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Just watching the last of the 50 shades trilogy.

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By *icentious OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

What good fun, in a good way.

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By *roundedguyMan
over a year ago

houghton

Just watched it. Had me on edge To have that opportunity for just one day would be a lifetime experience x

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By *ax_uk_2009Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

I watched them at the start of the last lockdown as well as Star Wars & Harry Potter box sets. 50 shades is over rated.

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By *icentious OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I watched them at the start of the last lockdown as well as Star Wars & Harry Potter box sets. 50 shades is over rated."

Thing is, Star Wars and Harry Potter are not real..,

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
over a year ago

southam

Didn't know it was a trilogy which is the final one

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By *icentious OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

50 shades released?

Some cracking one liners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the book “The Story of O” it makes 50 shades look like Janet and John x

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

50 shades is seriously over rated, it's kink for the vanilla crowd and poorly written.

Story of O is far better..

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By *ax_uk_2009Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

What!?! Next you’ll tell me the Avengers aren’t either.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"What good fun, in a good way."

The trilogy was poor, the only thing that got me though it was Dakota Johnson, because I have massive crush.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Awful books/films.

They justify sexual abuse and give the worst portrayal of BDSM I can think of. I don't personally know any experienced kinksters who like them.

"I now had my own Mr. Grey flavoured popsicle."

PLEASE! Do people not know that there are real books out there written by genuine authors?!

She should have left it as Twilight fan fiction. Even by thise standards, it's still fairly shite though!

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"50 shades is seriously over rated, it's kink for the vanilla crowd and poorly written.

Story of O is far better.."

I agree completely. A misrepresentation of kink, written badly and over hyped.

Story of O, Belle de Jour, Delta of Venus, Venus in Furs... all fsr superior.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t waste your time

The books were better as you can at least use your imagination

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"Awful books/films.

They justify sexual abuse and give the worst portrayal of BDSM I can think of. I don't personally know any experienced kinksters who like them.

"I now had my own Mr. Grey flavoured popsicle."

PLEASE! Do people not know that there are real books out there written by genuine authors?!

She should have left it as Twilight fan fiction. Even by thise standards, it's still fairly shite though!"
50 shades is a complete piece, of tripe at best. It has nothing in common with the real bdsm scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awful books/films.

They justify sexual abuse and give the worst portrayal of BDSM I can think of. I don't personally know any experienced kinksters who like them.

"I now had my own Mr. Grey flavoured popsicle."

PLEASE! Do people not know that there are real books out there written by genuine authors?!

She should have left it as Twilight fan fiction. Even by thise standards, it's still fairly shite though!"

Agreed been in BDSM scene for 20 years give or take and 50 shades are terrible books/films and give BDSM a bad name, And the influx of people suddenly popping up on the scene clamping to be experienced DOM/subs when in reality have only seen/read 50 shades is not only annoying it becomes dangerous

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awful books/films.

They justify sexual abuse and give the worst portrayal of BDSM I can think of. I don't personally know any experienced kinksters who like them.

"I now had my own Mr. Grey flavoured popsicle."

PLEASE! Do people not know that there are real books out there written by genuine authors?!

She should have left it as Twilight fan fiction. Even by thise standards, it's still fairly shite though!

Agreed been in BDSM scene for 20 years give or take and 50 shades are terrible books/films and give BDSM a bad name, And the influx of people suddenly popping up on the scene clamping to be experienced DOM/subs when in reality have only seen/read 50 shades is not only annoying it becomes dangerous

Mr "

*Claiming

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

The 50 Shades films are awful! Tame as can be.

I highly recommend "The Secretary"

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By *icentious OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

There is me thinking BDSM is to push sexual paradigms.

And yet, the elite live in them.

Interesting.

My post was tongue in cheek, however the response is stunning,

The film has psychological undertones of someone who has been there.

Which is more than can be said be some on here.

Have fun.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

Err and the Story of O is not abuse! I don't remember seeing any consent or negotiation in it. People raved about Ann Rice of The Vampire Chronicles as A.N.Roquelaure's Sleeping Beauty. I could not get past the first chapter again no consent or negotiation.

Taking 50SOG seriously is like learning spycraft from James Bond.

I honestly can't believe that "Wannabee Doms" could be bothered to read 50SOFG. I suspect they get their ideas about BDSM from any number of pornographic websites from Pascal, to the omnipresent Kink site and its spinoffs.

Possibly the hype about 50SOG has had more effect than the actual books.

If you look at the kink fiction section of Amazon there are hundreds of books with racy BDSM titles for all sexual persuasions that I am sure do not have the seal of approval of the "BDSM community". But I am sure those books are getting hearts and parts fluttering.

I know of number of subs/bottoms who have felt validated from reading 50SOG and these other books.

In comparison (back to Bond) I believe it was The Times review of "Dr No" that said this book is nothing but sex and sadism.

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By *icentious OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Err and the Story of O is not abuse! I don't remember seeing any consent or negotiation in it. People raved about Ann Rice of The Vampire Chronicles as A.N.Roquelaure's Sleeping Beauty. I could not get past the first chapter again no consent or negotiation.

Taking 50SOG seriously is like learning spycraft from James Bond.

I honestly can't believe that "Wannabee Doms" could be bothered to read 50SOFG. I suspect they get their ideas about BDSM from any number of pornographic websites from Pascal, to the omnipresent Kink site and its spinoffs.

Possibly the hype about 50SOG has had more effect than the actual books.

If you look at the kink fiction section of Amazon there are hundreds of books with racy BDSM titles for all sexual persuasions that I am sure do not have the seal of approval of the "BDSM community". But I am sure those books are getting hearts and parts fluttering.

I know of number of subs/bottoms who have felt validated from reading 50SOG and these other books.

In comparison (back to Bond) I believe it was The Times review of "Dr No" that said this book is nothing but sex and sadism.

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My friend, there is an old American people saying. “You can talk about buffalo hunting, you can dream about buffalo hunting (you can read about buffalo hunting) you can talk about buffalo hunting.

Until you have hunted buffalo, you know nothing.

Cognitive systems and paradigm has nothing to do with sensual play.

Well in my world.

Where is the fun in that?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"And the influx of people suddenly popping up on the scene claiming to be experienced DOM/subs when in reality have only seen/read 50 shades is not only annoying it becomes dangerous"

SO true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply search - Why does the BDSM community dislike 50 shades of grey so much into google and you will be shown a bunch of well wrote out articles on the subject, with the problems with it and why it’s disliked.

They go into far greater detail than I can be bothered to go into on the fab forums, better than that go and join fetlife and search for the subject

Don’t get me wrong OP I’m not here to piss on your bonfire each to their own, however many think it is a true representation of the lifestyle and nothing could be further from the truth

Mr

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"There is me thinking BDSM is to push sexual paradigms"

Then I presume you are grateful to learn that you are wrong.

BDSM is about safe consensual fun.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton


"Err and the Story of O is not abuse! I don't remember seeing any consent or negotiation in it. People raved about Ann Rice of The Vampire Chronicles as A.N.Roquelaure's Sleeping Beauty. I could not get past the first chapter again no consent or negotiation.

Taking 50SOG seriously is like learning spycraft from James Bond.

I honestly can't believe that "Wannabee Doms" could be bothered to read 50SOFG. I suspect they get their ideas about BDSM from any number of pornographic websites from Pascal, to the omnipresent Kink site and its spinoffs.

Possibly the hype about 50SOG has had more effect than the actual books.

If you look at the kink fiction section of Amazon there are hundreds of books with racy BDSM titles for all sexual persuasions that I am sure do not have the seal of approval of the "BDSM community". But I am sure those books are getting hearts and parts fluttering.

I know of number of subs/bottoms who have felt validated from reading 50SOG and these other books.

In comparison (back to Bond) I believe it was The Times review of "Dr No" that said this book is nothing but sex and sadism.

My friend, there is an old American people saying. “You can talk about buffalo hunting, you can dream about buffalo hunting (you can read about buffalo hunting) you can talk about buffalo hunting.

Until you have hunted buffalo, you know nothing.

Cognitive systems and paradigm has nothing to do with sensual play.

Well in my world.

Where is the fun in that?"

Hi L

To use your simile I have hunted and caught buffaloes, and will continue to do so when this pandemic is over.

But I also read and research on how to improve relationships with the buffalo and to live in harmony with kink nature wherever possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the friendly, welcoming, all inclusive BDSM crowd.

I wouldn't touch the Elitists with a barge pole!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read Tiffany Reisz.

No comparison.

Addicted to her books.

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By *randmrsc30Couple
over a year ago

East Riding

365 on Netflix is better!

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