FabSwingers.com forum: Parties

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Weve been to clubs before but not a party. What are parties like? Does everyone know each other or is it a bit random? Also is the expectation that you'll play with whoever is there?

We hope to attend a party once all this covid is out of the way!

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

What kind of party are we talking?

Private up to few people? Or more of the "full house of strangers" type?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good question! Maybe 10/15 people, is that about right for a party lol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weve been to a few, they can be a bit clicky, but if you are open and make an effort then most are welcoming, we have never played at one, as we havnt met people we want to with, treat it as a night out with like minded people and you will have fun, who knows at the next party we attend, when ever that meybe, we might play, but thats not our main focus for going

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By *orduneCouple
over a year ago

darvel

"weve been to a few, they can be a bit clicky, but if you are open and make an effort then most are welcoming, we have never played at one, as we havnt met people we want to with, treat it as a night out with like minded people and you will have fun, who knows at the next party we attend, when ever that meybe, we might play, but thats not our main focus for going"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a party, last october. Had 12 people come, we knew them all except one couple who came reccomended. It was great, everyone really enjoyed & new friendships made. We were planning another in spring.... but hey we all know why that didnt happen!! Roll on post lockdown when we can have multiple fun again!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys! Its certanly something we want to do but we are quite picky so didn't know if invited we would be under pressure to get involved...

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I went to a bi party for Tgirls and admirers, it was ok and plenty of action if you wanted it. Made some new friends so well worth attending.

I’d hold one myself but due to me living in a flat, it wouldn’t be fair to my neighbours (or let them know what I get up to

Well worth your time

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Private parties are more than likely invited only and you will probably find that most of them know each other somewhere along the line. So it’s upto the party host who gets invited.. and with any meet be it club, party or even 121 there should be no pressure to play!

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

If we are invited to a party we ask to see the guest list. Various friends in the past have had party’s that we have attended and it’s usually a mix of people we know and new people but they normally give the Fab names of those invited and you can chat to people before the night if you wish.

In the early days of Fab we went to a party and didn’t know who was going, when we got there we knew we wouldn’t be playing with anyone so we socialised for a while then made our excuses to leave so don’t be afraid to ask who is attending.

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

We’ve been to two house parties, both hosted by the same couple. The first one was of around 10 couples, three single ladies and two single men. The deal was that asa couple you couldn’t have been to one of their parties before, that way there were no cliques. The single men were. Known to the hosts and therefore very respectful. It was a great way to attend our first adult party. The second time we went was invites open to those that had attended before.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I love parties and have been to a few. Around 25 people attend and i usually know a few in advance. The host sends a guest list out prior to the party date which then allows you to message to say "hi" before the party date. There is no pressure to do anything at a party that you are not comfortable with and they are a great way to meet face to face in a relaxed enviroment.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel

We want to throw one hell of a party after this shit shower is over.

It will hopefully be a mixture of existing friends and a few new ones. Never any pressure to play, but play will of course happen.....we will be the ones starting it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Great advice everyone, thanks

Its whetted our appetite even more - post covid party invites welcome lol x

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By *otus_Eaters1Couple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

We have organised many private parties over the years and have always been great fun.

The trick is to make sure that all invited are compatible and open to all sorts of fun.

We spend a lot of time organising and letting all know who is coming ....Get that chemistry right and the resulting fireworks will be a great display !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last party I went to, everyone was a stranger. After an hour of chatting the host got a spin the bottle type game out; which broke the ice and loosened the inhibitions

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By *idland_easy_riderMan
over a year ago

midlands and North Wales

I have only been to a hand full, and I eventually figured out they are exactly the same as any party in a house or bar. If you stand in the corner and don't make an effort to join in and be sociable then they are pretty crap. If on the other hand be friendly sociable and make conversation with people they are great fun.

Had some great evenings in the kitchen talking and chatting before any fun started

Thats my take for what its worth lol

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