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Getting tipsy leading up to sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes or no?

For me it adds to the fun and doubles the freak in me also adds longevity to lol

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

No. I want everyone sober and in control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big no from me!

I like sex sober and memorable, also... consent. You cannot give consent when you're in no fit state, and that could get messy. I like my partner to knowingly be in control of their actions, and for me to know the same.

Also, I have a view that if you can only get in the mood when under the influence, you really have to ask yourself the question if you actually want to be there at all.

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

Alcohol is a massive nope from us.we like all the faculties intact

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Have to agree with the majority. No fun if someone has to be near d*unk to play, I would question if they really wanted to.

Sex in itself and the lead up is all the headiness I need.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Tipsy can be fun but d*unk is a no go. I can get tipsy on a glass of wine.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"

Sex in itself and the lead up is all the headiness I need."

Exactly this! And for me, alcohol actually kind of dulls the excitement and enjoyment as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I totally agree with you however, if I'm tipsy, I just go crazy fuck like marky mark on boogie nights. Wooo! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, not for me.

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By *ountry Boy FreshMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

No and I wouldn't go near a woman who was intoxicated there are far too many elements there surrounding connect that make it a total no go area.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Yeah I totally agree with you however, if I'm tipsy, I just go crazy fuck like marky mark on boogie nights. Wooo! Lol"

I’ve never seen it so I don’t know what you mean, but “crazy” and “wooo” aren’t things I’m generally looking for in a meet lol

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By *ive Bar Beauty QueenWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

I wouldn't and avoid heavy drinkers totally. Some people get a little aggressive when they have had a few and its a negative for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha, I like rock and roll sex, not always but mostly. It's like when you go to a swingers club, you must have a drink at one of those surely?


"Yeah I totally agree with you however, if I'm tipsy, I just go crazy fuck like marky mark on boogie nights. Wooo! Lol

I’ve never seen it so I don’t know what you mean, but “crazy” and “wooo” aren’t things I’m generally looking for in a meet lol"

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolves

No alcohol works fine as I'm normally driving or it's a couple of drinks relaxed and more adventurous. 4 drinks and I'm asleep in the corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yeah, a few drinks deffo for us. As we’re still very new to the scene, it settle the nerves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A big no from me!

I like sex sober and memorable, also... consent. You cannot give consent when you're in no fit state, and that could get messy. I like my partner to knowingly be in control of their actions, and for me to know the same.

Also, I have a view that if you can only get in the mood when under the influence, you really have to ask yourself the question if you actually want to be there at all."

The amount of pissed up women in clubs is almost as shocking as the amount of men who will still play with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A drink with a meal or glass of wine etc is fine in our eyes (not that I drink ever) but there is a limit anything past a couple of drinks is a no go. What’s the saying everyone likes a drink but no one likes a d*unk

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

I have said no before today, because when one of them can't stand up. It's time for an early night. No ifs, no buts, nighty night!

Saying that a single drink is fine, self control is key here.

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolves


"Hell yeah, a few drinks deffo for us. As we’re still very new to the scene, it settle the nerves"
settles the nerves and relaxes the mind

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolves


"A drink with a meal or glass of wine etc is fine in our eyes (not that I drink ever) but there is a limit anything past a couple of drinks is a no go. What’s the saying everyone likes a drink but no one likes a d*unk "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 gin and tonics and that just relaxes me, I would only expect the man to have 1 drink though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve seen women legless in clubs. To the point men are around them like fly’s round shit. It’s not a good look. Also touching without asking and being bitchy with other women and actually coming to blows. So a no from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve seen women legless in clubs. To the point men are around them like fly’s round shit. It’s not a good look. Also touching without asking and being bitchy with other women and actually coming to blows. So a no from me. "

The thought of a club just makes me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yes I like to have a couple of drinks - but not be d*unk.

I've lived and learnt

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I fall asleep and snore when d*unk. Not a good look.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Pissed, incoherent and non-consensual - no thanks.

But, not everyone who has a drink becomes a liability. I’m a giggly fool after a drink and have fun, the same fun whether I drink or not.

J

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Having a couple of drinks to loosen up is fine. Sex with someone half cut is a no go.

And those who think they’re fucking like a champion when under the influence probably think they can dance like Patrick Swayze too but in reality they’re like David Brent.

Lou x

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By *ulluSukaWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yeah, if you're feeling the chemistry, I love having a few drinks and doing things I wouldn't usually.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"No. I want everyone sober and in control."

Same here, being tipsy can be fun in other situations but when it comes to sex, dinner is the only way for me.

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By *orkshire_roses999Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

Having an odd drink is fine,d*unk is a no no for us

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We enjoy a drink, we have a rule that one of us remains completely sober if we're meeting but the other usually has a couple of drinks.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I very very very rarely drink on a meet, never on a first meet.

Far to much potential for things to go wrong.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Bit boring but a big no from me. For great sex I need to be stone cold sober, and hungry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only with people I trust... But do love a but of dr*nk sex tbh... I just won't choose who I want to sleep with, whilst inebriated. It's why I like fab

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By *Jones19Man
over a year ago

Evesham, Worcester, Pershore

Just a glass of whisky for me, as a social hello and chill before play.

Like noticed some say above. Being d*unk, especially being with a d*unk female, can lead to potential problems/issues for both parties that are best avoided.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


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Haha, I like rock and roll sex, not always but mostly. It's like when you go to a swingers club, you must have a drink at one of those surely?

Yeah I totally agree with you however, if I'm tipsy, I just go crazy fuck like marky mark on boogie nights. Wooo! Lol

I’ve never seen it so I don’t know what you mean, but “crazy” and “wooo” aren’t things I’m generally looking for in a meet lol"

I don’t go to clubs but if I did I would absolutely not ever have a drink. Clubs can be risky enough sober, being d*unk could be incredibly dangerous. And I still have no idea what you mean tbh, what’s “rock and roll sex” supposed to be?

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By *randmrsc30Couple
over a year ago

East Riding

I always have one glass of wine before a meet I am in no way d*unk but I go from self conscious to porn star! I wouldn’t enjoy it as much without it! X Mr never drinks before a meet or in a club x

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Pissed, incoherent and non-consensual - no thanks.

But, not everyone who has a drink becomes a liability. I’m a giggly fool after a drink and have fun, the same fun whether I drink or not.

J"
Same as me then

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I love having ‘tipsy’ sex

Not falling over d*unk sex, just ‘fuck it let the inhibitions go’ tipsy sex

Loads of fun

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"I love having ‘tipsy’ sex

Not falling over d*unk sex, just ‘fuck it let the inhibitions go’ tipsy sex

Loads of fun "

Yep. Mildly giddy.

But it’s also fun in full control of my faculties.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"what’s “rock and roll sex” supposed to be?"

Whacked off your gourd

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

With each other we do regularly not really on meets

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I like people to remember being with me. So sober not intoxicated with anything is what i want x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the meet, sometimes I'll have a little but not enough to be really d*unk. It does mean staying over though so I need to be pretty comfortable with the guy(s) or girl I'm meeting.

Wasted sex is hubby only but we've not done it often, it's usually not that good lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tipsy not d*unk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No... Control and consent at all times.. Especially if you are restrained.. Could be really dangerous

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

A social drink first yes, d*unk No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but d*unk I am uncontrollable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab meet never .. with a long term partner every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sober only

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

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By *oson-BlueCouple
over a year ago

North Kent

With company, a glass or two of wine at the most.

We might have more if it's just the two of us, though.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

On our own? Sure, why not?

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By *heshireguy69Man
over a year ago

saddleworth

I’d prefer not to drink but if the lady wants a glass to relax then that’s fine, as long as she’s doesn’t get pissed. It’s not a good look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a few drinks absolutely. Getting d*unk no. My husband is dead against playing with d*unk women or women that have had a few to many. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A big no from me!

I like sex sober and memorable, also... consent. You cannot give consent when you're in no fit state, and that could get messy. I like my partner to knowingly be in control of their actions, and for me to know the same.

Also, I have a view that if you can only get in the mood when under the influence, you really have to ask yourself the question if you actually want to be there at all."

Well said

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By *ust4fun26Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

We love a couple of drinks but not to excess. The first night we ever went to a club I got some advice from someone who had been swinging a long time about drinking and it stuck with me. I tend to take it easy or grab a bottle of water in between each alcoholic drink I have. I’ve seen people falling about or even worse, being sick in the play rooms in clubs and it’s not nice to see. We’d never want to play with someone who has to drink to play.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

I don’t drink. But M will have a couple to ease the nerves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tipsy not d*unk

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By *eediousMan
over a year ago

Smallville

A drink or two socially is fine but getting d*unk and having sex can lead to problems down the road if people have two sides of the same story.

Best avoided. Besides, if you need to be wanted to have sex, are you really enjoying yourself as you say.

I prefer to get d*unk on chemistry and be super sober to feel every stroke, orgasm, and taste.

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By *oneko SanMan
over a year ago

derby

A little something with a meal or a single glass of wine for a lady to take the edge of maybe.

A bottle in and I'm thinking she's not here for this and that is dutch courage for something hubby has pressed her into and it's time to stop and walk away to be on the safe side.

for myself, I'll have a glass of something to be social but I want to be on point and focused for the main event. As for longevity there are better ways to go about that than running the brewers droop gauntlet!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I was on the fizzy water last time I went to a club, that's how rock and roll I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

During a meet at ours a while back back the person sank about 6 G&Ts in an hour. They had a full tantrum when we refused to have sex (for obvious reasons), zonked out on the sofa for an hour, then caught a second wind which ended up with them climbing our cat tree, falling out and breaking their thumb (seriously) we stick to one glass of wine for all involved! Let the guest open the bottle themselves to see it’s sealed, one glass of wine each for the 3/4 of us, then onto something non-alcoholic.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I tend to avoid most people who have had one sip too many, the negotiation needed to avoid horrid situations is the only thing that makes me absolutely anxious, so much so, I don't go anywhere there is drinking other than a restaurant occasionally, not even friends houses.

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