FabSwingers.com forum: Polyamory non-monogamous

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As soon as this is all over I want to put on a huge party. With live music somewhere in Birmingham. There will be no naughty business at the event as it will be more of a meet and greet.

I would like to aim it more around polyamory/non-monogamous couples/people.

My question is will people be willing to come to such an event?

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

Yes, we'd be very interested

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Depends where and when and any costs, but it can always be fun to meet new people who share similar outlooks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes please guys

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By *sylockeWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely interested. It’s a lifestyle we are talking about dipping our toes in.

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By *reativecouplederbyCouple
over a year ago

Derby

Yes we'd be up for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes would be nice to attend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes would definitely be interested.

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

Count me in

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By *allgirthyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Would love to.

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Intriguing,

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By *eserves-moreCouple
over a year ago

North West

Yes, sounds good to us xx

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By *andWnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Definitely

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Intrested

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

Sounds interesting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A lot more interest than I thought I would get xxxx what day of the week would you all prefer? And what style of music would you all like?

Thank you for your interest xxx

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By *reativecouplederbyCouple
over a year ago

Derby

For music, surely 80s bangers are a win!! Happy to make a playlist

Day of the week, depends where it is - weekends are obviously good for most (we're self employed so makes no odds to us) but might get a better deal somewhere on a weekday

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By *reativecouplederbyCouple
over a year ago

Derby

Oh, just realised OP said live music - that might be something we could help with, as it's what we do...

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By *exySquirrelsCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We'd be interested

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

What kind of venue are you thinking of hiring?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What kind of venue are you thinking of hiring?"

Right now I have no idea. I was thinking somewhere like a club with a good sized room but I am not to use to Birmingham but it’s something I am looking into.

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By *Jones19Man
over a year ago

Evesham, Worcester, Pershore

Depending on details, id be up for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As soon as this is all over I want to put on a huge party. With live music somewhere in Birmingham. There will be no naughty business at the event as it will be more of a meet and greet.

I would like to aim it more around polyamory/non-monogamous couples/people.

My question is will people be willing to come to such an event?

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yes we would definitely attend this is something that has been on our minds for a long time..

would love to meet people in the same mind set...

Karen and paul

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By *andWnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Just wondering,as you said for poly based people, would you be allowing all parts of the polycule to attend?

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By *r swing2Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm very much interested in a polyamorous relationship so would love to attend your get together

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just wondering,as you said for poly based people, would you be allowing all parts of the polycule to attend?"

Be open to all with the idea for everyone to meet new people and start to form new friendships and connections

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'd attend an event like this

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby

Yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'd be welcome would love this...

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

As soon as this nonsense is over, I'm down for ANY kind of social interaction. If it's a poly / non-mono friendly space, that'd just be a bonus.

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By *uthLessKnickersCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall/Devon

This is something we would be very interested in. We both enjoy the poly lifestyle. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would be very interested as its something we have dipped our toes into looking to pursue after covid.Would be nice to meet similar people looking for the same x

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Sounds like fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this sounds great. the poly world has been hard in this pandemic.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

"As soon as this is all over I want to put on a huge party. With live music somewhere in Birmingham. There will be no naughty business at the event as it will be more of a meet and greet.

I would like to aim it more around polyamory/non-monogamous couples/people.

My question is will people be willing to come to such an event?

Obviously it depends on what live music you’re talking about!... I mean, I am missing gigs, but still not going to watch Blue or Spice girls...

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

Id love to attend nothing like multi connected relationships. I'm not sure one person can ever fulfil all your needs, not just sexually but in all aspects of life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As soon as this is all over I want to put on a huge party. With live music somewhere in Birmingham. There will be no naughty business at the event as it will be more of a meet and greet.

I would like to aim it more around polyamory/non-monogamous couples/people.

My question is will people be willing to come to such an event?

Obviously it depends on what live music you’re talking about!... I mean, I am missing gigs, but still not going to watch Blue or Spice girls...

I gave them a call but they they did not want to reform for my do ???? I will be seeking a band that can play a little of everything lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd definitely love to attend something like this.

As far a music goes, maybe a band that does covers?

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By *anty TwoCouple
over a year ago

Near Ash Surrey & South Essex

That opens up a can of worms

Cover bands and then it's what type

We always feel ska band covers are best as most can have a skank to them

But having fun with like minded people is what we would look forward to

I must ask is this a poly gathering or just a well organised swingers social?

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By *winger coupleCouple
over a year ago

Reading Berkshire

Will come. Prefer if event is on weekend.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

To be fair I am one of the ladies that runs the MLS- a pretty popular social and i have just realised I have never noticed if there’s music on in the background at the venue or not. Too busy chatting to everyone in the room.

Maybe what your aiming for is different (or is it? To be fair it does just sound like a big social - I’m not sure. Maybe I’ve read it all wrong) but people getting hung up on music choices as to wether they would attend or not sounds a bit mental to me!

Good work on the planning though - looking forward to it coming to fruition!

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

"To be fair I am one of the ladies that runs the MLS- a pretty popular social and i have just realised I have never noticed if there’s music on in the background at the venue or not. Too busy chatting to everyone in the room.

Good work on the planning though - looking forward to it coming to fruition!

My comment about the music was meant in humour... unless it’s Beiber... then I’m definitely out!

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I'd be interested in this, as it's always good to widen your circle of friends

And as an aside, I'm also the drummer in a ska and reggae covers band - we're looking for gigs for next year....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we love a bit of ska

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That opens up a can of worms

Cover bands and then it's what type

We always feel ska band covers are best as most can have a skank to them

But having fun with like minded people is what we would look forward to

I must ask is this a poly gathering or just a well organised swingers social?

I love hearing the different opinions as it might help educate my choice

And I am aiming more for poly as it would be a great opportunity to meet people for the long run. Not just the one night stand.

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

We would definitely be up for an event like this

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By *witchRichMan
over a year ago

Southport

would love to be there

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By *ka-sammi_n_danCouple
over a year ago

nantwich

We would love to attend, hopefully find my 2nd Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be worth the trip down to back home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds very interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely interested in this! What a great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C /we currently looking for a glorious kinky third, male or female please say hi

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We would be interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely! Sounds fun. We’d love to go!

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By *inranWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Me please

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

"C /we currently looking for a glorious kinky third, male or female please say hi

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By *ethefabtwoCouple
over a year ago

coventry

yes wed be interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be keen. Recently started looking into whether polyamory is for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good work on the planning though - looking forward to it coming to fruition!

I think the difference is that those who might attend are looking for longer-term romantic as well as sexual relationships. Almost a speed dating evening!

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Sounds like fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are looking to chat. C looking for a new third to our two.. say hi

d (cuck)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be nice to have a lady friend with mutual respect and chemistry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There may be places within The Custard Factory you could hire or, if a little further out isn’t an issue, The Engine Room.

Some of the smaller places along the Canal Basin may hire out too; you can also get canal boats for parties, I think.

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By *andRCouple
over a year ago

barry

We would be interested in attending. Xx G

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By *inabushCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We would be interested in attending x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how we wish we could be attending something

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By *uriousk22Couple
over a year ago

newcastle under lyme

i would be interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sign us up. This is something that we are very interested in.

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By *lowhands7Man
over a year ago

South Leicestershire (willing to travel)

Love the poly lifestyle, I have often found those into poly are more genuine people too, less likelihood of time wasters which gets a big

from me.

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By *ip2Man
over a year ago

Near Maidenhead

Yes please, I would be interested.

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