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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys,

So over the summer I started seeing a new lady (all covid safe! We both live alone so formed a bubble!) and we've recently been talking about fantasies we both enjoy.

She's told me she's bi curious and would be interested in playing with another woman, which I love the idea of! Any thoughts on how it would be best to make this happen?

Thanks!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Set up a couples profile, wait until restrictions allow you to meet socially at a distance and take it from there.

Traditionally bi single women are the most difficult type of person to meet on fab as they are very popular.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She's not on fab so that would involve making her aware of fab

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"She's not on fab so that would involve making her aware of fab"

or you can wish from the universe to send you a magical unicorn so she can appear out of nowhere during one of your encounters

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham


"She's not on fab so that would involve making her aware of fab"

Ah, that conversation

Let us know how it goes when you mention it to her

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"She's not on fab so that would involve making her aware of fab"

Bar telling her about fab you could suggest going to clubs when they reopen.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

When you get a single fem ....let us know lol....still waiting lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She's not on fab so that would involve making her aware of fab

or you can wish from the universe to send you a magical unicorn so she can appear out of nowhere during one of your encounters "

Could you be that magical unicorn??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She's not on fab so that would involve making her aware of fab

Bar telling her about fab you could suggest going to clubs when they reopen. "

I think that'll be the easiest option, who knows when that'll be though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you get a single fem ....let us know lol....still waiting lol "

We wouldn't be against a couple to be honest though!

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"When you get a single fem ....let us know lol....still waiting lol

We wouldn't be against a couple to be honest though! "
Girls have all the fun lol....couples meets are a lot easier ...if the ladies get on ....BINGO

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you get a single fem ....let us know lol....still waiting lol

We wouldn't be against a couple to be honest though! Girls have all the fun lol....couples meets are a lot easier ...if the ladies get on ....BINGO "

Definitely! Shame you're so far away!

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Not sure what the issue is with telling her about Fab? If she's already expressed an interest in getting another person involved then I would imagine she would also find Fab interesting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not sure what the issue is with telling her about Fab? If she's already expressed an interest in getting another person involved then I would imagine she would also find Fab interesting. "

True, might have to bite the bullet and bring it up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont understand why you havnt already told her you are on fab, if its a serious relationship then you cant have any secrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys,

So over the summer I started seeing a new lady (all covid safe! We both live alone so formed a bubble!) and we've recently been talking about fantasies we both enjoy.

She's told me she's bi curious and would be interested in playing with another woman, which I love the idea of! Any thoughts on how it would be best to make this happen?

Thanks!

"

Good luck, these women are like rocking horse shit if you have standards lol x

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By *andkCouple
over a year ago

Wisbech

Same with us although 10 years ago, as soon as she told me I logged on to a gaydargirls and found a lesbian who was happy to meet just her, dropped her off at the hotel and picked her up 3 hours later and she hasn't looked back. What puts most girls off is when the hubby/bf wants to be present. K finds it more natural and enjoyable when not putting on a show

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Same with us although 10 years ago, as soon as she told me I logged on to a gaydargirls and found a lesbian who was happy to meet just her, dropped her off at the hotel and picked her up 3 hours later and she hasn't looked back. What puts most girls off is when the hubby/bf wants to be present. K finds it more natural and enjoyable when not putting on a show"

I would ideally like to be involved so this wouldn't be quite what I had in mind

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

If she's mentioned that she would be interested in playing with a woman then tell her about your involvement in this site Have a look at the 'who's near' to get her comfortable with window shopping for women, maybe fantasise about what you'd both do as a group or just her on her own.

Watching bi porn together can also help!

A couples profile would be best if you're looking to play as an FFM or she can join as a solo woman. Of course this could just be best left as a fantasy. If you're serious about the relationship then you need to accept that you might need to come off here if she's not OK with you being here.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to find out if she wants you involved!

Nothing like ff meets.

If she's that interested im sure she'll do a google and find sites that will cater for her interests by herself.

The thing I hate on here though are the 'my gf/wife wants a woman are you interested messages' from single guy profiles.

I just say I don't do 3rd party set ups. Get her to contact me herself.

The reply is usually 'well she's not on here'.

L x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need to find out if she wants you involved!

Nothing like ff meets.

If she's that interested im sure she'll do a google and find sites that will cater for her interests by herself.

The thing I hate on here though are the 'my gf/wife wants a woman are you interested messages' from single guy profiles.

I just say I don't do 3rd party set ups. Get her to contact me herself.

The reply is usually 'well she's not on here'.

L x"

Very insightful, thanks! x

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By *ows the time 300Man
over a year ago

Rickmansworth

How about you both go and visit an escort together when the situation allows

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham


"Same with us although 10 years ago, as soon as she told me I logged on to a gaydargirls and found a lesbian who was happy to meet just her, dropped her off at the hotel and picked her up 3 hours later and she hasn't looked back. What puts most girls off is when the hubby/bf wants to be present. K finds it more natural and enjoyable when not putting on a show

I would ideally like to be involved so this wouldn't be quite what I had in mind"

I bet you would

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon


"Hey guys,

So over the summer I started seeing a new lady (all covid safe! We both live alone so formed a bubble!) and we've recently been talking about fantasies we both enjoy.

She's told me she's bi curious and would be interested in playing with another woman, which I love the idea of! Any thoughts on how it would be best to make this happen?

Thanks!

"

As you can't take her to clubs atm maybe tell her about fab and see if she'd like to talk to some women? Perhaps looking at some ladies and them telling her they find her attractive might be a first introduction to her bi side x

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