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Does it count as sex if there's no penetration?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you consider thing like oral, breast/nipple play, etc part of sex, or just the 'build up' to sex/penetration? Or do you think it's only sex if there's penetration involved?

There isn't a right/wrong answer, just curious to see what people's thoughts are on this Obviously people are a little less vanilla on here!

I would say I think foreplay is part of sex, and foreplay alone can count as sex too. I've had some meets where there was no penetration but found them fun and enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you consider thing like oral, breast/nipple play, etc part of sex, or just the 'build up' to sex/penetration? Or do you think it's only sex if there's penetration involved?

There isn't a right/wrong answer, just curious to see what people's thoughts are on this Obviously people are a little less vanilla on here!

I would say I think foreplay is part of sex, and foreplay alone can count as sex too. I've had some meets where there was no penetration but found them fun and enjoyable."

I would absolutely count it as sex, however I personally wouldn’t find it fulfilling. (Would probably seek to add toys into the equation at least)

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

The law says it's sex if it's oral.....

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"The law says it's sex if it's oral....."

That was a surprise to me as i would never have classed oral as sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we often play without penitration, as long as both enjoy it then all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about lesbian sex? Oral counts xx

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By *ake The Rooster CrowMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Bill Clinton said it wasn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The law says it's sex if it's oral.....

That was a surprise to me as i would never have classed oral as sex."

You obviously haven't experienced oral with me then

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"The law says it's sex if it's oral.....

That was a surprise to me as i would never have classed oral as sex."

R*ape and sexual assault can be oral, vaginal or anal, including penetration by object, fingers etc, not just by penis. I know that's not a the spirit of the OP, but the fact is sex is any form of sexual contact. Good old Safeguarding training coming to the fore here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The law says it's sex if it's oral.....

That was a surprise to me as i would never have classed oral as sex.

R*ape and sexual assault can be oral, vaginal or anal, including penetration by object, fingers etc, not just by penis. I know that's not a the spirit of the OP, but the fact is sex is any form of sexual contact. Good old Safeguarding training coming to the fore here "

I don't mean is it legally defined as sex, I mean do you personally consider it sex or just a warm up to something else

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"What about lesbian sex? Oral counts xx"

Nothing to not love about

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Yes it's all sex imo

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

In our book anything sexxy /saucy is sex ..penetration is up to the people you play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess yes, it's called oral sex

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"The law says it's sex if it's oral.....

That was a surprise to me as i would never have classed oral as sex."

..."I did not have sex with that woman..."

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

If a guy is fucking my throat, that's definitely sex.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

To me penertration is sex and everything else is foreplay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about lesbian sex? Oral counts xx"

Fair enough

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"The law says it's sex if it's oral.....

That was a surprise to me as i would never have classed oral as sex.

R*ape and sexual assault can be oral, vaginal or anal, including penetration by object, fingers etc, not just by penis. I know that's not a the spirit of the OP, but the fact is sex is any form of sexual contact. Good old Safeguarding training coming to the fore here

I don't mean is it legally defined as sex, I mean do you personally consider it sex or just a warm up to something else "

I did say I realised I'd digressed

But yes, it's all sex to me

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

We only play without penetration other than toy and fingers, thats partner only.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

If only penetration counts as sex, what is it when two women play together? It’s not foreplay or a warm-up, it’s still sex.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"If only penetration counts as sex, what is it when two women play together? It’s not foreplay or a warm-up, it’s still sex."

And this is why lesbian activity wasn't considered an offence under the old and very unfair/discriminatory anti-homosexuality laws of yesteryear.....

It wasn't considered sex.

I consider it sex, however......

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"If only penetration counts as sex, what is it when two women play together? It’s not foreplay or a warm-up, it’s still sex.

And this is why lesbian activity wasn't considered an offence under the old and very unfair/discriminatory anti-homosexuality laws of yesteryear.....

It wasn't considered sex.

I consider it sex, however......"

That did at least mean that women could fly under the radar a bit, because it wasn’t technically illegal!

And I also very much consider it sex, very lovely sex in fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bliemey, all the oral only sessions we've had over the years and none of it was sex! We're almost virgins!

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oral sex........it’s kind of a giveaway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oral sex........it’s kind of a giveaway "

This guy could get himself in a lot of trouble!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oral sex........it’s kind of a giveaway

This guy could get himself in a lot of trouble!"

True, in fact I have been since my teenage years lol Probably why Mrs often says I can’t take you anywhere

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