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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Big hi five to all you considerate lovers out there who don't just empty their load or just expect a blowy but actually enjoys pleasing a lady to a mind blowing finish. Too all you I thank you so much.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

well done guys... and glad you had fun

waits for a '3 strokes, spurt and home thread .....' to feel appreciated x

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Big hi five to all you considerate lovers out there who don't just empty their load or just expect a blowy but actually enjoys pleasing a lady to a mind blowing finish. Too all you I thank you so much."

When you have a sexy lady by your side - why would anyone want to rush...?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Blimey, ive never met one that just wants to empty his load or wants just a blow job

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blimey, ive never met one that just wants to empty his load or wants just a blow job"

You know what I mean lol just praising all the talented gentlemen on here.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Blimey, ive never met one that just wants to empty his load or wants just a blow job

You know what I mean lol just praising all the talented gentlemen on here."

Well in that case, thankyou to all of you who are a great shag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blimey, ive never met one that just wants to empty his load or wants just a blow job

You know what I mean lol just praising all the talented gentlemen on here.

Well in that case, thankyou to all of you who are a great shag "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blimey, ive never met one that just wants to empty his load or wants just a blow job"

i bloody have, ive played with loads of guys who just want a blow job and a shag

i met one guy and when i pointed out he hadnt given me oral after i had spent ages sucking him he said, i dont go down on woemn i meet thro swinging i only do that with special people, he didnt get a shag lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blimey, ive never met one that just wants to empty his load or wants just a blow job

i bloody have, ive played with loads of guys who just want a blow job and a shag

i met one guy and when i pointed out he hadnt given me oral after i had spent ages sucking him he said, i dont go down on woemn i meet thro swinging i only do that with special people, he didnt get a shag lol"

have met a few like that too , what the hell are they thinking , the mind boggles

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I reckon we should have a naming forum for all the great shags and one for all the crap shags

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big hi five to all you considerate lovers out there who don't just empty their load or just expect a blowy but actually enjoys pleasing a lady to a mind blowing finish. Too all you I thank you so much."

Took an age to organise a meet with this guy he had pestered us for months in the end we said yes, we booked the hotel although he did split the cost with us fair enough, we met in the bar i spent hours getting my hair done nice outfit all the gear! One drink and he suggests we go the the room ok im cool lets go i say, once there its 2 mins of kissing and 2 mins of fingering followed by forever and aday trying to get a hard on in the end i bring him off by hand as he still cant get it up. the second he has cum thats it he off getting dressed telling me the band will be starting at ten in bar and he doesnt want to mis that, thanks and bye.

But i do learn from these little mishaps and it wont happen again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see now reading this is really strange to understand.

im what you call a 'considerate lover' and put a lot of effort into pleasuring the woman im meeting.

but (and this is in my experience so only have this to go on) some of the woman ive met do not like this as they get funny about it or treat me like shit.

so i changed attitude for a while, didnt care so much about them, fucked them and got my clothes on and left.

now they are staying in contact.

so what the hell do you woman want?

you be nice and dont make the team sheet. play it like you dont care and you get asked back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Go figure treat them mean keep them keen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"see now reading this is really strange to understand.

im what you call a 'considerate lover' and put a lot of effort into pleasuring the woman im meeting.

but (and this is in my experience so only have this to go on) some of the woman ive met do not like this as they get funny about it or treat me like shit.

so i changed attitude for a while, didnt care so much about them, fucked them and got my clothes on and left.

now they are staying in contact.

so what the hell do you woman want?

you be nice and dont make the team sheet. play it like you dont care and you get asked back."

How old are these women?

I've found the women at university very surprised when I snog them after a BJ.

It is funny when you get your mouth round a pair of boobs and finger her but she is expecting you to stop soon.

Not a chance my dear! I have a mouth full of boob, my hand is getting wet and I have only just started.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am what you call a "considerate lover" too as I consider that everyone should have fun in a meet...

Though, a woman I met just wanted me to finish right after she came : she just couldn't be bothered after SHE finished Doesn't help you to come quicker, I can tell you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing worse than seeing status updates, meets today or forum posts along the lines of - I need to empty my sac, god I would love a BJ etc. It always makes me think well that's what you want doesn't sound as if there is anything being offered in return...... Avoid

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Nothing worse than seeing status updates, meets today or forum posts along the lines of - I need to empty my sac, god I would love a BJ etc. It always makes me think well that's what you want doesn't sound as if there is anything being offered in return...... Avoid "

Im with you on that one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing worse than seeing status updates, meets today or forum posts along the lines of - I need to empty my sac, god I would love a BJ etc. It always makes me think well that's what you want doesn't sound as if there is anything being offered in return...... Avoid "

Might sound stupid but aren't there some women interested in that kind of meet? (genuine question : because I find that kind of messages kinda disrespectful!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing worse than seeing status updates, meets today or forum posts along the lines of - I need to empty my sac, god I would love a BJ etc. It always makes me think well that's what you want doesn't sound as if there is anything being offered in return...... Avoid

Might sound stupid but aren't there some women interested in that kind of meet? (genuine question : because I find that kind of messages kinda disrespectful!)"

Maybe, I don't know. I just know what I like and that's a few hours of mutual pleasure. Much as I enjoy giving a BJ I also like some stimulation back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get really turned on giving a bj but it drives me up the wall when you spend ages giving a great bj and they then go straight into banging away for hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get really turned on giving a bj but it drives me up the wall when you spend ages giving a great bj and they then go straight into banging away for hours. "

Then make sure they dont have DIY to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too think of myself as a kind, considerate lover!

I'm kind enough to shag her in the first place and considerate enough to let her rest for a minute afterwards before sending her for a cold lager from the fridge!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you have to be realy grateful when you get one like that.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Big hi five to all you considerate lovers out there who don't just empty their load or just expect a blowy but actually enjoys pleasing a lady to a mind blowing finish. Too all you I thank you so much."

I got one of those - haven't left him since we met 7 years ago.;-)

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By *ont Ask Dont GetWoman
over a year ago

amersham


"so what the hell do you woman want?"

...some may want it quick and dirty, some others (like me) want lots of mutual pleasure, time and attention...everyone's different, eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"see now reading this is really strange to understand.

im what you call a 'considerate lover' and put a lot of effort into pleasuring the woman im meeting.

but (and this is in my experience so only have this to go on) some of the woman ive met do not like this as they get funny about it or treat me like shit.

so i changed attitude for a while, didnt care so much about them, fucked them and got my clothes on and left.

now they are staying in contact.

so what the hell do you woman want?

you be nice and dont make the team sheet. play it like you dont care and you get asked back."

Funnily enough it is often the same in reverse, there is something in the "treat em mean keep em keen saying" methinks. just so made me laugh tho

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