oops yeah. I turned off Male pms because my inbox was getting swamped and I prefer couples. I like some cute guys x

Anyway sorry to hijack your thread a bit cutie x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm talking about the gender options on the site. They're M F TV/TS and couple.

I wish there were Trans F, Trans M, Non-binary options. TV/CD as a separate category. "
I'll be honest I have no clue what the Non-binary bit is lol but yes trans m or f should be on option

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oops yeah. I turned off Male pms because my inbox was getting swamped and I prefer couples. I like some cute guys x

Anyway sorry to hijack your thread a bit cutie x"
no problem happy to chat anytime xxx

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By *TastePurpleWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Non binary is a wide term for people who just don't find they fit in well with any of the usual M, F, Trans M/F terms. Some are androgynous, others express themselves depending on how they feel etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Non binary is a wide term for people who just don't find they fit in well with any of the usual M, F, Trans M/F terms. Some are androgynous, others express themselves depending on how they feel etc. "
right tha5s probably just confussed me more but each to there own

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By *TastePurpleWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Each to their own is a fairly good policy

people just want to be respected and treated well ultimately x

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"I get alot of messages and interest from the tv/ts community on this site and I have no idea what it is about me that draws the attention. This is not a complaint as I actually am very flattered by it and have had some very nice conversations with some of you but I'd like to know what it is about me that draws the tv/its community to me. Happy to dm conversation with anyone

Erm I wouldn’t contact you thanks...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Each to their own is a fairly good policy

people just want to be respected and treated well ultimately x"
thaylts best way to be

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Erm I wouldn’t contact you thanks..."
no need to thank me its up to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's because you are cuddly and you bake cakes and well Hell just because you are a great guy!

your only saying that cuz you love me

Such a "You "Response

Made me laugh and smile on a Monday Morning!! Yes I do... you are a total sweetheart

You just keep being you Sunshine !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's because you are cuddly and you bake cakes and well Hell just because you are a great guy!

your only saying that cuz you love me

Such a "You "Response

Made me laugh and smile on a Monday Morning!! Yes I do... you are a total sweetheart

You just keep being you Sunshine !! "
for you anything my love xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's because you are cuddly and you bake cakes and well Hell just because you are a great guy!

your only saying that cuz you love me

Such a "You "Response

Made me laugh and smile on a Monday Morning!! Yes I do... you are a total sweetheart

You just keep being you Sunshine !! for you anything my love xxx"

You just want me to show you all my Best Fishing spots...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's because you are cuddly and you bake cakes and well Hell just because you are a great guy!

your only saying that cuz you love me

Such a "You "Response

Made me laugh and smile on a Monday Morning!! Yes I do... you are a total sweetheart

You just keep being you Sunshine !! for you anything my love xxx

You just want me to show you all my Best Fishing spots...

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is that code for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's because you are cuddly and you bake cakes and well Hell just because you are a great guy!

your only saying that cuz you love me

Such a "You "Response

Made me laugh and smile on a Monday Morning!! Yes I do... you are a total sweetheart

You just keep being you Sunshine !! for you anything my love xxx

You just want me to show you all my Best Fishing spots...

is that code for sex

N*A*U*G*H*T*Y ....

I think code for Sex is Netflix and chill . Which I actually just learned... I had NO Clue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair Wookiedad you would appeal to me as well as Abby.

You are indeed classed as a bear and a rather lovely one at that!

Miss V

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By *oodstaminaMan
over a year ago

London

Happens to me all the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's because you are cuddly and you bake cakes and well Hell just because you are a great guy!

your only saying that cuz you love me

Such a "You "Response

Made me laugh and smile on a Monday Morning!! Yes I do... you are a total sweetheart

You just keep being you Sunshine !! for you anything my love xxx

You just want me to show you all my Best Fishing spots...

is that code for sex

N*A*U*G*H*T*Y ....

I think code for Sex is Netflix and chill . Which I actually just learned... I had NO Clue

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not did I till now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To be fair Wookiedad you would appeal to me as well as Abby.

You are indeed classed as a bear and a rather lovely one at that!

Miss V"
ooooo I'm rather flattered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair Wookiedad you would appeal to me as well as Abby.

You are indeed classed as a bear and a rather lovely one at that!

Miss V ooooo I'm rather flattered

Then we are a flattered trio! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To be fair Wookiedad you would appeal to me as well as Abby.

You are indeed classed as a bear and a rather lovely one at that!

Miss V ooooo I'm rather flattered

Then we are a flattered trio! X"
I'd message you but filters and all that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair Wookiedad you would appeal to me as well as Abby.

You are indeed classed as a bear and a rather lovely one at that!

Miss V ooooo I'm rather flattered

Then we are a flattered trio! X I'd message you but filters and all that x"

I know Wookie. However....you are the only guy we have put on our hotlist, ever, so our boundaries are shifting x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To be fair Wookiedad you would appeal to me as well as Abby.

You are indeed classed as a bear and a rather lovely one at that!

Miss V ooooo I'm rather flattered

Then we are a flattered trio! X I'd message you but filters and all that x

I know Wookie. However....you are the only guy we have put on our hotlist, ever, so our boundaries are shifting x"
wow realy

please message me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of confused ‘straight’ men on this site or they just in complete denial???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lot of confused ‘straight’ men on this site or they just in complete denial???"
who is confused?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair Wookiedad you would appeal to me as well as Abby.

You are indeed classed as a bear and a rather lovely one at that!

Miss V ooooo I'm rather flattered

Then we are a flattered trio! X I'd message you but filters and all that x

I know Wookie. However....you are the only guy we have put on our hotlist, ever, so our boundaries are shifting x wow realy

please message me then

Shifting, so not at that stage at the moment x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To be fair Wookiedad you would appeal to me as well as Abby.

You are indeed classed as a bear and a rather lovely one at that!

Miss V ooooo I'm rather flattered

Then we are a flattered trio! X I'd message you but filters and all that x

I know Wookie. However....you are the only guy we have put on our hotlist, ever, so our boundaries are shifting x wow realy

please message me then

Shifting, so not at that stage at the moment x"
fair enough

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"... what it is about me that draws the attention."

I agree with all points made so far... You seem like a decent, genuine fella and personally, I have a thing for Daddy Bears... Err sorry Wookies!

But also I think you come across as stoic... you are authentic and don't worry about what people think of you. That is sexy.

As a full time TS, and getting stares and sniggers from strangers, it is important for us to take a leaf from your books and be a little less self-conscious!

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

It's your socks ! Anyone that can pull off black and Gray in the same outfit has style that us tv's spend years trying to perfect xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"... what it is about me that draws the attention.

I agree with all points made so far... You seem like a decent, genuine fella and personally, I have a thing for Daddy Bears... Err sorry Wookies!

But also I think you come across as stoic... you are authentic and don't worry about what people think of you. That is sexy.

As a full time TS, and getting stares and sniggers from strangers, it is important for us to take a leaf from your books and be a little less self-conscious!"
very kind words thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's your socks ! Anyone that can pull off black and Gray in the same outfit has style that us tv's spend years trying to perfect xxx "
black and grey socks are my thing in also rock black and yellow lol

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