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By *hynotts OP   Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

now we know that most do not like them. but what we are asking who shud bring them. we have had a few meets where males turn up with out any hopeing to get a fuck with out them. we all ways have some with us but why do we need to give a sigel male or another cpl ours. if a profile says safe sex only why would you not bring any with you . do others have the same problem

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I always bring my own with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone was invited to ours, we'd provide the condoms. Also condoms is spelt with an N, hehe.

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By *hynotts OP   Couple
over a year ago

nottingham


"I always bring my own with me. "
yes we shud have said this is not all meets that do this but we seem tobe geting a few that dont bring there own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always bring my own, and have a selection of brands & sizes! Would say at least 95% of meets either bring or at least ask if I have any before turning up. I don't think it should be one persons responsibility (ie the guys!) as we're all responsible for our own sexual health...although if he does have a preferred brand that fit better for him then it would be a good idea to carry them x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Everyone should bring them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can only use latex free condoms so i always carry my own as not many people carry latex free ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we supply condoms just incase the guy runs out but no protection no conection simple's

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

As I look after my own sexual health and not others, I always have a good supply either in the house or on me if I'm out.

Have had a few guys moan about them, but I never play without.

I've even invested in some latex free ones just incase

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Everyone should bring them....

Although, personally I prefer to use my own... then I know they're not out of date etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone should bring them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met guys in the past and due to the fact they have truned up empty handed it has put me off playing with them

As far as i can see the only reason you would turn upto a meet without condoms is because you have no intentions of using them

And i find that level of presumption a turn off

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I always tell them now not to bother bringing them as i have tons plus it means i can put them out at easy to reach places lol, instead of fumbling about. But if i was at a club even though i use my own there if a guy didnt have a condom with him i wouldnt shag him. If he isnt carrying a condom in a club ffs

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

i always bring them

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By *hynotts OP   Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

Bit of a mix then so seems like both bring them just in case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always bring plenty of my own (at least 8 - 10) as I know which ones fit and work best for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally stock up at the clinic or get them when they are on offer I like to have a variety.

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By *obandruthCouple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

condoms yes , are comdoms something new as i havnt herd of them

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By *amslam1000Man
over a year ago

willenhall

no excuse for not bringing them as you can get a box of 18 from the 99p shop

or go up market and use the pound shop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me no daft, me no silly, me always wear, a condom on me willie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have loads of my own as I like latex free.. but sometimes if a guy has his own I prefer them to wear the ones that they are comfortable with.. as I have very little full sex anyway.

Cali

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By *atex twoCouple
over a year ago

near plymouth

so am i wrong asking a male i never met before to wear a condom during oral sex as yes im not going to swallow his spunk when its yes its also a way of getting a std ,yes girls we can get it by sucking cock

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By *RS79Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I always bring my own - simple good manners

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I always have loads as I have a latex allergy but im still responsibe for me so would have loads regardless

As much as id think its a cheek if guys turn up with none im still taking care of me anyway and not leaving it up to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter if he doesnt bring any? After all there free so just stock up lol

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

On all my meets I have taken my own yet only three were willing to use condoms and only one of the three had his own. I'd rather walk away having no sex than to walk away pregnant or with and STD.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Does it matter if he doesnt bring any? After all there free so just stock up lol"

It does matter to me... If he doesnt bring them... No sex.

A guy who shows up for a meet without condoms.... I will assume doesnt use them

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

I know it's a horrible opinion to have, but I am a firm believer that the only person you can trust is yourself. - It is YOUR responsibility to take care of your sexual health, and for that reason we will always have some to hand whether our meet brings condoms or not.

- Amy. x

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

We have a box of them we keep fairly full but have had numerous meets turn up and just expect us to provide them and in clubs we have gone to play with couples who expect Sir to wear a condom but dont seem to have any of their own so i end up putting a halt on things at that point. Ive had a few guys turn up try to use them and be unable to perform which also tells me they arent used to them which concerns me. So in answer to the question everyone should provide them

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By *onybloMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Guess I am an old fashioned man so always take my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"now we know that most do not like them. but what we are asking who shud bring them. we have had a few meets where males turn up with out any hopeing to get a fuck with out them. we all ways have some with us but why do we need to give a sigel male or another cpl ours. if a profile says safe sex only why would you not bring any with you . do others have the same problem "

totally emathise with your frustrations - when used to swing with my ex we always insisted on people bring own condoms - we had an occasion to refuse sex once because this guy hadnt got any and was pleading "im clean honest - i have un protected sex with wife really" as if that would convince us -

The whole subject of BB sex has been explored many times but we all still need to be mindful of its pit falls and stick by our choices

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I'm not sure which is worse, the guy who turns up for an all-nighter with none or the guy who turns up with one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always take my own as I know what fits comfortably - and sadly that's often hard to find!

On the occasions someone's forgotten to mention a latex allergy I'm happy to use theirs - or forgo any penetration and just enjoy a seriously long foreplay session - and arrange a second visit!!

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By *lam rockerMan
over a year ago

Tain

I'd always bring them and latex free ones too as they were the only ones in my size (large)!

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