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By *olo_89 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kettering

We are very new to the scene, still not had a meet or been to a club and will probably not untill we have both lost a bit of weight and are a bit happier in ourselves,but we love the forum on here and how everyone is honest and the chats are amazing lots of good banter. But how did you start or decide to get into the scene.

For us it was plenty of d*unk talks about it before we decided to talk sober and decided we would like to dip our toes into it.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We started by fantasising in bed. It always ended up as a MFM fantasy. We then progressed to Webcam many many years ago. Which lead us to our first ever meet back in 2010. Never looked back.

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By *olo_89 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kettering

Hmmmm hadn't even thought of webcam meets, we just thought we would both just attend a club once we were ready. May have to invest in a good one as both out laptops have poor quality ones. Really good tip thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmm hadn't even thought of webcam meets, we just thought we would both just attend a club once we were ready. May have to invest in a good one as both out laptops have poor quality ones. Really good tip thank you. "

Just make sure that you set a few ground rules and you both agree to abide by them and If you do ever meet, have safe word. That way if you meet someone / some people and one of you is not happy, use the safe word to let you’re partner know ! It’s very important that both of you have trust, seem to many people come in to the scene and within a year, they are either having trust issues or have broke up !! Talk and talk some more, make sure you are both 100% in it for the right reasons

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By *olo_89 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kettering

Yeah we have generally discussed what we would be happy/unhappy with but didn't think of a safe word. We have one for use in private life already and if I (male half) ever hear it said no matter on situation all activity will stop immediately. But setting rules is a very good idea and we will discuss them tomorrow (slightly d*unk and all discussions should be done sober). I think this is why we are after a female or soft swing to start so we can warm to the idea and see what happens after that. We have both said that we will try threesome (1 of each) and dicuss afterward and make sure both of us are happy with how it went and ensure there is no jealousy or issues. 15 years together and will make sure nothing breaks us but both willing to try new things.

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By *exfunmaleMan
over a year ago

cardiff

I got pulled in my local by a couple ,which became a regular thing ..and really opened me up to a hell of a lot of naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah we have generally discussed what we would be happy/unhappy with but didn't think of a safe word. We have one for use in private life already and if I (male half) ever hear it said no matter on situation all activity will stop immediately. But setting rules is a very good idea and we will discuss them tomorrow (slightly d*unk and all discussions should be done sober). I think this is why we are after a female or soft swing to start so we can warm to the idea and see what happens after that. We have both said that we will try threesome (1 of each) and dicuss afterward and make sure both of us are happy with how it went and ensure there is no jealousy or issues. 15 years together and will make sure nothing breaks us but both willing to try new things. "

Sounds like you are heading the right way to enjoying yourself’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah we have generally discussed what we would be happy/unhappy with but didn't think of a safe word. We have one for use in private life already and if I (male half) ever hear it said no matter on situation all activity will stop immediately. But setting rules is a very good idea and we will discuss them tomorrow (slightly d*unk and all discussions should be done sober). I think this is why we are after a female or soft swing to start so we can warm to the idea and see what happens after that. We have both said that we will try threesome (1 of each) and dicuss afterward and make sure both of us are happy with how it went and ensure there is no jealousy or issues. 15 years together and will make sure nothing breaks us but both willing to try new things. "

Sounds like you are heading the right way to enjoying yourself’s

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By *ubiaWoman
over a year ago

Manchester/ Portugal

An ex had a friend who fancied me and told him when he was a bit tipsy. My ex was surprised when it turned him on. We had a sexually sub Dom relationship so he asked how I'd feel about being "made" to fuck his friend (who is lovely!) So we did and it was amazing. He loved it when I would hold eye contact when his friend was fucking me. We went on from there where he would get a few guys round and he would sit and watch, like his own private porn show then join in. Heavenly.

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Split up from my long term girlfriend. We were together for almost 10 years.

Somebody suggested Fabswingers to me and it helped me through the emotional difficulties of a break up

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