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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do women like to fuck fat guys bbm? As we see guys who say they like to fuck fat women bbw? Me for one doesn't find fat guys a turn on,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

me neither x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fat (hate that word) or over weight guy sounds better,nope from us cos we dont meet guys (was just mooching in the forums) lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find some big guys a turn on. I find some slim guys a turn on.

Unintelligent people = instant turn off

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well if you dont like them dont fuck them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find some big guys a turn on. I find some slim guys a turn on.

Unintelligent people = instant turn off"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet sexy people with good personalities regardless of size

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fat (hate that word) or over weight guy sounds better,nope from us cos we dont meet guys (was just mooching in the forums) lol "
Well the last time I looked it's still a word just like skinny, not here to judge on fat guys was asking would u fuck one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not really into very over weight guys

I have in the past played with big guys but i find they tend to just lay there and not put much effort into the sex and i also find they dont have much stamina and get out of breath easy, i also find some possitions hard to do, like being on top, if their body is to wide for me to get my legs over and knees on the bed then its not really comfy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im not really into very over weight guys

I have in the past played with big guys but i find they tend to just lay there and not put much effort into the sex and i also find they dont have much stamina and get out of breath easy, i also find some possitions hard to do, like being on top, if their body is to wide for me to get my legs over and knees on the bed then its not really comfy

"
Pmsl

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would imagine as a percentage there will be a lot less females that will meet larger guys than there will be guys would meet larger ladies...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would imagine as a percentage there will be a lot less females that will meet larger guys than there will be guys would meet larger ladies..."

i agree, but im keeping my theory on why i believe that to be true in fear of starting a riot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

several darts playing male swingers took extreme offense to this post

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Don't really focus on body type to be fair, ill fuck anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like big muscles and have never tried playing with a very over weight guy but to each their own. I know some friends of mine that really like bbms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't like over weight men.. as I can have Fit, in shape young guys... And overweight guys does nothing for me..

Reason why more men will have bigger ladies is because us women have a vast choices , the guys don't... So the women get to be more picky.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No I don't like over weight men.. as I can have Fit, in shape young guys... And overweight guys does nothing for me..

Reason why more men will have bigger ladies is because us women have a vast choices , the guys don't... So the women get to be more picky.

Cali "

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"No I don't like over weight men.. as I can have Fit, in shape young guys... And overweight guys does nothing for me..

Reason why more men will have bigger ladies is because us women have a vast choices , the guys don't... So the women get to be more picky.

Cali "

I prefer fit, toned, muscly men and have discovered quite a few who prefer rubenesque women like me and Cali (and many other forumites). I have been criticised for stating my preferences clearly at the top of my profile, but while ever I am able to hook the hotties I will.

Though I did recently get a surprise when a fit, slender female friend of mine who has often dated guy candy let it slip that her phwoarr men are all bears, so theres someone for everyone.

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By *heekyladyCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Whilst huge guys aren't my thing .... I do have a soft spot for the big lad off auction hunters, Ton Jones ....... It's that naughty boy thing he has going on

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"Whilst huge guys aren't my thing .... I do have a soft spot for the big lad off auction hunters, Ton Jones ....... It's that naughty boy thing he has going on "

I think James Corden is a cutie too.

But in a play situation, we tend to stick with slimmer guys because we only play bi and Zed, being tall and slim himself, prefers slim / med guys. It's just easier in a 3 way play situation where everyone needs to be able to move about and get into the various positions that make bi play more fun.

We couldn't be doing with a guy who couldn't practically fold himself in half in the name of some kinky fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind a bit of lard on a guy, stocky, rugby build but not fat, now before you all scream "pot, kettle, black"..... theres simply not room in the bed for both of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definitely the case that women can be more picky on here, and when you see a lot of the cpls with an overweight and out of shape hubby fucking slim/fit younger guys you see that inequality

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London


"Don't really focus on body type to be fair, ill fuck anything "

Hi babe call me

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By * loves to lickMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No prefer slim men.

If its mmf then dont mind if one guy is fat though. If they are nice people and clean and tidy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's me buggered then. Damn!

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By *rs Robinson no 1Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Well if you dont like them dont fuck them"

true

that's what I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the definition of "not too big" being slim enough to straddle. There's hope for us all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't fancy very large men. ..don't mind yer average guy but not totally out of shape no.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I dont mind a bit of lard on a guy, stocky, rugby build but not fat, now before you all scream "pot, kettle, black"..... theres simply not room in the bed for both of us "

Exactly! Physically nigh on impossible for me to do a large bloke...never the twain would meet with our guts in the way. Need him thin to fit in my nook and crannies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not really into very over weight guys

I have in the past played with big guys but i find they tend to just lay there and not put much effort into the sex and i also find they dont have much stamina and get out of breath easy, i also find some possitions hard to do, like being on top, if their body is to wide for me to get my legs over and knees on the bed then its not really comfy

Pmsl "

I am a large guy - I used to play Rugby for many years, and also Judo and have always been a naturally well-built guy. On the bloody stupid BMI chart, let's just say that I come in at 'over 35'...

BUT..... I have ALWAYS been fit (at one stage met the entry requirements for the RMC, and I was at least TEN years over their max entry age at the time!)

I still cycle as much as I can, although as I drive for a living, keeping the weight in check can be difficult at times.

I can assure you I do not 'lay there and let the fem do all the work' - ask Perky!!! I accept that due to someones size it can be difficult to do Cowgirl or other positions, but for all kinds of reasons even 'slim' people find other positions difficult.

If you find large guys are just laying there and not putting in any effort, it may just be that it is not down to their size but their attitude.

And for the 'slim/athletic' ones reading this, ever considered that well-built guys like me might not find skinny women very attractive?? Had a catwalk model GF years ago and it was like fucking a boy cos she was soooo skinny!!! And fucked with my mind something rotten too!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I would imagine as a percentage there will be a lot less females that will meet larger guys than there will be guys would meet larger ladies...

i agree, but im keeping my theory on why i believe that to be true in fear of starting a riot "

I have nooooo idea what you're alluding to!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"several darts playing male swingers took extreme offense to this post"

*Giggles*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer larger men and I not talking manhood size I not exactly a model at size 14 and according to BMI am clinically obese but my doc says to ignore it as I as healthy as many slimmer girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love big men, not fat but big, bigger than Rugby players. My fiance has legs so enormous I cannot straddle him, that sort of big. It's the polar opposites I like, me small, him big.

What I d find odd is profiles claiming bisexuality but blocking women from messaging or contacting them and claiming lots of meets but having no verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said! ! as a large guy i have always tried to ensure my woman's needs are taken care of, yet how many times have i heard about the "selfish fit guy", i too still cycle, go to the gym and swim regular.

was 18.5 stones and still playing football every Sunday.

i like to think of us over weight guys as cuddly and caring, we always seem to have good personalities and we certainly have enough love to share as we tend not to love ourselves so much as some others

if you've never tried a big guy, don't knock it till you have, Yum Yum says i'm the best she's ever had and bring her the satisfaction she always wanted but never had with all those "fit guys"as they either lasted a few minutes or were more interested in themselves than her.

could go on forever but the truth is we all like different, but also the truth is Fat Guys are often just as good (if not better) in the bed as anyone else.

to all those who like BBM well done, to those that don't enjoy yourselves your way but you really don't know what your missing !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a check on this.

BMI shouldn't be used to gauge the likes of men who come in at 6'+ and weigh in excess of 16stones.

They are not fat, ecspecially large rugby guys who if they were to take a lot of the fat away, would resemble a very muscular body.

Big guys who can move fast and stay active for long periods are in-shape, far from the lazy sloth-like fat guys who couldn't even run 100m.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly, my fiancee is 6ft 2 and 22 stone, he does strongman, is hyoper muscular, not an ab man but has tremendous stamina and strength. That is what I love, someone to ake me feel girly, not some prettyboy type with a 12 pack to make me feel fat.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I wouldn't be so presumptuous to assume people are missing out on meeting me, then again I realise I'll never appeal to everyone so don't get "precious" if I'm excluded from someone's wish list.

I also don't see the need to be rude and disrespectful towards people outwith your individual play criteria. So you don't find certain people attractive? So what, we all have preferences, some of us just have a better grasp of the English language and can convey our desires without belittling others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well said! ! as a large guy i have always tried to ensure my woman's needs are taken care of, yet how many times have i heard about the "selfish fit guy", i too still cycle, go to the gym and swim regular.

was 18.5 stones and still playing football every Sunday.

i like to think of us over weight guys as cuddly and caring, we always seem to have good personalities and we certainly have enough love to share as we tend not to love ourselves so much as some others

if you've never tried a big guy, don't knock it till you have, Yum Yum says i'm the best she's ever had and bring her the satisfaction she always wanted but never had with all those "fit guys"as they either lasted a few minutes or were more interested in themselves than her.

could go on forever but the truth is we all like different, but also the truth is Fat Guys are often just as good (if not better) in the bed as anyone else.

to all those who like BBM well done, to those that don't enjoy yourselves your way but you really don't know what your missing !!!"

I dont think the post was knocking bigger guys, more asking 'would you' ....am i right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think they prefer to be called stocky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore big guys, the bigger the better and state so on my profile.

I do agree that if they are huge it makes penetrive sex very difficult if not impossible, however I actually prefer soft swing anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

concepts of what it is to be 'normal' nowadays are different than past. I wouldn't fuck a fat man, but a big man with a bit of fat is diff for sure. I think it's OK to knock those different than what we fancy if they are the dominant ones, the ones who loves themselves and have sneering profiles proclaiming themselves as the body beautiful and a gift from the gods

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Don't really focus on body type to be fair, ill fuck anything

Hi babe call me "

Oooohhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i look after myself and stay in reasonable shape.

but what is reasonable to me isnt to someone else.

most people so it would seem do not like a guy who stays in shape as its seen maybe as some sort of addiction or worshiping yourself to much.

people all like different things.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I adore big guys, the bigger the better and state so on my profile.

I do agree that if they are huge it makes penetrive sex very difficult if not impossible, however I actually prefer soft swing anyway "

Do you know what, I've met big guys with little willies and little guys with big willies, never once had a problem fucking them all

Guess some people just don't try hard enough

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a check on this.

BMI shouldn't be used to gauge the likes of men who come in at 6'+ and weigh in excess of 16stones.

They are not fat, ecspecially large rugby guys who if they were to take a lot of the fat away, would resemble a very muscular body.

Big guys who can move fast and stay active for long periods are in-shape, far from the lazy sloth-like fat guys who couldn't even run 100m."

Thank you +1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i look after myself and stay in reasonable shape.

but what is reasonable to me isnt to someone else.

most people so it would seem do not like a guy who stays in shape as its seen maybe as some sort of addiction or worshiping yourself to much.

people all like different things.

"

Exactly, you look in great shape and I can appreciate the ffort but for me its not my thing. To each their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of interest, wonder how many of you know where the much-vaunted BMI index actually came from...?

Contrary to popular belief, it has NOTHING to do with the medical profession or the NHS.

It was developed by the bed making industry to work out how to construct beds to take people of varying heights and weights in the laying down position.

Scientific? I don't think so.

Most professional fitness trainers nowadays don't use the BMI anyway - they go by body fat measurements - far more representative and telling about someones true state of health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting back on Thread and in answer to the OP well no personally I wouldn't ..

But a lady friend did say her way of assessing if a bloke is too big (note I never said fat) is if he can see his cock below his belly or not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I adore big guys, the bigger the better and state so on my profile.

I do agree that if they are huge it makes penetrive sex very difficult if not impossible, however I actually prefer soft swing anyway

Do you know what, I've met big guys with little willies and little guys with big willies, never once had a problem fucking them all

Guess some people just don't try hard enough "

Must just be me then coz Im such a porker too

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I adore big guys, the bigger the better and state so on my profile.

I do agree that if they are huge it makes penetrive sex very difficult if not impossible, however I actually prefer soft swing anyway

Do you know what, I've met big guys with little willies and little guys with big willies, never once had a problem fucking them all

Guess some people just don't try hard enough

Must just be me then coz Im such a porker too "

I'm hardly twiggy myself heehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i look after myself and stay in reasonable shape.

but what is reasonable to me isnt to someone else.

most people so it would seem do not like a guy who stays in shape as its seen maybe as some sort of addiction or worshiping yourself to much.

people all like different things.

Exactly, you look in great shape and I can appreciate the ffort but for me its not my thing. To each their own"

yes i understand im not going to be everyones cup of tea.

some like more meat on the bones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I don't like over weight men.. as I can have Fit, in shape young guys... And overweight guys does nothing for me..

Reason why more men will have bigger ladies is because us women have a vast choices , the guys don't... So the women get to be more picky.

Cali "

Don't agree at all with this Cali. I worked with a guy many years ago who was like a matchstick with the wood shaved off! His ideal woman was....... HATTIE JAQUES. He absolutely detested slim/athletic women - he liked (in fact was infatuated with them) SSBBW's. that was his 'thing'.

It had NOTHING what so ever with him not having the opportunity with slimmer women. He just didn't like them....

Probably had 'issues' but that's a whole different thread...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting back on Thread and in answer to the OP well no personally I wouldn't ..

But a lady friend did say her way of assessing if a bloke is too big (note I never said fat) is if he can see his cock below his belly or not..."

When erect or flaccid????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeah, another bit of info.

Opposites attract.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Well I'm just little all over, but I think I have stated it quite politely on my profile the body types I am interested in

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"No I don't like over weight men.. as I can have Fit, in shape young guys... And overweight guys does nothing for me..

Reason why more men will have bigger ladies is because us women have a vast choices , the guys don't... So the women get to be more picky.

Cali

Don't agree at all with this Cali. I worked with a guy many years ago who was like a matchstick with the wood shaved off! His ideal woman was....... HATTIE JAQUES. He absolutely detested slim/athletic women - he liked (in fact was infatuated with them) SSBBW's. that was his 'thing'.

It had NOTHING what so ever with him not having the opportunity with slimmer women. He just didn't like them....

Probably had 'issues' but that's a whole different thread...

"

why would he have 'issues' for liking big women?

i best go off and start that thread

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By *heekyladyCouple
over a year ago

manchester

All being said though I prefer a bigger man to a skinny one as I'd feel like I'd snap him in two if I got giddy (which I usually do lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting back on Thread and in answer to the OP well no personally I wouldn't ..

But a lady friend did say her way of assessing if a bloke is too big (note I never said fat) is if he can see his cock below his belly or not...

When erect or flaccid????

"

Knowing that lady rather well I think any cock would be erect ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And that is why all the ladies on here are looking for plus sized males!


"im not really into very over weight guys

I have in the past played with big guys but i find they tend to just lay there and not put much effort into the sex and i also find they dont have much stamina and get out of breath easy, i also find some possitions hard to do, like being on top, if their body is to wide for me to get my legs over and knees on the bed then its not really comfy

Pmsl

I am a large guy - I used to play Rugby for many years, and also Judo and have always been a naturally well-built guy. On the bloody stupid BMI chart, let's just say that I come in at 'over 35'...

BUT..... I have ALWAYS been fit (at one stage met the entry requirements for the RMC, and I was at least TEN years over their max entry age at the time!)

I still cycle as much as I can, although as I drive for a living, keeping the weight in check can be difficult at times.

I can assure you I do not 'lay there and let the fem do all the work' - ask Perky!!! I accept that due to someones size it can be difficult to do Cowgirl or other positions, but for all kinds of reasons even 'slim' people find other positions difficult.

If you find large guys are just laying there and not putting in any effort, it may just be that it is not down to their size but their attitude.

And for the 'slim/athletic' ones reading this, ever considered that well-built guys like me might not find skinny women very attractive?? Had a catwalk model GF years ago and it was like fucking a boy cos she was soooo skinny!!! And fucked with my mind something rotten too!!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting back on Thread and in answer to the OP well no personally I wouldn't ..

But a lady friend did say her way of assessing if a bloke is too big (note I never said fat) is if he can see his cock below his belly or not...

When erect or flaccid????

Knowing that lady rather well I think any cock would be erect ... "

PMSL!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer personality, face and mutual attraction; I don't mind a bit of weight but not massively overweight. And the guys I have met, did not lie back and think of England perhaps I was just lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've hit on a new idea for a,group of ladies in stead of slimming world for men how's about fuck yourself slim offering sex for slimmer of the week LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not really into very over weight guys

I have in the past played with big guys but i find they tend to just lay there and not put much effort into the sex and i also find they dont have much stamina and get out of breath easy, i also find some possitions hard to do, like being on top, if their body is to wide for me to get my legs over and knees on the bed then its not really comfy

Pmsl "

now see that 'comment' says a great deal

not two posts above it, you say you aren't judging you are just asking if we would fuck one

your response to NN's honest and frank remark tells me otherwise

good luck to the ladies who don't like fat guys, and good luck to the ladies that do

build is just another thing that people look at when they work out whether they would shag someone or not, like colour, height, age, location, sexual interests, intelligence, wit etc etc

i am a fat guy but i won't define myself by it, being fat is part of me, it is far from being the sum of me.

i shall not be hanging my boots up on the basis of this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not really into very over weight guys

I have in the past played with big guys but i find they tend to just lay there and not put much effort into the sex and i also find they dont have much stamina and get out of breath easy, i also find some possitions hard to do, like being on top, if their body is to wide for me to get my legs over and knees on the bed then its not really comfy

Pmsl

now see that 'comment' says a great deal

not two posts above it, you say you aren't judging you are just asking if we would fuck one

your response to NN's honest and frank remark tells me otherwise

good luck to the ladies who don't like fat guys, and good luck to the ladies that do

build is just another thing that people look at when they work out whether they would shag someone or not, like colour, height, age, location, sexual interests, intelligence, wit etc etc

i am a fat guy but i won't define myself by it, being fat is part of me, it is far from being the sum of me.

i shall not be hanging my boots up on the basis of this thread "

Well said Bussy

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