FabSwingers.com forum: MMF vs MFM

By *ntrepid Explorers OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

How meaningful is the order of the letters to you? I'm never sure if people understand a clear difference, indeed if there actually is one, between MMF (bi) and MFM (straight) for example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most people use them interchangeably, but yeah there technically is a difference xx

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

Its MW when two guys are having a 69

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

Never really put much thought on the order. If MFM is straight then that would be us, butbthen how does it work with 3 straight guys and 1 lady? The extra M has to go next to another M. MFMM, MMFM, MMMF, MFM+M?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should really be a F surrounded with a big circle of M's lol xx

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By *abluesbabyMan
over a year ago

Gibraltar/Cheshire/London

I always think most contact sites and especially porn sites have always, in the main, called it MMF.

You do see MFM or even FMM on even less occasions.

But it doesn't really matter does it? People tend to know what others mean in the main or, if they're new, soon pick it up.

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By *ntrepid Explorers OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I always think most contact sites and especially porn sites have always, in the main, called it MMF.

You do see MFM or even FMM on even less occasions.

But it doesn't really matter does it? People tend to know what others mean in the main or, if they're new, soon pick it up. "

Well there are many straight guys here who state MMF, so that's either..

1) a hint at playing bi

2) a misunderstanding of what MMF means

3) irrelevant as it all means the same, vaguer thing.

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Originally, it implied the one in the middle is playing with the other two-

MFM means a female playing with the two men and MMF means a male playing with the other male and the female.

However, hardly anyone follows the definitions nowadays and usually MMF means two straight men and a woman.

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By *ntrepid Explorers OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Never really put much thought on the order. If MFM is straight then that would be us, butbthen how does it work with 3 straight guys and 1 lady? The extra M has to go next to another M. MFMM, MMFM, MMMF, MFM+M?"

Well every system has its limits! I think you just move on to saying gang bang right?

MFMF, MFFM & MF-MF technically work I suppose, but I'm totally making these up now AFAIK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer Classic FM or Talkradio myself..

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By *ewBurtonMan
over a year ago

Derby

Yes one bi one straight. Not everyone though realises best to sort out before you take the plunge as you may get a surprise lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our case it's MFM with a third M sitting in an armchair sipping brandy and enjoying the view. How should that be written?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi mmf all the way here

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"How meaningful is the order of the letters to you? I'm never sure if people understand a clear difference, indeed if there actually is one, between MMF (bi) and MFM (straight) for example."

30 years ago they both meant the same, now the meanings have been changed to satisfy the people who were not even born when swingers used the contractions

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

There is no difference. If you disagree please describe a three male/one female foursome using the same convention.

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By *ntrepid Explorers OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"There is no difference. If you disagree please describe a three male/one female foursome using the same convention."

What have those two things got to do with each other? I'm not talking about other permutations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I care about is that the lady is enjoying herself. You could call it a lfjfhrhrh for all I care lol

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By *uLou69Couple
over a year ago

Glos

Ask Siri?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How meaningful is the order of the letters to you? I'm never sure if people understand a clear difference, indeed if there actually is one, between MMF (bi) and MFM (straight) for example."

I don't know how commonly used or understood it is, but I do use letter order to differentiate the two.

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By *ntrepid Explorers OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"All I care about is that the lady is enjoying herself. You could call it a lfjfhrhrh for all I care lol"

Which basically says you've missed the point as I'd want you to care about me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How meaningful is the order of the letters to you? I'm never sure if people understand a clear difference, indeed if there actually is one, between MMF (bi) and MFM (straight) for example."

I'd never assume someone means bi males when I see 'MMF' or 'FMM', but being a straight guy I always use 'MFM' because I know some do see meaning in the order.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think the one that has come to mean either straight or bi is MMF and is also the most commonly used - personally I don't tend to distinguish and just use good old communication and common sense to understand what is meant on a case by case basis.

I'll take a bi MMF any time though

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"How meaningful is the order of the letters to you? I'm never sure if people understand a clear difference, indeed if there actually is one, between MMF (bi) and MFM (straight) for example."

It isn't meaningful, just a fab myth. I particularly like MMMFs -always with straight Ms. If the order mattered how would you write it

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By *ldaCouple
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

I think you’re all in danger of over thinking things.........

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Exactly. That's why an MMF can be straight or bi

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"There is no difference. If you disagree please describe a three male/one female foursome using the same convention.

What have those two things got to do with each other? I'm not talking about other permutations."

You are talking about a convention that uses the order of the letters to give a different meaning therefore it has to work in most cases, not just one combination.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Its MW when two guys are having a 69"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MMF any day. I’ve found MFM boring.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I think you’re all in danger of over thinking things........."

Overthinking? In Fab? The very idea!

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By *ntrepid Explorers OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *ntrepid Explorers OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"There is no difference. If you disagree please describe a three male/one female foursome using the same convention.

What have those two things got to do with each other? I'm not talking about other permutations.

You are talking about a convention that uses the order of the letters to give a different meaning therefore it has to work in most cases, not just one combination."

Nope.

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

For us doesn’t matter if we call it mmf or mfm. I (Marc) am straight and by saying mmf I mean have another guy playing with Kama and not me. So we both look after her.

But the question you asked was also a mystery for me in the past.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"It should really be a F surrounded with a big circle of M's lol xx"

Hard to type but...

MMM

MFM

MMM

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"It should really be a F surrounded with a big circle of M's lol xx

Hard to type but...

MMM

MFM

MMM

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By *unnyone32Man
over a year ago

london

I have always though MMF was bi and MFM was not?

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"MMF any day. I’ve found MFM boring. "

Depends who is being fucked... as in who is doing the "boring"... Geddit? I'll get me coat...

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

Well every system has its limits! I think you just move on to saying gang bang right?

MFMF, MFFM & MF-MF technically work I suppose, but I'm totally making these up now AFAIK"

Mummy my head hurts...

I think when you go past more than two men, it just becomes a gang bang ...

Like there is a word for foursome but fivesome?

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

Mmf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv never really thought about the order

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By *he Jizz PlayerMan
over a year ago

Hatfield

I am wiser today than I was yesterday.

Never realised there was a difference.

Personally, I really enjoy DP and DVP - Some people might think it bi so MMF would by right, others do not so MFM would the order of the day.

Personally I read the profile and texts or phone calls soon sorts things out.

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

How about an MmF where the lower case m is sub?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a MFM M group (e.g. all straight)

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By *ohn1953Man
over a year ago

North Wales

I use MMF but it does not mean a bi meet to me it’s just 2 males and a female or a guy and a couple to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope the order isnt too significant..

Could lead to a bit of a surprise for dyslexics..

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

"In our case it's MFM with a third M sitting in an armchair sipping brandy and enjoying the view. How should that be written?"

Oooh now that sounds interesting!

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By *anLondonMan
over a year ago

London

Very interesting topic.

I always use 'MMF' as my standard, although I am interested in indulging in the 'MF' and 'MM' that it implies.

I only make the distinction between 'MMF' and 'MFM' if it is clear that the people I am speaking to also are capable of making that distinction.

Usually, the indication is if they mention 'MFM', which is less common and seems more of a conscious choice. If they mention 'MFM' only, I assume that they are more interested in a straight threesome. If they say that they are interested in 'MFM' and 'MMF' then game-on.

Frankly, it is rare to find a couple who write proper profiles, in full sentences, with proper spelling, with enough attention to detail to differentiate between the two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the heat of the moment things can happen to make the mfm into a mmf . I never thought it would happen to me but it did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexually dyslexic here, who cares really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And who knew

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