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VERIFICATIONs are so hard to get here.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

Iv meet 3 members so far. And very nice people indeed.

All three said no to verifications as it invites other members to chase them thinking they are easy.

QUESTION IS.

Would your give a verification after chat and not meet or video chatting?.

T.

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

Yes we normally do

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I think it's more likely they don't want anyone to know they've been meeting during lockdown

I usually only veri if they don't already have any or if they ask for one

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By *ngelikatvleedsTV/TS
over a year ago

Scarborough

But if you agree not to show the verification they can still verify you without it causing an issue ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they didn't want to offend?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

U have to meet or cam cant very on the back of a chat x

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"But if you agree not to show the verification they can still verify you without it causing an issue ??"

Ok I did not know that and it appears lots dont know how to do they either.

T

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"Maybe they didn't want to offend? "

Mayb LOL LOL

But im so nice it would be real hard to offend me

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"U have to meet or cam cant very on the back of a chat x"

Ok.

But how can FABSWING tell if anyone has meet someone??.

They don't follow me with a camera as far know LOL LOL

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Iv meet 3 members so far. And very nice people indeed.

All three said no to verifications as it invites other members to chase them thinking they are easy.

QUESTION IS.

Would your give a verification after chat and not meet or video chatting?.

T."

Some couples don't like to show just how many people they are actually meeting ..or that they may sometimes drop their high standards on occasions for us normal guys ...

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Even when u get em, doesn’t make it easy lol ..

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I have met people who didn’t show my verification, or verified me back. Often they don’t want others to know they’ve met with a Tgirl on here.

So you’ll find plenty of reasons why verifications aren’t always a given after a meet.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"U have to meet or cam cant very on the back of a chat x

Ok.

But how can FABSWING tell if anyone has meet someone??.

They don't follow me with a camera as far know LOL LOL"

Obviously no! But to verify someone falsely would b wrong x

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Iv meet 3 members so far. And very nice people indeed.

All three said no to verifications as it invites other members to chase them thinking they are easy.

QUESTION IS.

Would your give a verification after chat and not meet or video chatting?.

T."

Are you asking for someone to give you a fake veri, without meeting or a video call? I’m pretty sure that would get you and them banned.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"Iv meet 3 members so far. And very nice people indeed.

All three said no to verifications as it invites other members to chase them thinking they are easy.

QUESTION IS.

Would your give a verification after chat and not meet or video chatting?.

T.

Some couples don't like to show just how many people they are actually meeting ..or that they may sometimes drop their high standards on occasions for us normal guys ... "

Maybe true.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"Even when u get em, doesn’t make it easy lol .. "

True.

But easier.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"U have to meet or cam cant very on the back of a chat x

Ok.

But how can FABSWING tell if anyone has meet someone??.

They don't follow me with a camera as far know LOL LOL

Obviously no! But to verify someone falsely would b wrong x"

I Get that ??

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"Iv meet 3 members so far. And very nice people indeed.

All three said no to verifications as it invites other members to chase them thinking they are easy.

QUESTION IS.

Would your give a verification after chat and not meet or video chatting?.

T.

Are you asking for someone to give you a fake veri, without meeting or a video call? I’m pretty sure that would get you and them banned."

No it was a genuine question tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hang in the cam rooms on here often. Have verified loads of guys if they are polite, interesting and I watch them play for me.

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Yes I’d veri....just be specific about the meeting type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always left verifications for cams, socials, or pre covid sex meets. But I don't get that many back, especially after sex meets for some reason. Xx

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Iv meet 3 members so far. And very nice people indeed.

All three said no to verifications as it invites other members to chase them thinking they are easy.

QUESTION IS.

Would your give a verification after chat and not meet or video chatting?.

T."

I'm not sure that one is obliged to give a verification...

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"Iv meet 3 members so far. And very nice people indeed.

All three said no to verifications as it invites other members to chase them thinking they are easy.

QUESTION IS.

Would your give a verification after chat and not meet or video chatting?.

T.

I'm not sure that one is obliged to give a verification..."

Your 100% correct they are not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if you agree not to show the verification they can still verify you without it causing an issue ??

Ok I did not know that and it appears lots dont know how to do they either.

T"

Who can prove the veri was given after a chat? There is no way to monitor it I’m pretty sure it goes on. I think it’s not right you met 3 people and none would veri you. That’s out of order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if you agree not to show the verification they can still verify you without it causing an issue ??

Ok I did not know that and it appears lots dont know how to do they either.

T

Who can prove the veri was given after a chat? There is no way to monitor it I’m pretty sure it goes on. I think it’s not right you met 3 people and none would veri you. That’s out of order "

I’ve had more meets than verifications but that’s because some members are worried that multiple veris will put other potential members off. I do feel for the new single guys on here though, I’ve seen female newbies asking for randoms to verify them and pay for there subscription.., and ten minutes after joining they have half a dozen verifications off blokes just grafting

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"But if you agree not to show the verification they can still verify you without it causing an issue ??

Ok I did not know that and it appears lots dont know how to do they either.

T

Who can prove the veri was given after a chat? There is no way to monitor it I’m pretty sure it goes on. I think it’s not right you met 3 people and none would veri you. That’s out of order

I’ve had more meets than verifications but that’s because some members are worried that multiple veris will put other potential members off. I do feel for the new single guys on here though, I’ve seen female newbies asking for randoms to verify them and pay for there subscription.., and ten minutes after joining they have half a dozen verifications off blokes just grafting "

As soon as I get 2 verification I can post up a couple of videos.

I guess patience will have to be a virtue for a while DAMB.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

If we meet, we verify. Some have not reciprocated but luckily our first two veris were from people we’ve known for years before we were here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always left verifications for cams, socials, or pre covid sex meets. But I don't get that many back, especially after sex meets for some reason. Xx"

Why is that?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We will always verify...but there’s various reasons why people don’t want to display verifications.

When I had a single profile a couple of years ago, I displayed all my verifications (the majority were from socials) and I felt people judged me or decided not to meet me based on some of the people on my verifications. Of course I may have been wrong but I feel sometimes verifications can be used against you.

But I’m sure going on cam and chatting to someone will help you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we just look at verifications to prove someone is real, other than that we dont care

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By *orruptedWoman
over a year ago

Battersea, London

I'm always happy to veri after a meet. Obviously atm that isn't an option

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By *ommon-usernameMan
over a year ago

local

I always give verifications if I have previously met someone in person or on cam.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"I've always left verifications for cams, socials, or pre covid sex meets. But I don't get that many back, especially after sex meets for some reason. Xx"

Surprised they don't verify you after a meet, from watching your videos it is clear you are an amazing fuck x

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

So leaving aside whether you’ve been physically meeting (recently?) you’re saying three people in a row refused to verify you?

Bit sceptical about that, something you’re not telling us

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"So leaving aside whether you’ve been physically meeting (recently?) you’re saying three people in a row refused to verify you?

Bit sceptical about that, something you’re not telling us "

Hi Julie.

As you can see I am a polite person and reply to posters I think would like a reply.

I fully understand your scepticism.

Maybe I should have typed with more care.

And no edits are allowed*shame*.

So the 3 ladies concerned have said THANX but no thanx to both way verifications.

1 i have not seen and 2 i have seen again.

There reasons I understand and respect fully.

To many verifications written or not indicate sleeping around.

I not a F.W expert but totally abide by there wants.

Thanx BigT

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

I don't personally feel like they are hard to get.

Although I find them hard to maintain.

People delete their accounts and leave this site regularly and the verifications go with them.

Last year I had 4 verifications, now I'm down to one.

It is what is it, I suppose.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"I don't personally feel like they are hard to get.

Although I find them hard to maintain.

People delete their accounts and leave this site regularly and the verifications go with them.

Last year I had 4 verifications, now I'm down to one.

It is what is it, I suppose.

"

True.

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By *alhamCoupleCouple
over a year ago

London


"I've always left verifications for cams, socials, or pre covid sex meets. But I don't get that many back, especially after sex meets for some reason. Xx"

Really? I have seen your “bad ass” videos-a verification from you would surely be a badge of honour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't verify anyone on the strength of just a chat alone, but a chat via webcam would at least allow me to verify the fact that he/she/they are real people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv meet 3 members so far. And very nice people indeed.

All three said no to verifications as it invites other members to chase them thinking they are easy.

QUESTION IS.

Would your give a verification after chat and not meet or video chatting?.

T."

No, I wouldn't based on just a chat. I would if we have met or video chatted though.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yet you list striaight, but are asking to meet men???????

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham


"So leaving aside whether you’ve been physically meeting (recently?) you’re saying three people in a row refused to verify you?

Bit sceptical about that, something you’re not telling us

Hi Julie.

As you can see I am a polite person and reply to posters I think would like a reply.

I fully understand your scepticism.

Maybe I should have typed with more care.

And no edits are allowed*shame*.

So the 3 ladies concerned have said THANX but no thanx to both way verifications.

1 i have not seen and 2 i have seen again.

There reasons I understand and respect fully.

To many verifications written or not indicate sleeping around.

I not a F.W expert but totally abide by there wants.

Thanx BigT"

Who is Julie?

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"So leaving aside whether you’ve been physically meeting (recently?) you’re saying three people in a row refused to verify you?

Bit sceptical about that, something you’re not telling us

Hi Julie.

As you can see I am a polite person and reply to posters I think would like a reply.

I fully understand your scepticism.

Maybe I should have typed with more care.

And no edits are allowed*shame*.

So the 3 ladies concerned have said THANX but no thanx to both way verifications.

1 i have not seen and 2 i have seen again.

There reasons I understand and respect fully.

To many verifications written or not indicate sleeping around.

I not a F.W expert but totally abide by there wants.

Thanx BigT

Who is Julie? "

Lol SORRY quick read JULIA

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